₦airaland Forum

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

SS 3 and SS 2?

You guys don't have ordinary 15k for abortion?

Look for a way to scope your sister and get some money, and your bf should look for a way to scope his brother too. Alternatively, confess to your sister. She will be disappointed in you, but will find a solution.

I'm not supporting abortion, but you guys are too tender to go the family way. It may ruin both of you

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

you are so ship and useless

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

Born the pregnancy
Don't abort the pregnancy
Give birth to your pregnancy
And if its a girl, name her Nancy.
Yould be surprised your friends will fancy your pregnancy especially when its a girl and you name her Nancy.


Happy pregnancy.

Just two bottles and already I'm feeling dizzy

donbachi:
Every exam get result..show dem ur report get.

Is a positive result indeed. She should show it proudly!

Incest? How? Is it her broda who imprrgnated her?

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Make them do small thing for your head lol. Then you are officially married.

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

There is no incest here. She didn't sleep with her brother. She slept with her brother-in-law. It's not incest biko.

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

incest? How is it incest

Most of you condemning her here have committed abortion or aided one, if you can't advise her on what to do just go to the next post

At this time of critical issues?
Hmm, but this is not the world's priority right now. People get pregnant every day. Tell the man, let him decide what he wants to do with you and the baby and deal with the consequences.

Intellectuals still exist,no doubt!

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

DM

Modified;

please, don't DM, I have changed my mind. I wanted to give you money in order not to jeopardize your future. I'm sure having a child at this age will probably jeopardize your future, but you are already 8 weeks gone and still counting. Abortion is no longer safe at this period.

If I give you money and something goes wrong...

Good luck.

I pity you dear, out of ignorance you have found yourselves in a confused situation.....
Believe me that your sister knows you are pregnant because you can't stay 8 weeks pregnant in the same house with her and she won't know, so no need of hiding it from her.....

But I will advise you check between two of them( your sister and her husband) who understands life more better and who can handle the situation well, run to the person and lay down from the beginning how it all started.....

I believe the right decision will come out from it, pls don't go and do one nasty thing.....

Your sister and her husband might be
discussing this issue even before you brought it up and they don't know what to do, so go to them pls

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

If you like the Guy, please don't tell your sister. Tell the husband you are pregnant for the brother, he should relate it well to your sister. Congratulations by the way. Try and keep the baby. In time to come, you will be glad you did. Remember, tell your brother inlaw first about it.

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

This must be a joke right?


Orisirisi.. for this Coronavirus period where panic full town.

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

It's not even incest as they are not related by blood

When you are enjoying yourself with big dick it never cross you mind that it will result to going back home abi
Look you better respect yourself and carry your cross don't try that abortion, don't ever kill that innocent baby
You have to get married to that guy since you want to start eating senior people food.
Don't worry your sister will not send you back to village rather you are your sister will be Nwuye di that her Brother In-law most marry you ooo no going back hahahaha osim send back if I may ask who is your sister sending you back to your Mum or what?na your house impregnated your ?
No way you will be with the guy that impregnated you Don't worry I will help you tell yiur sister ok

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

You have sex without condom?

Exponental:
Condom has been the cheapest commodity I know after sachet water..... Was it so hard to use one? Anyway, personally I don't support abortion but do what you have to do.

is condom that efficient?

Chamber2000:
Can you beat your chest and tell us you have never had abortion before?

You must be a financier of several abortions which makes it hard for you to believe not everyone is as reckless as you are.

What a fuckiňg big fûckery family!
Lolz lolz.

This world has spoil chaii, little wonder God is angry with the world, chaii.
If you were my little sister, and I got to know, I'll ask you, if you want to keep it or not! But the truth is abortion comes with risk, if anything miss, na die be dat! If you born am it comes with huge responsibilities especially for a secondary school student like you.
@Ngozey

How much is d&c that both of you cannot raise in days Na DNA una wan do ni....

Sisijetue:
That’s the least of our worries for now ma’am
You will be alright laslas

You fuckers!




Did you read what she wrote at all?

akmath:
Na 11 months women de carry belle dis days abi?

LOL most people do naming ceremony and child dedication like 2-3 months later.
Anyways, I will be available to eat party rice even if it is 6 months later.

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

Your points appear hash but with several underlining facts. Social media is buttered with edited lives where many pretend & presenting selves as a saint when ditching opinions. The lady knows what to do, she is only seeking the best ways to accomplish that & perhaps some little confidence to implementing it. A day like this would have somehow be envisaged when they decided to swim completely unclad & frequently since they live together. Nigerians are what they are with so much preferences to religion but in the true sense far from what religion truly represents in practice.

If you ask me na who I go ask??

KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Technically, it is not incest.

I have seen this scenario play out before. Everyone will blame you. Even your sister will shift away. If I were you, I would first inform my sister and both of you tell her husband. This lies more on the type of sister you have. You must open up and tell them. If they try to make your life miserable, tell your parents.

My dear, when u take a decision in life, be ready to face the consequences or benefits it brings u.
Its high time for youngsters to know that sex is for the married ones. U are destroying ur destiny when u engage in premarital sex. Pls, pls, u should stop all this act. Stop nailing Jesus back to the cross after all the sacrifices he made on our behalf..
Pray for mercy. Face the consequences

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Simply tell your sister. Pray to God.

Any other option will lead to bad consequences.

Ensure you finish your SSCE.

Your desperation and youth ignorance will lead you to a quack doctor who'll ruin your womb and life forever.

Your english seems good though need some polishing. You'll go places if you believe in yourself despite an outcome you don't like.

Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Please report yourself. We were once your age. Do you think they were not once your age? They might even have done worse things.

Inform your sister's husband. He might be the one to break the news to your sister. Yes, they may first be enraged and may even hit you but it's just emotional reaction.

Within a day or 2, reality sinks in and they become rational and a solution is proferred.
Also, don't be worried about being sent back to the village

If that happens, beg them to no end. Call them everyday. Even if for months. That will break them. As long as they are sure youll not repeat such, you're good.

2 decades down the line, and you look back and giggle. You won't giggle if you visit a quack doctor.