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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 11:47am On May 10, 2020 |
Mrstoned:Can you share what made your marriage toxic so we can learn |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Hangulsaram: 11:48am On May 10, 2020 |
bukatyne:What/which compromise, can please explain? |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Ozugbo(m): 11:50am On May 10, 2020 |
Those blaming d guy should go soft.At times we fall to stand.I made a similar mistake by borrowing 60k to add to what I had to finance my wedding. But do u know d so called wife turned me to a boi which I endured for two good years?During dis period,she went through CS 2times n I paid through my nose.When things became tough for me ,she left n all entreaties from my side fell on deaf ears.I fell seriously sick to d point of death but she refused to come n attend to me.Today, am now far better than she left me.Pls don't kill urself for anybody. 5 Likes |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Gentlesoul96(m): 11:53am On May 10, 2020 |
Using 3M Loan for a wedding is a bad investment. By commiting suicide he as display stupidity of highest order. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 11:54am On May 10, 2020 |
MhizJoyce:Not necessarily pulling him out physically, but ordering him down verbally makes no difference.. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by bukatyne(f): 11:56am On May 10, 2020 |
Hangulsaram: What was his game plan before he got married? And their situation would need to be analyzed critically before suggesting compromises for them. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by mathy2p2: 11:59am On May 10, 2020 |
Wasted sperm
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Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by emonis88: 12:01pm On May 10, 2020 |
sisisioge:Yes he married a witch, but he tot he was marrying an angel Cus she il demand marriage He borrowed d money Cus she wanted to impress her friends n family, she was aware of d loan n she encouraged him to get d loan. He is endid a weakling Cus she continued her demands of an expensive life style n he couldn't do anything about it so she turned on him, DAT y she went to collect d car from him. He divorced her, then he found out DAT he had done alot of mistakes because of her, n he was already in deep sh*t n alot of debt. He killed himself Cus he now found out DAT he fu*ked up Cus of p**sy. He just could not handle d shame. 3 Likes |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Pinopinodaddy: 12:04pm On May 10, 2020 |
Mumu banker. Is she the only female remaining in Nigeria. Instead of jejely moving on with your life, you sent yourself to hell. Now she will repent and go to Heaven. Guys, lots of lesson to be learnt jaree. When guys are walking out from marriages easily. If she does not want to leave that marriage and even your house, either you out away for her if she can stay or stop eating her food to avoid poisoning you and just ensure your life stays. No High blood pressure is tolerated. I can't come and kill myself as a guy. I was ok even before I married you. I must leave your life for you not to die in my hand. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by emonis88: 12:04pm On May 10, 2020 |
sisisioge: |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Exmilitant(m): 12:06pm On May 10, 2020 |
The man is weak. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 12:06pm On May 10, 2020 |
iamloyalty:Are you single or taken |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 12:08pm On May 10, 2020 |
iamloyalty:Lol |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Hangulsaram: 12:10pm On May 10, 2020 |
bukatyne:Hm! Aunty, this does not sound like you of all people. Game plan you say, so because he married from a rich family means that he has a game plan(an in he married her because of the money)? Ok! let’s assume that you are correct, for that he should submit his headship of the family to the wife, perhaps becomes a houseboy or slave to her? Would you suggest the same if it’s the other way round? |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Xristars(m): 12:12pm On May 10, 2020 |
Moral lesson: No go cut material for agbada wen na soko-to you fit afford sew. Suicide never an option, no matter what. just 37! 1 Like |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 10, 2020 |
Marriage can make or mar us. Let's be wary of who we marry. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 12:18pm On May 10, 2020 |
Ozugbo:Wao...sorry for what happened bro..but did you in anyway annoy her or did something bad to her? Didn't you notice all these during courting |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by MhizJoyce(f): 12:18pm On May 10, 2020 |
murphyibiam15:The word "pulled" was used |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by vickydevoka(m): 12:18pm On May 10, 2020 |
Never you Marry a gal who didn't beg for it directly or indirectly. 1 Like |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by MhizJoyce(f): 12:19pm On May 10, 2020 |
Cuddlebugie:Yeah, we women are really bad 2 Likes |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Nobody: 12:19pm On May 10, 2020 |
Punchline33:What's the name of this movie? |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by bukatyne(f): 12:20pm On May 10, 2020 |
Hangulsaram: By game plan, I don't mean he married her for her money. Nobody changes so the dude saw her character before they hit married; how did he plan to cope? For him to consider suicide means he was better off with wife (it could be financial, mental, physical, spiritual) etc. For the above, he could have thought: how do I make this work? What is my leverage? What do I need to do to make this work? What do I have? I would wager that your definition of headship and houseboy/slavery is different. And I give advises to people depending on their unique situation. You must be scarce in family section to ask me the bolded. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by murphyibiam15(m): 12:22pm On May 10, 2020 |
MhizJoyce:Still possible for such a super egoistic lady...lol |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by mechanics(m): 12:24pm On May 10, 2020 |
Hmmmm, the wife is not a good wife at all, just because her dad gave them a car gift, she's claiming the car belongs to her, that's not love at all, even if her dad gave them the car, she should know she has to reverence her husband and not to treat him the way she did, I pray she repent, because what she did is not the will of God in marriage, it's unfortunate her husband end is life that way, he should have reconcile their differences and not to terminate his life unjustly. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by CsRockefeller(m): 12:25pm On May 10, 2020 |
udemzyudex: To be more specific, Philos type of love needs a lot of respect to make it work, because in Agape love, love itself is not complete if there is no respect. But I agree, respect is very, very important. I don't think I am still friends with people that disrespect me, and I try not to disrespect anyone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by NaBanga: 12:26pm On May 10, 2020 |
spinna: Fela was a prophet. Las las a prophet is not recognized in his own land. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Hangulsaram: 12:27pm On May 10, 2020 |
bukatyne:Thanks for this explanation, I am well pleased �. At the bolded you referred to, if you read my previous comment I said something like: it was unlike you so I am not scarce in the family section and also I’m filling you here so I read all your come t and have always known your stand. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by waldigit: 12:28pm On May 10, 2020 |
farem: He probably had a bad upbringing. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by Doyou2019: 12:29pm On May 10, 2020 |
fastseo: Will the fiancee, the bride-to-be, hear? Any reasonable man would prefer a low-budget wedding, but 9 in every 10 women would object to it. So wetin make our marriage loving men do ooo? Send their girls away over wedding matter 1 Like |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by lookingfly: 12:29pm On May 10, 2020 |
opera1:if I should collect 3million loan, na to invest and not for showoff wedding......any woman that is not comfortable with a low-key wedding should sponsor the extravagant wedding she likes and if doesn't agree that i must sponsor, then i bow out of the relationship. It's better you marry someone that will give you peace than showoff marriage and you can't keep up after wedding with the scam lifestyle of am rich. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by faithfull18(f): 12:30pm On May 10, 2020 |
He probably took the loan to impress the wife and her family. Taking huge loans to start a business that may fail or survive isn't advised not to talk of taking a loan to do a wedding that's isn't going to yield financially unless he was looking to pay back from the wife's money. He made a bad decision, trying to impress people is just the beginning of a miserable end. |
Re: Banker Commits Suicide After Marriage He Took N3M Loan Crashed After 2 Months by aliyuabbaashiru(m): 12:31pm On May 10, 2020 |
gaby:Thi na real see finish |
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