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Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake .

I think my relationship just ended . Something we both cherish .

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year , but I wasnt commited at all and she knew it and left . Back then in school she kept going to my phone and ofcourse she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart , I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down . She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it.
We finally met and resolve all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware . She fits perfectly to my ideal woman . Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect .

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out . What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past . She was forced to go into it after she left school . Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back . But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house . She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time , she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.
Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over . Didn't talk to her about it.
We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again . Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again . The she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us . That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that . This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring . I love this girl real good . Never loved anyone like this before .
But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.
I should have stayed away from her phone . But guys, is not my fault , I love this girl and I am serious about it

Biafrareform:
.

If Karma really pay us all for our deeds, then we all be gone by now . There will be none left on this planet earth

Drince:
Honestly i have nothing to say...

Your answer lies in Olamide baado hands, listen to WONMA...
The truth is in that song...

Modified
Let me give you a hint of the lyrics..
Ole tobi lorun wonmado
To ba to bi lorun wonmado
Ole te ASHANA lorun
(it means you can be huge, muscular, but you can never satisfy a wh ore, they will still 4k her)
To ba gbe vacation WON MADO
Fi ow o se renovation WONMADO
Ko fine bi ti rihanna WON MADO
Ki epo e dun bi banana
WON MADO
To ba mo jo bi chris brown WON MADO
(this part means, if you like take her on vacation, spend your money on renovation, so she can be beautiful as rihanna, your joystick and balls might be as sweet as banana, if you can dance like chris brown, at the end they will still 4ck her)

Hope you've learnt something from him..
Lastly
To ba wun e ko lo magun, won ma fun doggy ama lagun.
If you like use charms on her, they will 4ck her till she sweats..
Bro just kindly meet Ubunja and take your prescription in advance. Just one redpill.

Biafrareform:
.

I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

DominusPrime:
As always girls will always defend themselves when they see rubbish. You obviously won't see where he mentioned she is serving. Deep down you know you can never allow your own brother Mary such a who.re. but cos na NL and you ladies have this inborn instinct to pity girls or defend them cos it's what most of you already do you simply spew trash.

alexistaiwo:
She will be back.

When she does..... Give her a deadline to end it and if the deadline is not met.

Save yourself from unnecessary stress and take a walk.


Best of luck bro.

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake .

I think my relationship just ended . Something we both cherish .

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year , but I wasnt commited at all and she knew it and left . Back then in school she kept going to my phone and ofcourse she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart , I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down . She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it.
We finally met and resolve all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware . She fits perfectly to my ideal woman . Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect .

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out . What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past . She was forced to go into it after she left school . Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back . But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house . She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time , she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.
Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over . Didn't talk to her about it.
We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again . Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again . The she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us . That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that . This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring . I love this girl real good . Never loved anyone like this before .
But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.
I should have stayed away from her phone . But guys, is not my fault , I love this girl and I am serious about it

Monaco2:
What brand of phone is that ?!?

Biafrareform:
Mi 9T

Biafrareform:
.

I believed we all have past. Even myself have got a past. Same as you .

I believe everyone deserves a chance . A willing heart ready to change though.

And I also believed no one is perfect . The only bad girl out there is the one you have discovered her past .
There are many who we see as good , but undiscovered bad side .

Lamanii22:
Maddo... Olamide's crazy lol

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake .

I think my relationship just ended . Something we both cherish .

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year , but I wasnt commited at all and she knew it and left . Back then in school she kept going to my phone and ofcourse she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart , I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down . She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it.
We finally met and resolve all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware . She fits perfectly to my ideal woman . Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect .

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out . What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past . She was forced to go into it after she left school . Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back . But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house . She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time , she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.
Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over . Didn't talk to her about it.
We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again . Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again . The she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us . That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that . This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring . I love this girl real good . Never loved anyone like this before.
But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.
I should have stayed away from her phone . But guys, is not my fault , I love this girl and I am serious about it

LilMissFavvy:
Let her get a job. Lack of funds could be the reason.

RisenPhoenix:
There is nothing like 'managing a woman like that'. Either you control them or they control you. And there are no worthy responsible women beyond 21 that are still single. If they were really worthy and responsible they would have been married off long before.

You would consider it nonsense because you do not fit the criteria; being over 21 and therefore past your prime, so I can understand your opposition.

And by the way, a worthy and responsible lady typically should be able to make her points known without resorting to insults and abuse; which are usually perceived as being the tools of a street tart; in every other sentence... just saying.

Fountainofyouth:
Lawd where do these sets come out from So ladies who chose not to get married at age 21 or below, who are also chaste are automatically irresponsible because you said so? Lmao, the beauty of nairaland is that it gives slow people the opportunity to spew a truck load of trash, thereby making them feel cool with themselves lol.

