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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by James2bone: 10:59pm On May 11, 2020 |
Believe it or not, some marriages are still intact today not because of love or money. But because of children. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by bonnyhope: 10:59pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mizwisdom:Shut up |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Kingarthur21: 11:00pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mstick:this men don't usually show their character...they use the gentleman tactic to cover up for their brokenness. They will cook,wash,wake their baes up with breakfast on their bed.They don't drink or smoke. The lady will marry him because he is different from the typical toxic man and a God fearing man For example, if shibaraba the peasant wants a wife he will cower and even be very spiritual,doing domestic chores and avoiding cheating so they lady will forget of his brokenness and marry him for being a God fearing man other than us misogynistic men |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Herbephe1(m): 11:00pm On May 11, 2020 |
He is very near to God--hoe did you measure the proximity? you said God should strike you if you're wrong--- God does not strike, or u mean good of thunder?? on a serious note, in marriage if one is goat the other must be sheep, it seems your husband is a goat here ( due to nonchalant,ungrateful and unappreciative attitude)so you need to turn to sheep not unintelligent sheep o, who find joy in looking, move closer to him, use the power you ladies have on us over him, he will vomit everything for you |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 11, 2020 |
I have a father like your husband. He dumped all the expenses on my mom, to this day. You can either slave away and keep spending to keep the family afloat, or you can decide enough is enough. Whatever choice you make, I'll have you know that, if ever you're faced with the choice of either being a good wife or a good mother, choose the latter. Your children will never forget it. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Seunallly: 11:01pm On May 11, 2020 |
kestolove95: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by jaxxy(m): 11:01pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mstick:Plenty sense |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by sheyitokz(m): 11:02pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nwodosis:CORRECT BHADMAN |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Rexology: 11:02pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY:Women don't miss the bolded lines, men take note. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nine2Five: 11:02pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by docherich4290: 11:03pm On May 11, 2020 |
just tell him sorry , case closed |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by docherich4290: 11:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Iluvmycontr3: 11:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nwodosis:Correct. Until we hear from both side. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:04pm On May 11, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:bro forget that story.... - unless we know what are her husband's accusations about her (that she claims are right), it is difficult to judge. - hubby salary is spent on rent and school fees, her salary on house needs, but yet she is upset and wanna blame hubby for it? - she is now ugly and would blame hubby, has only one shoe, and also would blame hubby, high BP/hypertension, na hubby's fault, abi? - she is using all these excuses to now claim that she should disrespect her husband and deny him his position as "man of the house", thus why they dont get along (no wonder!). - she clearly stated she does not enjoy that marriage, so why should the husband be any different? - she clearly stated that if she had money she would be gone, no wonder her husband has washed his hand from her matter. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by docherich4290: 11:05pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by sheyitokz(m): 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
ABI this man don get side chick dats pregnant 4 him nd d girl sef don see say marriage don tey nd don dey disturb yhur husband already yhur yeye husband sef wey no get brain no come see chance tell u dats why he com dey bone faze |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Tribalism123(m): 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Madam In marriage and other relationships, one person seems to be the pillar for its success, and here, u happen to be the pillar, with what u have written o. However, kindly, live to show ur kids how to be a better mum in all odds. Check out his weak point.... If apologies are his weak points, PACKAGE IT WELL AND BE DISHING IT OUT THREE TIMES A DAY. Who AM SORRY KILL FOR ZEALWORD? |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by xandy84: 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nicca.... You made my day with your quote Mstick: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Truthserum: 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY:When u were begging him to marry you u didn't see that he hasn't a job. U r here forming that ur money is what pays the bills. Six dependents means u already have 4 children for him (or so we assume). I take yansh greet u |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by kels923: 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Take him back to the place where he met Jesus MizJaY: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by jaymejate: 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mstick:Thank you. Thank you so much. This is great |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by jaxxy(m): 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
