franchasng:
As a lady, a sexy hot lady, let me be honest and shame the devil for once; we ladies offer nothing to men, i repeat, we ladies of nowadays offer nothing to men. Even the sex, we enjoy it most if we can be honest to ourselves, we are only selective with who we want to have sex with, but once we find the kind of guy we love to sex, we enjoy sex so much more than the guys.


During the so called sex, we ladies can cum more than 3 times if we are being dicked by our preferred man


But men offer:

1.) Money which happens to be the biggest or most important thing in the world today

2.) They offer job, career advice (lots of men help ladies secure jobs, how many ladies have helped a man who isn't their brother secure a job)

3.) Lots of Nigerian men for instance have helped thousands or millions of Nigerian ladies to travel abroad and even help them become citizens of top global nations through marrying them, but how many Nigerian ladies help guys travel abroad or help them become foreign citizens, very few ladies have done that, the rest will be saying they cannot do it so that the guy won't come over and dump them.

4.) Men buy cars for their ladies everyday, we all see it....how many ladies buy car for their man

5.) Men pay rent and build house for their women, how many women build or pay rent for their man



My sister, men are wonderful, say the truth....maybe if you are not getting the right men, say it, maybe because you are too arrogant, prideful, pompous and always forming hard-to-get for guys, which makes the great guys abandon you, leaving you with brokeass quality-less guys who can chase a girl for one decade without shame, men of quality don't waste time begging a girl to accept them, they move on the minute you say no, so look inward and change some things and you will start attracting the best guys that will wow you

Franchas, just because you modified your gender to (f) does not make you female. Some of us have been on Nairaland long enough to know when you were parading as a man.

At best, you are a Bobrisky prototype, but you are no female. Stop lying

safarigirl:
says a lot of you, if you can only find useless girls

Nigerian men are averse to any being that has boobs and sense. A lot of you are only attracted to the most dense women, because your fragile egos can't deal with a woman with brains, then you come here and claim Nigerian women are dumb and have nothing to offer

If you carry eye enter market, you no go come back dey complain say you buy fake product. It is Nigerian men that are marrying Nigerian women in Nigeria, where did they find those ones?

A popular nairaland once said, girls have nothing to offer other than sex and demand. I checked back on the girls I've met in my life, from school, to working class, to the ones I met in social gatherings....and I see he was right!!
They have this entitlement of making demands upon demands....if you want to be successful as a young man and want to do something meaningful with your resources, avoid these liabilities called GIRLS

DanDeeBoss:
Don't Forget, We help kill snakes, rats and cockroaches too

I can kill those ones myself. I don't know about these other females though

you are actually right about lion( studied the nature of some wild animals in the Uni). but we are talking of human males now.

safarigirl:
This is untrue

A lion does nothing but sit at home and piss everywhere to mark territory, while the lionnesses hunt for food and bring the food home to the lion, the lionnesses also protect their cubs, if I know nothing else from Nat Geo, I know this one.

dazzlingd:


A popular nairaland once said, girls have nothing to offer other than sex and demand. I checked back on the girls I've met in my life, from school, to working class, to the ones I met in social gatherings....and I see he was right!!
They have this entitlement of making demands upon demands....if you want to be successful as a young man and want to do something meaningful with your resources, avoid these liabilities called GIRLS

It is the people you meet. No one that has met me will tell you I offer sex and demand, I offer neither. So, speak for the less than hundred of the over 10 million in Nigeria, you have met.

dazzlingd:


A popular nairaland once said, girls have nothing to offer other than sex and demand. I checked back on the girls I've met in my life, from school, to working class, to the ones I met in social gatherings....and I see he was right!!
They have this entitlement of making demands upon demands....if you want to be successful as a young man and want to do something meaningful with your resources, avoid these liabilities called GIRLS

The girls YOU HAVE MET in your life.

If I tell you all the men I have met in my life are all empty headed, wanting nothing but sex- won't you think there is something fundamentally wrong with me and my associations?

Well, if you don't- I will think so. I will enter my room and ask myself why I MEET those kinda men. It has to be me...at some point.

If people won't tell me the truth, I will tell myself the truth biko. Check yourself, Sir.

Riele:
Every one keeps hearing,

" a woman has nothing to offer in a relationship / marriage except sex"
but

What does the male folk have to offer either ?

MODIFIED

Seems it's only money or anything related to money they have to offer .

The equation is balanced then .

1. Academic support

2. Financial support

3. Technical support: Turned us to mr fix it

4. Sexual and emotional support

5. Protection and Defense: We have to fight for them even if they are at fault

KimberlyWest:


Uncle, take it easy. If any lady has offended you, go to her and sort out your issues.

He is right na, the op is a hypocrite for asking such stupid question when we know we ladies depend solely on men directly or indirectly.


Be honest, how many guys who aren't your brother or relative have you given money, huge money before How many guys who aren't your relative have you bought a phone, a computer, clothe, a car, rent a house or take out before Be honest.


