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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Cutehector(m): 10:45pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Hmmmm... |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by stubbornman(m): 10:46pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
See as guys carry kitchen stool balance for this thread to see which of the women spec Dem fall into make Dem shoot their shot All the ladies looking for very intelligent hope y'all are intelligent too No be say tomorrow una go come here come say "Over Sabi Sabi dey worry una husband" 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by vickydankal(f): 10:49pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I never knew I will change my list, I changed at 20, 24 and at 27 when I got married. My last adjustment before marriage . I wanted a tall, fair, handsome, not too wealthy (I wanted who I will build wealth together with) , loyal, prayer warrior and a bit of a bad boy (if you know what I mean). 10 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by jaxxy(m): 10:50pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Ariza: I’m not a sister bt my advice for marriage is dont dabble into Smtn u don’t understand or aren’t comfortable with u will end up more confused. Don’t change everything u are for someone else. Explore, try knew things, learn, grow and retain ur power to chose or compromise. A partner makes u at ease and a better person. If it doesn’t, drop the idea and move. A life time is no joke or experimentation. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by pocohantas(f): 10:50pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
TwoBottles: Hope you are not a business man? I have nothing against businessmen, but the few times I even got close to them, they always belittled the corporate world and couldn't wait for me to tell them I am resigning 10 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Fisher007: 10:52pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Hmm My people everytime a lady tells you what kind of man/ partner/ husband she wants. Please listen carefully to her like all these ladies commenting before and after me. Then ask her which of the qualities does she herself have in all the qualities she mentionned. If none (which is the case at most times). Just smile and walk away. She will get her answer. This apply to both single, married, divorced, widows etc. You will just realize the juice is not worth the squeeze most times. Congrats to our white Knight brothers with shinning armor in the plantation. We do not envy them at all. Qoute me at your own peril. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Fairview1: 10:52pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Munzy14(m): 10:53pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
DMerciful:True. I don't even know how some people cope with dumb personalities. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by mrpaedo(m): 10:54pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Thread for evening newspapers 13 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by fatymore(f): 10:56pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Good Muslim guys are hard to come by. What you see now is half and half, Either he is too religious or not serious. My dream guy was a Muslim, one who prays regularly, doesn't drink or smoke... Intelligent and handsome and must be a social person which are so rare to see. But now sha get small sense to justify what is right and wrong with enough money. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Aboguede(m): 11:00pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Preshy561: Hello, pls I need that poem by the little African boy. How can I find it now |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by trutht828: 11:00pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
ibkayee: If physical appearance forms the fulcrum of your so-called standards, then you may find yourself being single at above 30 or ending up as a baby mama to a physically handsome man, who may not be mature enough to be a husband or may not be ready for commitment. You've been on this forum for some time now, which means you are not a child anymore; don't you think it is high time you snapped out of those childish, unreal, nollywood-inspired expectations? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Omonigeriarere: 11:01pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Starlight10: Lol! Even if Jesus is still alive, will you be able to settle with a son of ordinary capentar? He has no room, no physical food and he is overtly generous; spent most of His tine in wilderness; how can you cope with such a man? Jesus would have been too dutiful for your liking and you won't get any attention. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Munzy14(m): 11:02pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
mrpaedo:las las na to collect materials from God, and mold their own men 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by lollybizzu(m): 11:03pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Ishilove: You're funny. The way you guys reason sef... God is great indeed. So because he didn't know of or should I say his side of interest isn't international politics now he's dumb? Not all guys are interested in that stuff. Moreover a guy, like me will just develop interest in it just to get along with you well. How do you guys even measure intelligence because this you just typed up there isn't showing much of it. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Biglittlelois(f): 11:04pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Ah a lot has changed, a lot 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by BOFREJO(m): 11:06pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Hard to believe that young adults do fantasize. rather, face the reality.... |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Onyi22(f): 11:09pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Make I no just talk watin dy my mind |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by ibkayee(f): 11:11pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
trutht828:Lol but the thread is about unrealistic expectations we once had and have now changed, I was even making fun of myself Though that aside, I'm not even the 'big bad' 30 yet and with all my so called childishness I still got what I want, lol aren't I blessed? 10 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Asour: 11:15pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Munzy14: Hahaha! Are there really dumb personalities ? Or just people with whom you don't have shared interests. It's funny how we Nigerians tend to reduce intelligence to being able to "hold conversations on International politics/economics". What if that is not my Kettle of fish? I become dumb? What if my interests are in Deep sea exploration or Big data analytics or even recent developments in cancer research ? Can you also have meaningful conversations on those? Some see International politics/economics as pretentious conjectures, where everyone is an "expert"— while the subject discussed is often completely outside the control of the discussants. Ego might be what's at play sometimes. It forces some of us to indulge in interests we don't really care about deeply. It always seems nice being able to make "contributions" to public discussions on int'l politics but it shouldn't mean those who can't/don't are dumb. Intelligence, while good, is not as effective as people imagine though. I would always prefer resourcefulness. God help us. 59 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by omolorlarh: 11:16pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: These are my qualities too except that I would have added a tall man. May our heart desires be granted. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by folake4u(f): 11:16pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Here to learn 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Munzy14(m): 11:20pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Asour:It's not by contributing to a conversation. there are people who are just dumb....lack ideas on general issues, very awkward in nature. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Newguyhere: 11:20pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
damaged goods Twoclans: 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by AntiMCU: 11:21pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Ishilove:So because he's not conversant about international politics, he's dumb. Are you aware we're smart in some topics and dumb in others? For your mind.. Mtcheww. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 11:22pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Ariza: Women |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by lollybizzu(m): 11:22pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
stubbornman: .... Na true you talk. You know say person no fit satisfy them |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Newguyhere: 11:27pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
what about the rich and influencial nairalander you said you were dating? Una two no gel ni? UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 11:30pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
I want a guy that can lift me up..that's sexy as hell I'm 5 ft 3 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by stubbornman(m): 11:30pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
lollybizzu: ...... See some of them kabukabu list... I'm learning tho.... God no go allow them reach the stage of "Man nah man as long as sey eh get prickk" 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Magicians: 11:31pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
If wishes were horses. seunmohmoh: |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Asour: 11:31pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
Munzy14: I think I get what you mean but I still wouldn't call anyone dumb (Much less one who has no diagnosed medical condition). People are complex beings with (sometimes ) unexplored sides to them. Humans (including the ones you may view as dumb) are capable of achieving great things, sometimes unexplainably. And I am no motivational guy. 5 Likes |
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