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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Liposure: 12:19am On Jun 16, 2020 |
IJEYdiamond:ijeylolo1 what say u |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by edwinbiz(m): 12:19am On Jun 16, 2020 |
May I not end up with a woman like this, what nonsense, he’ll soon be required to buy a car for her brother. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by davillian(m): 12:20am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Once I perceive This entitlement thing from any woman I'm gone and not even looking back..... 1 Like |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Decallmemartin(m): 12:20am On Jun 16, 2020 |
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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by WHITELIGHTER: 12:23am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Liposure: I swear my brother .... although its something I have noticed before now, but this tops the cake |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Mikeparlo12(m): 12:23am On Jun 16, 2020 |
The more reason we have to revisit the bride price of Igbo ethnic group. Some of the elders are just wicked. They don't think of what will happen to the bride when she finally move to the husbands house. Bride price will be like Chemistry questions. I give it to the Yorubas.... they make life easy they share the wedding expenses... not just living it to the grooms family.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by OB3344(m): 12:23am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Dear lady or woman or whatever you are , do you even have sense , are you even Educated, after ur family have extorted the young man during wedding,you still want him to keep on contributing to ur family....for getting angry that he said he is not contributing anything, you're a NITWIT and you are blunt and mannerless....maybe na ur body make him marry u sef...as for sense (-0.5)...mtcheeeew. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Clinton207: 12:24am On Jun 16, 2020 |
this is so surprising ! wait how much did the your said brother contribute in helping your husband pay/meet your family demand for marrying you? my friend your brother is still a boy and not ripe for marriage, he should focus on becoming a better man! |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Wiseandtrue(f): 12:24am On Jun 16, 2020 |
elektra:After selling his daughter, he's still expecting compensation Na wa oooo 2 Likes |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by bptc10: 12:27am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Not only your husband contributing to your brother marriage you guys should also tax him to pregnant your brother wife, NONSENSE |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by lordrukker1: 12:28am On Jun 16, 2020 |
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Re: Should The Man Pay It? by thomas(m): 12:28am On Jun 16, 2020 |
You should have told him that it wasn't marriage you were looking for but an investor. So he could raise your bride price alone and your family had no mercy to reduce anything? what is stopping your brother to raise his own? your father actually sat down and give you your own share to pay or your husband to pay? Definitely this must be an Ibo thing ,the way you so much place emphasis on money over people's mental well being. If you don't understand you better know now that your husband didn't anything into a financial draining agreement cos he married you. If you even remotely think by marrying you he owes your family any financial responsibility then you are in the wrong contract , for that is not what marriage is meant for. This is how you go about sending young men to early graves with stress, when your father got married no one was this hard on him, ask your mother. Imagine sounding like the man is committing a crime . |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by InvertedHammer: 12:30am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Jeffrey12:/ I would have told my father-in-law to go to hell. His son should hustle to raise money the way I hustled to pay the extortion fee. Final final...return my money and take the daughter back. The family is a leech and must be avoided at all cost. Out of N400k, they expect the guy to contribute almost 30%. The guy is in hell by marrying from that family. I blame the guy--he is a slowpoke for getting entangled with the family in the first place. They will destroy his home with silly requests supported by an uncompromising wife. / 2 Likes |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Charly68: 12:31am On Jun 16, 2020 |
God have mercy ,I they know your husband will be part of the family ,they should have treated him well when he came to marry you..let your brother that is old enough to marry go and source for fund,your husband will support his in-law as he so desire not by obligation. Please note that whether he gives to his in-laws is a privilege and not an obligation . know how to protect your home from the influence of your own family .. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by chukzyfcbb: 12:36am On Jun 16, 2020 |
wait so I am supposed to be sending money to my wife's parents monthly and support my brother in-law wedding bride price if I am married. Haha, even God know say I never dey mad to try this one. May I never fall inside such family in Jesus name, amen! Inukwa! |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Hahjascho(m): 12:36am On Jun 16, 2020 |
humilitypays:Increase the volume pls! ..lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Liposure: 12:37am On Jun 16, 2020 |
BABANGBALI:oga ur blood de hot |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:38am On Jun 16, 2020 |
thorpido: my brother ,that's Igbo tradition o, my relative who married from that side is currently looking like a pencil,may God give that man long life my uncle now pays school fees for the wife younger sister my uncle now contribute to every occasion that takes place in the wife's family (Igbo) infact my uncle first child name is also an Igbo name. and I also believe the Bride price my uncle payed is also equivalent to the op Bride price it's so unbelievably ,after collection of huge amount of money from you son in-law to be ,few months later you are still asking him to contribute for another occasion,some human being no get conscience oo igbo people fear them oo,,,who no go know know 1 Like |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by redsun(m): 12:39am On Jun 16, 2020 |
How can your brother have a wedding if he can't foot the bills himself? And you will need to to get a job to start helping your immediate (primary) and extended (secondary) families. 70,000 nairas is a pittance in Nigeria and it is barely enough to take care of an individual's running cost for two weeks in Nigeria, let alone, a couple and extended costs. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Liposure: 12:42am On Jun 16, 2020 |
chukzyfcbb:my bro its called palliative |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:42am On Jun 16, 2020 |
chukzyfcbb: then u better not marry an Igbo lady ,else OYo na your own ,, if I have not see this happening in my eyes I would have said the story is fabricated but it is not ,it is happening , |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by VickyRotex(f): 12:43am On Jun 16, 2020 |
BABANGBALI: You for make small sense oo if not for the rubbish rubbish rubbish wey you take end am. 0/10!!! |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by chukzyfcbb: 12:45am On Jun 16, 2020 |
larryking540:I know it happens, that's why I am saying may I never fall into such family. it's things like these that make mehn not to go past age 55 in Nigeria coz they carry too much burden on them that thier body system fails quickly |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:46am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Clinton207: abi you should be asking how much the younger brother added to the Bride price list ,it seems most Nigeria are ignorant of how Igbo tradition plays ,....try make friends with Igbo people then you will not their tradition better ,the op Bride price even small ,a family friend of my payed roughly 700k including the Ghana must go of wrappers and tubers of yam ,last last the marriage no even get head, everybody don Waka e seperate way |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by chukzyfcbb: 12:46am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Liposure:na straw Dem put for inside that man body, Dem no go stop until Dem suck all I'm blood finish. |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:48am On Jun 16, 2020 |
chukzyfcbb: yes na ,I have never had an Igbo lady as a girlfriend and I don't even plan to , most Igbo lady escape with their said boyfriend to a new destination to avoid these crazy Bride price and many don't go back home for ever 1 Like |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:48am On Jun 16, 2020 |
chukzyfcbb:lol |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by redsun(m): 12:49am On Jun 16, 2020 |
No one should marry a burden. Marriage is primarily for convenience; both sides. 2 Likes |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by larryking540: 12:50am On Jun 16, 2020 |
BABANGBALI:10/10 |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by Nobody: 12:51am On Jun 16, 2020 |
I see a post like this and I ask myself once again...do I really want to get married most especially to these Nigerian women who think this way wow 1 Like |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by babadem2much(m): 12:54am On Jun 16, 2020 |
That's why a priest said there's difference between wife and madam.... This madam want to detect how things should be not minding the miger salary he is collecting... Intact the family craze de run for their DNA... You no pity pesin but you still wan come milk am... Thunder where art thou? |
Re: Should The Man Pay It? by amosrich(m): 12:55am On Jun 16, 2020 |
Hmmm...na wa oh... It's high time some families emancipated themselves from mental slavery sha |
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