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GGirll:
A good girl with a sound moral upbringing will know that you are addressed the way you dress....your body is sacred and your character will be matched with this.....thank you.

So.... What's bad with what she did. Ur culture might go against it, but another person culture might not

Ladycewhy:
You used a word i like ,the bolded, you just stereotyped him yourself ,lol . And like i said, if i saw him on the street ,i would think he is in your words "a wierd one".

Don't twist words Aunty 15th century.. I used that word to please your Judgemental mindset... as you read clearly,..even Wall street that is comprised of first class World CEOs LOVE his nose ring but it is old fashioned people like you that will see it as weired hence my use of that sarcasm.

Talk true, don't you secretly find guys with earrings attractive?

piercing doesn't mean she's bad the problem is the motive, if she decided to do it by herself you're safe but if its peer pressure then that's where the problem lies cos she'll always want advice from her friends when she's married and that's a big problem

quirus:
I have been to India, multiple earings and piercings are not common. Maybe in their local villages, but these are not ubiquitous in their cities.

So... The ones wearing multiple earrings and Piercing are not wife material, and they are from bad backgrounds.
I thought we are civilized and we are supposed to judge people practically. I have seen so many ladies in the north with multiple piercings and earrings.... Even legs chains. It doesn't matter.

Ferdinandu:
Are you India? Is India you?
India you are?. Some things are telltale signs of instability in some peoples life

I'm not, but if u try narrowly ur search back home.... U will also notice that it's a normal practice back home to some cultures.

ibechris:
How can we go to India when this is a Nigerian matter...? We don't have anything in common.

U can also narrow Ur search back home. Is not uncommon to some cultures in Nigeria

DarkJeddi:
It is the culture in India and should not be a point of comparison..

I certainly would have reservations about a girl with multiple piercings,just like one that dresses half naked..

Decency is not a word,it is an attitude..

Is ur choice

Toks2008:
Don't twist words Aunty 15th century.. I used that word to appeal your Judgemental mindset... as you read clearly,..even Wall street that is comprised of first class World CEOs LOVE his nose ring but it is old fashioned people like you that will see it as a weired hence my use of that sarcasm.

Talk true, don't you secretly find guys with earrings attractive?

nah, sorry i dont ,i see such guys as either Bleep boy,yahoo, wire wire or if na yankee returnee, na those factory workers wey when them wan return go take weeks off to looks fresh .

which is why the op needs to leave her so people like you who see nothing wrong in it can marry her. Atleast let her go and look for her 22nd century man that will marry her, a man like you. Atleast he reserves the right not to marry a woman with piercings ,lol

Rajman45:
So... The ones wearing multiple earrings and Piercing are not wife material, and they are from bad backgrounds.
I thought we are civilized and we are supposed to judge people practically. I have seen so many ladies in the north with multiple piercings and earrings.... Even legs chains. It doesn't matter.

The day I met a 30year old virgin lady with tatoos all over her back and hand I just weak.

I have met very cute and super decent guys with tatoos and earrings on both ears.

At my age it will only be foolish of me to do things cos of pressure but I just love the look.

We should just wake up from this archaic mentality and judge people by who they are and not what they wear.

Ladycewhy:
nah, sorry i dont ,i see such guys as either Bleep boy,yahoo, wire wire or if na yankee returnee, na those factory workers wey when them wan return go take weeks off to looks fresh .

which is why the op needs to leave her so people like you who see nothing wrong in it can marry her. Atleast let her go and look for her 22nd century man that will marry her, a man like you. Atleast he reserves the right not to marry a woman with piercings ,lol

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Chai! This one nah confirmed bush woman.

@jojocity ur generation an family are useless an stupid to attack me.my post does not concern.read an waka pass.u no be op.stupid kid.

Toks2008:
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Chai! This one nah old fashioned woman.

where i live ,the only people who i have seen with nose piercings and leg chains and double piercings are prostitutes,female cultists ,dregs and extreme rebels its not a culture here to wear those things but an identify for prostitutes to identify themselves. I am sure the duchess and dukes look a certain way for a reason.


Old fashioned maybe ,but i am smart enough not to draw bad attention to myself and become a target of stereotype simply because i want to be seen as a non conformist.

