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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

Poor angry broke boy. You will never find love and money with this type of vituperations.
See frustration… am not the reason your boyfriend left you ooo. Take heart my sister

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by HolyTitus(m): 12:38pm On Jul 11, 2020
I just feel I should sum up all these arguments

You can find true love when you're financially down

Also, you can find true love even if forbes recognized you as the richest man on the planet.

It all boils down to destiny...
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by angelfallz(m): 12:47pm On Jul 11, 2020
Cc. Kenplay
Your fears are justified. You also need to understand the relationship dynamics between men and women.
Men are the real romantics, due to our belief in unconditional love.
Women's hypergamy would not allow them to love the way men do(unconditional love). That's why women are attracted to and are willing to have sex with successful men. (success here can be money wise, authority wise, strength wise etc)
However, this is not to say that all women are looking for ready made successful men.
There are women who are ready to be with a man, provided that man has potential to be a success in the future.

https://www.nairaland.com/5693224/what-men-must-ensure-successful

Please read, The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity by Rollo Tomassi
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Goldp5988(f): 12:50pm On Jul 11, 2020
Westernlove:


Oloshiii lol, like the way your unfortunate simp boyfriend died on top you abi?? grin grin grin
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Dande55: 12:50pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kenplay:

See frustration… am not the reason your boyfriend left you ooo. Take heart my sister
Lol. Broke boy.
Calm down so you can see money oo.
Since you have nothing else to offer aside money, which you don't have. Lol
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Westernlove: 12:51pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kenplay:

Thanks, I think am on the awakening stage of my life which will shape my adulthood.
The world is not as innocent as I imagine it to be. Its a dangerous world, its a jungle.

Thank God you have awoken, I was once like you back then when I use to think most people have Innocent and caring heart like me. There are too many marauders out there both men and women waiting to devour you If you slack......But female beings are worst. Some of them now have more than 20 boyfriends and 10 Sugar daddies..... grin grin grin

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Dande55: 12:51pm On Jul 11, 2020
seanwilliam:
a richer man to leech on ? Clearly you are with the present man cos of money grin...
Yeah. I'm a gold digger. So?

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Kccheechy(m): 12:53pm On Jul 11, 2020
seanwilliam:
lol, so let assume you have become a popular millionaire, how would you hide it from her??
who says I must be popular because I have become a millionaire?? that's why true love will be hard to find that time...a lady who would not give you a second glance when you are struggling will lick your feet when you have arrived..you become popular when you start showing off what you've got and the only reason for showing off is to draw attention to yourself. By showing off, you will only attract the wrong kind of women. I know there are so many silent billionaires we have not heard of in this country.they live a very simple life and you can never guess they are billionaires unless you are very close to them. I personally don't fancy show off. Chioma doesn't love Davido, she loves his money. I don't want that kind of love.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

Lol. Broke boy.
Calm down so you can see money oo.
Since you have nothing else to offer aside money, which you don't have. Lol
Mehn!!! Your case is spiritual, did I tell you am broke? seems like you are sex starved.
Why not find any guy in your street to do it with you.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Westernlove: 1:00pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
who says I must be popular because I have become a millionaire?? that's why true love will be hard to find that time...a lady who would not give you a second glance when you are struggling will lick your feet when you have arrived..you become popular when you start showing off what you've got and the only reason for showing off is to draw attention to yourself. By showing off, you will only attract the wrong kind of women. I know there are so many silent billionaires we have not heard of in this country.they live a very simple life and you can never guess they are billionaires unless you are very close to them. I personally don't fancy show off. Chioma doesn't love Davido, she loves his money. I don't want that kind of love.

