franchasng:
life is predestined, whatever will be will be; que sera sera...who you will marry is who you will marry, if you will die single or widowed or widower, you will. We can only wish otherwise in life, at the end, our destiny controls how our life panes out.


Many will argue this, but it's also because they are destined to argue this today

MhizJoyce:

Lol..short and boring

XhosaNostra:


That's Yiddish lol. It's one of those words English borrowed from other languages.

Deeminaj:
I had this amazing guy but we had to break up because he was trying to make me be his kinda person,am a little bit hairy and he said i should shave my hairs off totally,like WTF,am comfortable with my hairs thats the way i was created,a lot of people has actually told me they like it.he always wanted me to beg him for every little thing and i dnt flow well with that ,i can be headstrong most times,i could not take it anymore so we broke up,tho we are still good friends,we call each other once in a while

adebayo111:
she is beautiful and obedient but she fornicate. she made me broke a relationship of 4yrs.

Bblessing37:
Dude just came up one day and told me he needed space.after everything I did for him. Go over to his place every weekends ,to cook, clean and , wash for him ,even assisted him with cash times without numbers,when he had non. I almost commmited sucide when he told me it was over between us.cus I was so much in love with him . Guess he was just using me, and never loved me. Heart breaks are painful sha. I had to pick up my broken pieces and move on.. I wish him good lucks. But I know he will never find a woman like me.

XhosaNostra:


That's Yiddish lol. It's one of those words English borrowed from other languages.

koffos:
.. nah you lying. how would you have a slippers. how often do you get touched.. no you can't.

but you did the belittling first.. you measured the guy up all because he was scared of dogs. who knows if it's just a phobia or he's just that has some allergy to dogs. you can't tell.. but you concluded he was a coward and can't be with.. so to me you started.. while I was only playing around by saying those weakling thing cause I sure as hell didn't mean it.



sorry

merahki:


I have been accused of being singularly self involved, stubborn, impulsive, wild and rather too independent
And would refuse to cook almost all the time
So I am not the your typical “amazing”, and, I am an evening (no, make that night) newspaper oo
My point? Your posit is very untrue
Just saying

angelfallz:

Okay. Maybe you two can get back together. The way you both call out to each other is wonderful. Lol

Ishilove:

Nah, we can't. We are forever out of each other's reach.

angelfallz:

Lol Nigerian men break bottles on their head just to start a fight. Anyway, you can't generalise. If it's aggressive manly men you want they are plenty in Nigeria.

MrBrownJay1:
yep.... I was moving to the other side of the world, and i dont believe in LDR.



so for 8 long years you guys didnt know you were related NOR have you met her parents?!

Exodora:
I know he cheat but the one that annoyed me more was when I caught him with my cousin . I just pretend I didn't see them and that was the end. I don't even have time to start explaining anything to anybody .

angelfallz:

Oh no . Anyway God knows best.

SpartanKing:
Yiddish is offensive to the Jews!

XhosaNostra:


I'm going by the Nigerians I've seen here. That's how they fight. Talk, talk, talk, take off shirt & then talk some more. Like watching the chippendales at work
South African guys love knives. You hear the click of an okapi opening & you know it's about to go down. Anyway, I'm not a fan of violence, so I really don't care who fights dirtier. My statement was to rebut the claims made by the other guy.

luvyaself95:

Russia language to be precise.

Ishilove:

Heh. We are not violent people.

gypsey:
My ex wife, very good woman, a doctor in a hospital. She divorced me, accused me of having sex with her sister, i tried everything to get her to take me back but she refused.

Now the question is, did i slept with her sister? yes! only one time, me and her sister had drank alot of whiskey and smoked some weed that night, it wasn't intentional



ever since, i ve been married 2 times and divorced 2 times including her own making 3 times and i am still single now..

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Let's not go there. I grew up around daring men who grab a knife by the blade, hence I cannot be with a weasel of a man. South African men set that standard for me, not foreign men. Nigerian men talk & take off their clothes South African men, DO. They're not big talkers or strippers. South African men are many things, but cowards & sissies, they're not. They have way too much aggression to be cowards.
TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle

Ecne:
I secretly bugged her phone and the rest was history... that kind of breakup the person wouldn't even know but you're still in good terms.
Still get her messages till date.

Guys, bug that phone today and thank me later.

XhosaNostra:

How so?

lizychimamanda:
He was amazing, was my best, we broke up countless times and still came back... I gave him 10years of my life.... I had to support him financially just so things will work out yet he called me one day and told me that his pastor said am not for him... That was how I JAPA oo.. I Know the best is on the way

Jaubdu:
once dated a South African,so I understand where you are coming from.Btw why do your girls like vodka?

vickydevoka:

I understand you bro. Buh with tym u go get use to am. U fit off light join. If White men de fui*k black for blue film who come be us... Just try am, las Las u go alright

XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.