And like i said, this is a marriage,If you dont like tattoos don't marry someone with tattoos and force them to clean it.The lady has a right to pierce her body all over ,but the op has a right to like what he likes. The question he should be asking himself is if he can handle her impulsive nature. A person who is not a teenager and still does impulsive things like that at her age is a ticking time bomb.

Rajman45:
So.... What's bad with what she did. Ur culture might go against it, but another person culture might not

This is not about culture but about self awareness and principle!!!

OP GO AND SIT DOWN!

Obviously not a reasonable question!

Ladycewhy:
where i live ,the only people who i have seen with nose piercings and leg chains and double piercings are prostitutes, its not a culture here but an identify for prostitutes to identify themselves. I am sure the duchess and dukes look a certain way for a reason.


Old fashioned maybe ,but i am smart enough not to draw bad attention to myself and become a target of stereotype simply because i want to be seen as a non conformist.

And like i said, this is a marriage

If you dont like tattoos don't marry someone with tattoos and force them to clean it.

The lady has a right to pierce her body all over ,but the op has a right to like what he likes.

Sometimes I wonder how so many people have subjected themselves to perpetual bondage all in the name of worrying their heads over what people will say...People that won't remember you after 24hours if you die this moment.

You want to look a certain way, dress in a certain way, go to certain places, do certain things and you just can't because you worry about how people will react to it...I PITY YOU.

Asides the fact that you have just confined yourself into serious avoidable bondage in this one life you have, you will also suffer from a terrible psychological sickness called suppressed expression syndrome which can make you look far older than your age and can lead to full-blown depression.

As long as what you do makes you happy and does not anger GOD, please go ahead. Anyone that has issues with what another person does to make him or herself happy is either satanic or is definitely suffering from self-imposed bitterness.

I hope this liberates someone out there.

Ginaz:
I like piercings. Nipples and nose piercings specifically. It doesn’t mean I’m a bad loose girl and I can categorically tell you I’m an introvert and I hate going out , I rather read a book.

O.p grow up would you? She’s an adult for God’s sake!! In as much you intended to marry her doesn’t give you the right to abuse her fundamental human rights.

My babe got piercing on her nose and also ears...she is the nicest person I've ever dated..and also hard working..some people re jst so stupid and conclude irrelevant shii.

GGirll:
This is not about culture but about self awareness and principle!!!

Please enlightening me on what concerns earrings and nose piercings with self awareness and principles in order to detect/judge if a girl is a wife material or not.

Toks2008:
The day I met a 30year old virgin lady with tatoos all over her back and hand I just weak.

I have met very cute and super decent guys with tatoos and earrings on both ears.

At my age it will only be foolish of me to do things cos of pressure but I just love the look.

We should just wake up from this archaic mentality and judge people by who they are and not what they wear.

Exactly

Toks2008:
Sometimes I wonder how so many people have subjected themselves to perpetual bondage all in the name of worrying their heads over what people will say...People that won't remember you after 24hours if you die this moment.

You want to look a certain way, dress in a certain way, go to certain places, do certain things and you just can't because you worry about how people will react to it...I PITY YOU.

Asides the fact that you have just confined yourself into serious avoidable bondage in this one life you have, you will also suffer from a terrible psychological sickness called suppressed expression syndrome which can make you look far older than your age and can lead to full-blown depression.

As long as what you do makes you happy and does not anger GOD, please go ahead. Anyone that has issues with what another person does to make him or herself happy is either satanic or is definitely suffering from self-imposed bitterness.

I hope this liberates someone out there.

lol ,liberates someone to become impulsive and rebellious,its a good thing to do what one wants but you cant force others to change their opinion if you look like a typical brothel resident be ready to be tagged so.If you can marry such a lady, good for you ,but i am sure she will not make a good duchess else where in civilised country tho.

Some parts of the world ,going completely nak3d is legal and normal ,why not advice them to do it too ,since they want to be liberated ,lol

Wow mr psychologist @bolded , i didn't know not being able to look like a dreg and a rebel could lead to depression ,tell us more about this theory of yours ,i am very interested.

Rajman45:
Please enlightening me on what concerns earrings and nose piercings with self awareness and principles in order to detect/judge if a girl is a wife material or not.

