You owe that guy liberation. Dont blame him he he later finds out and shoots you because you sound like her. Tell him.

That gf is a a member of the NSA (nigerian scammers Association).

The truth is that if there's truly a Nigerian lady ( i.e not a yahoo guy) then you need to see things from the perspective of this lady. Yes she might have lied (we ain't 100% sure that all she have told him are lies), but she might also be willing and ready to meet up with this your patient and even marry him at the end. Nigeria is really messed up economically and people here are struggling.
Let me just tell you this.
I'm in a similar situation also and the only difference is that I am a guy. I met this African American lady online sometime in February and we got acquainted pretty fast. Fast forward to today, she's really been helpful to me in financially and by extension, people close to me. In fact, I have been able to pay for tech skill and got certified all because of her. Yes I do lie to her sometimes ( infact most times) in order to get some dollars, but I really appreciate and I have feelings for her and I hope to meet her in person one day. So please consider the lady.

I have a question... Are you a lady or a man? Just curious oo

Lefulefu come put mouth for the mata o.

This is your guy pdudd. They banned my other account for fighting. This is my old account which I resurrected.

A yahoo boy is ripping him off
so do ppl still fall for such love scams?
Its so old school nau
And dont counter me by saying he heard her voice on the phone cos most yahoo boys make use of their girlfriends to speak to their magas on phone when the maga demands to speak with the person
so easy
anyway it could be that because he is much on the big side as in fat he is finding it to get a girl in real life hence his only hope is internet dating.Maybe he shed off some little weight(a suggestion).If he's a friend of urs let him know he's being played.Give it to him straight.

FanOfMyself:
The truth is that if there's truly a Nigerian lady ( i.e not a yahoo guy) then you need to see things from the perspective of this lady. Yes she might have lied (we ain't 100% sure that all she have told him are lies), but she might also be willing and ready to meet up with this your patient and even marry him at the end. Nigeria is really messed up economically and people here are struggling.
Let me just tell you this.
I'm in a similar situation also and the only difference is that I am a guy. I met this African American lady online sometime in February and we got acquainted pretty fast. Fast forward to today, she's really been helpful to me in financially and by extension, people close to me. In fact, I have been able to pay for tech skill and got certified all because of her. Yes I do lie to her sometimes ( infact most times) in order to get some dollars, but I really appreciate and I have feelings for her and I hope to meet her in person one day. So please consider the lady.

I have a question... Are you a lady or a man? Just curious oo

My brother, that's why I came here to ask. It crossed my mind that the girlfriend may be genuine. But the way the story started to have K leg, I knew it was a scam.

Which kind of virus was in Nigeria this year before Covid?

Why is it that the day she was about to travel out to return back to US, she suddenly had accident that almost paralyzed her and caused her to stay back and not travel to meet him again. A big coincidence.

Why is it all about money, money, money, money. Send money this, send money that.

Sounds like scam to me Biko.

lefulefu:
A yahoo boy is ripping him off
so do ppl still fall for such love scams?
Its so old school nau
And dont counter me by saying he heard her voice on the phone cos most yahoo boys make use of their girlfriends to speak to their magas on phone when the maga demands to speak with the person
so easy
anyway it could be that because he is much on the big side as in fat he is finding it to get a girl in real life hence his only hope is internet dating.Maybe he shed off some little weight(a suggestion).If he's a friend of urs let him know he's being played.Give it to him straight.

Exactly my broda. I know how these guys operate. They can form female voice and get their female partners in crime to do video call and sex cam so as to make it look real. And the guy is a very fat guy, almost 50 years old, and not attractive at all. But he has a very lively spirit and laughs a lot, so he is able to make friends but not romantic relationship. So it seems these useless yahoo boys are taking advantage of that to scam him.

The thing pain me like mad. Useless children

ALEX182:


My brother, that's why I came here to ask. It crossed my mind that the girlfriend may be genuine. But the way the story started to have K leg, I knew it was a scam.

