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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by don4real18(m): 11:11pm On May 11, 2020 |
veave:Are you married? |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Evercurious(f): 11:12pm On May 11, 2020 |
My dear this is caused by poor planning before marriage. Your husband is getting frustrated due to lack of adequacy funds and worse of it is that he isnt handling the issue properly. HE IS FRUSTRATED AND JUST POURING HIS FRUSTRATIONS IN YOU THE NEAREST PERSON. KPELE. The Lord is your strength |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Seunallly: 11:12pm On May 11, 2020 |
angelusbrut: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by andyanders: 11:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
kestolove95:'Divorce the man and get a young guy as second toy'. I know say na ur type dey fvck outside while still married. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by OkikiOluwa1(m): 11:13pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nwodosis:LMAO elder Nwodosis |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by runto: 11:15pm On May 11, 2020 |
This is the first time naira Landers will talk from experience . Mumsy , give him a break. When work resumes ,gather money rent an abode ...try an independent life without swerat .it is called separation for a while . If he did not admit his fault , file for divorce afterall you have projects on ground which are your kids. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Rexology: 11:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
MizJaY:The bolded line is popular with women. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Kingarthur21: 11:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
Jullima:You should not be scared of calling them sassysure and bukatyne out,let them see for themselves this post and change the way the approach issues like this |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 11:16pm On May 11, 2020*. Modified: 11:37pm On May 11, 2020 |
Jullima:. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Baddest1(m): 11:16pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Nobody: 11:17pm On May 11, 2020 |
samoranononi:You know I actually did the exact same thing, I went through all her posts on her profile. You hit the nail on the head. The husband is frustrated and unfortunately is putting the frustration on the woman. I am not married but I know my mum always told me you can't have two lions heading the home, one should be a Lion and the other a Sheep. The Lion acts foolish most times and it's up to the sheep (the calm one) to control the situation and sometimes play the fool just for the sake of the marriage. Beware of advice from single ladies and single guys like me here, if you follow most advice you will just end up ruining your marriage. Cheers ![]() |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by AreaFada2: 11:18pm On May 11, 2020 |
OP, we men also have experience to contribute. In fact for a balanced view both genders need to contribute. I keep saying people should talk finances before marriage. It's not romantic but it's realistic and imperative. After wedding party marriage starts proper. And is often not a bed of roses. It doesn't matter what nasty or great characters OP or hubby might be, with just 2 kids and a better planning of family and finances, the current economic frustration would be less. I see money worries as the main issue. If Op could spend 75% of her earnings on herself and save from it, while still living comfortably on hubby's income, we will not hear fiam! In fact the anger is due to not having enough money to flex life and family as he would like. But violence or anger is not the answer. It will just ruin the family. Being quiet may avoid quarrel but stores up problems for later. Certain dos and don'ts should be agreed before marriage. Or not go into it at all. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ghiloman28(m): 11:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
This one deep o. No fire without smoke though |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ReeLoaDead(m): 11:19pm On May 11, 2020 |
angelfallz:That is correct, my advice was based on her account of events. I believe I made that very clear in my post. Why not you give your own advice too or is my advice causing you to lose sleep? ![]() |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Samgalaxy: 11:20pm On May 11, 2020 |
You need a professional Marriage counselor, Please not necessarily your Pastor 'cos your pastor might not be skilled in handling such issues professionally. It is not an hopeless situation, i will advise you stop suffering silence MizJaY: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Ifechi2020: 11:21pm On May 11, 2020 |
Sincerely, my marriage has a lot of similarities to urs but my husband still foots majority of the bills cos I didn't yield to that. Its because of the good heart u have, he's using it against u. I have been broken many times but God has been my stay. One thing u must know is that if anything happens to u now, ur hubby will marry another wife who might treat ur kids badly. U have to live for them. Save a little for urself to fall back on. Don't reveal ur savings to him. Infact, make ur kids ur next of kin. Be close to God. He will give u the grace to pass this phase and enjoy your marriage quote author=MizJaY post=89104970] So I though sha cos I'm not sure I'm d only one going thru this kind thing. Most marriages na just mk we manage dey push am dey go....lol[/quote] |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Kingarthur21: 11:21pm On May 11, 2020 |
Ishilove:if men can get fed up and leave whether there are 100 kids involved why can't she? When I say ladies suffer from low self esteem I am debunked |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by mamatwiny(f): 11:21pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mstick:101% correct. surprisingly they act all good b4 marriage. @op, bless the Lord he pays school fees and rent . Some leave 100% of responsibility to the wife and are not ashamed to collect money from women. It has become a norm. Learn to say No sometimes and shut your ear. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Seunallly: 11:21pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 11:22pm On May 11, 2020 |
