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Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Octopusssy(f): 10:38am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Lol. I see someone arguing with MrCork 5 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Froshloaded: 10:40am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Waiting for the elders |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Omar09(m): 10:42am On Jan 09, 2020 |
favoryte33: First off, there's no such thing as true love. If there was, there won't be break up and divorces. Secondly, if you don't seek COMPATIBILITY, you will continue to be in a wrong relationship. 16 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by konkonbilo(m): 10:47am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:. you never jam anything... E just de start with you 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 10:57am On Jan 09, 2020 |
MrCork: Onye ara 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 10:58am On Jan 09, 2020 |
MrCork: Thank God I'm free! Oya face her, let me be. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by MrCork: 11:02am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: Octopussy is lightskin..U ain't...dont be jelos ..SHOW RESPET!! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jan 09, 2020 |
MrCork: Ogar, carry go! No biggies. |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by TheGenius001: 11:13am On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: My dear the truth is that "YES YOU PUSHED HIM AWAY" I have been in this same shoe b4 with a girl and I did the same to her. Pride goes before a fall. We still chat. But never will I instigate a Chat with her and never will I reply her with more than two, three words. It's quite funny how someone you once loved so much in a twinkle of an eye becomes a total stranger. I know she feels the pain of me not giving her the attention she used to get long b4 now. How I would always call her without her even calling for once except for flashing. Pride goes b4 a fall. I wish her all the best. Believe me nothing can bring us back together anymore. I have a girl now who loves me more than anything. This one has no pride. She calls every now and then. And believe me, if fate should not twist, I am ready to settle down with her. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by R3B3L(m): 11:17am On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai:Firstly- Don't blame yourself.. distance didn't play a part in this break down in communication. Next - more importantly is the fact that there has to be comprehension. It's a man's job to understand his woman. Most relationships succeed with men who do anyways.. Do not feel the need to switch up or down ur innate trait cos someone felt u "didn't care". There are more people whose turn ons are introverts. Get over this dude, he's not ur type. U would have struggled well in this relationship if u tried to go beyond ur abilities. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by MrCork: 11:23am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude: sweery may i remind u am from London...technicaly this means aint on yor level .if u want me..am easy..ask nicely!!(real talk) |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Octopusssy(f): 11:28am On Jan 09, 2020 |
MrCork:Am fine Cork. Pussssy and Cork. We are a match made in heaven. How much? 1 Like |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by MrCork: 11:31am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Octopusssy: darling please be care full. Stay away from Jewessgratitude...she jelos of u coz I choose u over her. She need help 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Octopusssy(f): 11:32am On Jan 09, 2020 |
MrCork:Ok darling. She didn't tell you how much? |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 09, 2020 |
daben1:No, you got me wrong there. I didn't leave the calling for him alone. It was mutual. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jan 09, 2020 |
wizzynuru:What if I did? Life can be funny you know. 5 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:41am On Jan 09, 2020 |
AfroKnight:I never hid under the excuse of introversion moreover when we were still cool, communication was smooth, spoke on phone, chats and gists daily. I realized my inadequacies and learnt from the relationship. 6 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 09, 2020 |
thorpido:I think I agree with you. Thanks for your contribution. 4 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by MrCork: 11:47am On Jan 09, 2020 |
Octopusssy: Jewessgratitude ain't my type..she too local ..way too bush & she acts like a nigerian! |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jan 09, 2020 |
R3B3L:Wow! Thanks for your advice. 3 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by StandUpGuy247: 12:29pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
You and my new girlfriend are alike. Which is the rason I'm planning to break up with her. If you're not willing to work on yourself, don't expect your partner to wait for you while he/she has the option to be happier with someone else. 15 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Mine is even worse, he told me he cannot prioritize a relationship right now and does not feel the need to talk every day. But he wants girlfriend benefits and always complaining about I how I don't communicate with him. How does that work? I just walked away, too trashy to deal with. 6 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Liposure: 1:20pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Young lady. Dis is an opportunity 2 work on yourself. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by AfroKnight: 1:21pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
geraldinai: Speaking everyday is not the same as seeking to speak with him everyday and communicating that desire to speak with him. A man in love, does not run away from the attention of his woman. You yourself said in your second paragraph that your introversion was an issue. Why was it an issue? Cos he was experiencing, first hand, the reality of you wanting, loving and enjoying your own space. As a result, he didn’t feel your need for him. After a while, it would begin to feel like one is forcing you to be more expressive against your own nature. It is draining. When a person gets to the point where they feel drained or burdened with keeping a relationship afloat, they would either snap or withdraw. Anyway, things would have worked out better with someone who shares your views on communication and is actually attracted to introverts. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by AfroKnight: 1:26pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Faysuze: Dating someone who doesn’t feel the need to communicate often is a draining exercise. That is what the OP’s ex was going through. Maybe introverts should date themselves. Perhaps things would be easier that way. 7 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by RealEzee(m): 1:27pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
my sisterrr u pushed him away ooo i did same to cos it seemed as if na just me dey d relationship, abi na only me go dey talk how important u dey to me n u too no go talk ni? i go dey check on you but u no go check on me, haaa no na, no b so e suppose b, make me follow feel wanted na, make i follow feel like king too. Ladies should know men also love attention too. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by EazyJ(f): 1:35pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Communication is a vital ingredient in keeping a relationship. A lot of relationships have died because both partners involved do not know how to communicate effectively with each other. Learn to speak the love language of your partner otherwise you'd be frustrated at how your efforts in pleasing him remain futile. How I wish "communication in relationship and marriages" can be taught. 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Since he didn't want to talk everyday, i didn't know when to call him and when not to. I just stopped initiating. We went from talking everyday to once a week. It wasn't working for me so i left. Some people are just hard to deal with. AfroKnight: 2 Likes |
Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by AfroKnight: 1:55pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Faysuze: You did the right thing. 1 Like
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Re: Did I Push Him Away With My Attitude? by taneez(f): 1:57pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
The truth is you are not compatible and he was not for you. I am an unapologetic introvert just like you and I am getting married this year and he is an extrovert. It takes someone who loves and understands you to love your personality. Your own man will understand your quietness and make sure you communicate often even if the communication breakdown. He will help you and be patient. No one is perfect na. Extroverts have their issues too. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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