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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by lexy2014: 3:50pm On Jan 26, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
.. There's nothing like inner beauty for a human being.

That means u aren't familiar with human beings. There is inner beauty for human beings

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by zakkxx: 3:50pm On Jan 26, 2020
U better marry her b4 u regret for d rest of your life. U wan cut her face put for plate?
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by grandstar(m): 3:51pm On Jan 26, 2020
omoakin120

Oga, do this small exercise:

Look at all those fine girls wey marry 10 years ago, you fit marry dem now if dem dash you? You go even say 10years too much, 5 years don do

Beauty is very flitting. After 2 kids, most Nigerian women don't get fat due to lack of exercise and. indifference. That is one reason many men commit Adultery.

Focus on the long term and not the short term.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by pocohantas(f): 3:51pm On Jan 26, 2020
eni4real:
Surgical??
You want to marry a lady which you didn't contribute to her beauty??
"The new girl is a raw Material?? Grow it!!!"

Your definition of beauty get K leg ooooshocked shocked shocked shocked

She is right. Every relationship should rub off on your person. Physically, mentally, academically, emotionally - hopefully, it should be positive.

I have seen grown single men (and women) still not very settled and I always wonder what their EXs contributed.

I don't even know what most Nigerians do in relationships. Just fck and chop. They don't impact any positive value on their partners.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by SpartanKing: 3:53pm On Jan 26, 2020
slimjohn2k5:
At a stage in your life you will know beauty is not what keep some men from cheating but character which include knowing how and when to talk, neatness, companionship etc
Thanks for this piece! I've just bought a brand new Toyota Camry for you: Have the key!

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by deltateam: 3:54pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Cheating has nothing to do with woman's beauty but your insatiable desires.

God gave each woman same number of bweasts and puna.
Even these will decay with time.

Be happy if she makes you happy. Marriage is not about fine face.

Besides she has less chance of cheating while you have peace of mind.

A more beautiful woman will give you high BP.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jan 26, 2020
Ladylite:


Is beauty really not what money can bring out?

I feel you are too poor that's why. A rich guy will give the girl all the necessary surgical prep and she will be more pretty than her ancestors.

You want to marry a beautiful lady whose beauty you didn't contribute to abi? Guess what, such ladies are either runs girls, too rich for you or already taken.

You have raw material, so grow it and own it. Why did you sleep with her if you knew she was not beautiful enough.

It's sad, she may be somewhere thinking you are worth shiiit

Raw advice
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by IamHonourable1: 3:56pm On Jan 26, 2020
Mstick:
Seems like men have relationship issues more than women. Always one complain or advice, it’s well.
They're just the stupid men among us.Some day they would start asking how to Bleep their wives.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by dasparrow: 3:56pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

You are NOT ready for marriage if you need to come to an anonymous online public forum to ask us if you should marry a specific lady.

So what happens if you were to marry a beautiful lady and when she ages her beauty fades? What happens when children come and she gains weight, has stretch marks and sagging boobs due to breastfeeding? I guess you will dump her and move on to the next unfortunate woman who will foolishly give you her time.

And then you wonder why marriages are failing left, right and center. Many of you are lustful and go into marriage with unrealistic expectations. You better stay single because you lack the maturity needed to succeed in marriage! You should focus on character and not looks.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Dpundict: 3:57pm On Jan 26, 2020
Ladylite:


Is beauty really not what money can bring out?

I feel you are too poor that's why. A rich guy will give the girl all the necessary surgical prep and she will be more pretty than her ancestors.

You want to marry a beautiful lady whose beauty you didn't contribute to abi? Guess what, such ladies are either runs girls, too rich for you or already taken.

You have raw material, so grow it and own it. Why did you sleep with her if you knew she was not beautiful enough.

It's sad, she may be somewhere thinking you are worth shiiit
Leave him. Let him go and marry someone who will not allow his family to come near or hear from him at all. He may not have met the we-die-here beautiful girls who have had all the experiences of chasing after money, if you know what I mean. Lol. Well! They say na the day wey man dey marry him go realise say na the wrong person him dey marry. This should not be your case. What do I even know sef�‍♀️�‍♀️�‍♀️

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by OkunrinMeta: 3:57pm On Jan 26, 2020
Next2Bezee:


Something is seriously wrong with you. If you know that her beauty was an issue for you, why did you lead her on for so long? You have already wasted her time and ruined her life, but it's better to leave her than cheat on her.

Don't be surprised if you don't find a girl more beautiful than her, and even if you do, she won't care for you as much as this jilted girl did.

Please, leave her; let her soulmate find her. We have one life to leave: stop wasting hers.

One life to "live"
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:57pm On Jan 26, 2020
lexy2014:


That means u aren't familiar with human beings. There is inner beauty for human beings
Ok
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Babara1994(m): 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2020
CsRockefeller:


Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.
How old are you, sir?
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Amumaigwe: 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Can you cope with a beautiful woman's drama coupled with the exact opposite of those sublime qualities your claim your girlfriend posesses? Marriage survives more on shared value and companionship which you already have in your current girlfriend. Checkout how celebrity marriages are crashing like pack of cards. Most of them prioritize looks over character. Please be contented.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Sommydisaster(m): 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?


