pansophist:
Almost all fine girls are mentally arrested, they are likely to be shallow and entitled, as their beauty have open doors and favours for them. Also, they are the least loyal because boys are always hitting on them, and base on the law of statistics, she would fancy one, and zoom she goes.

The real issue of dating fine ladies is when they begin to grow older and lose their looks, then you're left with a huge mess of emotions to deal with. She had defined and built her personality off her looks, and the aftermath is like being baptised into a new life afterwards, a life where you have to bring something to the table and not just show off.

ugly girl never show u shege
wen u don encounter an ugly lady with a very bad character u will change this ur stance sharp sharp

PM me and prove to me that this is your real picture and I will send you $100.

Munachisom95:
I'm richly blessed with beauty and added assets.

If this phenomenon is true, it may be because beautiful women are not easy to get, and they do not pursue handsome guys who do not have the skills to woo them.

UDUJ:


I just had to look at your profile picture because of your comment. You're not looking bad at all but I fear you are a guy with hairy balls using a female picture to catfish sex starved nairaland perverts. But what do I know

anytime we see a preety girl on nl we quickly assume it might be catfish .though aint her fault since most scammers here use female pictures and monikers for catfishing .she looks real though but wat do i know

lefulefu:
ugly girl never show u shege
wen u don encounter an ugly lady with a very bad character u will change this ur stance sharp sharp

Ugly people are always beefing fine people. Coming up with useless conspiracy theories.

Nigeria a country filled with mannerless average looking people. Yet a particular set have the guts to say it is fine people that are dull/ill-behaved.

But Jude and Yobo are top blokes according to you.The Ebuka guy is blessed better with good looks than all those dudes you.listed.

pocohantas:


Is Ebuka’s wife ugly? Is Ebuka that fine?

GEEBITE:
But Jude and Yobo are top blokes according to you.The Ebuka guy is blessed better with good looks than all those dudes you.listed.

My point is, if all these guys had the means, they will marry fine women with substance. If I see rich handsome man, I will be happy. If I see a Ned Nwoko, I will marry and claim it is substance over beauty.

Peter Okoye is a more complete package to me. He has looks, money and abs.

pocohantas:


Ugly people are always beefing fine people. Coming up with useless conspiracy theories.

Nigeria a country filled with mannerless average looking people. Yet a particular set have the guts to say it is fine people that are dull/ill-behaved.

well i wont see its beef
some guys have been rejected by attractive ladies so in order to make themselves feel good they now slam against any lady that is attractive .i have seen ladies who are ugly with very shitty characters who cheat on their men with reckless abandon.ppl can choose to be shitty inregardless of their facial appearance so if a woman who is preety can cheat and a lady who is not attractive can also cheat so why wont a dude just go for what he likes.why restric himself to what he doesnt find attractive cos of popular believes.there are attractive humble and respectful ladies out there but many guys cos of bitter experience or inferiorty complex to stick to what they dont find attractive.The guy will now marry the woman he is not attracted to and go outside looking for attractive sidechics.who is deceieving who then?

pocohantas:


Anybody can mess up. Majority of Naija men and women are messing up everyday. A lot of Nigerian graduates are empty headed and they are not fine. You people should stop demonizing fine people. Find your partner and stick to them.

Reminds me of all these Toyota users that will be cursing Benz. Just say it is Toyota you can afford and enjoy it.

Are you a handsome or ugly man? Let me know which brush to paint you with.
Yea right. That is why most comedians are average/ugly and marrying the beautiful women you audio-handsome guys claim are not good.

The thing is, you can't paint me. You don't even have the pedigree to find and hold the brush required to do that, because if you're talking about class, knowledge, good look, niche and future, I am at the upper rung (by God's Grace). I grew up knowing that a man without knowledge and understanding, no matter how tall and handsome he is, is useless and will never live his destiny.

Nobody is demonizing ladies; I was saying beautiful ladies do mess up more than the average looking ones. This is not based on assumption but recent personal experience and of my close associates too, which is why pansophist got it right in his first comment. Beautiful ladies are usually consumed by the fine comments they receive and the many attention they get from men who just want to keep them as trophies, use and dump them afterward. Of course, there are beautiful women with beautiful heart, good character, etc. But majority do mess up, and it is pathetic, because I see that as waste of such beauty.

