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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2020
TomMary:
Please drop the name of your company or boss .. I want to send in my CV in advance in case you enter trouble...

Its like you don't value your job
if you a nurse and in UK I can help with that

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by safarigirl(f): 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
she's from Indonesia and she won't do anything regardless, either Yes or No
how far?

She don answer you?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by guychidile: 6:28pm On Feb 13, 2020
but why?
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by HARDDON: 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
she's young, I'm not asking her out, its just to jokingly tell her about being a second option

Why be a second option? When u can gallantly take the first sit?

How can you be too good for her, yet you are trying to be an assistant bf? undecided

There is a logo you should have: Always Go For What you want.

However, while at it, I'd always advise, don't dip you pen in the company's ink.... It always back fires and you'd be caging yourslef.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by lordkrys(m): 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
she has matured mind and thinks before she reacts

I think, that you think, that she thinks diffrent from the way most ladies in her position thinks. Thats good thinking for you.

But you cant just THINK it away.

Pardon me. Am just thinking out loud.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by sholay2011(m): 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2020
budaatum:
Can somone please find this person one of the many threads of those who complimented their boss on whatsapp and had to start looking for another job.
Savage grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by pocohantas(f): 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2020
Depends on the kind of surbodinate.

I have subordinates who are older than me, educated, well-spoken and only report to me because of the terms of our employment. I can go on a date with such.

However, I would never date a colleague. Two of my colleagues dated and brokeup. They are currently making the unit uncomfortable for us. Office romance? Count me out.

If you are ready to deal with whatever comes out of it, you can give it a shot.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Wumi261(m): 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2020
Please, you can send me your company's address so I can submit my CV. Depression of unemployment can reset someone's faculty of reasoning.

Orisirisi
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by niphemey: 6:30pm On Feb 13, 2020
Bros fire down... no mind all those guys trying to discourage you... let’s know how it turns out later though. I have a feeling she’d accept your offer.
iphi:
I can find another job, can I find a woman as humble as she can be? I wouldn't know unless I find out, and I'm playing it safe too

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by OlawaleBammie: 6:31pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
like I said we chat and laugh over her pictures sometimes, she has never taken it up to no one

U no wan here abi?? i piri u


This one no knw say na neijiria hin dey
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:31pm On Feb 13, 2020
Lonelypacifist6:
Dude she's only trying to nice by Chatting with you, A lot Women don't respect those who are subordinate to them. Just make sure you don't exit the workforce.
long time before now, I thought about that, then started a discussion about this scenario to see how she would react, it was a positive response, gave me more hope

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by JasonScoolari: 6:31pm On Feb 13, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
I understand the feelings you are referring to, so because she is a boss she does not need toasters? Is she not a single woman? Guys younger than me, or of lower socio economic status, ask me out atimes, I don't insult, a simple ''no'', and off I go. I cannot understand why a woman should be rude. However if you are suspicious she's not in need of a man in her life, then no diggidies!
Well, what I noticed about her is that she's always happy when I am around herand she doesn't mind what other people think or say when she cracks some naughty jokes with me.... Sometimes, I feel uncomfortable and most times she feel relaxed sharing some personal stuff with me.

I remember settling some issues she had with her boyfriend last year and advise her to get naughty with him, but instead, she got all naughty with me indirectly...

This same lady gift me a phone as a birthday present and have been so helpful when I was broke... She's two years older but she sees me as her senior.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Obodo999(m): 6:32pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.

It is risky either way. What if she agrees as you hope? you will be obliged to marry her. And for the fact women don't fuvk for nothing or in secret, both of could loose your jobs if your affairs get uncovered. Please don't ask her out.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Feb 13, 2020
Gwagone:
Odikwa very okay bros
No crime at all

Y u commit d risky
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Meteng: 6:32pm On Feb 13, 2020
Man die go, bro. Opportunity knocks but once, yours is here, grab it or forever remain mute

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by JasonScoolari: 6:33pm On Feb 13, 2020
nelszx:

Say after me ...... Fatal accident
Ghastly accidents don't involve loss of life
Many thanks bro.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:33pm On Feb 13, 2020
frozen70:


In as much as I appreciate your courage, I will suggest you gift her a flower and an icream tomorrow morning and tell her happy valentines day and you did like to take her out after work

It's up to her to accept it or reject it

If she does, take her out treat her nicely and take her back home without misbehaving

