Broke boys would love this thread

[quote author=Davash222 post=85049574]When they’re done Hoeing, they turn to feminists and start to sell Bags, Wigs and Weavon on WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook. That’s their meaning of empowerment and Independent.
men are getting wiser now, Una go hear am!




You nailed it,please manage this

AstroG:




The Day ah go reason your matter,you go hear am.

Keep on typing rubbish

TRASH

MARX77:
Coming from a lady, I stan.... Lavylilly

I don't think you understand what the word Stan means even

Davash222:
When they’re done Hoeing, they turn to feminists and start to sell Bags, Wigs and Weavon on WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook. That’s their meaning of empowerment and Independent.
men are getting wiser now, Una go hear am!

.. This one cracked me up
Lol.

luminouz:


Very sorry, I can't but I have definitely read this before. I never forget a compelling article.

It was even debated on,with the usual e-brawls between the genders.

Sir, you don't make such accusations without evidence. Many people have read your comment and believed you which is not fair if you're wrong. You don't have to spend hours tracing the original article, if it is copied as you claim, just copy a section of the text and paste it into Google. The original post will show.

Davash222:
When they’re done Hoeing, they turn to feminists and start to sell Bags, Wigs and Weavon on WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook. That’s their meaning of empowerment and Independent.
men are getting wiser now, Una go hear am!

And there is nothing wrong with that. Please don't knock anyone's hustle.

Cool

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Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

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This is utter trash

It is called self development! Self development!!

Self being the active word! Meaning it is something you do yourself!

Grow up Madam

There is nothing "pained" about what the person you quoted wrote. When y'all lack proper arguments, you resort to the "you sound pained" rhetoric.


Learn to condemn what is evil regardless of gender. How can a man use a lady for years who stuck by him through thick and thin only to dump her later claiming she has no vision? When he was fvcking her he didn't know?

samdavjustin:


Nawa ooo you seemed so pained abi what the op said is absolutely right about you? We all see things through different sides. The op is not totally wrong as there are ladies who act that way but obviously not all

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

You are right.

Anybody who doesnt want to tell you the truth about yourself so that you can improve simply never loved you in the first place.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Broke boys would love this thread

I am used to the usual trashy ignorant comment on the forum these days then again there comes around the odd one, the comment so trashy it makes the word trashy seem like a slap on the wrist . A comment like yours is the epitome of that comment. They can't be called trashy as they belong to a subset of a subset of a septic pit of dung

Cheers

Truth is bitter to the female minds.
And what happens when a female says the truth? Watch them destroy OP
OP YOU ARE NOT ALONE. KEEP IT UP
Bloodline...@lavilily

luminouz:


Sorry ma'am, unless I'm getting paid to do that,I can't start searching over the million posts NL has.


Are you saying you sat down and drafted this article yourself?

Lazy man . Found it in less than a minute. Oya let the breeze blow and open fowl yansh

https://www.nairaland.com/2794994/dear-girls

Story

You made sense with your post.
Op's post made NO sense at all.

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

That's nothing but being ungrateful. You can do that to a girl unless she's rubbing it in your face during your hard time. Whether she upgrades herself or not, as long as she has been supportive and stands by you, you need to repay her and upgrade her to your taste.

Op is just encouraging ungratefulness. If it was your guy too that helped you by feeding you, clothing you, give you shelter, you will dump him as soon as you hit because he didn't upgrade.

This is pure nonsense.

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

the op is saying women should take the initiative to develop themselves.

You're saying the man should tell his woman to develop herself.

Or11:


Lazy man . Found it in less than a minute. Oya let the breeze blow and open fowl yansh

https://www.nairaland.com/2794994/dear-girls

Thanks ooo

SmartyPants:


Sir, you don't make such accusations without evidence. Many people have read your comment and believed you which is not fair if you're wrong. You don't have to spend hours tracing the original article, if it is copied as you claim, just copy a section of the text and paste it into Google. The original post will show.

Find it here


https://www.nairaland.com/2794994/dear-girls

Ginaz:
Some people will just come and be writing rubbish . That’s how you give men the right to just do anyhow things and get away free.

Which man in his right senses would watch his girlfriend grow up with him with no dreams of her own or even if the lady doesn’t have dreams, he can’t build her up? That means the guy doesn’t care anyway and he is just using the girl for sex.

