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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by OgogoroFreak(m): 10:22am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65:


It's 100% possible I myself don't. There's more to life than sex
What? You no dey release?? Nigga you gay!
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Cousin9999: 10:23am On Dec 30, 2019
What about broke girls? And what's the definition of broke? Because the amount of delusional weirdos spouting pure bs is crazy.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by ibechris(m): 10:23am On Dec 30, 2019
Millz404:
Be saying nonsense, and keep having a dependent mentality meanwhile Kylie Jenner has become the world's youngest self-made billionaire, according to Forbes billionaires' list. According to Forbes magazine, Jenner's net worth is estimated at US$1 billion, making her, at age 21, the world's youngest billionaire as of March 2019.




My problem with Nigerians is this,when u are saying the truth,they will tell u how America is richer than Nigeria. Just like this fellow here telling us how Jenner's net worth is giving their village people headache.
How does this statement connects what is being said here...we are talking about Nigeria here,u are already in America.

Be deceiving your self with Jenner...when we all know that Nigeria is the subject matter.

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Slynation(m): 10:24am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65:


It's a priceless piece of advice to save you from much trouble and suffering you future kids
I code... But a man that can pay his bills and stay comfortable & live beyond his means shouldn't be tagged broke
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Nobody: 10:26am On Dec 30, 2019
Parablesonmarble:
Broke guys have no business dating talkless getting married. Put woman matter for one side and start thinking of the bad predicaments you're going to put your kids and how much pressure you're going to put on taxpayers monies in the name of free education for your kids etc when you are contributing nada to the economy. It is simply irresponsible. Broke guys should go find ashawo point and kill when konji catch them and they have little change. That's the farthest they ought to go with women.
love u have no pity for the broke
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by dinodesmond(m): 10:26am On Dec 30, 2019
Dagrace01:
I like your constructive analysis, but this morning I read something about a guy who took a girl to Osun state for blood money, that's the level girls are pushing guys too. Yahoo boys, fraudsters, money ritualists are the ones capable of getting a gal into a relationship. While guys filled with prospects who struggle day in day out and getting stipends as ends meet can't be dated. At this pace the life of our youths are in jeopardy because success is now attributed to having flashy cars, living lavish lifestyles and wearing the latest designers that came from dirty source.

Our ladies are helping the guys to further make this place super-complicated. Our yeye government don make am complicated already.

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by boiz2men(m): 10:32am On Dec 30, 2019
Divay22:

Hahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha grin grin
Girls don show your pocket fire cheesy cheesy

grin I'm no longer dating broke girls. To consider a babe for dating, her monthly income suppose reach like 100k. Imagine a babe coming to see you and asking for tfare. God forbid. I reject those girls in my life... Help me say Amen grin

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Kcuf: 10:33am On Dec 30, 2019
Dagrace01:
I like your constructive analysis, but this morning I read something about a guy who took a girl to Osun state for blood money, that's the level girls are pushing guys too. Yahoo boys, fraudsters, money ritualists are the ones capable of getting a gal into a relationship. While guys filled with prospects who struggle day in day out and getting stipends as ends meet can't be dated. At this pace the life of our youths are in jeopardy because success is now attributed to having flashy cars, living lavish lifestyles and wearing the latest designers that came from dirty source.




It's really not easy being a youth in this country and in this period sad

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by ezo4fta(m): 10:34am On Dec 30, 2019
I dont blame anybody but the failed state called Nigeria. In western countries women dont rely on men to survive. They work they earn their own money. Women will even offer to pay the bills after an outing. That is why women have voice over there. But in the zoo(Nigeria ) where we found ourself the women expect the men to do everything for them. A man that provides everything for you can decide to treat you anyhow he likes because he is now like a small god over you. My advice to Nigerian girls: pls earn ur own money so that u will have respect. No man can use you as baby mama when u earn ur own money. No man will treat u anyhow. No man will call ur family poverty shrinking family. No man will tell you to pack out of his house.A word.

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by peteruuu(m): 10:35am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by womenareapes: 10:36am On Dec 30, 2019
victorian:








You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!
I Keep wondering who would want to date a pig undecided

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by bonnyhope: 10:37am On Dec 30, 2019
victorian:








You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!

