Sunisonflex39:
i tried staying away after her boyfriend confronted me.. but she was begging me to at least be her best friend that I should not leave her life completely.

niaralandtopuser:
there is no boyfriend anywhere. The guy is just dating himself

MrBrownJay1:


bro, again, you have to be honest with your own self....A) you are indeed a r/ship breaker and B) this woman is in a r/ship and you fully well know that the dude is uncomfortable with you being around his woman ( to which you have agreed to back off)... only for you to do exactly the same thing AND even considering her deceitful dishonest disrespectful demands.

here is what you should do: tell her you would do anything she wants the day she breaks up with her man, and you can confirm it with HIM.

then you can be happy with this cheating woman until she cheats on YOU the exact same way.




she reacted in such a way because of A) your cheap tricks (staying around her while saying you would back off) and B) you snitching on her man (despicable dude).... how can you expect their r/ship to get better?!?! you have to take your fair share of the blame for having their r/ship being such a failure (partly thanks to you).



well done....brotha "captain save a hoe"

Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.

MrBrownJay1:


again bro....you gotta be HONEST with your own damn self. if you "say" you will back off, then you DO IT. if the babe can simply call you and you will run your mouth like an emotional girl on her period (and rat her man out), then its clear that you sir are only plotting against this dude all along.
you CANT be the best friend of this deceitful dishonest disrespectful woman... because you fully well know what she wants, and you know that it aint RIGHT. stop pretending to not understand what is going on here. part of the problem is YOU

how can you respect the fact that she has a man when you told her man you would back off, and continued your rubbish instead?!?!?!?!?!

funny enough...men like you would be upset when she starts dating you and having "bestfriends".....lol!

OladimejiRufai:
This matter is really simple, I think.

Isn't relationship meant to be fun? Isn't one's partner meant to make one happy and fulfilled? Isn't it appropriate so as to avoid infidelity and problems that one should seek a partner that his/her heart feels strongly connected to and finds delight and solace in?

So if someone makes a mistake in fulfilling the above criteria, and the relationship is still at "relationship" stage, shouldn't the person correct it before marriage?

If the girl doesn't like the guy, it's very simple. Let her break up with him. Let her explain to him in the simplest and most gentle terms and manner. Let her make him realise that she wouldn't be happy neither will she commit to the relationship If they carry on because her heart is not with him and the guy wouldn't be happy either and eventually the relationship will still hit the rocks or will be filled with problems till the end.

Then let her go for who she loves.

But why did she accept to be in the relationship with him in first place? Girls can be funny ehn

No wait, guys do it too. in short, human beings can be funny

Sunisonflex39:
bro everything was fine until recently she started acting funny.

OladimejiRufai:


yes now. Her statement explains that.

She said she's been keeping it from and didn't know how to tell you. That's why everything seemed "fine" before until she spoke out.

I hope you get?

kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o

sonflex: swiri how do you mean

girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?

sonflex: no babe, it's complicated

girl: then uncomplicate it

sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand

girl: talk!

sonflex: ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are

girl: my boyfriend did what!
sonflex: baby calm down, he means well, he just did what any guy would do

girl: i'm goin to confront him, he has to tell me the meaning of what he did!

sonflex: please baby don't, you're not supposed to know this

girl: okay i won't if you promise you won't leave me

sonflex: i promise

i don't know what you were thinking when you snitched like this

clapper04:
A snitch, that is what you are bros. A fucking snitch. You deliberately turned the girl against her boyfriend by telling her her bf had a conversation with you and pls stop acting as though you need a 6 month training on how to walk away. You really want to hit that kpekus, go for it but remember, what goes around comes around.

kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o
sonflex: swiri how do you mean
girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?
sonflex: no babe, it's complicated
girl: then uncomplicate it
sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand
girl: talk!
sonflex: [s]ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are[/s]
you have a bf and as much as i like you, if you were my gf i wouldnt like you to be close to someone (like we are). so unless you sort your life out and break up with that man, i dont want to have nothing to do with you... as it aint right to HIM, YOU or ME. bye

case closed!

eazzzy1:
You need to talk to her boyfriend as a gentleman. Tell him his girl likes you and both of you can be playing her because she isn’t right for him.

The girl will cheat on her boyfriend either with you or someone else. Just ensure you use protection with her and don’t fall in love with her either.

clapper04:
A snitch, that is what you are bros. A fucking snitch. You deliberately turned the girl against her boyfriend by telling her her bf had a conversation with you and pls stop acting as though you need a 6 month training on how to walk away. You really want to hit that kpekus, go for it but remember, what goes around comes around.

kenir:
Lets try this convo
girl: sonflex you have changed o

sonflex: swiri how do you mean

girl: you haven't been calling as usual, neither have you been texting, what's wrong? Did i offend you?

sonflex: no babe, it's complicated

girl: then uncomplicate it

sonflex: hmmm, you will not understand

girl: talk!

sonflex: ur boyfriend had a chat with me and politely asked me to stay away from you cause he's not comfortable with how close we are

girl: my boyfriend did what!
sonflex: baby calm down, he means well, he just did what any guy would do

girl: i'm goin to confront him, he has to tell me the meaning of what he did!

sonflex: please baby don't, you're not supposed to know this

girl: okay i won't if you promise you won't leave me

sonflex: i promise

i don't know what you were thinking when you snitched like this

Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.

MrBrownJay1:

FIXED

charleff512:
Nna! You know what to do. Why asking?
All you want is approval and validation.No be so?

Sunisonflex39:
bros I never asked her to break up o..

Sunisonflex39:
Bros I didn't just tell her what transpired, she demanded to know why I changed for the past three days then.. please read it again

theTransporter:
all of you that are bashing op, forming saints could have even done worst sef... una for Don even kpansh d babe teh teh, but for op to come here still shows that this wasn't his initial plan, make una reason am like that... that guy has been dating himself for long thanks to op, op shouldn't have stayed glued to a lady in a relationship cos with time feeling start to build up from d girl... I have a similar story which I don't want to share yet... d op just needed advice, if you have a nice one, then help him out, if you are here as accuser of the poor naive dude, then f**k off...we agree here to read up things and help one another out not to accuse

MrBrownJay1:


bro, again, you have to be honest with your own self....A) you are indeed a r/ship breaker and B) this woman is in a r/ship and you fully well know that the dude is uncomfortable with you being around his woman ( to which you have agreed to back off)... only for you to do exactly the same thing AND even considering her deceitful dishonest disrespectful demands.

here is what you should do: tell her you would do anything she wants the day she breaks up with her man, and you can confirm it with HIM.

then you can be happy with this cheating woman until she cheats on YOU the exact same way.




she reacted in such a way because of A) your cheap tricks (staying around her while saying you would back off) and B) you snitching on her man (despicable dude).... how can you expect their r/ship to get better?!?! you have to take your fair share of the blame for having their r/ship being such a failure (partly thanks to you).



well done....brotha "captain save a hoe"

theTransporter:


all of you that are bashing op, forming saints could have even done worst sef... una for Don even kpansh d babe teh teh, but for op to come here still shows that this wasn't his initial plan, make una reason am like that... that guy has been dating himself for long thanks to op, op shouldn't have stayed glued to a lady in a relationship cos with time feeling start to build up from d girl... I have a similar story which I don't want to share yet... d op just needed advice, if you have a nice one, then help him out, if you are here as accuser of the poor naive dude, then f**k off...we agree here to read up things and help one another out not to accuse

murphyibiam15:

that guy is only interested in banging the babe, he's only pretending.. he's being emotionally cunning claiming not to want the gal.. LMAO

Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.