Yes I do not fit the criteria because I'm way past 21, and there is nothing like prime, at least not for singles, example is the 20 year old on this thread wasting away with a married man, something that not all ladies above her age have done, so what do we call the 20 year old? An old prime? Common sense is truly not common.

It is only a street tout, a below par male, that will comfortably call above 21 ladies unworthy and irresponsible, thinking it is not an insult, that will have the audacity to call out someone who rightly fed him the same vomit he spew out, nonsense.

RisenPhoenix:
Of course there is a prime; biological as well as psychological. For women above 21, their sexual value is diminished the longer they age, they have likely had multiple sexual partners, from secondary school mate through park tout to sugar daddy. Most would have had at least one abortion, sometimes more. Their multiple sexual exposure would have eradicated any modicum of honesty, modesty or contentment with one man. And they would have perfected the art of pretence and emotional manipulation which all women seem to be born with. And their ease of manipulating men for money would have given them an attitude of disrespect towards all men. Plus they will be more confident in using gutter language indiscriminately. Plus they have a higher risk of giving birth to unhealthier children as they approach their 30s. And the amount of food they will eat among other ecpense outlay to their husbands is the same.

How can those women still retain their worth and value to a man who wants to marry them? It is like contemplating between buying a 2020 brand new high spec model of vehicle and a 1980s overused model at the same price. Which would you buy, honestly?

Fountainofyouth:
How can one human being lack common sense, cognitive dissonance and facts of life? There are girls who started all these at a tender age of 17, and still counting, who have no desire to stop anytime soon, just like the 20 year old here, are you really this ignorant?

Now you are saying "most, likely, those", meaning you clearly know not all are like that but you like to blab just to get a pat from your ilks here, you are confused.


Dude we have 1980s cars that are still brand new, they still make these cars and they are more expensive than what we have now, they are called vintage cars in case you lack knowledge on that, and there are 2020s cars that some people have bought and overused and are willing to sell right now, use these analogy on the rubbish you typed.

RisenPhoenix:
Yes there are. I did not preach that ALL 21 year olds are worthy. Only that all those who are worthy are below 21. Don't worry, I have time today, I will help you to understand English, and use the simplest words I know.

'Most, likely, those' applies to the specific negative attribute pointed out. For example, I am aware that not all women over 21 have had an abortion, so I needed to use 'most'. However, this does not mean that the woman who has not aborted her foetus still retains value after 21. She will certainly be deficient in some other way, manners, attitude, beauty etc.

How can a 'used 1980s car' be brand new? And hoe can a new 2030 model be overused? I think U specifically used the words brand new and used in my comment. Talk about not seeing what does not push your agenda.

Fountainofyouth:
You see all that I bolded? They have disqualified your very first comment, in case you've forgotten what you typed, go back and read it, and that your reply to Op when he said she's 20, modify the "wow she's 20" to "oh not surprised, there are some very young girls like that", and next time chose your words wisely so that you won't be caught in a lie and confused state,

Fountainofyouth:
FYI, you clearly do not know when to ise the word "agenda" cos I'm wondering where it can be applied here, Google sentences for words,

Fountainofyouth:
If you don't know vintage cars, I feel sad for you, if you don't know they still make brand new 80s cars for people who like it, I'm double sad for you, if you think there are no used 2020 cars presently, and people willing to sell theirs, then I'm triple sad for you,

Do you live in the future? 2030? Lmao.

RisenPhoenix:
Sighh! Don't worry, we will get there. Might take time because you don't seem too smart, but I'll try my best to get you there.

Eng101.
All women over 21 are not worthy. Statement 1
All women under 21 are worthy. Statement 2

Statement 1 is true does not mean that statement 2 is true. They are independent of each other. Simply put, what I originally said was that for a woman to be worthy, she must be under 21, but that does not mean that ALL women under 21 are worthy.




I mean your underlying motives and intentions in the quest to prove that women over 21 are still worthy. The word agenda is applicable here.



Yet I clearly used the words 'brand new' and 'used' in my comment. You are saying that a used car can be brand new and a brand new car can be used. And I'm the confused one here? This here is exactly why I do not have more than one-sentence conversations with women. I'm beginning to wonder what possessed me today. A sense of pity for your extreme lack of understanding, maybe?

Biafrareform:
Good morning all, for those still awake.

I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.

Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .

After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .

Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.

Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .

I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.

Well, I love her was ready to stay with her.
She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.

We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media.
I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts.
She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it.
She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.

She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.

She was completely devastated with my findings.
Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.

But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.

I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it.

fulaniHERDSman:
You are dealing with an audacious whorre. Flee now and spare your future kids the agony of a harrlot mom.