Nice one kecchy. But are you aware there Is nothing like "True Love" among Humans. The only one who can show us true love Is GOD only. Not even your parents will love you the way GOD loves you. The highest you will find among Humans Is Just "Love Only" For the fact now that to even find someone who will love you just the way you are not for what you have In Nigeria Is almost Impossible......
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by seanwilliam(m): 1:03pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
who says I must be popular because I have become a millionaire?? that's why true love will be hard to find that time...a lady who would not give you a second glance when you are struggling will lick your feet when you have arrived..you become popular when you start showing off what you've got and the only reason for showing off is to draw attention to yourself. By showing off, you will only attract the wrong kind of women. I know there are so many silent billionaires we have not heard of in this country.they live a very simple life and you can never guess they are billionaires unless you are very close to them. I personally don't fancy show off. Chioma doesn't love Davido, she loves his money. I don't want that kind of love.


You are not getting my point... ok take someone like olamide ( musician) as example.. assuming he didnt have true girlfriend when he was struggling, now that he is a made and popular man, how would he hide his status to find true love ?
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Kccheechy(m): 1:03pm On Jul 11, 2020
Westernlove:


Nice one kecchy. But are you aware there Is nothing luke True Love among Humans. The only one who can show us true love Is GOD only. The highest you will find among Humans Is Just "Love Only "
True talk. Only God shows true love. But you should understand what I mean by finding true love when it comes to relationships
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by seanwilliam(m): 1:04pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

Yeah. I'm a gold digger. So?
dig him while it lasts
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Westernlove: 1:05pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

Yeah. I'm a gold digger. So?

Finally they are getting bolder everyday, Power don dey now. No more pretending and biting around the bush lol...... grin grin grin

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Westernlove: 1:09pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
True talk. Only God shows true love. But you should understand what I mean by finding true love when it comes to relationships

Yes I understand you. Generally Humans don't have the capacity and are not Capable of showing "True Love" to each other. You should understand this life Is a Jungle which everyone Is trying all his/her very best to survive......E.g let me ask you, Can you lay down your life for any of your Sick Siblings?? To make matter worse, It should be the time you just Hit success at It peak...
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Westernlove: 1:28pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:
Cos most broke guys are never faithful or trustworthy. Many ladies have learnt their lessons, me included.
I dated a broke boyfriend then. I was supporting him, buy him gifts, do everything within my power to stand by him and not let him down.

When he made the cash, he said I wasn't good enough. Gave me excuses. Wasted my 4years for nothing. Thank God I was very young still and vibrant. This idiot went and married another lady he thinks was upto his standard. Lol, few months later, he came begging and saying he wants to divorce his wife and all the balderdash you scum do say.

Well, I thank God for my life now. Working and making some cash with the man that deserves my sacrifices.

Ladies learnt from you scums. Sorry, you lots have dealt with alot of ladies. If you get money, I'm sure your taste in women will change and you will start cheating on the girl that was there for you.

Please, remain single, we have enough scums in relationships already.

Dundee you are still bitterd..... grin grin grin

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Kccheechy(m): 1:35pm On Jul 11, 2020
seanwilliam:



You are not getting my point... ok take someone like olamide ( musician) as example.. assuming he didnt have true girlfriend when he was struggling, now that he is a made and popular man, how would he hide his status to find true love ?
must you be popular like Olamide when you become a millionaire?? Celebrity lifestyle is such that as far as true love is concerned, if you don't find it when you were struggling, it's (almost) impossible to find it when you have arrived unless you want to go the extra mile by moving to a place where you are not known to look for it(its not everyone who will recognize Olamide on the streets).if it's popularity you are looking for, true love will be very hard to come by.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by seanwilliam(m): 1:40pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kccheechy:
must you be popular like Olamide when you become a millionaire?? Celebrity lifestyle is such that as far as true love is concerned, if you don't find it when you were struggling, it's (almost) impossible to find it when you have arrived unless you want to go the extra mile by moving to a place where you are not known to look for it(its not everyone who will recognize Olamide on the streets).if it's popularity you are looking for, true love will be very hard to come by.




