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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:03pm On May 20, 2020
Your wife is now saying bye bye, so get ready for the unexpected
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by 1daboi: 7:05pm On May 20, 2020
Sisijetue:
Daddy ope epele o
Iyanu mashele
Mafoo
speak english. You dumb f**k!
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:05pm On May 20, 2020
When I said Nigeria is like a money working nation almost everything work on Money including women . Your go leave u if that guy come back for her so be very prepared
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by petitejolie(f): 7:06pm On May 20, 2020
psucc:
You snatched somebody's wife "because her ex do travel".

If I tell you that you jettisoned another girl for her, yöu may disagree but true.

Now, the girl (your wife) will live in eternal regrets so long as she continue to see the guy.

To break free, you need to relocate from that area asap.
chai.....nd d worst thing is no money to relocate.

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Clinghton: 7:06pm On May 20, 2020
Marriage built on wrong foundation.

What you stole is about to be stolen
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by maduka87(m): 7:06pm On May 20, 2020
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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Ybaby: 7:07pm On May 20, 2020
Single ladies!!!

Decide what you want before you choose a life partner ...... gbola wey dey scatter brain or ambitious man whose work is good and diligent

Then be radical in your choice.

Donot leave ambitious man for gbola wey dey scatter brain when you can buy gbola on Jumia in dozens with the money of ambitious man or teach ambitious man how to kerewa. But don't go and be abusing your gbola hubby - when you realise the sun is too humid for a pretty woman and schools don't accept gbola as school fees

OP your wife is not a serious woman...... abeg scatter her brain one more time - she will be quiet for a week, she is currently in sifia pain grin grin grin

Ire o

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by zacckid23(m): 7:08pm On May 20, 2020
Your wife no sabi wetin dey do her. I'm sure she loved her ex but while her ex was travelling it seems to her that her ex wasn't ready for marriage, here you came promising her marriage she saw what she wanted because she was ready for that she didn't follow you because of the sex bro. She never realised she betrayed him when she followed you. Its now when he has gotten money that she now know she has betrayed him. Guy my advice for you is to leave her if she wants to go. Because we think about 100% of what we say before we say them. So she must have been harbouring such thinking since. My advice for you is that if she wanna leave you just leave her without a second thought. With your word shows that your marriage is still young ... If she wants a divorce, grant her and hustle more bro I'm so sure in the next 15-17 years she will still come back to regret leaving you. Because she doesn't understand that she has to endure all consequence that follows decision. She made the decision to get married to you why must she regret her decision early

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:08pm On May 20, 2020
psucc:
You snatched somebody's wife "because her ex do travel".

If I tell you that you jettisoned another girl for her, yöu may disagree but true.

Now, the girl (your wife) will live in eternal regrets so long as she continue to see the guy.

To break free, you need to relocate from that area asap.
relocation we not solve the problems, u know no women, let him relocate the damage have been done, marriage done they get problem, the only solution is him getting rich only
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by jasent(m): 7:10pm On May 20, 2020
fexyrich:
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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by MansoryMX(m): 7:10pm On May 20, 2020
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gunners160:
1. don't take it personal she said it out of anger and she was fustrated of which every woman in her shoes will feel dsame

2. She needs love and not nagging. Things are not getting well his your duty to give her the assurance she needs that things will change for the best

3. leave that area so that she won't and you also won't be envious of the guy's success so as to enable u focus on making yourself better

4. See what she says as a challenge and become best in what you do ,if possible start a business. You too can become rich .....

5. Lastly dont listen to those small kids who tells u to end ur marriage or d marriage is over. It is just starting u can make it rossy again
[/s]


Look at this fO0l’s comment

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:11pm On May 20, 2020
Ningen:


While her EX was away working his ass off...
YOU where there ‘scattering’ his girl's kpetus.

She cheated on her ex with YOU.
She left him for YOU.
YOU ended in TEARS.

Lmao. Finito. grin


Sha, please don't leave her.
Everyone in her shoe will regret marrying YOU.