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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Ikjosh04: 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2020
Ladylite:


Is beauty really not what money can bring out?

I feel you are too poor that's why. A rich guy will give the girl all the necessary surgical prep and she will be more pretty than her ancestors.

You want to marry a beautiful lady whose beauty you didn't contribute to abi? Guess what, such ladies are either runs girls, too rich for you or already taken.

You have raw material, so grow it and own it. Why did you sleep with her if you knew she was not beautiful enough.

It's sad, she may be somewhere thinking you are worth shiiit


Apt
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Alashoalash10: 4:01pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?
Don't marry what is good for you but wait for Miss Nigeria mammy water that you will marry�
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by thatthing111(m): 4:01pm On Jan 26, 2020
Marry her. The girl I want to marry has 'H' factor and some crazy Yoruba accent, even though she is very educated...to doctorate level. But i don't care. The girl understands me well as we have been friends for years. I want peace of mind and someone I can grow with. Phonetics or beautiful don't matter to me no more.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Kaymaxine(m): 4:02pm On Jan 26, 2020
slimjohn2k5:
At a stage in your life you will know beauty is not what keep some men from cheating but character which include knowing how and when to talk, neatness, companionship etc
Point of correction, NOTHING can stop a man from cheating.If you like,be bathing 20 times a day,be a good cook,be quiet, respectful,homely, prayerful etc...men cannot be tamed!!!
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Emmymarvel(m): 4:02pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?
Dumbest and most stupid post have seen in a long time
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by gly(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2020
OP you have indirectly answered the question you have thrown to us your fellow Nairalander. judging by your write up, it is obvious if you Marry her, you may not have marital bliss owing to that craving of an obvious, supposed error of not beautiful enough you feel spoilt the show, especially if you are the party type. My advise for you is this: Go back to your real self and ask your real self what you genuinely want in a marriage not this corny write up you have posted here. Again !many have missed a real gold by looking at its raw state before the work of a Goldsmith on it.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by CsRockefeller(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2020
Babara1994:

How old are you, sir?

I'm in my late 20s. Why did you ask?
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by EfonAlaaye2023(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2020
let's see your picture first before advising you. guys are becoming day by day. go and marry over pretty lady that many guys will be helping you to share or the one that can dump your sorry ass to someone richer than you in future


we are waiting to see how handsome you're. that's how destiny will be lining you behind someone that will stay and stick with you forever and you will be using your infatuation to prove stubborn


you better be warned IK ogbonna etc can tell you more

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by PapaAdanna: 4:07pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Untill you are mature enough to get married... But for now enjoy your juvenile, while it lasts
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Otunba2004(m): 4:08pm On Jan 26, 2020
CsRockefeller:


Sir, let me tell you this for free. You won't forget this advice whether it goes well or not.

Forget beauty..... Forget money...... Forget tribe..... Forget culture..... Only thing I can tell you is not to forget religion.

I haven't seen life too much, but, o have seen much of the years life has given me.

One day, you will either curse or bless yourself with the choice you have made about a spouse.

You will bless yourself if you are happy. It doesn't matter if you are happy in a hut or in a mansion. If a woman loves you sincerely and genuinely without any superficials, you will be happy. If she loves and respects you despite your highs or your lows, you will be happy. And if you are happy, you will live long, surmount your troubles and age gracefully.

If you think these words I type don't mean anything, in 20 to 30 years you will look back and remember today.

I am one person who had sworn never to get married outside my tribe, but, I can be in a river and still be thirsty.

Don't trade peace of mind and happiness for any other thing.

Give it time and everything I'm saying will soon make sense to you..... Give it time.
waow this is wisdom, very great advice,if you're not marry here on nairaland plz follow this advice very strong
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by BecomeALandLord(m): 4:08pm On Jan 26, 2020
Na small pikin dey worry you.
Who beauty help?
Bro if it's marriage, Character is the main thing ooh.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by Liposure: 4:11pm On Jan 26, 2020
Breaking up with her is not d issue but finding your preferred replacement 4 her. Remember a bird in hand is worth 2 in d bush n all dat glitters is not gold. So, My brother tink b4 u make d greatest mistake of your life.

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Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by ShopNextDoor: 4:12pm On Jan 26, 2020
Please post your recent picture
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by divineuk(m): 4:13pm On Jan 26, 2020
Don’t marry someone out of pity
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by ibechris(m): 4:13pm On Jan 26, 2020
Since u have decided in ur mind that if u marry her u will cheat.

I want u to know this,even if u gets married to the most beautiful lady out there u will still cheat cos,not because u said it,but because it's already ingrained in your mind to do it.

Ask those men who got married to beautiful woman how far?

One thing is for sure,beauty does not keep a man neither does being handsome keep a marriage. Everything boils down to who u are and marrying that wonderful character.
Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by thecommunist(m): 4:14pm On Jan 26, 2020
forget beauty, marry her! needless to say that beauty fades but character is resilient.
a beautiful woman today may totally loose her beauty in a matter of years, if that happens to you, would you then divorce your once beautiful wife and marry another beautiful one whose beauty may fade again?

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