It doesn't make you less of a man.

Me too I can't kill chicken or goat. Because I fear them. I don't have a little bit of sympathy for them, I just fear them.

But not cockroaches and wall geckos I'll slam their head.

Nothing is absolutely wrong with you. Some people just do not like blood. I remembered when I move out, I was told nursing makes money but I told my uncle I will be the last dude to be a nurse cos the sight of blood will make me pass out. I am glad I stood my ground then cos I would have being the worst nurse to ever walk on this planet.

Is your dad like you or you grew up with your mum alone or are you the only male child in the midst of female children?

there is nothing wrong with u.. its just our African mentality that makes soft hearted men feel like losers... u are unique my dear.

Sounds like me

Sha i dey kill wall gecko

Unlike Op

Wetin concern me with your life....

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

I'm speechless bro

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Lol...dude in ur pic is really funny...

About the gecko, don't kill em, they feed on mosquitoes, spiders and other insects, keeping your environment free of cobwebs.

The birds are cute little creatures, they show appreciation if you drop some food for them once in a while.

Don't start spilling blood carelessly just because someone says it make you a man.

What make you a man is a working sugarcane and a pair of balls.

Its normal.. My elder brother is the same exact replica..

But im strong pass the remaining four of us joined together...


He just hates blood.. Violence.. And pain..

But if it comes to work and gyming himself to death.. Im get am Grade one..


The once i saw him fight.. O boy.. Na mad oo.. Nah me find trouble.. Dem smack my teeth commot...

Damn!!... No be juice that day oo.. The culprit who is much older chop better beating from this my softie brother.. I shock!



I feel its a psychological thing

evansjeff:

In fact I have no mercy when it comes to girls both in decisions and in bed. The issue with me is basically on violence whether against human or animals.

You will have no issue when some plays around ur girlfriend. Humm violence guy on the bed. Get sense pls

Bro you not alone, I can't kill a chicken or anything alive except mosquito, God I hate that b*tch.. But then I don't know what to do about it, other guys kill chicken easily but whenever I want to kill it, I start having pity on the poor animal

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE VIOLENT OR KILL ANYTHING TO BE A "MAN".
YOU JUST HAVE TO RESPONSIBLE FOR CERTAIN THINGS AND LEARN TO DO THINGS THE CORRECT WAY, AND BULK UP YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS.
THIS IS WHAT WILL DIFFERENTIATE YOU FROM A WOMAN IN THE REAL SENSE OF THINGS.

Exactly, fxxk that toxic masculinity bull shlt

Dem tell my guy make him kill chicken him say him no be killer say him no fit..na normal tin

Oh boy eh! you need to come for tutorials, will do it free of charge for you lol

In the early 80's,i was one of the best stone thrower ; no one dare offend me, i go target you from afar & tah tah, your head don get better 'koko' be dat.

All the lizards for my area, na we killed 'em. Started killing goats during festive periods at my early teens. I mean its normal to feel some type of way at the sight of blood but c'mon man; killing a roach ,lizard & rodents shouldn't make the list.

You are just a cool guy.
Nothing is wrong with you my guy.
I even like you.

One question for you before something go wrong with you.

Do you really knack your girl wella in the other room?

If you don't, then this would be the starting and the beginning of your problem...

DavidChimere01:
Bro you not alone, I can't kill a chicken or anything alive except mosquito, God I hate that b*tch.. But then I don't know what to do about it, other guys kill chicken easily but whenever I want to kill it, I start having pity on the poor animal

It only prooves you're more human than those guys

Your a fine gentle man. Nothing is wrong with you. Me too I can't cut or kill any animal because I am an animal lover, ur fine bro

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

You're meant to be a pastor. Follow your calling

Go and join boko haram. Shitty

evansjeff:
Recently I've been very bothered about myself. I'm a guy of around 30 but some things that still worry my heart is really disturbing. I will start like this.

1. Something embarrassing happened some time last year when I travelled home for visit. They bought a goat and was looking for who to kill it, me knowing I'm the most senior man at home jejely went into ghost mode, everyone started looking for me, in the end I had to come out but shamelessly told them I can't kill it. They had to call a 16 year old opposite neighbour to do it while my younger ones helped him hold the goat. I couldn't even stand the sight of seeing the goat struggling for life while receiving knife in the throat. I left there immediately.

