Asour:



Hahaha!

Are there really dumb personalities ? Or just people with whom you don't have shared interests.

It's funny how we Nigerians tend to reduce intelligence to being able to "hold conversations on International politics/economics".

What if that is not my Kettle of fish? I become dumb?
What if my interests are Deep sea exploration or Big data analytics or even recent developments in cancer research ? Can you also have meaningful conversations on those?

Some see International politics/economics as pretentious conjectures, where everyone is an expert — while the subject discussed is completely outside the control of the discussants.

Ego may be what's at play sometimes.
It forces some of us to indulge in interests we don't really care about deeply.

It always seems nice being able to make "contributions" to public discussions on int'l politics but it shouldn't mean those who can't/don't are dumb.

Intelligence is not as effective as people imagine though. I would always prefer resourcefulness.


God help us.

seunmohmoh:
Coming of age= I admired young cute athletic white man. Now = I want to get married to a very cute white guy and have kids.

That's what changed- KIDS

AntiMCU:

So because he's not conversant about international politics, he's dumb.

Are you aware we're smart in some topics and dumb in others?

For your mind..

Mtcheww.

stubbornman:


Some babes go dey follow you do current affairs just to form intelligent ...wetin concern me with wetin dey happen for Russia

Newguyhere:
Tbh I never knew female negros were attracted to white guys.
I hope you're intelligent enough to land one.

AntiMCU:


For someone who supposedly is intelligent, her reason for writing off the guy is dumb.

lollybizzu:


You're funny.
The way you guys reason sef... God is great indeed.

So because he didn't know of or should I say his side of interest isn't international politics now he's dumb?

Not all guys are interested in that stuff.
Moreover a guy, like me will just develop interest in it just to get along with you well.

How do you guys even measure intelligence because this you just typed up there isn't showing much of it.

Walahi, that babe no smart at all.

I was like "what the Bleep" after reading that statement.

stubbornman:



Baba leave this babes Always forcing their interest on men.... If I don't really have an idea about a topic I keep quiet and learn ...no be Google dey date you nah human being!!!

bukatyne:
@computergeek:

Hahahahaha @ the three musketeers.

First, I knew myself which led me to knowing what I did not want in a man (in summary, the textbook Nigerian man)

I was also not interested in a guy's pockets (I value experience over possessions) and was (am still) big on love, ethical values, sound mind, thoughtfulness, teachability, presentation, self respect (nothing disgusts me like a guy who is friends with all the girls to the point of hitting his head, insulting him etc.), healthy self esteem, mental stability and grounded.

I was never (still not) a fan of religious men. I could not stand the spirikoko boys in school. (There is a difference between religious and born again). Same with rigid guys.

I wanted an expressive man, one who is passionate about me enough to express his feelings. Maybe that's why I like football.

Interestingly, I read a lot of romance novels yo help me balance my rigid or stiff side and not for the godlike men who were looking for women to subdue and tame.

I met my husband at 17 so I got the above.

If I was just searching today in addition to the above:

1. Financial intelligence
2. Family background and mental state of mind
3. Ethical values, respect and sincerity
4. Unity of purpose etc.

AntiMCU:


For someone who supposedly is intelligent, her reason for writing off the guy is dumb.

obviously I meant one with a functioning neuron
Btw, judging by her pics, she looks really average looking to me;makes me wonder which high quality Caucasian male will go for her.

pryme:


And you think we dont have "white" numskulls?

pocohantas:


Hope you are not a business man? I have nothing against businessmen, but the few times I even got close to them, they always belittled the corporate world and couldn't wait for me to tell them I am resigning

Samuels90:
don't think someone who writes well is intelligent, sometimes I don't know how people measure others intelligence.. TBH!

Bros, na international politics oh.

You don forget?

Ishilove:

Sapiosexuality is not a myth. There's something very sexy about a man who can hold his own in a conversation without boring you to tears. I once dated one very unintelligent fellow some years back before fleeing. When I talked about international politics he would stare at me blankly, forcing me to stutter to a stop. I can almost swear a couple of brain cells atrophied during my brief dalliance with the young man.

That was when I knew I couldn't compromise on the quality of grey matter. Very handsome fellow but dumb as fvck. What was i thinking??!

ruffDiamond:
olosh0,,lot I see everyday on my street , banking hall, ATM .. church . mosque shopping mall,(, Window shopping,market etc looking for maga to m UI mumu! forget it !all most guru want is comfort and money without much sweat and of course at the expse of their dirty smelly wide pussy.
damn?,naija gals don't deserve any love from any sane mind! use them . fucck them well and post the sextape on porn site but marry outside the country?

Guy wetin dem do you?

charliboy654:

Doesn't mean the guy is dumb jor, since you are so intelligent come n talk with me about electrical engineering or about computer programming, you probably wouldn't be able to hold an intelligent conversation with me on those field i mentioned above. Does that make you dumb? Obviously not.
The fact that one cannot hold a conversation on politics with you doesn't mean the person is dumb.
You can't measure a fish intelligence by its ability to claim a tree.

Baba stand in line.

This is the fourth time her bullshyte has been called out on this thread.

The below statement still remains relevant:

"It’s better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt."

poshestmina:


WHAT I ORDERED;
Tall
Chocolate/brown skin.
God fearing (I'm sure every girl's wish lists had/have this).
Good in za oza room.
Stinking rich (I planned building a house in my mum's name once I got married ).
Good cook ( ,so he'd always bring me breakfast on bed to apologise).
Educated, Exposed .
A good listener .
A very good dress sense.
Good self esteem


WHAT I GOT :
Average height (a little taller than me)
Brown skin.
Bros goes to church like 5 Sundays in a year and pray whenever there's an emergency .
Good in za oza room (when he's not being stingy though).
Comfortable (we are growing together ).
Cooked a few times only when I was pregnant (stew tasted like ketchup with only seasoning cubes).
EDUCATED (very IMPORTANT,I didn't compromise!!!).
Any gist to him is gossip .
Dress sense 7/10.

Made terrible mistakes but he's adjusting and we are good .

AntiMCU:


Bros, na international politics oh.

You don forget?

Samuels90:
lol, I know right bro. If only she could teach him, girls believe guys are supposed to be all -packaged-ready-made-for-them, they don't wanna know we have our own flaws... I don't blame the guy, i blame her, cos of they had continue she will think shes better than him. Most girls I meet cant keep convo bro, I introduced some here and they are lil bit enlightened.. Humility and patience is key bro

Well said bro.

Well said.

AwkaetitiBabe:




Lemme not even type it.

maynation:
A bunch lot

pocohantas:


Hope you are not a business man? I have nothing against businessmen, but the few times I even got close to them, they always belittled the corporate world and couldn't wait for me to tell them I am resigning