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Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by djoe21(m): 10:09am On Nov 18, 2019 |
jugger: this is just funny. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Nobody: 11:20am On Nov 18, 2019 |
SBL28:Hey Mama, I feel your energy. Just for sake of knowledge, are you by any chance a single mom? I just want to reconcile your energy with the subject matter. Please don't feel offended. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:37pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
khiaa: dont get me wrong sista....i (MBJ) dislike virgins like the plague, they are mostly ignorant in how to care for their men and, most importantly, lame in bed. but i have to be honest about this issue... they are mostly viewed as better "more pure" than the others. forget religion and all other BS, thats how most men would view two women (regardless of their character) that were presented to them. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Kiss52p(f): 8:28pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Getting married to a single mom is not a bad thing but the one of hiding it from the family is not going to be good is better he tell them and face anything that come out of it 1 Like |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
konvict0111: What energy? My comment was not even about the topic, read well before jumping. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Nobody: 6:03am On Nov 19, 2019 |
SBL28:Okay, fine. My apologies please! |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by 2buffagain(m): 8:47pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Leoniine: You talk too much. Answer simple question. Can you empty your retirement account for that child that is not yours in the case of an emergency? |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by pansophist(m): 9:03pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
I cant settle down with a single mum for reasons that are beyond her power, and even if it makes no sense or downright antiquated, I'm a proponent of choice, and that every human should have an inalienable right to romantic freedom, and doesnt have to justify why they prefer one over the other. Just as I wont date or marry an obese lady, I wont date or marry a single mom. I do not want to father a child that may never acknowledge me as a father, blood will always be thicker than water. If he was an adopted child, then it is a different case, but biologically, hell no. Furthermore, there is something called sexual imprint, and if it happens that the previous partner was of a spartaculean sexual prowess, I will never be able to satisfy her, and I will be merely tolerated and settled for, creating a likelihood for her to cheat. Also, it is common for single mum to be bitter, at least from personal experience. A woman that has assumed the role of a man, such as providing and protecting her offspring will most likely be bitter, as it is a burden women did not evolved to carry alone. Also, just as the breast and other necessary organs of the female body develop fast in anticipation of her impending childbirth, her psychology switches to resource mode. She is on the lookout for potential mate that will bear the financial responsibility of her child. The goal is not to love him, but to act in a way that will make him assume the provider role, and he will likely be discarded when he outlived his usefulness. How about siblings fights and privilege? My biological kids may be hated by the other kid because I love them more, again, blood is thicker than water. My partner may accuse me of unequal treatment because I treat my kids better. Different family surname, galloping the parental cohesion of the family. My innocent actions, such as scolding and punishing the kid might be interpreted as hate by the kid and the mum. For the above reasons, I'll rather stick to women without children, as it makes our lives easier. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Charleys: 1:36am On Nov 21, 2019 |
pansophist: You have spoken well 1 Like |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 9:51am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Billionsclub:are you saying it is wrong? |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 9:52am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Akanoaaa:and non single mothers dont bleep their ex boyfriends again? |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 9:53am On Nov 21, 2019 |
TWservices:all the ladies showing their husbands "pepper" in marriages are single mothers right? |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 9:55am On Nov 21, 2019 |
AstroG:and the ladies who have had abortions are not promiscuous? All these children sef |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 9:58am On Nov 21, 2019 |
pcguru1:very correct. Those who can't handle it should steer clear but making it seem like its an abomination because you can't handle it is stupidity |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 10:02am On Nov 21, 2019 |
niaralandtopuser:you have the right to choose, do so and leave others with their choices. Calling single mothers names and pouring insult on those who chose to marry them shows you are nothing but scum. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 10:07am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Yinibixema:its not by force to marry single mothers, likewise its not by force NOT to marry single mothers. Leave those who wants to do it alone, you think they have low self esteem because they choose a single mother? Then you are the one with the esteem issue |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Yinibixema: 10:11am On Nov 21, 2019 |
[s] Ryan03:[/s] Single mothers are uselsss except widows and that’s why they are single in the first place |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by bigboyugo: 10:20am On Nov 21, 2019 |
pansophist: So much wisdom in your write up,thumbs up man 1 Like |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by bigboyugo: 10:22am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Charleys: Not every man seeks a virgin,it wasnt part of what i was looking out for when I wanted to marry,as a matter of fact, I never wanted to disvirgin any girl in my life after my first experience |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by LadyGCrueDKilaB(f): 10:35am On Nov 21, 2019 |
how's staicey? 2buffagain: |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Akanoaaa(m): 11:03am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Ryan03: But the single mother probability is high. No matter what, their child will always connecting them one way or the other. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 11:25am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Alexgeneration:what is your problem? Is it your money? If anyone wishes to marry a single mother, why make it your headache? Marry your virgin and leave others to their choices. haba |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 11:43am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Akanoaaa:who made the calculations or is this base on sheer assumption? |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 11:44am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Yinibixema:what a waste! |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 11:45am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Yinibixema:is it your money? Why the matter dey pain you specially? Is your mum a single mother? You seem pained |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Ryan03(f): 11:51am On Nov 21, 2019 |
luminouz:I disagree, most did not give their personal opinions, they insulted those who chose to marry single mothers by calling them losers with low self esteem. That us trying to force your opinion on me and insulting me because I refuse to accept it. If you can't marry a single mother, leave those who can Alone and stop calling them names |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Yinibixema: 12:03pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Ryan03:If my mum is single mother. Then i should be the one suppprting single mothers not against. Use yor head 1 Like |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Yinibixema: 12:03pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Ryan03:E pain am |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Abubakar9368(m): 3:17pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by nellyelitz(m): 5:09pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
jugger:hahahaha chai Nairaland! |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by Charleys: 4:24am On Dec 30, 2019 |
Riele you need to start from the beginning of this thread and you'll know that no one cares about single mothers. They are a disgrace to society. A menace. |
Re: Why Africans Do Not Like To Settle Down With Single Mothers by 2buffagain(m): 5:11am On Dec 30, 2019 |
LadyGCrueDKilaB: Who's staicey? |
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