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charleff512:
Nna! You know what to do. Why asking?
All you want is approval and validation.No be so?

Born2Breed:

charleff512:
Nna! You know what to do. Why asking? All you want is approval and validation.No be so?

MrBrownJay1:
bro, again, you have to be honest with your own self....A) you are indeed a r/ship breaker and B) this woman is in a r/ship and you fully well know that the dude is uncomfortable with you being around his woman ( to which you have agreed to back off)... only for you to do exactly the same thing AND even considering her deceitful dishonest disrespectful demands.

here is what you should do: tell her you would do anything she wants the day she breaks up with her man, and you can confirm it with HIM.

then you can be happy with this cheating woman until she cheats on YOU the exact same way.




she reacted in such a way because of A) your cheap tricks (staying around her while saying you would back off) and B) you snitching on her man (despicable dude).... how can you expect their r/ship to get better?!?! you have to take your fair share of the blame for having their r/ship being such a failure (partly thanks to you).



well done....brotha "captain save a hoe"

jaxxy:
We still don’t know how this so called bf treats her and looking at the way he snuck the guys Num just to interrogate him also bt then it may be nothing so serious based on the conversation they had. I think the guy needs to ask the gal who she wants to cheat on her guy and see if there a cogent reason to leave him then fine she shud do that if her on will and not because of him.

People are free to leave relationships when they see a valid reason to. Aslong as they ain’t married.

Sunisonflex39

Sunisonflex39:
bros I was willing to back of.. you should have seen the way this girl cried and plead that I should not leave her life completely...i agreed to be her best friend.. there was no issue at first but just recently she started behaving abnormal.i told her I v always respected the fact that she has a man.. that if I was in his shoes, I will be feeling bad to what she is doing.

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

you are so stewpid

AdewaleCoal:
My dear Brother, I understand your plight and I can see that you are trying to do the right thing.
My Advise is for you to disconnect from her because such kinda woman is not even meant for you and will do the same to you if you end up dating her.
The heartache that comes after is not worth it so I will advise that you either disconnect completely from her or You avoid indulging her.
The end is not worth it.
Yours will come and there will be no hassle.

MrBrownJay1:
FIXED

officialfestus:
man up and take the bull by the horn


modified:she told you she's in a relationship and you didn't relent in calling her,now you've ended their relationship and you're now seeking for order to carry out your plan....but have it in mind that after you've succeeded in seeing her vj,the said feelings you have for her will fade away like rag.... Na wetin man sow na him dey wear.... Hundred years soup no dey sawa (you and that guy don cross path)

Sunisonflex39:
bro does this calls for such insults

mahkanjuh:
It is easy to identify someone that really need a genuine advice or someone that is looking for public approval. Konji is a bastard, man don hear the style the lady wants, this can get off d man's mind. It is well
All I see you doing all through people's suggestions is to keep giving excuses for everything they alleged you of, reason why it was the lady's fault. Someone, who has a positive mind will be objective and be willing to do the right thing. Not necessarily, giving reasons you accepted lady's request and all of that.
All I see is a defensive tactics all throughout,
[b][/b] meanwhile, know this, the matter of this life is, what goes around, comes around. And I am sure someone like you can't joke with a male friend arojnd your girlfriend or spouse. You will soon understand, the lust may prevent the reality now. But, o ma to cast

MrBrownJay1:
you have to be honest with your own self.... IS THAT THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE? a deceitful, disrespectful, dishonest person who is willing to sleep with you?!

remember, what you wish will be what you will get, and when she will be tired of you, she will play you the same way she has been playing this guy all along (and he was right to be suspicious about her). a woman who cheat on her man to be with you, will cheat on you to be with other men....FACT!!!!!

Sunisonflex39:
I think I will take the matter to her bf.. the way we had gentlemans chat the first time. even though we have never met

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.

Guy, frankly speaking you have already decided in your heart to fu**ck that bitch. Why are you still asking us for advice? May something greater than olumo rock fall on you.

sweetonugbu:
You are just a fallback, oche ndabere

RexTramadol1:
Naso o, if dem knack OP married wife in future, make e no come here dey cry o

Sunisonflex39:
as a gentleman, I have talked to her about all of this..

Sunisonflex39:
I met this girl two years ago, to cut long story short, she told me that she is in a relationship. I respected the fact that she has a guy and I stopped making advance as a gentleman. But I call as much as possible just to check on her.

Then one night, her boyfriend chatted me up on Whatsapp and as gentlemen, we talked about it like matured people and I told him I am not gonna stick around that he should talk to his girlfriend.

I asked how he got my number, he said he secretly took it from her phone because of the many calls and most times I call, both of them are together.

I asked him what has the girl been telling him about me, he told me she is saying we are just friends and nothing much.

II apologized to him and said I will watch my limits that he should talk to the girl himself about it.

Two days passed, I have stopped calling the girl like I used to, then on the third day she called and asked me why did I change all of a sudden that I no longer chat her up or call like I used to, she was being emotional, and as a good friend, I love her and wouldn't want to see her sad.

I opened up to her about what transpired between me and her guy and I begged her not to confront him. She was so mad at the guy for chatting me up after she has told him many times that I am "just a friend".

I told the girl that for the sake of her relationship, I don't want to stick around and I don't want to be the guy that breaks people's relationships.

The girl started crying and said I should not leave her, that I should at least be her best friend that she can't loss me..

I agreed to be the bestfriend so as to make her feel happy..

Fast forward to this week, the girl said she loves me so much and didn't know how to tell me before and she is kind of confused to chose between her guy and me. I told her that I love her too but she should not leave anybody for me that we should just continue being friends and see what the future holds because no one knows tomorrow.

Few days ago, the girl said she wants to have sex with me.. and even going as far as telling me the style she wants..

I respect the fact that she is in a relationship and I even told her about it, but she was having non of it.

Please nairalanders, what should I do.