Since you dont understand what I am driving at then forget it... I cited olamide as a case study.. olamide is a musician who is rich and popular . Now let assume he just wants to find true love since he couldn't get one when he was still struggling.. how best would he do it, knowing for the fact that virtually everyone knows him.. how would he hide is status ( as a popular man and a millionaire) , and how would he find true love.
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 1:52pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

You can't be a complete idiot this morning. You didn't see where I said I was being supportive and always there for him, even in his down state? Get him gifts etc.
Of what use was he to me when he was broke? Sex kor, we even hardly see cos I was busy with my studies. He was surprised when I made first class and got offer to travel to India through my company and the offer worth thousands of dollar at my young age, the idiot wants to come back after getting married oo. The wife must be thinking she married a human being, not knowing she got married to the usual street scum. Lool. Mumu, I'm a big asset, even in your wilderness dream, you can't afford me. No woman ever in your generation can match up to my level and standard.
And lemme tell you one thing, to every disappointment is a blessing Lool.
I have an amazing man now. Who believes and supports me in every sense.
And I never even gave him what I gave to the idiot at our initial stage cos I lost interest helping men cos you scums don't worth it. But he proved me wrong.
And oh yeah, I can never be more happier and fulfilled than I am right now. So, don't ever think my comment is cos of a useless man. I come here and drop comments, and strike the heart of useless broke idiots and go my way. If you feel attacked, I'm so sorry lol.
I don't come here blowing my achievements or proving how intelligent I am. Lool. I come here to attack scums in human form.


I stopped reading at 'you can't afford me'!!

I'm not a human trafficker,so I dont buy human beings and quantifying yourself that way is a slap to all hardworking, value-imbued women out there.

Have a nice day

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 1:54pm On Jul 11, 2020
seanwilliam:




What I hate most in life is a lady saying "I stood by him when he had nothing".. now ask them what they contribute to him then, most of them would not have points..


Dont just stay with broke guys doing nothing, support him financially and in others aspect that can make him grow.. no just dey drink only garri with him and later said you was with him ..


And the truth is that no man would leave a valuable woman( if you have unique value, your man can never leave you) . That's the truth... ,value is relative though.. some ladies think sex is value ... lol .

And to the lady you quoted, that her particular post is blatant lie, you can see emotions and blackmail in the post if you read it with clear mind..

Lol...I was surprised when she replied me with another historical piece filled with stuffs I never asked for.

Anyways,I'm done with her.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 1:54pm On Jul 11, 2020
Martinez39s:
It's surprising how you believed her coçk and bull story. grin

Lol...

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Martinez39s(m): 2:02pm On Jul 11, 2020
luminouz:
Lol...
If you swallow the redpill in its fullness, you will know most of the time when these thots are lying. Woman have always loathed broke men and avoided them, she was just building up her own excuses (lies) in form of a coçk and bull story on why she would shun broke men. I could just see beyond the lies and into her unwarranted and unprovoked disdain for the OP. grin

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 2:06pm On Jul 11, 2020
Martinez39s:
If you swallow the redpill in its fullness, you will know most of the time when these thots are lying. Woman have always loathed broke men and avoided them, she was just building up her own excuses (lies) in form of a cock and bull story on why she would shun broke men. I could just see beyond the lies and into her unwarranted and unprovoked disdain for the OP. grin

If you know me here bro,you'd know I dont condone entitled women. I speak out against such.

The thing is I call my own philosophy the 'Alpha Male' while you call yours 'Redpill'

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Martinez39s(m): 2:10pm On Jul 11, 2020
luminouz:
If you know me here bro,you'd know I dont condone entitled women. I speak out against such.

The thing is I call my own philosophy the 'Alpha Male' while you call yours 'Redpill'
My G, I know you very well. Anyway, let's leave their matter. How your side? Hope say lockdown no affect you.
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by luminouz(m): 2:15pm On Jul 11, 2020
Martinez39s:
My G, I know you very well. Anyway, let's leave their matter. How your side? Hope say lockdown no affect you.

Thanks bro...