This forum is full of indomie generation kids.

Your post shows you are one of them

Your business that is still funded by another person's husband if atall there's any as claimed

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Mimicle101: 10:37am On Dec 30, 2019
The advice may sound good. But I think it all depends on the individual, and priority.

Someone commented about the very rich and in deep dept and the other earning 25k affords his self and family and sil have like 500 naira saving.

And another asked. What if the rich goes broke.

Now I believe another mans food is another mans poison.


So Pirority plays alot in our individual life.
All we need is just support.
Short rout and long rout. (The end justifies the end)

There are lots of igbo men who has been practicing acquiring every acquirables before having a wife or kids. Like having own car, house and rich. That's why you would see alot of the guys even over 40 years of age yet no child now spouse. Yes some are doing well in business and yet some are not doing well.

So another thing there is do you wish to be 50 years of age, having all the money and leaving in affluence and your fist child is 3 years?

Another is do you wish to be 25 years married and having a child and leaving poor. Or average?

So my people! The poster is right in the other hand. Is all ends to priority in life.

When it comes to these topic people can believe is a very vast topic to discuss as there a many factors to consider and it can really be a long easy

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Divay22(f): 10:38am On Dec 30, 2019
boiz2men:


grin I'm no longer dating broke girls. To consider a babe for dating, her monthly income suppose reach like 100k. Imagine a babe coming to see you and asking for tfare. God forbid. I reject those girls in my life... Help me say Amen grin
Asking you for tfare? It only means she feels she's doing you a favour by coming to see you.
Sorry grin
I dey reserve my Amen for tomorrow prayers grin grin cheesy cheesy
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Mypeople2(m): 10:39am On Dec 30, 2019
victorian:











Don't bother to fall in love so quick, I'm taken.
See love does not exist in this 21st century... it is all about money money money .If u have ,everyone will gather around you including all kinds of babes and sizes but when you are broke everyone will leave you and drop some abuses when leaving

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Khaleell001(m): 10:39am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.

lame argument.

You guys are just basing your argument on things which have no permanence.
Who says a was broke guy can't become rich tomorrow.

Even I'm developed countries it happens too.

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Liposure: 10:41am On Dec 30, 2019
On a second thought. Who make dis guys go broke.is it not d same chicks who milk dem of their hard earned money.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Blakjewelry(m): 10:41am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65:
I see different posts on Nairaland about girls not wanting to date or marry broke guys, you can't really blame them. In this world men are bread winners no matter how much we talk about splitting the breadwinning with females it can't happen, even if she is rich that's the world we live in.

If a girl should get married to a broke guy what of if he doesn't get rich, that's a life of poverty and also damming you children's future.

It's better to make it first, before thinking about marriage and women.

You would be surprised when you have made it women won't even be on your wishlist, there is more to life than women (there is games, movies, food and much more) you can also adopt kids if you feel lonely and can cater for them. And marriage is not for everyone.
Good point but what if the said made guy go broke in the future like loss his job or business go bad?
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Sammyblack87: 10:43am On Dec 30, 2019
So your father na Dangote before he marry your mother?, I don't blame you.. Na only Nigeria and Africa can hear dis kind of talk..
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Mimicle101: 10:44am On Dec 30, 2019
Liposure:
On a second thought. Who make dis guys go broke.is it not d same chicks who milk dem of their hard earned money.

If that's the case. The guy is to be blamed because it mean he is not disciplined with the little he has.

No girl should make a guy go broke. Except his under duress
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Sirseedorf(m): 10:44am On Dec 30, 2019
I earn 25k, debt free, with a token monthly savings.

At least the salary is a peanut but I thank God.
Optimistically, I can start a little business through it.


smiley

@Apination

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by boiz2men(m): 10:47am On Dec 30, 2019
Divay22:

Asking you for tfare? It only means she feels she's doing you a favour by coming to see you.
Sorry grin
I dey reserve my Amen for tomorrow prayers grin grin cheesy cheesy

Just imagine. A girl will be thinking that she's doing ME a favor cheesy. Very laughable.

So you can't say Amen.. You don't mean well for me sad and you are supposed to be a friend

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Mimicle101: 10:48am On Dec 30, 2019
Lightangel65

What if the guy never marry and absents from woman and still never made it (become)?

