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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by WiseStarr(m): 8:17am On Mar 29, 2020
Bro,saying a lot of words to her won't change anything, instead prove yourself to her,show her love and some loyalty, she will be freaked by your cleanliness and loyalty, everyone had that first impression but soon as you get closer anf closer that fear of the unknown will disappear
And she will fall for you


Keep checking on her and always find a means or ways to show your loyalty to her.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Olisehinnocent: 8:19am On Mar 29, 2020
Buy her horse with dick grin grin grin

Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by AMI3(m): 8:22am On Mar 29, 2020
jahlove4jah:
Don't let her see you as being desperate. Be your self. Check up on as much as you can. Go out together with her if she is cool. Give her time to know you and for you to get to know her. Sometimes it is not just the physical features we admire that counts, bit what the person brings to the table. Time will settle everything.
exactly my thought
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by adanny01(m): 8:29am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Get her to a date. Keep her as a friend till she knows who you are.

Its good that she has found you to be too attractive, meaning she admires you but is afraid plenty other girls would be at your beck and call. She is right, so you have the challenge of convincing her.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Justarandomguy: 8:33am On Mar 29, 2020
Then keep been clean.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Amozever12: 8:36am On Mar 29, 2020
MrRichieMoney:
Most girls are naturally scared of beautiful girls but love them so much. just give her the assurance you will never cheat on her and you are good to go brother. i speak from experience
handsome guys , u wanted to say.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:37am On Mar 29, 2020
Angelou:
Does the fact that he looks attractive makes u feel insecure?
So you really want to remain the delectable one in the pair as an advantage?

Did you read my post carefully and noted the superlatives?

I like attractive men, clean, tidy, nice dress sense, always smelling nice... but there's an extent to those things that becomes damn right unattractive for me.

You've not seen a typical pretty boy? LOL. Fair-skinned, would even bleach to ensure that complexion is always fair...overly fashionable... moves about with a hair brush and a perfume to touch up every fifteen minutes...if there's even one crease on their recently ironed outfit, it will be taken back to the dry-cleaner for re-ironing. They can't sit, or walk comfortably because the clothes are too tight, and they don't want it creased. Lol. That kinda guy... nehh, I don't want.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:40am On Mar 29, 2020
Plead:


Why shouldn’t he pay attention to his appearance? I never knew looking good is exclusive to the female gender.


And you don't read to comprehend. Where did you read that he shouldn't pay attention to his appearance?
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Amozever12: 8:40am On Mar 29, 2020
Bro, if u try to convince her and she refuses to believe, then let her be, because the worst thing in any rship or marriage is lack of trust. A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 8:42am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and[b] very straight legs[/b]. She basically looks like them models we see on IG grin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

Sorry to say, you are going into a relationship for all the wrong reasons. Do you just want fork her or you need a committed relationship? Do you want someone you can build a career with? I didn't see your highlight her skills, her career...

All I see is a toddler interested in trophy babes that he can show off. Under Nigerian setting, this relationship will not last and you will learn a bitter lesson that you will never forget.

Telling you that you are too clean is just to mess with you head and that is a red flag... I am not surprised she would say such because girls in the category she falls into based on your description are like that. They will mess with your head and the worse thing you will do is to be obsessed with such girls.

No b curse but this relationship will end in tears cos it starting on wrong note. But if you just want to smash and waka... you should carry on.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:43am On Mar 29, 2020
scaramucci:


I take my bath and change my boxers at least two times a day and my girlfriend also thinks that I am too clean as a boy.

For me, that's standard hygiene and it's great. Maybe she's used to being with people who wear one boxers for a whole week and bathe just once a day.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by candy2016(f): 8:45am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
....y r, i think there r other n better girls out there who will accept you for who you are just let her go pls

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 8:48am On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


Did you read my post carefully and noted the superlatives?

I like attractive men, clean, tidy, nice dress sense, always smelling nice... but there's an extent to those things that becomes damn right unattractive for me.

You've not seen a typical pretty boy? LOL. Fair-skinned, would even bleach to ensure that complexion is always fair...overly fashionable... moves about with a hair brush and a perfume to touch up every fifteen minutes...if there's even one crease on their recently ironed outfit, it will be taken back to the dry-cleaner for re-ironing. They can't sit, or walk comfortably because the clothes are too tight, and they don't want it creased. Lol. That kinda guy... nehh, I don't want.
same goes for women. personally, if a girl is always too concerned about her looks and makeups, showing off on shosha midia... it is a turn off.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 8:49am On Mar 29, 2020
candy2016:
....y r, i think there r other n better girls out there who will accept you for who you are just let her go pls
he wont let her go, what he does not know is that the girl is messing with his head.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by remedick: 8:53am On Mar 29, 2020
WiseStarr:
Bro,saying a lot of words to her won't change anything, instead prove yourself to her,show her love and some loyalty, she will be freaked by your cleanliness and loyalty, everyone had that first impression but soon as you get closer anf closer that fear of the unknown will disappear
And she will fall for you


