Ladycewhy:
Funny how one guy with an alternate account he uses for begging money here ,has an opinion on this topic

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

paix:
Are you there for their money or true love?

yanabasee:
True....


Girls from poor homes often live with high expectations. They have a believe that their body is what they can offer and they will often act like they've given so much from their body... They don't have courtesy attitude....

sagir1994:
I used to be scared dating girls from rich homes thinking they will be too entitled and ungrateful. I was wrong, I realized this now that I am engaged with a girl from a very rich family.

victorian:







So true.

My dad made me believe to be successful, a man must make many sacrifices with his time and time is wealth .

Also if one appreciates the Lil things given . It paves way for greater things in the future.
And so far such phylosophy is working for me so well.
And lastly nobody is a f.o.o.l except they decide to place a blind eye to what u r doing ..

Humanoid01:

I think there are many factors that contribute to this, it's not about coming from a poor home. There are unappreciative girls both from poor and wealthy homes.

dominique:
Broke girls can be very greedy and entitled, they're always on the lookout for who to dump their family liabilities on. Date them and realize you're adding money to pay their siblings school fees or stocking her mother's shop.

Rich girls can be very proud and arrogant. They will never hesitate to let you know how well they can live without you or your money during disagreements. Tends to flaunt their family wealth and achievements in your face from time to time. If you're the ego filled type, you may not be able to handle her.

Broke girl; greedy and entitled
Rich girl; proud and (sometimes) arrogant

Choose your poison

akaahs:

One, her mother was representing their constituency in the National Assembly. The girl is just good to everyone she comes in contact with. Sadly, we aren't together now but she always wish.

The second one, her dad is into oil and gas business. I meet her around their residence in villa. So humble too... She cheerful giver but sadly, she died last year from stomach complications.

toluleke:
That a pure fact I have told my self never marry a Jobless babe never never!!!! She must spirit willed to make something out of her life not one ass waiting for husband to bring money home. Even if na tailoring I must see that will to make something out of her life

Ofemmanu1:

I've made my mistake, and I'm carrying the cross now.
I've married a broke idiott.

Samakus:
If there's one thing I regret in life so far, it's missing out on Cynthia due to my complex issues then! Babe was a damsel from a stinkingly rich Anambra family and I, new employee in a federal school, was fidgeting about taking her on even when it was so clear that she was practically 'wetting for me'!

When I eventually mustered the courage to ask for a date. She smiled and said, ' I thought you're never gonna ask again! And on a date we went!

On that fateful day for our first date, she called me around 3pm and told me that she was at Chitis restaurant, that I should meet her up when I'm ready. Imagine your date choosing a venue for you (because you didn't tell her anyone you had in mind) and being there on time before you?

To cut it short, I wore my nice cloth, and went to Chitis. Babe was already giving herself a nice treat. Fried rice and salad with a big Chicken, plenty fried plantains and of course, a nice wine to complement! I had 2k in my pocket, and hell yes, my mind skipped when I saw what was on the table . I stepped in and she offered me a seat! I smiled sheepishly, but deep down, I was wondering where I will get extra money to complete the payment for what she ordered which obviously was more than 2k already. Need I remind that she got a big EVA bottle water too

Looking at her was difficult as this girl was a mermaid in human form! She has this cuteness about her and will make any man's heart skip a bit. Next thing I heard was, WHAT DO I GET FOR YOU? I knew that the question was for me but feigned deafness . She asked again with a smile, Hey Handsome, WHAT'S YOUR ORDER?

I looked at her in bewilderment but summoned courage to mutter, "Just rice and chicken! She asked me again: 'won't you like a drink or should I get you a wine? . I just said, no thanks, water will be good. Besides, she had a wine on the table already and i didn't see the need for another wine. She steeped to the counter, paid for my order and brought it to me.

We talked about so many things. But most of our discussions centered on our visions and plans for growth. Babe was giving me tips on businesses I can open within the campus when I get settled. For her, once she's done with school ( she's already in her finals), she will fly out to Canada for her Masters and then come back when she's done to head HR in her dad's company. I suggested to her to get her CIPM certification before doing her Masters since she had passion for Human Resources. Not ever hearing of CIPM, her likeness for me doubled.