Hustle and make money.
Then relocate faraway to someplace else.

good advice the only solution is him getting rich to solve this problem in the marriage, cos the lady is full of regret
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by afecgivers: 7:12pm On May 20, 2020
Anger can give birth to negative utterances, we sometimes regret our actions and inaction. Please your first paragraph printed your attitude in a bad light. She did not left her ex because she liked your d**k, she chose you then because she was not sure of her relationship with the ex or she is tired of one thing about the ex. Destiny differs, you are also sounding jealous! Please beg your wife if you can, revive your old love, tell her that thing she loves hearing and do that thing you did that scattered her head then...futhernore, plan your future together without comparison. NB: I'm sure the ex will not have marry her because you did not mention if he fought hard for the marriage not to hold.
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by chronique(m): 7:12pm On May 20, 2020
Sorry but that ex would soon start using his rod of Moses to scatter her konko below. How can you marry someone you stole on your street and still continue to stay there after marrying her?

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:13pm On May 20, 2020
MansoryMX:
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Look at this fO0l’s comment
I swear this guy na fool, big fool . He never know women
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:14pm On May 20, 2020
gunners160:
1. don't take it personal she said it out of anger and she was fustrated of which every woman in her shoes will feel dsame

2. She needs love and not nagging. Things are not getting well his your duty to give her the assurance she needs that things will change for the best

3. leave that area so that she won't and you also won't be envious of the guy's success so as to enable u focus on making yourself better

4. See what she says as a challenge and become best in what you do ,if possible start a business. You too can become rich .....

5. Lastly dont listen to those small kids who tells u to end ur marriage or d marriage is over. It is just starting u can make it rossy again
u are a fool, u never know women. The guy marriage is now having problem getting rich is the only solution not relocation pple dey talk for here
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:16pm On May 20, 2020
Brainardc:
maybe she married you because you were able to satisfy her in the oza room....now you know you should not marry because of sexual gratification
Bros, very difficult to understand women

I think they just want everything perfect and handed out to them on aplata
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by MrPaul2: 7:16pm On May 20, 2020
arthorjnr:
The said EX had the last laugh. Lol
Karma is a b.itch.
Your wife cheated on him with you and now she regrets it because of how things turned out?


Females are fickle.

Dear Young Man, HUSTLE.
The painful part is that her ex don't even know she is crying like this. Please help me with the address of her ex I need to let him know. grin grin

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by JayJayGee: 7:17pm On May 20, 2020
Dpharisee:


Whenever I see @the bolded I wonder if the thread was created just to generate traffic. How come you don't want us to know your past history on this forum and from there understand your temperament and apply same in our analysis to help your situation?

Anyway, just pack comot from that area go find house in a far away location since you are still a tenant, a place where she won't have to pass his residence daily and it keeps reminding her of her betrayal of the ex and how you used the sweetness of your dick inside her Kpekus to scatter her brain from marrying her now successful ex.
Bro no cap, all these lockdown threads about marriages and relationships na to genrate traffic. It's not a bad thing sha but it's just that I can see through them
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by tweakdude1: 7:18pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.


Guy! it's not your fault that this is happening.
Your wife should be accountable for her own choice for agreeing to move in with you. Moreover, women are moved by what they see.

My advice to you is improve yourself now that you know, talk to your wife both of you are matured.

According to my Bible one chase 1,000 but two chases 10,000
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:18pm On May 20, 2020
bigiyaro:
OP, you made your choice, live with whatever comes with it. Also you enticed and "snatched" her from her guy cos he was not stable then, what makes you think if someone comes with a juicy enticement, she won't leave you?
Again you are just a victim of circumstances, karma is just paying back your wife for dumping someone that shared with her his little resources.
lastly let her regret her regret its not your regret, its your ego that was just bruised.
the wife is money minded, guys should stop going for money minded girls

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by dynamic007(m): 7:20pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

