IbrahimSkiba:
It's about time, I deactivate my account here.

Cos nairaland forum, will never stop promoting hate against women here.


Godforbid

Bleep out!!

I personally hate women with pure passion...

And nobody is promoting hate against women,threads about what women do to hurt men is posted here so that they(men) can be careful when dealing with those species...

Davash222:
I rather use that money and start training Broilers. After 4 months, I'll sell the fowls and make alot of money.
Training a Nigerian girlfriend in school is Investment of no Returns.

My nicca.

I have someone who did it and regretted at last. Once your girlfriend enters school my brother forget it, good things is not meant for only one person. It's risky to sponsor her it's better you use the money to invest on any profitable business. Thanks

I did that some years ago. I sponsored her from secondary school up to higher insistution. After her graduation we got married. This year makes it the eleventh years since we've married. One thing is that if you find a girl that really love you and you trust her, why not.

Bola146:
Yes I'll if see the real potentials in him. It's not necessary we get married. I'll do it for humanity

why you dey lie like this?

igwegeorgiano:
Taarh no way. I won't Try such again. I have trained a girl in the university from year one till she graduated and went for service I was also responsible for every expenses regarding her NYSC only for her to sent me a wedding invite few days after her nysc and guess who she got married to? My childhood friend whom I single handedly sponsored his trip to Germany.

...God will bless u

lightangel65i:


I'll just ignore you cause idiots are meant to be ignored

Ur future plan is actually nice GET IGNORED

Blessnelly:
LOL

HELLO

Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it?

Can't do it. It will surely end in tears

MelaninSkinGirl:


Why were you not man enough to break up with her in person? What kind of weak men would break up with someone over the phone? Karma is real.

Simply put.. To avoid unnecessary drama and to save your head in the case of an "unstable" girl.

Typing From experience.

Why not?

It depends on your mental health, emotional and psychological stamina and robustness to handle a heart break when you have spent a lot training her. If you know you will die or commit murder in such a gamble then for all reasonable reasons, GET THE HELL OUT OF THE CASINO. DONT MAKE SUCH A GAMBLE IF YOU CANT BEAR THE LOSS!

She didn't charm you to assist her. You took the chance. Besides nothing is guaranteed.

The major problem is that the heart break, if the relationship goes south, is much more. Very painful.

Simply because you have committed time, effort, money, etc. So when she starts sleeping with another man or when she tells you she can't marry you, it hurts. You feel betrayed.

This is not common to men at the receiving end alone. Women sponsor men. Buy them stuff. Land them jobs etc. And the men still fuc..k their sisters or the house helps or their Best friends.

Some woman favour men through their dads conenct and the men betray them. Beat them up and even kill them.

Besides even if she marries you, the marriage can still break. Sponsoring her is not the issue. Ask yourself, when she starts telling you how she loves another person will you be able to count your losses and move on quietly?


If the answer is NO, then don't try it. You don't have their psychological strength and mental stamina for such a heart break. Avoid it.

As for me, I can do it.

For girlfriend...No cuz it will end in tears...

Wife sef...na catering or fashion school...I don't like stress...

myke92:


Simply put.. To avoid unnecessary drama and to save your head in the case of an "unstable" girl.

Typing From experience.

What made her *unstable* I hate it when you men mess with a girl psychologically then brand the girl unstable. It is a cruel thing to do. It's a funny world, what goes around comes around!!!

Girlfriend: It depends
Fiancee: Yes
Wife: YES

IbrahimSkiba:
It's about time, I deactivate my account here.

Cos nairaland forum, will never stop promoting hate against women here.


Godforbid

My dear no need deactivating your account.

Simply dont log into nairaland often. Browse other forums and websites.

And lastly if u want to have a happy love relationship? don't date any guy here. Their mindset is somethingelse. You can have friends here if u wish but Dating is zero.

Thank me later

NO.

And no one should do that.

