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titsqueez:
No need my broda... na as my spirit lead me. One love bro!!

Eulalia:
But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings.

Till today, if I go visiting this guy will be telling me him and I have an unfinished business and some annoying silly talks. So most times when I visit, I'll hide away until I go back. Mehn... It sucks!

DonroxyII:
ThanGod for street OT.

Mine was when my Boss ask me to open an account in both me and his name and we will be transferring 4m monthly from our organisation account into that account ....

I said I ain't doing that cuz my pay grade is not up to such task .... He chided me and told me nothing go happen that do I wish him evil ....... I know he wanna ride on my innocence because there are others above my pay grade who can comfortably do that nonsense.

I said no sir but anything can change anytime and I don't wanna suffer nasty consequences at the starting phase of my career. Though, I will reap many benefits from this including being his best pal (More money) .... But Good name is better than Gold ......

He was furious, He relieved me of all other normal responsibilities he has given to me .... He stopped talking to me , I even stopped greeting him self ......We started dusting each other .... Who born monkey father ....

He started plotting for me but I am not his match nor mate as a Yoruba boy ....Everybody advised me to take the offer but I said No cuz my other colleagues are all against it (Badbelle things) but I know one of them will be d one to cast me ......

In life, You have to limit your enemies and deal decisive blows on the stubborn ones ..... You shouldn't be fighting on many fronts.


Immediately he started doing nonsense, his case has already been tabled , if he no leave me alone, his hen go chop pin niyen........

Na ihm later come beg me and told me I'm weak , that I should man up If I go reach some level in life.......
. I just dey tell am Yessir, Thanks sir, ......

Guess who is visiting EFCC today ........

He is a womaniser and drunkard, who enter alliance with such fellow ......... when shi.t hit , he will deny me and serve me to EFCC ..... Oloshi

How I go dey vomit or explain wetin I no chop pass token While he will chop the chunk and still deny me since na my name will be responsible for depositing and withdrawing....

obinna2nv:
Wow that's an incredible story.. I wonder what goes through your Sister's mind when you visit. Like she knows that this guy was attracted to you at some point.
And even now, the guy doesn't want to let it go.

Please avoid visiting them if you can. Until you have your own home and family. To avoid complicating things more.

Principal87:
U don't even sound like one ......with all due respect......I'm sorry.....this is my first comment here ever

foleskay:
So your a mommy abi?

Ifylicious:
It would have been better if he came out straight to say things are not going well than not picking her calls.

maasoap:
I already applied this principle to my life since 2013.

My wife and I won USA visa lottery in 2013 and were scheduled for visa interview just second week of the 52 weeks that interviews for all the applicants were supposed to take place. No one to assist us financially, even the two brothers who could easily help us out. The lottery wasted just like that. Then, I learnt the human nature

Eulalia:
Wish I can stop going there but its not easy cos she's my twin . And you know that strong bond between twins.

CsRockefeller:
Lol.

Have u guys seen how they feed Lions in a cage?

You stand at arms length and throw the meat.

That's what I do, I help people but try my best not to get too close to them, that way, they dont get too close to me, that way, they dont hurt me.

If u think people wont hurt u in is life where God's son suffered humiliation and then death, then u are joking.

What you can do is to prevent the hurt from occuring frequently like I illustrated with feeding the Lion.

Lest I forget, people will only remember when they need help, dont get mad, help if u can but keep it mind that 80% of people you help wouldn't help you in time of ur need.

Reason is another topic for another day.

Kapish!!

bestabigaelever:
Lol... I'm just Abigael

Olofin2:
Only this post got me fascinated. Omo odo agba ni yin o.

Galactico4ever:
I saw him after four days. d guy even withdrew the money by dad transfered to the account that weekend b4 i blocked the card.i really hated that time in my life

Eulalia:
But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings

Eulalia:
Did you read my first comment at all?
I said I don't like this guy for anything and we never dated! So, where's the feeling coming from? Gosh!

QuinModah:
People will betray you, you can't escape it. What is more important is that you come out Better

Have you being betrayed before? Share your story, you might heal

Use share so others can learn


While I was working for a company. I got diagnosed of a kidney infection and was admitted in the hospital for two weeks. I was staying with my father’s elder sister at the time because my parents were here in Abuja

Two weeks of constant drugs,drips and injections on my *you know* and guess what, my aunt and her family never came to visit for one day. My friends(even tho I didn’t have a lot of them) were to busy to come see me. No company representative to pay me a visit.

