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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 12:28am On Dec 12, 2019 |
@computergeek LOL you were looking for Italian skin, do you have Italian skin yourself? You ladies and absurd fantasies sha... That's why you all get deceived easily. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 12:31am On Dec 12, 2019 |
eduman365:Don't take everything so seriously and start dishing unsolicited advice. Young girls are allowed to dream and evolve. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by meobizy(f): 12:32am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Is it ten pages yet? |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 12:34am On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek: Oh no, I didn't mean it that way jare. Just had to point out the fantasy side leading to deception. I admire what you shared actually, don't take it personal. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Newguyhere: 12:34am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Well said bro! They think a man with all the qualities they desire will automatically find them attractive. Forgetting the fact that really high quality men are also very picky. Ultimately it is the man who has the final say if a lady stays or leaves. Women are gate keeper's of sex while men are the gate keepers of relationships. InvertedHammer: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 12:37am On Dec 12, 2019 |
eduman365:"That's why y'all get deceived easily" seemed like a pretty straightforward derogatory statement to every woman on this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 12:43am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Well I was attracted to mostly foreign people at one point all my crushes had Curly and wavy hair and I didn’t have to bed them all ....it wasn’t a complex Just attraction some too fine for comfort sef I was so shallow walahi and they were slim in size. I just had a preference sha. I actually dated people like movies and theme park type excursions. I loved muscles until investigative discovery made me understand sometimes they can be used against you o so I crossed that off the list when looking for a partner I think I just loved physique and character and as a woman you also have to keep in shape so I joined gyms till I moved back home and only one person dey my antenna since keeps me in shape Bottom line Kindness, Sympathy and Supportive Strength takes the cake before looks and background for me that’s what changed. The Character is something your children will inherit so I look out for that as well. Good people always mean well. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Kennedyiheme: 12:53am On Dec 12, 2019 |
You expect so much but cant give anything 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Creativebae(f): 1:01am On Dec 12, 2019 |
After reading lots of romantic novels and watching American best seller movies... I just told myself he must be very handsome, must be light skinned, must know how to sing, must have gap teeth, broad chest, small sexy eyes and pink lips.... But now.. Lol The reverse is the case oooo. Just have sense and be creative. .. That's my spec. .. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 1:02am On Dec 12, 2019 |
computergeek: Lol... You get time. I'm outta here PS: In case you're still looking for Italian skin, I can hook you up. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by poshestmina(f): 1:12am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Bbbwings: |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 1:12am On Dec 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: Chai poco. Please agree for our brother TwoBottles. He's in rove with you I want to read a nairaland coming together story between you two. Awwwwwwwwww. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ay04z(m): 1:17am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Good looks, nice dress sense and if u are funny. plus some money is what most African woman. Want. Nothing more. U will Bleep tire. Dat why playboi. Are just too many. Ladies want a fine bad boi who is only bad for dem. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Basiljoe: 1:29am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Lots of expectations on here. I would love to hear what the ladies can give out too. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ghostnick: 1:37am On Dec 12, 2019 |
1Sharon:Really but pls are you Fat or Atinga? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by LosC: 1:38am On Dec 12, 2019 |
6th Page.. "May God give you a Man that'll not lead you to Hell". "May God give you the man that'll protect your generation to come". That's the ultimate goal. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Godsfavour78: 1:47am On Dec 12, 2019 |
ruffDiamond:guy are you OK? No be fight oh bros na just question. Wetin dey do you.? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by LosC: 1:47am On Dec 12, 2019 |
If you truly love someone, you won't know why you love that person. True love doesn't allow you state the reasons why you love that person. You can't just tell why. If you love someone because of what he has or probably, you saw what you've been searching for in him, that love may not last because the very day that 'reason' vanishes, that love dies and unknowingly or knowingly, you lose interest and the moment you see the 'reason' why you loved that person in another fellow, you'll begin to desire that person. Everything you see may not last forever. There's this peace you get when you meet the right person. In all, let's always pray for a partner that'll help you actualize that Destiny you never knew. Also, be a woman that makes an unprepared man ask God to prepare him. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by OlawaleBammie: 2:03am On Dec 12, 2019 |
pocohantas: Hmm Obi togbo kaka lawon eleyii oo.. ohunje awon agba..