Ayinke93:


"We handsome guys�"
The confidence men have amazes me

It also amazes me too, because if a man shows lack of the confidence , the next probable thing to do is to name him as been a wuss. tell me what is it that you want

lefulefu:
ugly girl never show u shege
wen u don encounter an ugly lady with a very bad character u will change this ur stance sharp sharp

Those are the ones with untamed pride and arrogance. There are some of them, sure.

eazye4u133:
We handsome guys ain't fascinated about looks, , but women with positive character and personality, likely to be a noble wife material, not the dull slay Queen's we have around with myopic mindset.

so apart from character what physically attracts u in a woman? the girl u saw in the street or the shopping mall and u started chyking her and asking for her number what drew u to her that made u to ask for her number.it cant be her intelligence nau cos u didnt see her speaking.what was the thing dat drew u to her to ask for her number . we are guys oo so u cant tell me u dont see anything physically attractive in a woman cos if u dont then how are u able to have sex with her

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder....

In essence, what u refer to as less attractive is another man's attractive with respect to his own desired criterion/qualities

fairheart:


The thing is, you can't paint me. You don't even have the pedigree to find and hold the brush required to do that, because if you're talking about class, knowledge, good look, niche and future, I am at the upper rung (by God's Grace). I grew up knowing that a man without knowledge and understanding, no matter how tall and handsome he is, is useless and will never live his destiny.
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Abegi. You can’t be painted, but you can paint people. Only you, “class, good-look, knowledge, niche...”

Nigeria’s most eligible bachelor, we have seen you.

locust:


I like your nose, presh.
But I hope you do not get carried away by the attention you get here considering that this section is up to 90% fun and 10% lessons.In what ways have you allowed this forum to better your life?
You remind me of an actress I loved so much back in the days.

Sorry for intruding into your private life. I guess when we admire some people, it's hard to stay off those zones.

simp

fairheart:

Those are the ones with untamed pride and arrogance. There are some of them, sure.

very true
and one thing is that wen a girl dat is not so attractive notices u are just dating her or running after her cos the ones u desire u cant get them she will give u tough time.One thing u should know is that in naija weda a lady is fine or ugly men will still chase her and beg her for a relationship.d ones we call ugly have many options of men as well

lefulefu:
well i wont see its beef :Dppl can choose to be shitty inregardless of their facial appearance so if a woman who is preety can cheat and a lady who is not attractive can also cheat so why wont a dude just go for what he likes.why restric himself to what he doesnt find attractive cos of popular believes.

It is beef !!! When they can’t see fine girls to marry, they will claim it is because average girls have good character. They will steal cheat on these average girls and claim “men are polygamous in nature”.

lefulefu:
unfortuanately this is so true

Deceiving themselves...

Asianjollof007:
Ugly girls don't cheat and they are loyal too. They're loyal because they know a handsome man can easily get a woman he likes so they do everything to please their man. Since all men want peace in marriage, they go for ugly women. No stress!

guy abeg stop dis..no kill me with laugh

pocohantas:


It is beef !!! When they can’t see fine girls to marry, they will claim it is because average girls have good character. They will steal cheat on these average girls and claim “men are polygamous in nature”.

Then when they see beauty queens married to rich men, they will not remember average ladies are the best o. They will say it is because of money they married those men.

Almost everyone wants a good looking partner with value, na when you no see, you go come dey console yourself with motivational quotes. Look at all those CEOs with beautiful wives, you think they can be caught dead saying “beauty over substance”? You will hear “Beauty and brain”

Everybody should face their average partners. We are all average sef.

pocohantas:


. They will steal cheat on these average girls and claim “men are polygamous in nature”.

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unfortuanately this is so true

Romanoff:
After sampling the finest and seen it all, no kind of beauty interests them after the sampling so they settle for the unattractive ones cause that's unique to their tastes.

Maybe.

It might also be that they've realized that beauty ain't everything. A lady or guy can be good looking but ugly on the inside. So, they've decided to go for something that transcends beyond what their eyes can see

donbachi:
Big lie...I fine die.to the extent,people thinks I'm an actor..and so many atimes at the airports people come to take pics with me and my wife fine like 3 beautiful women put together.

biko wich airport?
u be celebrity wey dem dey snap pics with u?
It cant be lagos airport or even any naija airport for dat matter

pocohantas:


Abegi. You can’t be painted, but you can paint people. Only you, “class, good-look, knowledge, niche...”

Nigeria’s most eligible bachelor, we have seen you.

This is why I dislike engaging females on Nairaland. The biases is too much. I never paint other people; there's no where I do that in my comments.
My experience with physically beautiful ladies so far, has been very bad. Unfortunately, they are drawn to me and I am attracted to them.
Let me crack you up: I have 5 ladies who we are friends waiting for me to ask them out. I just have to say it. The list was growing so much that a friend warned me that I need to be careful; I am not a womanizer, but they keep coming. Meanwhile, there were times no lady give me attention or time. God is my witness, one recently got very angry at me and said I disappointed her when I said I want to take my time and not ready to date. This is a lady with good education in the biomedical field, tall, and 7 over 10 physically beauty (if I am to rank her).