What then
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by bonnyhope: 10:49am On Dec 30, 2019
Sheriman:

Victoria baby I love you so much!!!!!!
Your love is making my heart beat jigijigi gbam gbam!!! My love for you is unconditionally...
Please marry me?? grin grin grin grin

Don't be carried away by what these ladies say on social media

They are not what they preach

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Nobody: 10:49am On Dec 30, 2019
victorian:








You are completely right.

I concur.

There was time in my life, even though I'm a lady. when I shunned guys wooing me, especially broke and hustling guys, including rich guys who have nothing to offer than just sex.
I told them, I want to develop myself and biz before Dating any guy. I'm not interested in any sexual relationship until I'm balanced financially and my biz is stabilized. They thought I was joking. But I was serious.

I don't need distractions back then. I want to be focused to make money aggressively. Now they can see what I was saying back then. They are now like wow! You be man! You've done well for yourself. Babe I still love you nah. You are wife material.

Na so! I'm now balanced to be in relationship and thank God I'm in one.

So hustling or broke guys should leave babes one side and try make it first! Because if u are not financially OK? Babe go Waka!
you are right, as a guy i have sticked to this so far, i want to develop myself, i know i must make it but if i may ask how possible is it to find a good woman after you make it?

Alot of these girls would love you only because you have made it, the so called love, wife material in them would manifest then but ordairly they wont near the dude as a broke ass. My believe is you only meet the true girls when you broke.

Infact my extra motivation for success is to use money rubbish these gold digging women

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by mrksquare: 10:50am On Dec 30, 2019
Martinez39:
Prenuptial agreements are glorified toilet papers. The judge will fling it away.


Says who? Read one of Donald Trump's book and he emphasised the imperative of entering into prenup. He said that is what has kept his business empire intact amidst his two failed marriages. Prenup is still a valid, potent and legal means of safeguarding one's estate against your spouse in the event of divorce.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by tayewomi(m): 10:50am On Dec 30, 2019
am just laughing at that girl who said she hustled well before engaging though is good but did u know that a single formula can't solve all equations,had a uncle back then who hustled and made more money before engaging though he's still buoyant now,bt all the ladies just elope with his materials,so if you find love early u can appreciate it and keep developing your self..
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by mrksquare: 10:53am On Dec 30, 2019
Khaleell001:


lame argument.

You guys are just basing your argument on things which have no permanence.
Who says a was broke guy can't become rich tomorrow.

Even I'm developed countries it happens too.


When Jeff Bezos got married to his wife he was a struggling young man. The advice I always give to ladies is that they should get married to a man with vision. A man with vision can always navigate his way from being broke to a millionaire.

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Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by bestdudes: 10:58am On Dec 30, 2019
Peemonny:
The most annoying thing on earth is to hear a senseless woman who is worth nothing, jobless hiding behind an old cheap Android phone criticizing a man struggling to meet up with is bills
bros, I have something to tell Nairaland in a few months time with respect to this.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by anthony86(m): 11:00am On Dec 30, 2019
There is this sense of fulfillment in every Man knowing there is a woman and probably achild who is dependent on him. This one of the source of motivation for most men without that some men will just layback and be content of just satisfying their belly and their urge for sex.
My advice, If you are a broke guy find a woman to be your motivation factor. If you are rich and want to be richer also find a woman.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by HVILLE: 11:00am On Dec 30, 2019
victorian:












Well sorry to burst your bubble
My parents are wealthy.

God bless my mom for investing 4 million naira in my company way back 2007 after graduating from one of the best universities in Nigeria.
My company and Fashion school are both doing marvellously well till today.

4 million naira is no beans

I doubt if your parents and even yourself can boast of 10k

So go figure! Broke wailer! No be only depend on guy!

Ekpa!
The 4m that was invested in your business 13years ago what has it transmitted to ,is your business worth 30m now.
Re: My Opinion On Broke Guys by Divay22(f): 11:02am On Dec 30, 2019
boiz2men:


Just imagine. A girl will be thinking that she's doing ME a favor cheesy. Very laughable.

So you can't say Amen.. You don't mean well for me sad and you are supposed to be a friend
tongue

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