But even the poorest of guys have bought a phone, bought some clothes, bought some gifts, taken out uncountable girls out with their little money, and the financially buoyant ones, some have bought cars, houses, taking their ladies to foreign vacations, etc....


Ladies offer nothing to men, honestly men, Nigerian men especially ought to be respected and adored for accommodating us ladies with our zero values to their lives....the much overrated sex, we ladies enjoy it most once we are being dicked by our preferred man, let's say the truth, heaven won't fall

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Riele:


Are you trying to scare me with marriage?
Shiloh indeed ! . That's your only threat .

btw
You skipped the question .

That's their only weapon. Marriage and nonsense shilo talk

safarigirl:
Franchas, just because you modified your gender to (f) does not make you female. Some of us have been on Nairaland long enough to know when you were parading as a man.

At best, you are a Bobrisky prototype, but you are no female. Stop lying

Hey sis, hope you are still among the bridal squad for Cynthii, I will whatsapp you my own design, its so mwaah, I can't wait to flaunt what my momma gave me, them boiz must humble, remember its lemon green, mwaah

No doubt, men are wonderful creatures. Likewise women.

But the bad eggs are ruining people's image.

OP, 60% of men offer more than money in relationships.

10% don't even offer money at all (haven't you heard of stingy boyfriends that will even tell you to buy con'dom and food stuffs on your way to their house and they'll not even give you t-fare? Las Las, they will send you #100 Naira recharge card when they're in good mood. Well, ignorant guys do this to ladies that truly love them.)

And the other percentage, only offer money to women that are clearly above them or materialistic, just to keep 'em. Then, they'll come to nairaland lady and be telling us how they spent 20k on her for her birthday, and she bought them boxers on theirs.

chinchonglee:
I ll speak for myself using myost recent EX as a case study

I offered money
I offered job (made her a nice CV and helped her through the online apt test).
Made a great website for her business and help her in importing all her female products from china..
Etc i cant start writing all...

She offered ntn aside sex

And finally, She dumped u?

bukatyne:


This is one of the few comments that have caught my attention here.

Most of the guys here are yapping things related to money.

If a woman can treat herself and offer herself the world, then what does the man really have to offer?

I also like the conclusion....

A baby girl has to choose well for herself.

Money they don't even have. How much do the bulk of Nigerians earn? When they less their monthly expenses, what will be left? How much will they give the girl out of that? 5k, 7k?

Naija girls wey give these guys useless morale done cast sha. A baby girl really has to choose well.

they bring only their pr1cks nowadays, their broke self and promises of a better future

least I forget, they come in broke expecting you to build with them.
bunch of losers

Money ke? LMAO. How many men give money these days?

pansophist:
Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

To them, no equality when it comes to sex and handling responsibilities.

pocohantas:


The girls YOU HAVE MET in your life.

If I tell you all the men I have mer in my life are all empty headed, wanting nothing but sex- won't you think there is something fundamentally wrong with me and my associations?

Well, if you don't- I will think so. I will enter my room and ask myself why I MEET those kinda men. It has to be me...at some point.

If people won't tell me the truth, I will tell myself the truth biko. Check yourself, Sir.

I would be interested in meeting your guy sha. I know a chick a lot like you. Very intellectual, masters degrees from uk. Was in PWC. She just cannot deal with naija guys. Completely different wavelength. Date na struggle. She's in abj now. Don't think she's married, but I could be wrong. Maybe I could introduce her to his brothers

pocohantas:


The girls YOU HAVE MET in your life.

If I tell you all the men I have mer in my life are all empty headed, wanting nothing but sex- won't you think there is something fundamentally wrong with me and my associations?

Well, if you don't- I will think so. I will enter my room and ask myself why I MEET those kinda men. It has to be me...at some point.

If people won't tell me the truth, I will tell myself the truth biko. Check yourself, Sir.

safarigirl:


It is the people you meet. No one that has met me will tell you I offer sex and demand, I offer neither. So, speak for the less than hundred of the over 10 million in Nigeria, you have met.

Just as expected, u will pick up that line to say its the ones I've met in my life.....I had to be honest, but even in research, a sample test is enough to gather data....
This obviously shows something is wrong... Don't hide being the finger, it is unnecessary. That's the way the society has been wired especially in this part of the world.
Don't forget we are still evolving from a society where they believe the girl child shouldn't even go to school but given out to marriages to a wealthy man who can provide for her needs.
Even till this age of civilisation, that culture is still predominant. Though the girl child now goes to school, the society believe a simple education and a simple job is sufficient and should be married, they tell the male child to go work and look for money to marry a wife, pay her bride price and set a family.
The society believes the man should work harder and earn more than his wife..

That's the society u live and u can't deny it....!! Or can you??

pocohantas:


The girls YOU HAVE MET in your life.

If I tell you all the men I have mer in my life are all empty headed, wanting nothing but sex- won't you think there is something fundamentally wrong with me and my associations?