Girls I would advise you to follow men who have visions, aspirations and a future cos even if you were the most dumbest girl in the whole world, their dreams would rub off on you to make you become better.

Na only empty and wicked boyfriends na fit do that . They are building their lives , they know the girl isn’t making any steps to build hers but would hang around, f***k her for years only to dump her like a trash. If she didn’t have plans, why not leave her ? Why hang around and use her and dump her? It’s very painful .

There is no excuse whatever in the planet that justifies that. It’s very painful and I sympathize with any lady facing this situation.

The man simply would have left her since she wasn’t good enough than to dump her at the last minute.

Why do ladies always feel that they are doing men a favour whenever they have sex ? Sex is enjoyed by both parties that's if there's anything like enjoyment in it. You don't do a man favour by having sex with him. Can you be more skilful than the prostitute in sex. Does it mean without sex you don't have anything to offer. There's no visionary man that can keep a woman who has no vision , if all she thinks about is just about marriage and shopping. Stop defending the wrong thing. The truth is painful, but it must be told.

luminouz:



Thanks ooo

You are welcome, another one

https://www.nairaland.com/2801533/ladies-wise-up

https://www.nairaland.com/2784123/what-okada-men-lagos-look (third post on here)

And there's more, so I guess the real author is unknown.

Written by a jambite

I will pass...
Nowadays women are more intelligent than men, look around you even a village woman adds value to herself talk more of a modern girl who is consistently improving herself in her career

midnighter:


You are not saying the right thing; if somebody you claim to love is lacking in drive or ambition then why wouldnt you encourage her to develop herself?

Why continue sleeping with her and entertaining her if you know she is stagnating? If you suggest it to her and she refuses its different.

This advice also applies to men btw. Taking his money, time, affection but secretly planning a coup with another guy because "hes not exposed" is just wickedness.

You sound idealistic and not realistic


My dear I repeat , it is called self development.

This mind set you have is why marriages crash . You have two people of different backgrounds with their own baggage coming to a marriage with expectations?

A marriage or relationship isn't where you go to fix your issues ! You are an adult fix yourself before getting committed to a relationship.

So if you come to me with nothing but culinary skills as your knowledge base then that is entirely your fault

I am not here to fix you, it's hard enough fixing me talkless of you

This is why I always say, not everyone should be in a relationship or marriage! Some people just have the wrong ideology.

Your partner isn't there to fix your issues, this is why alot of relationships in Nigeria feel so stressful and tiring. Because alot of womenhave your mindset and come there with their baggage looking for whom to dump on .

If you are old enough to decide move in with him then you are old enough to have figured out what you need to do to fix your life

Sirvingeo:
Nice write up .Ladies will avoid this thread o

livebyday:
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This is utter trash

It is called self development! Self development!!

Self being the active word! Meaning tis something you do yourself!

Grow up Madam

You and the op are the ones writing trash. Any man that sees that his woman has no plans for her life can encourage her to be a better person.

ireneidiva:

You and the op are the ones writing trash. Any man that sees that his woman has no plans for her life can encourage her to be a better person.

Please read my last post aunty

Don't be so salty

xavuv:
You made sense with your post.
Op's post made NO sense at all.

IMAGINE!
If a lady can stay with me through thick & thin, forget, nothing would make me abandon her except marital unfaithfulness. Even if she's an illiterate, she's worth all the love.

Call her any names you want,

I would rather choose Jonathan's marital life over Buhari's

Some mentality like OP's may only get a lady out of poverty but may not get her a blessed marital life

livebyday:


You sound idealistic and not realistic


My dear I repeat , it is called self development.

This kind set you have is why marriages crash . You have two people of different backgrounds with their own baggage coming to a marriage with expectations?

A marriage or relationship isn't where you go to fix your issues ! You are an adult fix yourself before getting committed to a relationship.

So if you come to me with nothing but culinary skills as your knowledge base then that is entirely your fault

I am not here to fix you, it's hard enough fixing me talkless of you

This is why I always say, not everyone should be in a relationship or marriage! Some people just have the wrong ideology.

Your partner isn't there to fix your issues, this is why alot of relationships in Nigeria feel so stressful and tiring. Because alot of womenhave your mindset and come there with their baggage looking for whom to dump on .

If you are old enough to decide move in with him then you are old enough to have figured out what you need to doing to fix your life

Nobody can fix anybody. The word is encourage. Spouses help each other get jobs, get another degree or start businesses.