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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by beautyhound(m): 1:11am On Jul 20, 2020
marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

my own question is "who is the damn pretty woman"?
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Abrahamdgreat(m): 1:20am On Jul 20, 2020
SweetCunt97:
U see ur mentality? So na only ladies earning 30k u dey meet?
Your moniker, his question and ur answer is just cracking me up grin grin
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by SweetCunt97(f): 1:22am On Jul 20, 2020
Abrahamdgreat:

Your moniker, his question and ur answer is just cracking me up grin grin
Our minds are soo closed that's my a realistic moniker seem fascinating.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Nobody: 1:49am On Jul 20, 2020
majamajic:


No , alot of them . Infact in the evening , there's this bar they all normally come , that's when the wives back from work and take over
U need someone ?
iffa wozz you slap! undecided

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by eievans(m): 1:51am On Jul 20, 2020
wen she get car na so she go dey feel say she don arrive.
people wey she go mingle with go become people wey get car.
guys abi na lie I talk
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by toprealman: 2:00am On Jul 20, 2020
Remember the early days of mobile phones, someone was told not to have a phone for same reason.....lol

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by DexterousOne(m): 2:04am On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
i think it will be wonderful if the time comes when owing a car in nigeria wont be regarded as a big deal
cos its embarasing riding a 1999 camry model or benz in nigeria and ppl will still be regarding u as a bigboy or a biggirl while in other climes using a prado jeep just fresh out of the factory is regarded as a normal thing.


Nigeria is a very wretched country

What do you expect?

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by DexterousOne(m): 2:07am On Jul 20, 2020
Yankee101:
Men used to cover 100% of home expenses and didn't mind. Infact men will marry a degree holder, place her on a salary, at home.

Igbo men were very good at this. Hausa men still do it till tomorrow. AYou'll get a car, jewelry, holiday etc etc in my house. But you'll cook good food, be hygienic (when men say a woman is dirty it's not only the environment, pvssy needs to be clean too) have our kids and train them. Once in a while we'll bring the business accounts for you to go through. As the kids grow older she can pick less stressful jobs like lecturing etc

Men today are.....efulefu. Sorry

What are you talking about though? undecided
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by DexterousOne(m): 2:11am On Jul 20, 2020
yettymuse:
is this a joke?


I kid you not

I know a marriage that is set up similar to this

Not exactly

But similar


Things have really really changed

But hey?
Na their life
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by hardon1(m): 2:13am On Jul 20, 2020
uuzba:

My sister was doing a simple job and managed to buy one small Toyota.
At that time, her fiance (Now husband), was roaming the street looking for work with 3rd Class degree.
Guy no dey even near our house. Sister was just quiet and prayerful about everything.
Later, the guy threw away all his degree and used SSCE to join Helicopter pilot (Caverten). God save am. They took him. Small money enter him hand, he ran to buy V-Boot 2nd hand Benz.
Immediately he bought that one, he now proposed marriage. Na that time we come dey see him face for our house.
He's still a pilot anyway and has bought 2 other cars. As for my sister she too has bought 2 other cars.
They dashed and sold off the old ones. So they both each have 1 car now

why did you expect he would come to your house while he was broke when your sister has a car. they guy was trying to avoid insults

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by MrBigiman: 2:21am On Jul 20, 2020
marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

All man have wisined up
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by lexxxino(m): 2:56am On Jul 20, 2020
Na men dey run am
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by dalass(f): 3:50am On Jul 20, 2020
marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �

Most guys now have their eyes on the monay!

Male pride of those days be like, I must be the ultimate boss. I must have a car before my woman get hers....

These days, some guy men no send you. They will even use fine boy date older women and marry them to access the car and cash... They don't care.. Gigolos... Such even receive cars from women for shining their Kongo.. Times have changed!
grin
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by yYot: 3:52am On Jul 20, 2020
lefulefu:
i think it will be wonderful if the time comes when owing a car in nigeria wont be regarded as a big deal
cos its embarasing riding a 1999 camry model or benz in nigeria and ppl will still be regarding u as a bigboy or a biggirl while in other climes using a prado jeep just fresh out of the factory is regarded as a normal thing.

The reason Car owner is respected in Nigeria is not about the car but the ability of the owner in maintaining the Car regardless of the make and year of the car!

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by kenogbish(m): 4:31am On Jul 20, 2020
[quote author=NnamdiN post=91464234]If we see person wey work buy car we go know and we go marry am but if we also see person wey work buy car we go know and we no go marry am grin[/quote
Na man you be]

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by almarthins(m): 4:36am On Jul 20, 2020
simplepee:
Men who are scared of those kind of ladies are usually the ones that wants women to worship them. Run from them, they'll be very jealous of their wife's achievements.

They always want to take control, marriage go come turn competition, tufia.

Money controls women more than men. I think way back then, our culture conditioned men to have such mentality. And the truth is nt far fetch, woman wey get money sabi buga well well.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by AlphikkaTech: 5:18am On Jul 20, 2020
majamajic:
Then men want to be on top , not want be suppressed
But now , I have a friend in lekki his wife pays him salary , he stays at home making sure things are in order , wash her car when she back from work , take and bring the kids back from school . Though he is into system , but they are enjoying their marriage
Then , it's very rare . But now it's common
How can you keep such a person as a friend? Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are!
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:40am On Jul 20, 2020
Today babes wey dey pull on ride, Na dem sef dey chyke guys even if the guy dey roll on legedis Benz. Parole Don change oo
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by happy200(m): 5:52am On Jul 20, 2020
marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �
only a woman can write this, men are no longer interested in marriage this days, car or no car.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by Gkay1(m): 6:27am On Jul 20, 2020
pride
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by yommen: 6:33am On Jul 20, 2020
UniqueQueen12:
Lol. Okay make I go sell my car undecided

Let me know when you sell. I'll add money so you buy another one.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by madjune(m): 6:40am On Jul 20, 2020
Women are bad drivers.

