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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Longman180(m): 3:07pm On Jan 26, 2020
Okay,see beautiful here come and married her

Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by kunlesmiles(m): 3:08pm On Jan 26, 2020
Oga, it's good to marry pretty lady ooo, d nice curves, straight legs, big behind. U need a trophy wife abi... It's like u want to die , God gave u a nice woman but no, na slay mama u want.... Be careful wat u wish for bro. Don't be greedy.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Jan 26, 2020
Next2Bezee:


Something is seriously wrong with you. If you know that her beauty was an issue for you, why did you lead her on for so long? You have already wasted her time and ruined her life, but it's better to leave her than cheat on her.

Don't be surprised if you don't find a girl more beautiful than her, and even if you do, she won't care for you as much as this jilted girl did.

Please, leave her; let her soulmate find her. We have one life to leave: stop wasting hers.
ruined her life shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Olarewaju89: 3:09pm On Jan 26, 2020
You have spoken well sir grin

CsRockefeller:


Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:09pm On Jan 26, 2020
TheSeeker777:
My only beef with you is leading her on for a long time while secretly resenting an aspect of HER.

Please let her go.... She deserves BETTER.
.. You are right. If he end up marry her,the marriage may not last because he will be cheating on her with the ones he feels they are his taste.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:10pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?
.. Micheal Jackson,I greet you sir.To be honest with you,all women, whether beautiful or ugly will give you the same stress. Use your brain bro.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Yuneehk(f): 3:10pm On Jan 26, 2020
CsRockefeller:


Even if he gets married to Genevieve or Agbani, an Arab or a fair Fulani, he would still cheat on her.

Once the heart isn't contented it becomes insatiable and nothing will quench it's thirst.

This doesn't just apply to relationship though.

So forget it, his Psyche not her looks is the problem here.
True that cheating is no respecter of physical looks. But his heart clearly isn't contented with just her character and the fact that she is a good woman. He wants that beauty and won't rest till he gets it. Since it's not coming from her, he'll look elsewhere for it. That's all.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by frankmoney(m): 3:10pm On Jan 26, 2020
Better marry someone that attract you , outward beauty actually matters o ....

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Angelfrost(m): 3:10pm On Jan 26, 2020
Freestainworld:
Op I wan ask you something, you handsome?

Very good question... But, not quite relevant tbh... Most awful looking guys always have their pick of the most beautiful women once they are affluent. Society is warped like that!!!

In case you further disagree... Go ask:

Sen. Hope Uzodinma (Imo Governor)

Sir. Ned Nwoko

Emir. Sanusi

Yahaya Bello (Kogi governor)

Etc... tongue

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by abbasajao(m): 3:11pm On Jan 26, 2020
Mary good character acter and not beauty. Beauty will fade but good character will never fade
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by ogawisdom(m): 3:12pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?


Lol beauty is temporary but character will last very long

Is she presentable at all n very intelligent. U can't have it all when u get the beautiful one u will see she will be cheating, no character n will be unintelligent.

Wife her and get a side chick that is beautiful to play around with cool 99% of men settle it this way

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jan 26, 2020
I don't think you are ready to marry
Relax no too rush yourself calm down and think verrryyyyy well smiley

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by farem: 3:12pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

I refuse to read the body. MY CANDID ADVICE:
Leave us alone, go and marry the Worst but beautiful woman!

Make u nor con hia dey tell story again ọ!
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by GreenDee(f): 3:13pm On Jan 26, 2020
soberdrunk:
Oshey Mr Morris Chesnut, be looking for Mammy water and lose good woman..... angry
lmao, wch one be Mr Morris chestnut in dis mata
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by chitop(m): 3:13pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?


