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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Ablemax(m): 9:41am On May 15, 2020
Na wao
Spent more than 400k on a girl that's not your wife....Bros I go like insult you but that's later Sha

Infact am speechless don't even what or how to dish out the insult to you self.....

Lemme not insult Sha but you NO WISE
that girl doesn't deserve what you have done
Break up with her and avoid her getting close to you make she no go do you strong thing like (poison you )

And most importantly draw close to God just in case she carry your name go spiritualist house it will not affect you not your work



And the reasons why I no gree insult you is that I dae find work seriously.....I never can tell who can be of help to me ....

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Ablemax(m): 9:43am On May 15, 2020
PeachtreeReside:
You schooled abroad and this is the kind of girl you can date?.


That works in a beer palour...


You can't date girls in your league shows you lack confidence.


Break up with her.


Locate your internal lion and warn her sternly.

After 400k she dares to threaten you??

Locate your inner agbero every Nigerian has it in them.


Don't be foolish again.

I hope you change your locks and don't give her your key.

Block her number.


Someone who should be worshipping you for being generous and she cheats on you

Bro, you need serious head washing .


Hope the insults you have received will give you sense.


I'm dissapointed in you though....
e


Every Nigerian has an internal agbero

I don laugh scatter
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Onucs(m): 9:44am On May 15, 2020
Chai bruv.. am 100% sure they have use your pant

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by mickyeddi(m): 9:50am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

4ck her in the ar5e and send her back to her dysfunctional parents home.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by p4peka: 9:50am On May 15, 2020
Pls be mindful of who you date as a girlfriend
This ia last warning

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by tchidi066(f): 9:51am On May 15, 2020
@Op, My annoyance is not even the amount of money you spent on her, but her mannerism and paying you back with physical assault. If there is something i don't tolerate from both sexes, it's being an ingrate. Count your loss and break off the relationship, it's unhealthy for your physical and emotional being. In your next relationship, don't look out for physical beauty alone, beauty without character is like an hoe without handle, it's useless. Ciao

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by kgr8mike(m): 9:58am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

Bros don't mind that girl. God only gives a man an understanding wife. Ask God to give you one. He will.

But meanwhile bros I lost my job since 2016 & honestly I relocated to the village. Please if you can teach me how to earn online, I will be grateful.

Thanks for your kindness.

But above all forget that lady. If you ask her whom her mentor is, she will not come up with any useful person that you know- that is if she has one. Just move on. Character will forever remain the beauty of any woman. Remember her home is like that so she grew up thinking life is like that.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by sorepco(m): 10:01am On May 15, 2020
Move on n don't pity her. Most girlsin naija see abroad returnee guys as fools just becos u r caring and nice. Naija girls see those xter traits as weakness meekness and stupidity!


ken711:




Bro, your comment has truly touched a nerve in me. I'll listen to you bro..even though today she has been calling, even as I am writing.

I just have to move on.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Lumpyy(f): 10:03am On May 15, 2020
Bros,where is your mom?you have eaten EFO and I know she will know what to do.... cry
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by bigl: 10:03am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

You are indeed the King of fools and dumb heads!

How can u do that for a girl you have not married sef?

All nairalanders supposed flog u with 10 strokes of koboko each to reset your black paint coated brain!

Always open your brain bro!

These hoes ain't loyal!

Break up with her right now before i open my coro coro eyes or else .....

Man up bro! She is playing u big time and has your Over-Drive-Mumu-Button!
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by akaahs(m): 10:11am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
I always envy people like you with no family responsibilities to either siblings or relatives.
I gat nothing to say again.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by opeaskey(m): 10:16am On May 15, 2020
Your case weak me bro.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by freshboi88: 10:20am On May 15, 2020
Funny enough girls like Op girlfriend never stay faithful. They feel so entitled. They believe that guys should worship them as gods.

OP put that geh in her place
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by inereunwa1(m): 10:22am On May 15, 2020
Torie8:
Hahahahaha this one na novice cheesy grin Your type good to give heavy knock for head. Where are the audio red pill guys
Adama bia but una wey be women take style wicked sha o

Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by realpoacher(m): 10:25am On May 15, 2020
ken711:




Bro, your comment has truly touched a nerve in me. I'll listen to you bro..even though today she has been calling, even as I am writing.

I just have to move on.

Dont u ever in your life pick her call, or talk to her again.

If u miss her, go to instamessage or codedruns.com

Order a very beautiful lady and pay her for a weekend romp in your crib.

