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Rozz:
He wasn't serious and didn't love you truly as you thought .Dont bother as the right person will stay with or without no 1

paulolee:
nice mr o.p... pls include
6..always try be supportive to him financially when dating or married no matter how much he earns...that small support give him, do matters....
i remember female co worker telling us her story that she do send 10k airtime monthly to her richer fiancee that do work in an oil company,
said she remembers how the guy do complain that she should keep her "change" and use it on herself and that she should "stop disturbing his phone with such peanuts"
but she kept sending the airtime as soon as she gets her monthly alert,
and a year after the guy proposed to her with a sweet ride just last year,
and also told her that what won his heart isn't about the small money she do send, but its her CONSISTENCY AND her PERSEVERANCE that always kept him surprised whenever he gets that crazy alert
because he keeps playing down the airtime and telling her to stop but she kept sending,
saying that such wife would always be there even when he goes broke...

Alexaonfleek:
Support financially when dating ke......
So that it will end in tears later

tydi:
Shut up. Men don't easily give up or lack directions, women does.. Haven't you heard the saying that women don't know what they want?

Rozz:
one of the lines they use,e no work again abi you want to try the stomach ache approach? lol

pretydiva:
Thanks dear. It hurts tho. I kinda miss him. Have moved on

extol1:
what is your former moniker. how can you just tell us that you are a virgin when you just registered today

paulolee:
lolz...i mean serious relationship because it commands respect

backbone503:
You all preach "No to Pre-marital sex", but none of you marries as a virgin. You're just a bunch of hypocrites.

I feel when of age, its ok to have sex if you feel you need it, but be responsible.

Rozz:
Dont worry,someone more deserving will come your way in no distant time.

Chicent:
And when a marriage crashes as a result of that??

Let me share a quick true life story with you... A woman met a man who later became her husband but the man suggested no sex before marriage and she joyful accepted, then years later they settled down after getting married legally and then it was time to do the bedroom things and she found out that her husband's manhood was very tiny.... like too tiny for sight, not to talk of satisfaction. She started calling for divorce because she couldn't deal.... Save your self from shame and embarrassment if you have to. My ²cent.

Opeade939:
Well,let me add this.
Be Independent.....You don't have to depend on your man for everything,he's not your atm.

LINTUNE:
so if there is no sex in tye relationship, whats in , for the guy?..u expect the poor guy to continue spending money on u without nothing in return, ...i still insist, that its only virgin gals that have the right to say no to sex in a relationship...

Stevyne:
Where in Ajah do you reside,
Let's hookup

Alexaonfleek:
Support financially when dating ke......
So that it will end in tears later

Rozz:
Then simply don't spend your money and don't pester for sex too.Only virgin guys deserves a virgin girl too, men's virginity is equally as important as female virginity

Rozz:
Do away with this mentality,some of these women were left with no choice than to leave.Most divorce and separation are caused by the men

vickydevoka:
It goes both ways, stop thinking lyk Nsukka woman.
N if de guy spends on u n u finally leave him nko. This is era of gender equality.

Ishilove:
Preach

Ishilove:
Preach

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

LINTUNE:
if it was so, the penis ought to have hymen..we all know that virginity is more pronounced in women than in men, hence why is it a very important attrbute for women and not men..it has been so for thousands of years and it will continue to be so , till kingdom come.. try to be logical in ur perspective and dont involve emotions ok...we also know that, sex is another way of expressing love, i mean some sex o..lol

Rozz:
We are talking of marriage here and you won't argue the fact that women give their all in marriage,no woman will carelessly abandon her home but you men of this generation frustrate women alot leaving them with no other option than to leave.Most of this generation men wants to get married but live a single life,it can't work that way.

Rozz:
if you are a Christian,show me where in the Bible showing virginity is only meant for the women?this is the mentality that most men carry thereby wandering about with reckless abandon.Only a virgin man deserves a virgin woman period.

paulolee:
nice mr o.p... pls include
6..always try be supportive to him financially when courting and even married no matter how much he earns...that small support give him, do matters....
i remember female co worker telling us her story that she do send 10k airtime monthly to her richer fiancee that do work in an oil company,
said she remembers how the guy do complain that she should keep her "change" and use it on herself and that she should "stop disturbing his phone with such peanuts"
but she kept sending the airtime as soon as she gets her monthly alert,
and a year after the guy proposed to her with a sweet ride just last year,
and also told her that what won his heart isn't about the small money she do send, but its her CONSISTENCY AND her PERSEVERANCE that always kept him surprised whenever he gets that crazy alert
because he keeps playing down the airtime and telling her to stop but she kept sending,
saying that such wife would always be there even when he goes broke...

vickydevoka:
Fattest lie of the century.
Women dat has bad mouth n attitude can't stay long in marriage.
Also to those who wants to live flamboyant life above her means can't stay long in marriage

SmartPolician:
Every lady who really loves a guy must do this no matter how much he earns

He may tell you that it doesn't matter, but it does

Don't expect him to throw you a party on your birthday and take you out on his own birthday

That's the height of wickedness

No matter how much we pretend, guys love to be loved too. We cannot keep giving without receiving anything