A desperate 32 year old lady was chatting with a guy sometimes ago. The guy's looks older and all was going well until one day the lady stylishly asked for his age and found out she's four years older than the guy.

Haunty was disappointed and pretended as if nothing happened and she stopped chatting with him to the extent of blocking him off.

Some are being controlled by the spirit of confusion and always at the crossroad.

My simple advice is if you are submissive and you won't change you can continue but if you notice you have little pride in you please safe yourselves from future regret. It's not advisable for an Egocentric lady to marry her junior. I'm talking from experience.

In this case... Age is just a number .... When we are in love.
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martineverest:
Na age u dey marry Abi Na human being??

stupid question

you obviously didn't read the story. You just see headline, begin comment off point. Na wa for people like you o!

Gals can be very disrespectful sha..
My babe wey I senior with about 6 months no dey forget to remind me say ma just 6 month i use senior her oh..

Tell her to follow her guts and jaapa! The guy already revealed his true intentions, even if it does lead to marriage, he's going to resent her one day due to the age. A marriage is not real if both partners cannot be free with one another, in this case if the woman should ever ever argue with him or get angry or even criticize him in any shape por form, his mind is going to revert to the age difference. The percentage of guys able to marry an older lady and not resent her later is very very rare, pls use caution tell her to use caution!

I've been in this exact situation, mine was 6 months older than me. We never really discussed age since we were in same class. Fast forward to 20yrs later as fate brought us back together and we discussed age, as soon as she discovered she was older, her attitude changed. She became bossy and stopped seeing herself as my equal in every sphere. I had to just manage the relationship for old time sake.

You have done the right thing to have open up to tell him the truth now, if he wants to marry you, he is genuine. The important thing is that you have told him the truth unlike many women who tell lies about their age, if the man finds out after marriage hatred starts. I have seen so many.

Haven't thought of marrying a younger person. But if it happens, I will take with good fate. Not more than a year anyway.

As far as the guy is bigger than her physically and behaves like a mature man, he has no problem. She will respect him. Unless he is shorter or a lot thinner than her then there is a big problem ahead.

THE MAN SHOULD BE WORRIED NOT D LADY.IF HE HAS AGREED NO PROBLEM EXCEPT SHE IS READY TO RUB SHOULDER WITH HIM.IT 'S BETTER AS SHE OWNED UP.I HAV SEEN SUCH RELATIONSHIP WORK.UNDERSTANDING MATTERS

jydmak:
what matters in a relationship is love and respect. When this two qualities are there, u will think less of d age difference.

We are influenced by our environment. Life is naturally difficult, you now additionally add environmental or cultural pressures...hmmm

frank417:
As far as the guy is bigger than her physically and behaves like a mature man, he has no problem. She will respect him. Unless he is shorter or a lot thinner than her then there is a big problem ahead.

Speaking from experience abi?

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

If he actually replied like that, she should end it because under slight pressure, he will hurt her with words I doubt she could bear.

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

Age is but a number. That's the way I see it. Mutual respect is what is important not age bracket. The guy is not serious because of age you will call off the relationship . Madam please move on. He's not serious

Offpoint:

Woman senior you with 3 years and you dey proud of that.... When you know they age faster.
I pity you

...lol. talking like your moniker

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

What if he is older then acts like a teenager?

Age is just a number!

Maturity is all that matters!

[quote author=Trayceey post=90593149]A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlihttps://youtu.be/MyfrG2R1DgU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MyfrG2R1DgU

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Eileene:


You are right,most ladies prefer their man to be older cos it kinda make u feel secured and submission becomes easy.Aside that an older partner is more experienced and tolerant.

if the guy is to be her husband then she should be the one to respect him not the other way round.
The question she should be asking herself is will she be able to respect him knowing fully well she is older than him.

Aside from age does the guy have other qualities to command her respect.

lastly if quarrel burst I hope she won't start shouting I am not ur mate up nd down

A girl can be younger than you and still insult life out of you.. I have seen a case of a lady insult her husband who is 15yrs older than her..

Marriage is solely based on love, respect, happiness and money.

I senior the guy I'm dating with 9yrs and it's no big deal because we accord each other the necessary respect. He's so matured and I love him for it. He has never given me a reason to regret the relationship.
Age na number joor...
Love lives here...

Trayceey:
A friend of mine just opened up to me about her relationship. She said when she met her man, she assumed she was younger than him because he looked so big and more mature than her and he also acts mature than her.

One day, they were discussing their age and she found out she was older, so she had to lie about her age. The relationship went on and the love grew stronger, then a day came, she asked him if he can marry a lady older than him, he said 'never' she asked what if it's just one year? He still said ' never'. Then she asked him that what if he later found out that his girlfriend is older, what would he do? He said he would end the relationship.

She said she couldn't bear it any longer and so she opened up to him about her age. That she's a year older than him. She wants him to know before it's too late. After opening up to him, she was expecting him to end the relationship but he didn't. He's still coming for her, he still loves her and wants to marry her. But she's withdrawing from the relationship because of what the guy said earlier.

Please advise her. I will show her your comments

Trust me at the end of day he will not marry her for saying that. Who is saying age is just a number, when they marry now and there's is a dispute, you will hear that lady saying I am not your age mate which will cause more conflict.

Been with my woman for 17 years. She s 2 years Older than me. Age is no barrier. If you love her forget about age.

Okay

is the age showing in her body? as in wen the guy and the lady are standing together does she look like his elder sister or mother?
this is one advantage of being with a petite lady cos even if she is older it wont manifest in her physically.she will still be looking chic and sexy

Samsimple:
just tell us it's you, not your friend

nah the babe , she just dey scope us say nah her friend

Trayceey:
she's not worried about being older than the guy. She's worried about that statement he made

Then she shud ask him why isn’t he following the statement he made earlier. Or what has changed since then?? There shud be an explanation.

As far as I’m concerned there is no difference btwn 1 year older and 1 year younger. They are thesame thing.

What matters is how people act and how they look depending on ur priorities in a partner which u must carefully know.

If appearance is ur department go for sm1 not just younger or older bt sm1 who knows how to maintain their appearance. Most ladies just enjoy blowing up after marriage it’s almost ridiculous some even b4 marriage. Lol

Prince Williams is a year or months younger than Kate bt they look great.

Petyprincess:
Wow!! The truth is most ladies like being younger to their partner which I'm inclusive.
I can't date a guy I'm 1 day older than him so i do understand how she feels.

As long as the guy will respect her there shouldn't be a problem bt I'm doubting because most Nigerian horseband always want to feel superior nd authoritative.

girls and mumu behavior. person no leave u u dey withdraw, na age be love? Akeredolu wife senior him with 3 yrs, see dem today.
Age is a mere. number.. carry on