I don't hail myself, but if I look at assessment I have received, I am not lower or even average. It has cost me so much building the man I am becoming. Glory be to God! And thank you.

lefulefu:
very true
and one thing is that wen a girl dat is not so attractive notices u are just dating her or running after her cos the ones u desire u cant get them she will give u tough time.One thing u should know is that in naija weda a lady is fine or ugly men will still chase her and beg her for a relationship.d ones we call ugly have many options of men as well

Correct. You'll still chase. True

bodybuilder:
Have you noticed that handsome guys end up with less attractive women?
And handsome guys get lesser girls than average looking guys?
What could be the reason behind this phenomenon?

Because negative attracts positive.

Their experiences with you has definitely been bad too and that is the exact reason fine people avoid themselves.

Now look at you, “I am good looking, knowledgeable, niche, future...blablabla”

Imagine a man with all that hubris- HEADACHE. Continue accessing yourself, average looking men will soon marry your 7/10 friend. Then you will come online again to ask why fine women marry ugly men.

fairheart:

God is my witness, one recently got very angry at me and said I disappointed her when I said I want to take my time and not ready to date. This is a lady with good education in the biomedical field, tall, and 7 over 10 physically beauty (if I am to rank her).

I don't hail myself, but if I look at assessment I have received, I am not lower or even average. It has cost me so much building the man I am becoming. Glory be to God! And thank you.

Romanoff:
After sampling the finest and seen it all, no kind of beauty interests them after the sampling so they settle for the unattractive ones cause that's unique to their tastes.

Maybe.

Is that the technique your boyfriend used to propose to u during lockdown.

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The grass always looks greener from the other side. Handsome guys have seen it all. Less attractive men are looking for trophy not wives to compensate for what they lack.
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pocohantas:
Their experiences with you has definitely been bad too and that is the exact reason fine people avoid themselves.

Now look at you, “I am good looking, knowledgeable, niche, future...blablabla”

Imagine a man with all that hubris- HEADACHE. Continue accessing yourself, average looking men will soon marry your 7/10 friend. Then you will come online again to ask why fine women marry ugly men.

Lols. If I can't say what I am then I don't know myself. Are you ugly? Are you dull? Do you have a career and a future you look forward to? Would you rather say No to these questions? See, there are times you have to describe yourself as you are--especially when you know you have come a long way, sacrificing for personal growth that other men neglects.

And I wasn't the one who gave her bad experience; it was a case of a man wanting so much a woman who doesn't want him. And there's nothing you can do to have her, or even make her see your worth.

Do you know I'm a man? Girl, beautiful girls are everywhere! When I am ready to settle down, there will always be ideal woman to go for.
You're very amusing. Thank you!

There is no difference between you and the fine girls you don’t like. Most fine people are so absorbed with themselves. It is worse when they are intelligent and can do the things they are assumed not to do.

They are used to getting attention and having their egos stroked. Their fellow fine people no get their time. Jaxxy was apt- it is a case of the AVAILABLE.

Yes, I am ugly and dull, that is why I got a handsome man. Lucky me!!

fairheart:


Lols. If I can't say what I am then I don't know myself. Are you ugly? Are you dull? Do you have a career and a future you look forward to? Would you rather say No to these questions? See, there are times you have to describe yourself as you are--especially when you know you have come a long way, sacrificing for personal growth that other men neglects.

And I wasn't the one who gave her bad experience; it was a case of a man wanting so much a woman who doesn't want him. And there's nothing you can do to have her, or even make her see your worth.

Do you know I'm a man? Girl, beautiful girls are everywhere! When I am ready to settle down, there will always be ideal woman to go for.
You're very amusing. Thank you!

lefulefu:
so apart from character what physically attracts u in a woman? the girl u saw in the street or the shopping mall and u started chyking her and asking for her number what drew u to her that made u to ask for her number.it cant be her intelligence nau cos u didnt see her speaking.what was the thing dat drew u to her to ask for her number . we are guys oo so u cant tell me u dont see anything physically attractive in a woman cos if u dont then how are u able to have sex with her

At first sight, i believe you on the fact that one has to be physical attracted to her, for me na backyard oo , but my next line of action is to ascertain and gauge her character n intelligence if she's worth it. Meanwhile you should know that "beauty catches the attention but character catches the Heart ".

pocohantas:
There is no difference between you and the fine girls you don’t like. Most fine people are so absorbed with themselves. It is worse when they are intelligent and can do the things they are assumed not to do.

They are used to getting attention and having their egos stroked. Their fellow fine people no get their time. Jaxxy was apt- it is a case of the AVAILABLE.

Yes, I am ugly and dull, that is why I got a handsome man. Lucky me!!

Okay, but that is your opinion ugly, dull, lucky girl
Nobody takes that serious, and you know.

This is what pansophist was saying. So you get it now!