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Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by johnrx: 1:26pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Give more time to study the two Delay your marriage and get to know the two well before picking the final answer. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Oluwaphemite(m): 1:48pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
jendoslim:I dnt really Know but it's just what i've noticed so far. Short girls behave more submissive. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by virago(f): 1:56pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
mrbenjame: It's a James Bond movie |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by franchasng: 2:24pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
mrbenjame:Don't marry any of them! Don't marry Susan because she is not marriageable, she will give you more troubles if you wife her. Susan type of ladies are meant to be girlfriends or mistresses for life since they refused to have sense. Guys stop dignifying mannerless ladies with wedding ring, drop Susan or keep her as your life mistress but no ring! Don't marry Benita because she is still a student. Don't make the mistake of marrying any female student in 2020 and beyond or else you will regret. Allow Benita pass through school and flex her youthful age and make mistakes and come back to her senses before you can consider her for marriage which means you cannot marry her since you want to settle down anytime soon. Look for a lady between the age of 27 - 35yrs and marry, and you will have peace of mind. Don't marry any girl below 27yrs in our present world if you want a happy marriage. Most Nigerian ladies start to have sense and become valuable assets to any man they are dating or married to from the age of 27yrs and above. Ladies below 27yrs are for fun...unless you have married before, had kids, have lots of money and just looking for just fun and a girl to take around for parties, political functions and vacation, that's if your first wife is late |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Omar09(m): 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
franchasng: Ladies in this age bracket you mentioned have passed their young and tender age. I wouldn't advise anyone to go for them. Unless for sure you know what you are getting into. My ideal age to look out for is 23-25 and should be a graduate. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by kbright911(m): 2:52pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I don't know the kind of advise you need again when clearly you know which of them is your better half... If you want to die of high blood pressure after marriage, go for Susan (not her real name).. If you want to enjoy a beautiful marriage, then go for Benita (not her real name).. Besides I don't think your mum would still want you to marry Susan if you had told her about the way Susan behaves. Once again my votes goes to Benita (not her real name). |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 3:07pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
It’s good to know that a lot of people have given good advices. I’ll like to reply the person who asked how many abortions has Susan had. It’s very funny honestly. Everybody must be impregnated or what? I don’t get it. It’s just that I can’t mention you. Don’t know what you did not to be mentioned but I just wish you read this. I’m not an irresponsible man. Now over to the other person who said I have low self esteem. That I always dated younger women. How can you be so sure? Is a 24 year old lady a teenager? Or Is a 27 years old lady very young? I’ve dated even older ladies before them. And I quit by myself. So you don’t know me. Sorry. I’m a man that can’t be toiled with. I’m just seeking for counsel because anybody can make mistakes. It’s just that my family members are just trying to make me consider the first woman because we’ve come a long way when I know I can’t cope with her after sitting her down severaly and thereby ending the discussion in quarrel. I don’t intimidate women and that’s why I wish to take things calm. So don’t take my simplicity for granted. Ok? 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by franchasng: 3:19pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Omar09:I doubt you have good knowledge of Nigerian ladies or black women at all. Marrying a black Nigerian lady of 23 - 25yrs is not advisable in our present world for any guy below 40yrs with low financial stability. I know you are talking based on reproductivity of a lady, but I tell you, the world has changed and time has changed too, you don't need to give birth to 5 kids, one or two or three kids at worst case scenario are enough. In Nigeria which happens to be our case study in this regard, a girl of 23 - 25yrs have not even finished university, and if at all she did early and finished, most girls at that age don't know what they want in life. Some still want to depend solely on a man or their parents at that age. Most girls at that age still allow their friends, peers and media to detect who their ideal partner should be. They don't have their own opinion because at that age, most Nigerian girls have not developed fully to form their own opinion and have a personal self reliance. The best age to marry a Nigerian lady and get the best out of her is between the age of 27 - 35yrs. Some ladies at 25 - 26yrs can be exception though maybe because they were fortunate to have early maturity |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Omar09(m): 3:34pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
franchasng: Actually I don't. But what I do know is they get bitter at that age. Plus marriage you ain't even sure would last 15yrs, why go in with a bitter one who used most if her years in discovering herself by hoeing while you can go in with one who is younger. Don't get me wrong, it's good she discovers herself. Waiting that long to get in with her is sick. 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by zeeek(m): 4:12pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