Well, if you don't- I will think so. I will enter my room and ask myself why I MEET those kinda men. It has to be me...at some point.

If people won't tell me the truth, I will tell myself the truth biko. Check yourself, Sir.

That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born


Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte





Telling that guy you quoted that its the ladies he has met is wrong, all men cannot be wrong, all men cannot be saying the same thing and you are here saying its the ladies they have met, so who are all these men meeting


We hear everyday how much Dangote, Otedola, Ned Nwoko, etc are donating and giving to their communities and people, how many times have we heard how much Alakija, Aisha Buhari, Oluremi Tinubu, etc have given to people or their community

Nigerian women are selfish, stingy and wicked to their society and men, say the truth....only few insignificant women are exception, very few

pansophist:
Women actually do not even offer sex. Women engage in an equal act of sex, but see it as if they are offering it to men, and this notion have been on for long that people think women offer sex.

But you need the sex more than she do. Because you approached her for it first.

Riele:


Are you trying to scare me with marriage?
Shiloh indeed ! . That's your only threat .

btw
You skipped the question .

Who's scaring you?

You will scare yourself when the time comes.

Instead of asking your dad what he does for your mom, you are here trying to stir up some dust.

Well sha, enjoy the fame and the mentions while it lasts.

I'm out.

dazzlingd:


Just as expected, u will pick up that line to say its the ones I've met in my life.....I had to be honest, but even in research, a sample test is enough to gather data....
This obviously shows something is wrong... Don't hide being the finger, it is unnecessary. That's the way the society has been wired especially in this part of the world.
Don't forget we are still evolving from a society where they believe the girl child shouldn't even go to school but given out to marriages to a wealthy man who can provide for her needs.
Even till this age of civilisation, that culture is still predominant. Though the girl child now goes to school, the society believe a simple education and a simple job is sufficient and should be married, they tell the male child to go work and look for money to marry a wife, pay her bride price and set a family.
The society believes the man should work harder and earn more than his wife..

That's the society u live and u can't deny it....!! Or can you??

You conveniently ignored my question.

Do those girls exist, of course they do.

Are they the majority? Maybe not, maybe they are a whole lot.

WHY DO YOU KEEP MEETING ONLY THEM?

That is where the problem lies. Once again, check yourself, your associations and standard.

It is just a bitter truth we all have to face.

Equal2DeTask:



And finally, She dumped u?

franchasng:
That guy you quoted is right, very right......can you swear by Sango or Amadioha or Siddhartha Gautama that you have helped any man who is not your relative with a tangible help (money, favor, job, business contract, visa, etc) that transformed his life ever since you were born

Ladies should be honest for once and accept the truth.....men offer much more to women than women do.


Majority of women, especially Nigerian women offer nothing than sex to men.


I am a lady, a sexy hot lady and I must say the truth and shame the devil, I am not a hypocrte

Thank you for being truthful.

pocohantas:


They probably do not know how slow that statement sounds.

I was with my friend (who is a Nlder), I just stared at the dashboard and remembered those posts on girls keeping their legs there. The seriousness with which he said "I have never been with someone that does such"- it was so funny and cute at the same time.

Even when we talk relationships, he has always insisted that his exes are women who would be genuinely embarrassed if he gives them money. So, that concept is lost on him.

Yet some people will open their mouth and say their Exes offered only sex. He stayed? Says more about him than the ex, tbh.

They don't know what that makes them sound like. Perhaps if they were offering more than money, they would find women offering more than sex.

selemo:
No say all black men you have met not the white dudes...

Lol. Black men, white men...

Person wey no get sense, no get sense.

Let me not lie men have a whole lot to offer in a relationship. That is the nice and loving ones. The ones that have the fear of God. Same goes for the ladies because it is a 50/50 things.

pocohantas:


You conveniently ignored my question.

Do those girls exist, of course they do.

Are they the majority? Maybe not, maybe they are a whole lot.

WHY DO YOU KEEP MEETING ONLY THEM?

That is where the problem lies. Once again, check yourself, your associations and standard.

It is just a bitter truth we all have to face.

The guy you quoted is not saying that he has been meeting broke Nigerian ladies, even the rich ladies, the working class ladies, the ladies from rich families, they never offer anything of value to men who aren't their relative aside sex, be honest for once, and stop arguing everything just to appear as a women activist, sometimes you say the truth and be free


I am a lady too, and I know they are right

h

pansophist:
Instead of asking directly "where have all the good men gone", you paraphrased it with "what do men offer in a relationship"? Lol.

Well, men are leaving their traditional duty of being providers, putting a woman first, being the expendable and sacrificial lamb, workhorse, and now, are treating women as an equal partner, not expect her to just show up, but show up with something. At least for me.

If you want a rich man, you have to be rich too, educated if you want an educated man. Being a woman is not enough anymore, Afterall, women go for "real men", we also want "real women, not a woman-child that we should be responsible for.

latter in the day relax with dis bro. Your head is day there.