That will give her the impression that you are not after her position or her money

Leave her to pound over the care and love you showed to her

From there, you can take up

But if she turns it down, never mind and don't get discouraged, keep trying

But you have to define the kind of relationship you want from her

The key is
don't show any form of desperation, gently and easy flow makes her dance to you

But if you just want to have a fling or hit and run

Just respect yourself and stay away from her
wow!!! Beautiful see why I brought this here... Hmmm... Although its winter here, I have other ideas in my head for the ice cream... Thanks
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2020
officialfestus:
My stake on this is,she will agree and over 2.5
grin grin
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by SURElee(f): 6:34pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
My boss posted on her WhatsApp story "Who will be my Val" and other series of messages concerning taking her out for Val.

I'm older than her and she respects me, deep down I really like her, I don't know if I should ask her playfully, we chat a lot. I tease her a little bit when she posts a picture that is not fine and we laugh over it.

I want to tell her if she is unsuccessful in her search for a date I can be her back up plan. I don't know if it's a good idea to tell her that. I need honest and matured opinions please.


Ask her out to a Val date, but don't say you can be her "back up" plan biko. Don't downgrade yourself and it will. Make you seem like you want to play with her emotions and using the term "back up", make you seem not serious.

Just ask her out, enjoy the time together, talk about things and see how things pan out from there.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by bluefilm: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
Why not?

No harm in trial.

The worst that can happen afterwards is you get an instant sack.

But even at that, it is still not yet the end of your life.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
You no well bro cheesy


lordkrys:


I think, that you think, that she thinks diffrent from the way most ladies in her position thinks. Thats good thinking for you.

But you cant just THINK it away.

Pardon me. Am just thinking out loud.
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by egopersonified(f): 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
proclinician:
Oga pls don't do it. It's just less than 10 months to Christmas.
grin how did Christmas enter this matter

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Luckysbab: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
iphi:
ouch!!! Too late already sent the text, no reply yet

We're waiting cheesy
Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by WarriAproko: 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
Post who will I take out for Val tommorow

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2020
Nathphil:
Please this is not nollywood ooo, use your head ooo. Nah naija you dey ooo
no bro, I'm not in Nigeria and she's not Nigerian

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Tblesd: 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2020
Nigga! There is a way to go about it. First read the kind of boss u av, if she is a kind of lady that understands life in a western way. U should tell her. If she is a type of Nigeria lady, leave her so that you won't lose ur job. There is no job in Nigeria. Go and find ur val elsewhere.

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by MUTERIKA(m): 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2020
pocohantas:
Depends on the kind of surbodinate.

I have subordinates who are older than me, educated, well-spoken and only report to me because of the terms of our employment. I can go on a date with such.

However, I would never date a colleague. I am not ready to resign my job for a man or initiate any move that starts such romance.

Two of my colleagues dated and brokeup. They are currently making the unit uncomfortable for us. Office romance? Count me out.
Are they throwing tantrums at one another ni? grin
pocohantas:
Depends on the kind of surbodinate.

I have subordinates who are older than me, educated, well-spoken and only report to me because of the terms of our employment. I can go on a date with such.

However, I would never date a colleague. I am not ready to resign my job for a man or initiate any move that starts such romance.

Two of my colleagues dated and brokeup. They are currently making the unit uncomfortable for us. Office romance? Count me out.
Are they throwing tantrums at one another ni?

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Kendollar696(m): 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2020
bro.. tease her, from there find your way through her tone, responses. Do that asap,dont chicken away..

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by ogbpascal: 6:36pm On Feb 13, 2020
JasonScoolari:
I equally want to do same with my boss, but I am scared.... She lost her boyfriend recently to a fatal motor accident, just wanna take her out tomorrow just to make her feel relaxed but...... Hmmmm!!!

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by iphi(m): 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2020
Indispensable85:
A man is a man irrespective of class and status.Women like men who are bold and confident.
I am currently dating a lady well above me in class and status.It started with one step of boldness.
Our love has grown in leaps and bounds since then.
thanks man... Boost for me

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by gbaskiboy: 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2020
mtinfx:
Village is pressing someone's forehead day and night


cheesy grin
Yanga dey sleep jejely trouble go wake am

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Re: Can I Ask My Boss Out For Valentine? by Ghokes(m): 6:37pm On Feb 13, 2020
You are just about to be thrown into the labour market if you go this way

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