2. You might think it's normal for goat until I tell you that I can't kill a chicken or rat, last Christmas, I badly wanted to buy a life chicken because I beleive it's more healthy, but who will kill it? Bae was around, I don't want any embarrassment so I jejely bought frozen chicken . There is a wall gecko strolling around my room for weeks now, but I can't kill it, it becomes embarrassing any time I have a visitor

3. The most recent is, there are two birds trying to build a house in my lobby, I kept destroying the house but they didn't give up, it got to a point, I felt bad for the poor birds, what if they don't have a house? what if I'm the one building a house with all my strength and government keeps destroying it? I had to leave them to build. My neighbour said he killed the birds that tried doing that in his house but me can i do that? No. i just tire.

4. Lastly, When travelling and there's an accident, people rush out to watch but I dare not else the trauma will remain for months, I can't stand the sight of blood and body cuts.

Any time I think about killing an animal, I ask myself, what if I'm the one being held by boko haram or killer herdsmen and about to be slaughtered? How excruciating the pain can be.

Any time I think about crushing a cockroach, I ask myself, what if I'm the one trying to cross the high way and dangote trailer crushes me?

So guys, am I normal? Do I need to see a doctor or a psychologist?

Dude you're completely normal. You have so much empathy in the wrong country. But don't change who you are, accept it and be happy.

nothing wrong with you, when I first meet my husband I don't even know he can't kill a chicken anytime I ask him to kill it he will just find one excuse like am going somewhere till I force him one day to kill the chicken upon seeing the blood he just faint, so bro you are very normal

LMAO!
Before I started killing chickens, I was always pitying them because I am/was kinda soft cos' it wasn't easy, I fact, I prayed for the souls of the chickens before sending slaughtering them. But now, I do it without thinking twice.
I don't know how to kill mosquitoes with my hands but I can kill a cockroach or housefly with a broom.
But mehn, you've gotta rise to the occasion when next you're called to slaughter a goat

evansjeff:


lol...not at all. You may want to try me with your girlfriend. In fact I have no mercy when it comes to girls both in decisions and in bed. The issue with me is basically on violence whether against human or animals.

You are totally normal then. Nothing do you. Enjoy your life

evansjeff:
This thing really disturbs me, Lalasticlala

You are perfectly normal. I have male relatives who can't kill chicken, talk more a whole goat. You are just a very sensitive, empathic person. That doesn't make you weird in anyway.

You are truly a rare breed.

mytime24:
U mean soft like today bread

yourtime you're looking for trouble.

Honestly from what I've read, you do sound "neurotic". Not to bother though, because most peeps are in some way.

Your non-violent stance towards animals may be more fear than love-based. I've never killed a chicken in my life, i also don't like to watch animals being slaughtered. I have killed wall geckos before, but they still give me the creeps, more so snakes.

But having said this, it's important to know that many of the things which we choose to partake in, or abstain from may just be as a matter of convenience. Simply because we could afford to. And trust me, it's a very interesting game. The game being; "how many things can i avoid doing".

But if taken too far, something your mind may very well be doing, you might begin to get "boxed in". Just imagine if all the edible plants in the world were gone, and so were any frozen meat. And the only option was to hunt and kill animals, what would you have done? Would you have just sat in one place until you died of starvation? I highly doubt that.

The fact that we're civilized now and obey societal norms doesn't mean we always were. The fact that we have certain "natural dispositions" towards things doesn't mean they can't change over time. We're full of surprises under pressure. Just make sure you follow a sound rationale before doing things. Some of the things you said are reasonable, some aren't. If you thought all were, you wouldn't be here. That's my two cents!

You are just fine
You are very empathic and that is a very endearing and beautiful quality

The ability to put yourself in other’s shoes.
You are not just a man. You are a gem.

longetivity:
are you soft in bed also??

Dude we are the same, i killed a chicken once and vowed never to kill anything except rat and even that one i kill when it doesn't want to go away & the thing with accident when i was in kd when that gas expode i live like 2 street away and i did go anywhere around dat area 4 2weeks

hmm hmm I smell pvssy

Man up.