She go drive you and the car comot for house.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by betexplorer901: 6:50am On Jul 20, 2020
majamajic:
Then men want to be on top , not want be suppressed
But now , I have a friend in lekki his wife pays him salary , he stays at home making sure things are in order , wash her car when she back from work , take and bring the kids back from school . Though he is into system , but they are enjoying their marriage
Then , it's very rare . But now it's common
the guy has lost is place as a man.the guy nt a man.

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by betexplorer901: 6:54am On Jul 20, 2020
dalass:


Most guys now have their eyes on the monay!

Male pride of those days be like, I must be the ultimate boss. I must have a car before my woman get hers....

These days, some guy men no send you. They will even use fine boy date older women and marry them to access the car and cash... They don't care.. Gigolos... Such even receive cars from women for shining their Kongo.. Times have changed!
grin
THE MEN ARE BUNCH OF BOYS.

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by LordOfTheGame: 6:55am On Jul 20, 2020
simplepee:
Men who are scared of those kind of ladies are usually the ones that wants women to worship them. Run from them, they'll be very jealous of their wife's achievements.

They always want to take control, marriage go come turn competition, tufia.


People should rather runaway from your kinds. You have that ego problem, and besides you don't understand the nature of a man. I met one girl one our town Facebook group, I contacted her privately and she showed interest for serious relationship but then, she began to show her stupidity. She asked me if I have kid(s), if I have car and drivers license, if I have resident permit, the job I do, how much I earn, am I the first son in my family, and all sorts of stupid and selfish questions. I answered her all but because I don't have a car and drivers license, she started playing goddess, she started being rude and harsh, she started acting like something else just because she has a car and two kids from different men. Living in a free apartment paid for by the social welfare commission, getting some child support from the gov't and the kid's fathers. You see how women behaves, just let them have a small comfort they will be carried away by it and start misbehaving.

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by majamajic(m): 6:57am On Jul 20, 2020
AlphikkaTech:

How can you keep such a person as a friend? Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are!

Not a close friend , I just know him
When u frequent a particular place , I mark friendly face , and u know these guys are friendly , they can tell u all about football and politics , now that BBN has started , I can't wait to see him
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by pocohantas(f): 6:58am On Jul 20, 2020
hisgrace090:
Wealth controls many women and makes them to do otherwise and to behave strangely.

When a man provide for the family there'll be normalcy but when women do the world will hear it.

This is the greatest lie told in history and women who have been fully dependent on men found out the hard way. I thank God that sensible ladies are not falling for it again. Even men know it is a lie, that is why when a woman is being abused or disrespected by her man- the first question they ask if he is she has money of her own.

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by kudinkarfe: 7:00am On Jul 20, 2020
Back in the days ladies that own car were tagged as ashawo but we realized this days even the poor girls are the same. Those days when you want to marry virgin and God fearing woman you will be referred to your village, but nowadays na the poor and village girls Bleep pass. That's why guys go for the ones that has kudi(owo, ego)
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by blingxx(m): 7:03am On Jul 20, 2020
Chykes4micheal:
Men are naturally proud set of people. We want to be the one to buy the car for our woman. It is a priding something for us grin

men are not the problem because pride exist in both genders ,I know a lady that treats his husband like trash , they use to live in my street tho the tin shock everyone the day she slap her husband in public undecided like wtf

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Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by simplepee(f): 7:04am On Jul 20, 2020
LordOfTheGame:



People should rather runaway from your kinds. You have that ego problem, and besides you don't understand the nature of a man. I met one girl one our town Facebook group, I contacted her privately and she showed interest for serious relationship but then, she began to show her stupidity. She asked me if I have kid(s), if I have car and drivers license, if I have resident permit, the job I do, how much I earn, am I the first son in my family, and all sorts of stupid and selfish questions. I answered her all but because I don't have a car and drivers license, she started playing goddess, she started being rude and harsh, she started acting like something else just because she has a car and two kids from different men. Living in a free apartment paid for by the social welfare commission, getting some child support from the gov't and the kid's fathers. You see how women behaves, just let them have a small comfort they will be carried away by it and start misbehaving.
Ok.
Re: Why Were Nigerian Guys Scared Of Marrying Ladies That Own Cars In The Past? by betexplorer901: 7:04am On Jul 20, 2020
marvelck:
Back in the day, single ladies that own cars were usually advised not to flaunt their cars or let guys know they own a car, in order not to chase men away from marrying them.

Unmarried ladies that own cars then were tagged all sort of names. But a lot has changed since then. Most guys even prefer going after ladies that own cars and houses these days. And e get why �
ALL THESE SECONDARY SCHOOL STUDENTS.its a small boy that post this rubbish.a man better hustle from dusk to dawn to feed the family than the other way around.but that doesn't the woman cant contribute.this thread is for pussy-men

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