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| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by flyingpig: 4:03pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
abbey621:Funny expression ![]() |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:I didn't say Nigerian American though... And no, Nigerian American are just like their African American brethren. You can never see them bleach. They are so super proud of their melanin-rich skin. Unlike those at home who feel inferior with their skin color and think they look more beautiful when they are lighter. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:04pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
abbey621:Which part of the US do you live in? I never said all Nigerian Americans have Nigerian passports but I said the ones I have met and the ones around me all go to Naija every year. I have also met some who only eat Nigerian food. It all ultimately boils down to the upbringing tho. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Admitwithschola: 4:04pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:It's good that you stated 6 & 7, at least so that some of us can be aware. Me, I plan a full Nigerian family and don't care whether anyone thinks I'm a typical 1970s naija baba. So, I actually don't care about any one's success if it will compromise my "full naija ideal". So, for instance, arrogance, shoddy and the other rubbish doesn't work with me...And I don't care if the person's GPA was 4/4 at Harvard or 5/5 at MIT. Also, the lady must cook and clean..I know how to do these things and can help out, but splitting chores with me - no way. I would rather go for just an OK somebody who meets my own ideals and I too meet their ideals than go for some "overly successful" person whose outlook compromises my ideals. Meanwhile, I agree with points 1 - 8 minus 6 & 7. Ko le work...I understand oyinbo guys don't mind such, so maybe they can go for them. Anyway, to each his own. Good points overall - just wanted to add that there are many Nigerian girls here doing well and who do not fall into 6 & 7. But many tend to come her for work or study rather than being born here. I also hear that many of the ones you described, they avoid and snob Naija guys who are looking for "green card" marriage. And many do this, sometimes to their detriment. One guy told me a Texas Naija lady, after he approached her, just assumed he was interested in her because of wanted green card. lol. A guy that already got H1B to green card from his company. The lady later got to know the bobo no need green card oo and was trying to right wrongs, but bobo has moved on. Successful naija guys have principles and values. They too won't compromise. Notwithstanding sha, if I see naija girl that fits your 1 - 8 minus 6&7, and meets my other personality test, omo I will try to know her "more better". |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Miracle112(m): 4:04pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
OP is 100% correct. Currently m dating a Nigerian raised in American Girl and believe me babe is good. Everything Op said is true |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by RTSC: 4:05pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
I heard that they are very arrogant, just like you have said. If I go to America, the last thing I would do is date a Nigerian lady. I have been with them all my life. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Interesting thread... ![]() |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Ebenezerk2: 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
I totally agreed with the writer except 2 major things, maybe he wanted to say 5.7 height at least, it’s very rare to see someone with 6.7 height, and also they like to cook, even if they don’t know how to cook certain foods, they would want to learn it because they know that men look at this in them before dating any of them, but you have to help in household activities as he rightly said, I learned that here |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by lamentor78(m): 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
They should date themselves, I prefer my local babe here, ....oh their parents they look for husband for their daughters back home it can't work.....make dem carry their bad manner marry trump |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:The parents of those Nigerian girls you are talking about they're immigrants who migrated from Nigeria. They're still immigrants by context. But op those Nigerian girls you are talking about are mostly the elite in Nigeria who migrated in the USA or those through lottery, or scholarships (those who excel through academics). OP I think the line should be drawn on this certainties because not all of them born in the USA is on the same bracket. same way the line is drawn when an African American want to marry a Caucasian or asia, the same certainty is used. That's the system that's used not only Nigerians because the USA is highly competitive in the type of job's, class, employment. This is just my own opinion I decided to add. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Depressed101: 4:08pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
punisha: there is this my friend that keeps posting thier fight on his whatsapp status come see fight, they even pass out. And they don't care |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Admitwithschola: 4:09pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:You're correct - although I only first left Nigeria 11 years ago, wherever I am, I identify fully as Nigerian (taking the shame and glory that come with this) and don't do that rubbish accent thingy (I kukuma don't have foreign accent). So yes, our roots are strong. I plan for my future kids to have such outlook too. And I will return to Nigeria in a few decades from now.. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by freddaboh(m): 4:10pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
iLegendd:That's correct bro. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:11pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Miracle112:Are you based in the US or you dey run the package remotely? ![]() |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by lightpurple: 4:12pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:Lock down really kicking your butt here huh |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Gerrard59(m): 4:12pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Interesting thread. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Salvofthesouth(m): 4:12pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
olisaEze: olisaEze: Nice write up Op, news about Naija shouldn’t be all about scammers and the likes. But for me, I’m not going to date any Naija gal that just moved to the states neither am I going to bring any gal over as wife! Those ones have been so totally Nigerianized that they’re worse than the real Akata! Even buhari will be shocked at what those ones are capable of subjecting an honest Naija broda to. But for d Naija guys in yankee, we dey try sha . I’ve seen some other African dudes claiming Naija when dey think dey can get away with it. Funny how their folks back in their countries keep hating on us. ![]() Dora Akunyili (May her soul continue to RIP) said it all; Naija Good People, Great Nation!! olisaEze:This is the only interesting comments I've seen so far.. The ones living here keep hating on Nigerians but want to feel cool claiming to be one out there lol |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Admitwithschola: 4:12pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
punisha:Really? Nice one. This is a good thread. These are things any self-respecting guy MUST watch out for, just as any self respecting lady must watch out for longer lasting traits of a good man. I no say make dem no find tall, dress sense, handsome and ambitious oo. These are good, but surely not the lasting traits that nourish a good marriage. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:13pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Depressed101:Those are not Nigerian American girls. Those are usually black Americans. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by doggedfighter(f): 4:14pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by abbey621(m): 4:15pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Crispels:What I'm referring to is the summation or average. I live in Atlanta, do you know how expensive it is to eat only 9ja food in America?....lol |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by KingZaddy(m): 4:16pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
The last thing I want to do is go abroad and represent the stupid nation... I'd rather represent Iran and Iraq |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:16pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Admitwithschola:He is actually wrong. Nigerian-American girls are not troublesome at all. They will rather ignore you than to struggle with you. He is mistaking African/Black - Americans for Nigerian-Americans. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Donpaper: 4:17pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
AniOmaa:marriage is once and for all. Search well before you marry |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Admitwithschola: 4:17pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
martowskin1:Yes, it surprises me. In England then, one said she can't be cooking. At least she was factual and will attract people that are OK with that. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Admitwithschola: 4:18pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
EmekaBlue:I know this is an anonymous site, but your generalization doesn't sound sharp. There are very good ones here too and not mostly ugly as you put it |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:19pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
abbey621:I'm currently around Buckhead in Atlanta and I know of families here that eat only Naija food every day. When living with my relatives in Buckhead, we eat ”Pando yam” virtually every day. My brothers barely eat America food at all. They mostly eat the Nigerian stuff they get from the African store and farmers’ market. |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Iretii0511(m): 4:19pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:Why do you ladies usually sound too defensive in these kinds of threads? |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by EmekaBlue(m): 4:20pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
Admitwithschola:Majority carries the vote |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Hotice085: 4:21pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
| Re: Dating Nigerian-American girls in the United States by Crispels(op): 4:22pm On Jun 27, 2020 |
KingZaddy:I also thought the same until I moved abroad. You can never hide your nationality and heritage. Even if you get an American passport tomorrow, the American passport will still show Nigeria as your place of birth. |
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