Keep checking on her and always find a means or ways to show your loyalty to her.
All this one na story... I would never go near a girl like he described her ever again. their head no correct.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by HRMK: 8:53am On Mar 29, 2020
LIKE SERIOUSLY?ARE U TRYING TO BE FUNNY HERE?IS SHE THE ONLY LADY IN THE WORLD OR WHAT?ANYWAY,IF UR READY TO MARRY HER,INFORM UR PASTOR WHO WILL TALK TO HER!ONCE THE PASTOR IS INVOLVED,SHE WULD TAKE U SERIOUSLY!!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by candy2016(f): 8:55am On Mar 29, 2020
Just forget her and let her be, anyone that like you for who u are will definitely come, don't beg her or do anything....that's where some girls miss it

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Dwanye(m): 8:56am On Mar 29, 2020
What she's trying to tell you is that she can sense your intents, which with what you've written down seem to be very SHALLOW. So you love her because of yanch and breast. In your mid twenties and that's the reason you want her. So wen aging takes its toll on her what would you like. Biko leave person daughter and someone's future wife.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by ridwanlawal: 8:59am On Mar 29, 2020
Try look dirty
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by jahlove4jah: 9:08am On Mar 29, 2020
AMI3:
exactly my thought
Thanks
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Glink2018(m): 9:08am On Mar 29, 2020
Someone will just sit down somewhere and be cooking up lies.

If use this corona season swear for you, it will catch use..
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by dalass(f): 9:10am On Mar 29, 2020
[quote author=OluwasureGig post=87800176]Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks[/quote

You are asking her out for dating? In church oh!

She must think you're a Bleep boy only interested in bedding her...

Tell her what you told us that you want to make her your wife.. That you'll like to know her family and that she knows yours too.. That's the serious note ladies want not these hanging out, going out etc that guys use as liberty to mess up fine gals and dump them.. If you are truly serious, am sure she'll look beyond your 'clean' facade.

You too should stop going overboard with doing fine boy. If you're using cream, stop it. It may be a turn off to her (It is to me ) Don't bleach your skin to look clean/a lady can do it but generally unacceptable to me if a guy does it.

All the best bro
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Timohstew(m): 9:28am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks


Pls stop swearing, u will still Bleep someone


Walahi
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by franklingud(m): 9:40am On Mar 29, 2020
Hope am not late with my advice but... As a real Igbo boy that I am, I am very disappointed in you.

Yes you read right. You just started making money and the first thing you did was buy a car, the next thing is to start chasing one fine girl up and down.
Bro be wise, now that money is coming in fast like that, what you should do is to build a house and put tenants.
Have a fixed source of income bro, then look for a wife.
Maybe God is saving you the pain of losing all you have if you ever date that girl.

Thank me later, forget that girl.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Zhahovic(m): 9:46am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks
..
What a stupid excuse!.. U better look for a better lady that will appreciate u. I bet this one will come for you later and say, " you didn't try hard enough "

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by FunkyAlhaji2015: 9:54am On Mar 29, 2020
Sexytincoll:
Don't pressure her if she doesn't want you.

Babe, you too fine joor.

I know fit date your type, other men no go allow me rest
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Swiftbae24: 9:59am On Mar 29, 2020
That's not a reason per say she's just not into you...

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:05am On Mar 29, 2020
remedick:
same goes for women. personally, if a girl is always too concerned about her looks and makeups, showing off on shosha midia... it is a turn off.

Now we're on the same page. cheesy

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 29, 2020
PrimadonnaO:


For me, that's standard hygiene and it's great. Maybe she's used to being with people who wear one boxers for a whole week and bathe just once a day.

Her claim is that she's the one who is supposed to be doing that. That by maintaining that standard of hygiene as a boy, I am putting her under unnecessary pressure to do better.
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Hezmatosky: 10:10am On Mar 29, 2020
Sometimes clean guys can be selfish, pompous, egocentric, insulting, unsatisfied, arrogant etc. Always looking down on someone. Notin you do that they appreciate.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Bgcentz(m): 10:12am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:

lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones


Ar swear bro !
Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by jaxxy(m): 10:13am On Mar 29, 2020
OluwasureGig:
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.
Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

The truth is that not everybody like the very fine and over kept people who are super conscious of the looks. For some it’s not even about cheating on them, it’s more of a turn off or perhaps an unnecessary gender competition.

If indeed u want that gal u will need to tone down on ur crazy assumed fine boy stunts and try and be more regular at least for now till she get safe and comfortable with ur looks which I think is a threat and turnoff for her. In other words sm gals like to be the center of attraction and not their man. Get it

Then also sm other gals don’t want a guy who competes with shampoo and pomade with them at least to extreme cases. Lol

There is no other way trust me cos that gal knows exactly what she wants and it’s totally not what ur offering right now even tho I don’t know how extreme u are..

However at the end of the day be urself and do what u like. Let people love u for u.

Then also I think Ure abit too desperate for this gal, u meet a gal and she doesn’t like u that much and Ure already thinking u want to marry her?? It’s ok if well hidden or controlled bt showing this crazy unreciprocated affection can be disastrous and counter productive. Way Too much affection way too early.

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