Julietsim:That’s means the respect is based on who has more money. That is very dumb of both parties. U don’t understand the meaning of Respect. U are mistaking intimidation for Respect in that house. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 11:06pm On May 11, 2020 |
kestolove95:Please do you or did you have a Father? Was or is he a man too? Thanks |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Superwave: 11:07pm On May 11, 2020*. Modified: 11:28pm On May 11, 2020 |
With this notion in your head I can vouch your marriage is destined for doom before it started. Jullima:My dear sister, I am a man facing financial difficulties too but I struggle not to burden my wife n hardly take kobo from her. Anyway,she is still schooling. I will advice you to save whatever little you can from your salary. Half your salary, let your husband know you have been denying yourself of essentials you need for your everyday sustenance. Keep half of your pay to yourself and gift the remaining half to him n let him know that is all you will be volunteering to support the family with this month come what may. He may chose not to collect it from you but be sure to place it where he can access it. As you take a penny from it let him know by noting on a jotter or sending him a message on whatsapp on the amount and precisely what the fund is used for. I want to believe you are out to save your marriage, in no time he should come to his senses and understand the weight you are lifting on his behalf. If he is still very nonchalant about is glaring failure as a father n husband, my sister run O run. [quote author=MizJaY post=89104742][/quote] |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by katyamizotta: 11:07pm On May 11, 2020 |
imam07:But she also stated that her husband pays rent and school fees. She didnt say she was spending alone |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by samoranononi(m): 11:08pm On May 11, 2020 |
After reading your post, I decided to check your profile to see your previous posts and after reading I come to a conclusion that you are the problem and basically not your husband. 2012 you were complaining about how you dated two guys and they ended up dumbing you. You dated one of them for 5 years and the other for two years. You said you were the one taking care of them financially and you spent on your savings on them and they ended up dumbing. My question is what were you doing that made both of them to dump you? Were you able to analyzed your flaws and worked on them? I saw another post about you soliciting for help to support yourself and your 3 kids but now you have 6 kids. Growing family without growing finance is something can crash home. I understand your income and that of your husband is no longer sufficient for your home. My advice is pray for your husband. When a man truly cares about his family and his unable to give them the best, he ended up being frustrated and unhappy. you don’t have to remind him of his current situation every time. He needs your spiritual support more than you coming here to share this with us. Please spend more time to communicate to God than people. May God bless you and your family |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Seunallly: 11:08pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by grandstar(m): 11:09pm On May 11, 2020 |
Going to church or even being active in it does not mean you're a true Christians. Many are not living by Bible standards and worse, don't even understand it. For many, their pastor or being a pastor is their god. You knew his type of behavior and you know your pocket and yet despite it all, had 4 kids! Do you have a death wish? If you had 2 kids, you'd be more comfortable. Don't go and have more kids. A suggestion I'll make is that you start a Bible study with the Jehovah's Witnesses. They have the book "The Secret of Family Happiness". It has changed for better the family of thousands and would certainly do the same for yours. You can request a bible study at www.jw.org I suspect both of you are fit for each other despite his hard-to-please ways. He can also change and be more accommodating. Also, think of new outlets to make money. Have you thought of becoming a social media marketer or digital marketing? Look into it. It is something you can work from home. and be earning 6 figures monthly |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ifechi2020: 11:10pm On May 11, 2020 |
Very good advice (quote author=veave post=89104994]Hian. Wetin I go talk go pain you o. But na the truth I go tell you. Madam, right now I can't tell you to start with 50% so I will say 20%. Thank God there is covid and I pray your job doesn't get affected. As soon as you resume, the second day you get to work tell him there has been a 40% reduction from your salary due to low inflow of cash. You need to save at least 20% of your salary. This money no Matter if the roof is falling down you're not to touch it. Na your back up money be that. The other 20% is for your upkeep. You and your kids should survive on the remaining 50% because you'd definitely pay tithe. It's because he knows you always have a back up plan that is why he is relaxed and allowing you foot all the bills. No this kain thing make me say I no go marry "brother" when I dey small. Most of them are lazy and are dreamers. They expect manner to fall from heaven after their praying and fasting forgetting Paul had a handiwork that sustained him all through his life hence he didn't have to beg and depend on anyone. I no dey like this kind jist. He's not even appreciative of his supportive wife. I know women who use all their money to buy shoes, clothes and the latest asoebi, their husbands dare not say pim because they'd even take his own and join.[/quote] |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by mrkings84(m): 11:10pm On May 11, 2020 |
Iffffffy:Do u know the op ![]() |
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