Well since you have refused to understand.....in this Celine n country it is an identity of women of easy virtues.....no sane man will consider such a lady beyond sex n not marriage.

motionarena:
Can You Marry A Girl that Pierce Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings?

Hi guys

You know it has now been a norm for most women and girls to have multiple piercings in their nose and ears.

I really don't know what they see in it.

Well i have dis girlfriend we have been dating for a while and i plan to marry her. She works with a software company and she is very intelligent.

She returned from a trip and i noticed she had 3 sets of earrings in one ear and also had a tiny piercing on her nose.

I was devastated and asked her why she did it and said it means nothing that she just felt like.

Now am thinking of ending the relationship as i regard girls that do such as loose and runz girls.

Am i overreacting or taking the right move

Brother Evening

I just started dating a lady i really like and she has multiple ear piercing about three.

I talked to her about it not that she should change ooo cus i don't wanna force no one. I opened up on my fears and how people can be judgemental about things like that especially in our country. She told me not to worry.

Low-key I'm on the lookout shaa.
The crazy part about it is that she's a virgin confirmed. No catfish.

Communication is key, some do it for fashion others you know wassap.

Rajman45:
Does it make her not to be a wife material? Hausas ladies do it a lot...... Even wearing chains on their legs

Are you an Hausa lady?

motionarena:
Can You Marry A Girl that Pierce Her Nose And Has Multiple Earrings?

Hi guys

You know it has now been a norm for most women and girls to have multiple piercings in their nose and ears.

I really don't know what they see in it.

Well i have dis girlfriend we have been dating for a while and i plan to marry her. She works with a software company and she is very intelligent.

She returned from a trip and i noticed she had 3 sets of earrings in one ear and also had a tiny piercing on her nose.

I was devastated and asked her why she did it and said it means nothing that she just felt like.

Now am thinking of ending the relationship as i regard girls that do such as loose and runz girls.

Am i overreacting or taking the right move

Did the piercing reduce her regard for herself and others?
Did it impair her capacity for logic?
Did it inhibit her capacity to love?
Did it reduce her intelligence quotient?
Did it alter her blood group, genotype?
Did I make her fatter, thinner, taller or shorter?
Has it reduced her efficiency in any way?

Ginaz:
Is it why you have a small dick?

Don't mind the 2 inch fool.

Emeliegregory:
Piercing doesnt make her an "olosho". Its her lifestyle choice; she probably loves piercing. The question you should be asking is "is she a good person?", "would she make a good wife", "would she make a good wife?". The expression "Dont judge a book by its cover" should be applied. Most of the girls without piercing that you think are "good" are the worst sef!

There are standards in life... Hers is a bad choice and bad lifestyle.

Having multiple piercings is a sign of a deep rooted feeling of inadequacy. She will never be satisfied with herself and any man who marries her will have no peace of mind

Chi59:
Did the piercing reduce her regard for herself and others?
Did it impair her capacity for logic?
Did it inhibit her capacity to love?
Did it reduce her intelligence quotient?
Did it alter her blood group, genotype?
Did I make her fatter, thinner, taller or shorter?
Has it reduced her efficiency in any way?

It reveals her inner person, her character. She has shown that she won't easily get satisfied with anything. Those kind of women are not home builders, they keep company of wayward women. They will raise your children in a bad way.

piercing and tattoos means nothing . 2020 is next month so get used to the system

imitateMe:
Are you an Hausa lady?

I'm not a hausa lady.... So, what's the big deal on it

GGirll:
Well since you have refused to understand.....in this Celine n country it is an identity of women of easy virtues.....no sane man will consider such a lady beyond sex n not marriage.

No sane man will take ur advice seriously

Ginaz:
I like piercings. Nipples and nose piercings specifically. It doesn’t mean I’m a bad loose girl and I can categorically tell you I’m an introvert and I hate going out , I rather read a book.

O.p grow up would you? She’s an adult for God’s sake!! In as much you intended to marry her doesn’t give you the right to abuse her fundamental human rights.

how old are you?

is it her love you need or her loyalty?my brother if na looks,bruce jenner was once a man..las las buy magnet comot dem all..

She piercing her nose doesn't make her a runs babe, it goes vice versa the other way round,