We had a nice time and we left. She called her taxi guy to come drop her while I left for the shuttle park . She continued calling me after that and continued talking but I have already harboured the fear that her class was too high for me. Poor, naive me!! . I never took the next step with her. And she left after her graduation and became incommunicado as I never called her after our date

Looking back now, I feel like beating myself. She had everything I wanted in a woman physically. And had the right goals and penchant for success like I now do! I have seen a lot of ladies and can now appreciate what a gift, a lady with visions, plans and the right frame of mind, is for young man hustling to reach his dreams. Which girl will start discussing your visions and plans for a better life on your first date these days?

I missed Cynthia due to inferiority complex and naivity! I was young and stupid! I was 25 and just got a job in the school after finishing NYSC, when i met her. I pray I find a goal oriented Lady like Cynthia again! Because, they're very hard to come by these days!

AfroKnight:
Dating broke entitled girls is a chore. I have been lucky to avoid them. Well, any guy would spot them right from the beginning. You guys are still in the talking stage and she’s always running out of airtime. Well, she can either buy her own airtime or stay away and stop telling me about it. It won’t ever go beyond that stage for me.

A fairly comfortable working woman (or even a rich babe) is the goal especially if she takes pride in spoiling herself with her own money.

You see these brokeàss greedy babes here? There is nothing you can do rehabilitate them. It reminds me of those beggars on the road who would return to begging the next day, even if you gave them 100K cash at once. Why?

Cos they believe such fortune would come again soon.

That’s how these broke babes think. Once they land a guy who spends on them, they think their chances are getting better. They stay on the lookout for a richer, more generous guy to latch on to. Loyalty doesn’t exist in their dictionary. This is probably because poverty has affected them so bad, they never want to smell it even from afar. That’s cool. But a transactional relationship is not the only way out of poverty.

Guys, if you are not one who thinks to trap a woman with your money, then avoid broke and entitled women. They add no value. You’d check your life after 6 months and find out that all you enjoy in the relationship is sex which you have to pay for anyway. That’s a loss. No motivation. No support. You can’t even ask for her opinion on issues cos she’s not interested in anything that isn’t money or gifts.

Go for a woman who works for her money and doesn’t bother you for mundane things like money for hair and shopping. Go for a woman whose financial plan doesn’t depend on the man she will date or marry.

Go for a woman whose lifestyle is supported by her own money. She will add value to your life.

akaahs:
Op, U may be right though my experience is from two girls. One, her mother was representing their constituency in the National Assembly. This girl is simple from head to toe, the way she talked to everyone working in their house, the way she treats me without any subjugation. The girl is just good to everyone she comes in contact with. Sadly, we aren't together now but she always wish.
The second one, her dad is into oil and gas business. I meet her around their residence in villa. So humble too but into drugs which I was able to her get out of it. She demand, appreciate my effort no matter how little it is. She cheerful giver but sadly, she died last year from stomach complications.

Escodeb:


I'm glad you are practising what he taught you

faithugo64:
If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

I do not mean you should date 100 women, I'm only trying to say that it is wrong to judge other women because of your bitter experience with very few women. Everyone is not the same

Ofemmanu1:

I've made my mistake, and I'm carrying the cross now.
I've married a broke idiott.

dominique:
Broke girls can be very greedy and entitled, they're always on the lookout for who to dump their family liabilities on. Date them and realize you're adding money to pay their siblings school fees or stocking her mother's shop.

Rich girls can be very proud and arrogant. They will never hesitate to let you know how well they can live without you or your money during disagreements. Tends to flaunt their family wealth and achievements in your face from time to time. If you're the ego filled type, you may not be able to handle her.

Broke girl; greedy and entitled
Rich girl; proud and (sometimes) arrogant

Choose your poison

Eberechi24:

Then your experience is invalid to conclude that every poor girl is a glutton. Address your dissatisfaction towards the lady you encountered and leave innocent poor girls out of it.


Stop the stereotype pls. I am poor and not a glutton. I am contented with the little I have.
There is something y'all are missing out here which is proper upbringing. So many poor girls you are to encounter are raised to be independent. For the fact you didn't meet them doesn't make them insignificant.

faithugo64:
If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

I do not mean you should date 100 women, I'm only trying to say that it is wrong to judge other women because of your bitter experience with very few women. Everyone is not the same

MartinsD12:

My opinion was not directed at you, who asked if you are poor here am stating the obvious truth here which some guys can concur to you must not quote me but if you do don't take it personal or unreasonable because my opinion is not directed or in any related to you.

sagir1994:
true love of course

PotatoSalad:
Doesn't have to be girls from rich homes. It's synonymous with rich people. They give out but hardly receive, so they appreciate the smallest gesture.

Sorry, we, not they. Sad life