Everyday I would walk to the little store close to the hospital to buy biscuits and yoghurt because no one would bring them to me.


Betrayal hurts so bad because it never comes from strangers but those of your household.

This is why I recommend people live like they are alone on this planet. Have zero expectations. Any human can become anything at anytime.When u expect so much from people, betrayal is inevitable. Live ur life without expectations.

MRAKBEE:
Let them be Abeg. U weren't serious na.
I'm afraid sth funny will happen soon if u don't avoid that guy. He is a badoo and u are enjoying the attention. Kwantinue

Eulalia:
Just stop!
Nothing is gonna happen. Not on his life.

DonroxyII:
My own analogy is like fighter jet .... Carry payload, fly it , deliver payload from afar then fly back to base as fast as you can.... God will reward you.

foleskay:
Lol. And you left him walk freely away like that. Were u afraid of him or wat to have let go like that. See u

foleskay:
And na osogbo i dey also o

Cchuks27:
But really why are Nigerians/Nairalanders always unserious? Someone asks a legit question, instead of people contributing significantly they start joking about it. Sometimes, I honestly prefer browsing Reddit because there, people will share their heartfelt experiences and you will learn a lot. Personally, I cannot remember when last I opened a meaningful thread on nairaland and learnt something without some f00ls derailing it and ultimately sabotaging the thread.

Back to your question, last night, someone special to me sold me out. Like I don't even have a problem with that but at least the person should have told me what they did instead of leaving me to my faith and hanging. It was a souring feeling I tell you.

kick:
The worst thing that can happen to you is for you to have late parents at a tender age and your only option is to go and leave with family members.

Ifylicious:
Yes oh. The government changes. It could be that that when the daughter is a graduate, the government he know would have handed over to another and secondly. He can help the posterfinish and later the poster will not remember his own child but her own siblings.
To me it wasn't betrayal. The man simply used wisdom

Eulalia:
But does it mean that people cannot control their attractions or what? That's preposterous. I mean... I can never be attracted to somebody I know is dating a friend or to my guys friend. That's greed of the highest order.

It happened to me. Like my blood line today is married to a guy that chyked me for years.
This my blood line knows that this guy tried to date me. As in he kept coming to our house look for me for months. My mum and all my siblings knew him very well. It got to a point he threatened to harm me if he sees me with any other guy but luckily, we relocated to another place. Only for my blood sister to bring this same guy as a suitor. dang!
I just keep wondering, so she had been attracted to him all this while? Someone I dislike to the core? Hm! Fear human beings.

Till today, if I go visiting this guy will be telling me him and I have an unfinished business and some annoying silly talks. So most times when I visit, I'll hide away until I go back. Mehn... It sucks!

Olamsoh:
This story reaffirms my principle when in a relationship. I don't want my friends to have a personal relationship with my woman.

And I don't want to have a personal relationship with my woman's friends. This is to avoid story that touch the heart.

Warmaterial:
Mehn one thing that I always say to myself after so many difficulties and betrayers in life, dat I was born alone, going to die alone, not with anybody. I mind my business, I work hard in order not to beg anybody. I tried and build friendship with myself , before work every morning I take my weed alone inside my house and after work in the night I take my weed alone again inside my house before enjoying my self with goodies. So many want to be my friend both male and female but I don't need a friend, some are forcing their self to be close to me but I don't need a friend. If I need a girl I will make call and pay them some if them want to be close after two times of coming around and I will cut them off and make new contacts... That's my life

Honeydenz:
Do people who win lottery pay for their travelling expenses?

Eulalia:
You dont get it...this is my my blood line!!!!! My other half!!!!
So I should not visit my sis again?
For your Info, I don't like the guy from here to there.

Now, I could remember when similar thing happened but in reverse this time.

I was crushing on one guy then. So along the line, this guy went for her. The day I discovered, he was interested in her, I zeroed my mind immediately and tried to avoid him like a plague. That is...the feelings just died cos I hate nonsense . Even the day she asked me to accompany her there, I didn't want to. She had to force me.