We dey manage ooh, lockdown was a bitçh dou

Have a good one
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Blackmoran(m): 2:22pm On Jul 11, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
imagine the type of lonely sad life that many of our brothas choose to live, thanks to this macho/fear of women thingy.

the minute any man believes that women are the enemy (because a few of them are good for nothing goldiggers) is the minute, you have decided to live a very lonely sad life...with no one to share that joy/good times/bad times/worries or just someone trustworthy that you can open up to.

no matter how a man want to look at it, you cant go on and on living your life like a bachelor forever (keeping women from getting close to you)... eventually you will have to give in, unless you want to end up at 60, going clubbing and looking for Reginas to bed and ask to leave in the morning. no cant do!

majority of the loudest one talking about redpill bla bla bla are going home to their wives/women. dont listen to their charade!
you need to be with someone to make you happy or fulfilled? Good for you, but remember not everyone needs that to be happy. Am not married but have a beautiful daughter my babymama is married now but she still comes to me frequently to get smashed, am not lonely due to my kind of personality and am happy with my life, I will never marry because I don't need to live with someone to be happy...
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Nobody: 2:28pm On Jul 11, 2020
victorian:








Trust me, you will calm down, love and trust her, she's for real.

You are not the first to experience such experiences from the opposite sex. I had my own fair share too. Likewise my boo as well.
But at the end, we ended up falling in love with each other.

The bond we knew is there, we can't help but place the past behind us and plan our life together.


It's just part of life jare.

When the right time comes to meet your destined wife, both of u will meet and God will handle the rest.

So relax, it's part of life process.

This life ehn? Is bigger than us and our decisions. And mind you, we are both successful in our careers.

If I have my way I won't even marry. Likewise if he has his way, he won't marry as well. Eyes Don see! Ears Don hear! But God is great, we fell helplessly inlove. Shey u see life?

My sister, i nor believe anything when you write oh.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by valgbo(m): 2:35pm On Jul 11, 2020
Kenplay:
At this stage of my life when am still on the journey of my dream is when I thought am suppose to find a true lover who will be with me and enjoy the fruit our labour in the future but the opposite is the case because ladies am meeting and dating are all after the here and now, even the ones that pretend to love you will start showing you their real character after few moment in the relationship.
Am not poor, I can provide the basics of my life and even for my siblings but I cant call myself rich for now because am still young and building my future.

I dont think I will ever love or be committed to any woman if I become rich and successful in the future because when I needed true love must have past by. I may just have baby mamas, sex mates but not any lady I will ever call a lover. Even if I eventually marry I wont be committed to her because I know she never came into my life when I was still struggling.
bro I understand you completely, now that you're still hustling is when you'll see who really loves you, not when you've finished suffering one dummy will now open shop in your life, I'm just thinking about my girlfriend now, I broke die in fact she don spend way more on me than I've on her she's my biggest motivation, and that's when the time comes na only her I go dey see, my opinion when you make it then marry somebody that's rich too, somebody that has nothing to gain from you.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Lucyspa: 2:41pm On Jul 11, 2020
Dande55:

Yeah. I'm a gold digger. So?


I love u for this reply sis. Broke men ain't shit. Being there, done that and it wasn't worth it.

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Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Dande55: 3:00pm On Jul 11, 2020
Lucyspa:



I love u for this reply sis. Broke men ain't shit. Being there, done that and it wasn't worth it.
Exactly. Ladies who have experienced their disloyalty are speaking up. They ain't worth it
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Dande55: 3:03pm On Jul 11, 2020
luminouz:


If you know me here bro,you'd know I dont condone entitled women. I speak out against such.

The thing is I call my own philosophy the 'Alpha Male' while you call yours 'Redpill'
Talking of entitlement, from a gender that thinks they own your body, cooking, submission and bringing money to the table (cos they are now undercover gold diggers) immediately you've agreed to date them.
Mtcheew.
If my testimony pain you and that ubuntu boyfriend, you can choke yourselves with electric wire.
Re: I dont think I will ever love any lady after I become rich and successful. by Dande55: 3:05pm On Jul 11, 2020
luminouz:



I stopped reading at 'you can't afford me'!!

I'm not a human trafficker,so I dont buy human beings and quantifying yourself that way is a slap to all hardworking, value-imbued women out there.

Have a nice day

Boy, you can't stand where I stand. We are not mates.

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