Do this for at least three or four weekends with a different call girl

It will help u forget this ur wicked girlfriend in a flash

After that

Message me for my azza details and bless me with small bread cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by moyin2009: 10:26am On May 15, 2020
Go meet your Mother to pray for you to be deliver from strange woman.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by cmrendowed(f): 10:36am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!
If this is real, and not a figment of your imagination or some concocted cock and bull story that we’ve been getting on here regularly lately, then I can say you are under spell for even thinking of completing what you have been doing after getting slapped. Pray for sense recovery
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by opejimmy: 10:37am On May 15, 2020
END IT NOW
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by jacoik(m): 10:40am On May 15, 2020
davosea:
grin thruth be told man,you need a sledge hammer on your skull
lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear guy u are wicked ooooo
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Seun4blue(m): 10:43am On May 15, 2020
My brother, break up now or you make her pay for the 500k by cooking something big in the name of promise!... your company is withholding your money for 3months for 4million cashout... then start collecting change back and enjoy that thing till you're satisfied. but please, make sure you're not indebted to her!... don't Bleep beyond your money.

Make sure you have someone else that you care about because you might fall in love again! ...Thank me later..

wey me just need 40k to resuscitate my goat business.... please be mindful of how you give out o
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by Fiestafetta: 10:44am On May 15, 2020
I bought my land at akobo in Ibadan (350k) about 7years ago, as I'm typing this now, the land is worth about 3.5 million now...... Guys wise up....

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by bigman001(m): 10:47am On May 15, 2020
ken711:
I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.

From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.

She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.

Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......

She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)

I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....

Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.

The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...

The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........

Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...

Please help!

You be Mumu, i decide not to finish reading your write up because you be idiot , if your mother have requested for 50k you will say you don't have, or your good friend request for 20k you will say you are broke, but pussy wey be General Service to the public they request from you like ATM Machine and you dey vomit cash.

Guy go and think of your life properly and do the needful.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by waleyp(m): 10:54am On May 15, 2020
you are a mumu man
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by nnaamehn(m): 10:55am On May 15, 2020
ken711:




"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"
Nice bro, go seal down the room and rent it out to another dude. she is an idiot.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by JYKZ: 10:56am On May 15, 2020
MR MAN, HOW MUCH HAVE YOU GIVEN TO YOUR MOTHER?

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by mikeybrainy: 10:56am On May 15, 2020
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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by torqque7(m): 11:03am On May 15, 2020
ken711:




"That was one smart decision I made, I did it in my name"

Look dude I was in same shoes as u now cos my girl was really beautiful but let me tell u once there is no more respect in the relationship then u better walk away..I can assure u that she has a nigger bleeping her and u think its just u alone so u trying to give her things to make her happy and stay with u and not give other guys attention..lol bro believe me she will soon dump u when she finds someone who is a bigger maga and mumu than u..im telling u out of experience i know how painful it is imagining another guy digging ur girls puna if u guys breakup and all but see there are better girls out there who will treat u like a king without u even doing half of what u did for this fvcking gold digger bit.ch u think is ur girlfriend..

When girls are young , preety and stupid this is what u get,find a new girl ASAP and keep this one as ur side chick and if that doesnt work then drop the relationship and move on u wont die cos u brokeup with a pretty girl..its not going to be easy but u better man up cos breakup is inevitable cos the signs are already there so brace up and find a new girl or ul be so shattered when she eventually dumps u..Open ur eyes,HOW LONG do u intend to keep her down with cash?smh this clearly isnt a wife material and u will regret marrying her thats if u dnt die of high bp or worse sef..bro it never ends o trust me im talking from experience..u deserve love and peace..u deserve better so be wise,she doesnt love u man..she just loves the comfort u provide for now..my new girl is beautiful too and doesnt stress me at all and she and i dated b4 and i brokeup with her but we got back and are happy..One thing i want u to understand is that there is another guy already fvcking her so thats like our worst fear as men thats y we do what we can to keep them loyal so IT HAS HAPPENED AND IS STILL HAPPENING so better tell urself the truth o and plan a better life for urself with a woman deserving.Goodluck man
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by CCC2(m): 11:25am On May 15, 2020
Your never do!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by torqque7(m): 11:28am On May 15, 2020
horlarwereleh:


God bless you for this

But how does that change anything?she is still going to move in to the place na,abi u think say O.P go get mind drive am comot?even if God help am and he finally ditches the bi.tch what will he do with the place and some of the things he already bought?

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Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by bekwugha: 11:31am On May 15, 2020
If she is the girl you want to marry, cut the cost, use the unnecessary expenditures on her to work on your marriage. Go and see her parents and start investing those monies into the marriage and soon you keep her in your own house.
If she is not for marriage, bounce now and look for someone with similar plans with you to settle down soon. Don't stay in between, all your expenses now can't count.
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by horlarwereleh(m): 11:34am On May 15, 2020
torqque7:


But how does that change anything?she is still going to move in to the place na,abi u think say O.P go get mind drive am comot?even if God help am and he finally ditches the bi.tch what will he do with the place and some of the things he already bought?
It changes things of course
If it comes down to it, he may finally develops the balls to chase her out of the house.
About the things he has bought, he can resell them na
Re: My Girlfriend Physically Assaulted Me Over My Own Money !! Help!! by CuteYvonne777: 11:34am On May 15, 2020

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