It amazes me how some of you think. .To have unmerritted favour in your life , you must do extra ordinary good things to your fellow human being . You must believe in golden rule ...one of them is do onto others how you want them to do to you. Above all you should learn to help without syringe attached...that is when you begin to see favour here and there in your life. I am talking from experience . I trained my ex who happen to be my baby mama . ...Even though the relationship produced a child, we didn't marry . Recently she called me to info me of a tragic incident of fire that took place in her compound . The 5 flats all got burnt ..,no tenant came out with a single pin....yet I am gonna support with the little I have....I am not doing that cos of my child but cos I believe every good thing we do will alway have good reward. There is nothing wrong in training your girl friend .

Riele:


Catch me in real life ?

I love to see him try it .

if this is how u behave real life, then u deserve to be dealt with physically, i dont support men hitting women but ur case is an exception..however im sure u are not like this real life, u are just acting vile to look cool to us, and its really childish of u..

I can't even try it with my wife

backbone503:
If you don't have a large heart fortified with thick pericardium, don't just try it. However, I'll wholeheartedly do it for my girl. Just for the love I have for her, and not in anticipation of anything.

I bet you there won't be much love left when you come to discover someone is deepthroating her...

MelaninSkinGirl:


What made her *unstable* I hate it when you men mess with a girl psychologically then brand the girl unstable. It is a cruel thing to do. It's a funny world, what goes around comes around!!!

Unstable as in.. Naturally crazy.

Those ones who are ready to smash your TV over a petty argument

zcee:
Bleep out!!

I personally hate women with pure passion...

And nobody is promoting hate against women,threads about what women do to hurt men is posted here so that they(men) can be careful when dealing with those species...

Nīgga shut the fúck up?

Who cares about what you think?

Pussy

Bitcoinomy:
The issue is that some people offers help without a true heart. If you helping someone, help without expecting anything in Return. If anything come out of it, fine. Depression only comes when you get disappointed after you expected some favor in return.

So as a guy, the only person you must help is a lady with hopes of marrying her? So you can't help anyone else, Male, Female, Young, Old without expecting someone from them in return??

Don't even help any female ok don't try it are you father Christmas

Nigerian gals are not it ...give them a little help and teach them lessons that money is not picked on the floor or plucked from trees

Why will a girl have a poor mentality to depend on a struggling guy to pay her school fees it's not done any where in the world

Poverty have made these girls loose sense nowonder most naija gals are doing olosho form home we know them we see them on inmessage app and tinder

Shame shame

I will advise a sensible young guy never sponsor any gal you are dating in school don't try it never pay her upkeep if you are dating ok

Again don't allow her to wash your clothes do your thing your self the only thing she can do once in a while is cooking

You must be serious when dating don't date for nothing date because you wanna marry ok

zcee:
Bleep out!!

I personally hate women with pure passion...

And nobody is promoting hate against women,threads about what women do to hurt men is posted here so that they(men) can be careful when dealing with those species...

Nīgga shut the fúck up?

Who cares about what you think?

Pussy

No.. when hv not trained my self in school finish^_^

There are mistakes people do repeat often, sponsoring a girl is like upgrading her, now mind you if you don't keep upgrading yourself too definitely two of you can't be on the same level

Johntemmy:
As stated on the topic.. Can you do it?

As long as na spare change. Won't use my savings to train a girl am not married to -that one na bet oh-an like betting, you use your surplus not capital

Davash222:
I rather use that money and start training Broilers. After 4 months, I'll sell the fowls and make alot of money.
Training a Nigerian girlfriend in school is Investment of no Returns.

NEVER

Guy never try it... Girls aren't loyal

Mykel51:


I bet you there won't be much love left when you come to discover someone is deepthroating her...

Very simple: You let her go. No regrets nor I'll feelings. You did what you had to do for her. That's where the large heart and thick pericardium comes into play.

Davash222:
I rather use that money and start training Broilers. After 4 months, I'll sell the fowls and make alot of money.
Training a Nigerian girlfriend in school is Investment of no Returns.

I did that but I make sure I have a baby from her as a back up plan for my investment. So if later she feels she is not interested I have my MINI ME