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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Mariangeles(f): 2:40am On Dec 12, 2019 |
ibkayee:...and cocked eye too ? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by yusluvad(m): 2:52am On Dec 12, 2019 |
yusluvad:This is one lesson of a humble begining. If you know, you know. |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by irumole1975: 4:15am On Dec 12, 2019 |
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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by irumole1975: 4:21am On Dec 12, 2019 |
having read all the comments here, it seems the only quality which is of high desirability is a man's Good look. men that doesn't fall into the category of good looking guys don't have a chance. now I know why I'm still single at 33. how can I be handsome so that I can have a girl that wants me,?? 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Bianda24: 4:25am On Dec 12, 2019 |
I feel all your castle in the air fantasies. But generally, the areas that got me and incidentally I agree with is the area where somebody said purrrrrrrrrrrr, Za oza room thing. I sincerely think women's ideal about men is incomplete without agility in za oza room. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by MrNipplesLover(m): 4:49am On Dec 12, 2019 |
sorry, ladies. I know this thread is specifically for you. but, I wanna jonz small one thing I have known about our Nigerian women (though, not all) is that, they become mature in the head when they are older (let's say in their very late 20s-early 30s) - relationship-wise, though. from the few comments I could read in this thread, I think my knowledge about women is still much valid and realistic. women have two types of dream man in their lives: 1) the dream man they have while they are still young, and 2), the dream man they have when they are ready to settle down. this is when the reality has become obvious to them. well, everybody does have that (men not excluded). so, reading from women in this thread, I have learned one or two things more about how women choose their men and make their choices when it comes to being "real" with themselves. this is why I can't, and won't court with a lady younger than 26yrs old (yeah, in my early 30s), cos I know the stage when a woman start thinking and acting like a real woman and when they think like a 'girl', this is not hard to know anyways. I also got to know how some women take sexual capacity of their dream men into consideration. wow! this is one of the things already in place, and I pray it matches my future woman's cos I can't stand a woman who complains about a man being sexually active and strong. this one can cause wahala also, the financial, intelligence and appearance aspects, I thank God I'm not lacking any. but, there is "but" here and the 'but' is: if you are looking for a man who is politically intelligent, pls, I'm not your dream man. cos my hatred for politics is second to none. almost failed government subject in high school but thank God . also, not too conversant with foreign affairs, but at least, I know some. kai! make I stop my jonzing here ooh, before them start throwing bottles at me. please, I'm not looking for a wife ooh. cos I know some people would wanna say that I'm stylishly looking for a woman here. please, that's not my purpose here. if you can understand my ziggy, you should know that I'm not one to be your dream man. so, please, I aint looking for a woman here. good morning, ladies and gentle men. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by MrNipplesLover(m): 5:04am On Dec 12, 2019 |
LosC: this is beautiful. I really love this. but, one thing you cant leave out is what attracted you to a man or woman. the eyes must see it before you get attracted to it. nobody can love u for no reason, pls. there must be a reason for loving you, but it must be a love of 'I love you wholeheartedly'. I hail u, bro. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Iwanttoto: 5:14am On Dec 12, 2019 |
1Sharon: I hate short girls 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by ibkayee(f): 5:19am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Mariangeles:Yes that one too |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by mimilogs: 5:34am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Asour:Great comment. I think some of the revelations on this thread should be good reasons why guys looking for a wife should never marry any lady below 27yrs, because it seems ladies start developing real sense as they mature in age. The revelations on this thread could also be another reason why guys don't find it difficult to marry; all they want from boyhood is a beautiful girl with home keeping skills, nothing more and the guys know that for them to get that beautiful girl they dream, they need to make money and become financially okay, so they prepare to make themselves the dream man of their future partner by focusing on money making to improve their financial life. While the ladies only daydream of meeting a super man without preparing themselves to be the dream woman of their dream man, which is why most ladies end up not getting their dream man at the end; their dream man may meet them but will see them as a girl not good enough for him. We posted a similar topic on our official WhatsApp status last night and the response we got was amazing. See screen shots below. On another note, whether you are working, job-hunting, etc, Mimi Logistics is a company built to help people succeed in business by offering world class logistics solutions that will help your business to grow beyond Nigeria. We have helped so many Nigerians and even foreigners expand their business operation, increase sales and reach new clients through our one of a kind e-commerce business logistics solutions. Check my signature or click on my profile and read, remember even as a lady, you need to be financially independent to attract your desired man in the world today 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Ladycewhy(f): 5:43am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Nothing has changed cos my expectations were never out of touch with reality to begin with. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What Was Your "Coming-of-age" List Of Qualities In A Man? What Changed? by Nobody: 5:49am On Dec 12, 2019 |
Riele: Lala is taking. Or would you like to be his baby mama? We are in a Free world anything can happen 1 Like |
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