Sorry bro, your marriage is over already. It's unfortunate you find yourself in this position but truth be told whatever you see or don't see from your supposed wife from here on shouldn't come as a shock to you.
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:21pm On May 20, 2020
zacckid23:
Your wife no sabi wetin dey do her. I'm sure she loved her ex but while her ex was travelling it seems to her that her ex wasn't ready for marriage, here you came promising her marriage she saw what she wanted because she was ready for that she didn't follow you because of the sex bro. She never realised she betrayed him when she followed you. Its now when he has gotten money that she now know she has betrayed him. Guy my advice for you is to leave her if she wants to go. Because we think about 100% of what we say before we say them. So she must have been harbouring such thinking since. My advice for you is that if she wanna leave you just leave her without a second thought. With your word shows that your marriage is still young ... If she wants a divorce, grant her and hustle more bro I'm so sure in the next 15-17 years she will still come back to regret leaving you. Because she doesn't understand that she has to endure all consequence that follows decision. She made the decision to get married to you why must she regret her decision early
Wise man
I like ur advise
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:23pm On May 20, 2020
[/b][quote author=ITbomb post=89762511]This one strong o
Even me and [b]80% of women would feel regret

Just hustle up and move away from the hood.
When I married, I moved to another part of town and started afresh [/q[quote][/quote I pity this guy if he doesn't get rich soon cos the marriage problem he started
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by OsuIgboIpob: 7:23pm On May 20, 2020
gunners160:
1. don't take it personal she said it out of anger and she was fustrated of which every woman in her shoes will feel dsame

2. She needs love and not nagging. Things are not getting well his your duty to give her the assurance she needs that things will change for the best

3. leave that area so that she won't and you also won't be envious of the guy's success so as to enable u focus on making yourself better

4. See what she says as a challenge and become best in what you do ,if possible start a business. You too can become rich .....

5. Lastly dont listen to those small kids who tells u to end ur marriage or d marriage is over. It is just starting u can make it rossy again
@ number two.

You can never make it nor be great in life if you continue to have that mentality.

So, it's only a woman that needs love abi?
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by MrPaul2: 7:24pm On May 20, 2020
chronique:
Sorry but that ex would soon start using his rod of Moses to scatter her konko below. How can you marry someone you stole on your street and still continue to stay there after marrying her?

Hahahaha they guy need to reap what he sow. He knew she had a boyfriend and still went after her that's greed. Just allow the guy to scatter her down below now that he is rich why you endure the same pain the guy felt back then.
So that in your next live you will not go after peoples girlfriend again grin grin Nonsense
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by NOETHNICITY(m): 7:24pm On May 20, 2020
justuschi50:
the wife is money minded, guys should stop going for money minded girls
Bros. Which one is not money minded?
Pls don't decieve yourself with the things those tell you, about how they are not moved by money
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by Moshood58(m): 7:25pm On May 20, 2020
The best thing to do is for you to relocate and double ur hustle.

Be careful don't let woman push u into money ritual in other for u to meet up with her ex.

And be calm. shocked
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by deavicky(m): 7:25pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.
just go and make money her head will reset.
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by justuschi50: 7:25pm On May 20, 2020
DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.
guy my advice for you is to move away from there and get rich o, cos situation don change o wife don dey run small small

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Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by emmaodet: 7:26pm On May 20, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


WHAT TO REMEMBER THE MOST IS THAT SHE'S LUSTING AFTER HIM AND WOULD KILL THIS MAN JUST TO HAVE AN EXTRA NIGHT WITH THE DON.
I'M TEMPTED TO SAY SHE NEVER STOPPED LOVING THE EX, AND NEVER LOVED THIS MAN... BUT THEN, IF THE FINANCIAL SITUATIONS OF BOTH MEN WERE TO BE SWAPPED, WILL SHE NOT BE COUNTING HERSELF LUCKY FOR LEAVING THE EX?
THIS FURTHER PROVES YOUR THEORY CORRECT. WOMEN ONLY LOVE THE FINANCES, NOT YOU.

embarassed
Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Regrets Marrying Me. What Should I Do? by skywalker240(m): 7:26pm On May 20, 2020
Davash222:
For the wife to utter such words to him directly, I don't think any hustle or packing out can help this marriage. We're adults here, let's be saying the truth.
brotherly dont be supprised before the wife utter that word, the ex might just be fucking her already.

i can never underestimate women, she must have been nursing it on her mind, women are very calculative when it comes to matters of fidelity.

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