Jullima:I guess staying alone instead of marrying would have solved most of these problems for you ladies then, abi? Actually, the world needs less women to get married and become pregnant. This is not the time to even encourage more women to marry sef. As it stands, we only need 1 out of 5 ladies to get married and give birth to ONLY 1 kid for the Earth to function on it's Normal condition. Presently, the earth is more or less like a pig pen for 20 pigs but accommodating 60 pigs now. I guess a lot need to leave the pen without been replaced. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by apexc7375: 11:23pm On May 11, 2020 |
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| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:23pm On May 11, 2020 |
crackkhaus:The money she’s going to save, where’s it going to come from? The salary that barely sustains them for the month? To save anything from that money means doing things drastically. How much will she have saved that will be enough to make a clean break, after going through months/years of austere living? And when she successfully leaves, she’ll have increased financial burden, because she’ll then have to pay for rent and school fees all by herself. So truthfully, it’s very far from simple. She already made the mistake of marrying a man like that... fixing things will be a topsy-turvy experience. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emmaodet: 11:23pm On May 11, 2020 |
Mstick:And a broke woman with a sharp mouth, uncouth and disrespectful? |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by vicysegun: 11:24pm On May 11, 2020 |
Madam u self spice up ur self with the remaining money for urself ..do those things he fell in love with those days ..u only made mention of what he did to get u ..its because of what u did those days too .. ![]() MizJaY: |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Olarewaju89: 11:24pm On May 11, 2020 |
That man is not for you. You just fellow physical appearance, and you did not pray. It a pity sis. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by govetin: 11:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nwodosis:You spoke like a wise man. Some persons here are quick condemned the man. Don't forget the man still have his own complain about his wife. Why should a woman come to social media to complain of his husband. A good wife will never behave like this. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emusmithyy(m): 11:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
Iffffffy:Mad oh. Let's hear yours biko ![]() |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by yusfaith78(m): 11:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
1 I think the man is frustrated but doesn’t know to properly show his frustration. 2 I wouldn’t call him a broke man because we all know its very difficult to make money in Nigeria 3 I would advice you to keep supporting him the way you have been doing because obviously he can’t do it alone. 4 I think you always try to talk to him and let him understand that he’s not making you happy with the fighting and quarrelling. 5 I believe you guys didn’t plan your life very well because I can’t imagine having 4 kids in a country like Nigeria. Just imagine you guys are with just 2 kids, things would have been a little easier. Lastly, please don’t leave your husband ooooo because you might end up been the only one taking care of your kids which will be a lot more difficult. Moreover, marriage is a very difficult thing oooo |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by ct2: 11:26pm On May 11, 2020 |
Nwodosis:good |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by larrypappyy(m): 11:28pm On May 11, 2020 |
madam, i b married man n go talk 4rm xpirienx...d reason y en de carry face up 4u na coz say e don te we una 2straf last n una no de straf wel( d truth b say una husband no kno au 2tel u say en won straf u). if u go beg am;d nxt tin we en go won do na 2straf u. madam your husband isnt on this medium.so its only you i can advice....pls whenever you want to buy anything for house use;run it by him before you buy anything for the house.you will achieve 2things:1) you'll b appealing 2his ego 2)you'll save yourself from fighting and keeping malice my sister,delibrately do thing that will make you happy.....if you need more advice respond to this first. |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by emusmithyy(m): 11:29pm On May 11, 2020 |
Julietsim:There's no boss. What happened to being friends? Jeeez |
| Re: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Kingarthur21: 11:30pm On May 11, 2020 |
crackkhaus:to be honest the reason is that men are losing value for women,they now see women in the negative light. The patriarchal system(which I don't endorse) painted women like angels and undefiled creatures they adored and will do anything for. Now that modernity have changed those women they saw as reserved and unsullied, they have lost value for marriage and women,thus the increase of fuuuuuuckkboys and irresponsible men. Before a man will say" I will marry you,)",and the lady will start preparing for marriage and treating her skin well for the wedding day,because he will But now when a man says I will marry you,the lady will have to get as much as five men to talk of marriage and keep them all because she can't put all her eggs in a basket. Because he may not marry her. A man will only value you when he sees you like the damsel or princess potrayed in Disney animations. But now men see ladies as corrupted by modernity and no better than they see their fellow man ,thus they are not compelled to go the extra mile for them. Cc:pansophist,capslocked,martinez39s |
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