What is your problem with Jambite? That's on a lighter mode. Marriage is not by washing of clothes and plates. Who will make meaningful contributions to your life? Clearly Your first girl was raised in a home where she was not taught how to do house chores, you can teach her, if shez matured enough to want to settle down, she will learn. Getting married to a girl because she washes yr clothes, plates, cooks for you etc is not so smart. Trust me, when children starts coming in and responsibilities quadruples, my guy, you will not think about plate/clothe washing. Marry someone who will be your helper. Only the smart will understand 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by makeherscream(m): 4:28pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
daddytime:my favorite Edo artist well don ooo |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
zeeek:Did you read where he said he discussed with her yet no change and that whenever he discusses it with her it usually ends in fight? |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Legendguru: 6:01pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
None |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Chybyke1992: 6:06pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
I am going to give you a very different responds entirely... Susan will eventually take advantage of you and turn you to a piece of rag much later in life judging by your alterations towards her.. Benita is a good girl but I wouldn't advice you to go into marriage yet with her. cos you need to understand her well,women can pretend alot especially when they are desperate. and secondly are you ready to see her through school and also endure the things you are yet to see?? dont forget she is still in 100l and if you are the jealous type trust me you gonna develop B.P before your time ,by the time you see her receive calls from coursemate you will definitely not relax but paint alot of picture on your mind which will in turn cause misunderstanding in your marriage.. so if I may say. you are yet to see the Real woman for you. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Zyni(f): 7:00pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Why not choose me instead... |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 7:07pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
gracevile: Congratulations. But Benita is cool. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 7:10pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
lexy2014: I have 2 women here and you want to make it 3. Is not fair. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by comodo: 7:10pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Emotion no gree u think. Guy use your sense. Keep emotion for backyard. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Pinkie2018(f): 7:11pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
fkj950ax:nice comment. He is basing his love and happiness on the one that does chores and keeps to time. He has to weigh the good and bad of both and see who measures up. People change. If Benita changes tomorrow will he still love her? If Susan starts doing the stuff Benita does, will he love her back?. The guy is the problem not the ladies. He doesn't know exactly what he wants 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 7:13pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Zyni: Hmmmmm. Making it 3? |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by fkj950ax(m): 7:14pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Pinkie2018: You get it 100% He is still a child somewhere in his head |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by lavylilly: 7:26pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Oga you are the problem not the girl. I will advise the girls not to marry you. 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by Pinkie2018(f): 7:31pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
franchasng:useless advice. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 7:43pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
fkj950ax: I’ve weighed my options. I’ve know both for a very long time. I’m not a child. Don’t insult me. I don’t need you to decide for me. All my problem is, is that the consideration on how long we’ve been together by my family members observiation and their go ahead to marry her is what makes me think deep. Is that too much to ask? What do you mean? I’m a full grown man who can also make silly mistakes advanced people do. Do you get me? |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by mrbenjame: 7:47pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
lavylilly: Your opinion doesn’t count. I’m never the problem. Dating who can’t enter the kitchen is that what you’d justify? now I’m the problem. People are very funny. |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by frugal(m): 7:55pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: Fair enough. I think I can live with that 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by franchasng: 8:18pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Pinkie2018: |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by franchasng: 8:20pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Pinkie2018:Hello Susan, we sight you oh, don't worry if op no marry you, Bobrisky is still very much single 1 Like |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by King2019(m): 8:35pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Op!!! One clear advice for you marry the one that loves you not who you love... I think for people like you the more your woman shows you love the more you love her... |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by MessiahOwu: 9:21pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
Oga, Marry any of them |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by skedy1(m): 9:40pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
johnad3: Nothing actually. Except that they portray the acts explained by the OP, via his first girl |
Re: 2 Women In My Life, Which Should I Marry? by fkj950ax(m): 9:47pm On Jan 23, 2020 |
mrbenjame: My sincere apologies my comment upset you. But to be honest with you, you aren't ready for marriage. |
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