WHEN IT COMES TO BEFORE MARRIAGE BEAUTY TAKES THE FORE BUT ABOUT TWO YEARS AFTER MARRIAGE BEAUTY WILL FADE TOTALLY AND CHARACTER TAKES THE FORE FOR MORE THAN 50 YEARS SO CHOOSE WISELY. ASK FROM THOSE WITH SICKLE CELL CHILDREN'S PARENT THEY WILL EXPLAIN BETTER.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 26, 2020
tiana29:
You know she isn't that beautiful but you went ahead to date her, after eating free pu**y and its time to marry her, beauty comes to the picture. Stupid Bleep boy
They are practising," No sex until Marriage"!!! cool
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by SmartyPants(m): 3:15pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

I understand your position.

Many of us who grew up watching Hollywood movies may have internalized the notion that true love requires perfectly good looking partners. Of course on TV the love birds are always stunning.

What you need now is to discipline yourself and your desires. After all, would her beauty really add anything to your life?

Stay with the good woman you have. Discipline your eyes. Redefine your mental definition of beauty. You will be fine!

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by fynex(m): 3:16pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?


The question you should be asking is...

If you are the best man for her?
Are you worthy of who she is?

Because the only thing that puts you off is her appearance....*not that beautiful* like say you fine!....

You guys should stop giving yourselves unnecessary reasons to leave a good partner... Because in few years time na only una go come back dey talk say una make mistake.

See! If you honestly, truthfully and totally love a woman, her true beauty will radiate in a way you've never seen!
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by jolyment: 3:16pm On Jan 26, 2020
Freestainworld:
Op I wan ask you something, you handsome?


You're right
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by baby124: 3:17pm On Jan 26, 2020
You better go and find a beautiful woman if that’s your spec so you don’t drive her insane in marriage. Beauty fades and ugly intensifies.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by AkpaMgbor(m): 3:17pm On Jan 26, 2020
Reichel99:
OP I think you should leave the girl alone, if you know you can't be committed to her because of something minor like physical beauty, her real husband will find her.
Why did you even date her when you knew she was not beautiful to you, that is very callous.
You neglecting her good character for beauty is your choice but don't comeback here to complain or wail on how you lost a good woman. A man that thinks like you does not deserve love from a woman like your girlfriend.
Who says he can't have both worlds? Who says he can't marry a beautiful woman with good virtues?

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by bengasyl(m): 3:18pm On Jan 26, 2020
Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.



Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?[/quote]

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by CloudResident(m): 3:19pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:


I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Beauty is not skin deep. Character is all that matters.
Bro listen and listen carefully, you have said it all.
Marry her!

These are my words on marble,so that you may live long in peace with your entire family.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by orunmila144: 3:19pm On Jan 26, 2020
2buffagain:
As a man, you should only expend energy on a woman you want.

All women will give you the same amount of stress, whether ugly or fine.
grin WISE WORDS
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by tityboi: 3:21pm On Jan 26, 2020
Beauty is part of it don’t let no one deceive when you become big you will find it difficult to go out with an ugly woman you you can’t have it all even little beauty with good character respectful hard working woman that will love you and your family the one that won’t chase your family out of your life .that is what you need

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by bjgurl(f): 3:22pm On Jan 26, 2020
She is beautiful in & out, you don't seems to know that, probably another man is eyeing her.
Just take care of her, she's golden.
One man's food is another man poison.

Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by 12345baba(m): 3:23pm On Jan 26, 2020
I feel like calling u something now. No go marry her dey zuo for there
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Enemyofpeace: 3:25pm On Jan 26, 2020
If she is good in bed like naijaolosho and Bola146 forget about her beauty and marry her
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jan 26, 2020
@ OP no human is perfect....you better settke with this one, the mammy water you are looking will make you look older with stress
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by etrange: 3:26pm On Jan 26, 2020
Please, don't marry her.

She deserves better.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Munadad: 3:26pm On Jan 26, 2020
Your childish fantasy should stop now.Beauty is ephemeral. Be reasonable.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Ifexontop(m): 3:26pm On Jan 26, 2020
No don't marry her

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