Which kind of virus was in Nigeria this year before Covid?

Why is it that the day she was about to travel out to return back to US, she suddenly had accident that almost paralyzed her and caused her to stay back and not travel to meet him again. A big coincidence.

Why is it all about money, money, money, money. Send money this, send money that.

Sounds like scam to me Biko.

Yeah, it's sounds like a scam and there's actually no girl in the picture. I rest my case sir.

ALEX182:
Lefulefu come put mouth for the mata o.

This is your guy pdudd. They banned my other account for fighting. This is my old account which I resurrected.

i don already yarn my own
the story funny sha
upon the way many americans don dey aware of scammers i dey surprised dis one dey fall for such old school scam .there was this guy i knew back then who was into yahoo love scam.na come and marry dem dey nickname the tin as.the guy then go dey use im girlfriend to talk toim oyibo magas.later the guy migrate to scamming fellow naija guys.there was this rich abuja guy wey dis bros be dey use love format to colect money.im go use im babe to talk to the guy to collect money from the guy.im babe later fell in love with the rich abuja guy and told the abuja boy everything about her own guy being a yahoo boy and dat its her guy that is using her to talk to him.the abuja boy come later snatch the babe from the yahoo boy promise the babe marriage then chop and dump her .though after the babe got dumped she still refused going back to her yahoo boyfriend .the yahooboy on the other hand anytime i ask about the babe im go always dey swear about and promising that nothing good will come her way for dumping him .guys dat use their babes as mouthpiece for magas in some cases are playing a big risk.Ur own girl can sell u out sometimes if she see no future with u.

ALEX182:


Exactly my broda. I know how these guys operate. They can form female voice and get their female partners in crime to do video call and sex cam so as to make it look real. And the guy is a very fat guy, almost 50 years old, and not attractive at all. But he has a very lively spirit and laughs a lot, so he is able to make friends but not romantic relationship. So it seems these useless yahoo boys are taking advantage of that to scam him.

The thing pain me like mad. Useless children

nooo most dont form a female voice.they use girls mostly their girlfriends to talk to magas .and one thing i notice about the type of white men who frequent some of these dating sites they are always morbidly obese or baldlooking but not the jason stratam type of baldlooking but looking more like Doctor Evil in the Austin Powers movies .those are the type of white guys i see in the dating sites.There was this guy i knew who was doin this online romance scam and he would show me the pictures of white men he was eating their money..he also got responses from indians but dose ones no dey send kobo .The guy uses his girlfriend to seduce them on fone until some naija maga snatched his girlfriend .

lefulefu:
i don already yarn my own
the story funny sha
upon the way many americans don dey aware of scammers i dey surprised dis one dey fall for such old school scam .there was this guy i knew back then who was into yahoo love scam.na come and marry dem dey nickname the tin as.the guy then go dey use im girlfriend to talk toim oyibo magas.later the guy migrate to scamming fellow naija guys.there was this rich abuja guy wey dis bros be dey use love format to colect money.im go use im babe to talk to the guy to collect money from the guy.im babe later fell in love with the rich abuja guy and told the abuja boy everything about her own guy being a yahoo boy and dat its her guy that is using her to talk to him.the abuja boy come later snatch the babe from the yahoo boy promise the babe marriage then chop and dump her .though after the babe got dumped she still refused going back to her yahoo boyfriend .the yahooboy on the other hand anytime i ask about the babe im go always dey swear about and promising that nothing good will come her way for dumping him .guys dat use their babes as mouthpiece for magas in some cases are playing a big risk.Ur own girl can sell u out sometimes if she see no future with u.

Hahahahaha. Bushmeat don chop hunter. Everybody don be sharp man. Who wan dull . Yahoo girl sef wan marry big man.

This scamming thing dey pain me die. One innocent person will be working, borrowing, and hustling money to send to one ediot who will be using the money to club, pop champagne, smoke weed, draw tattoo, and carry olosho. This life nor balance.

FanOfMyself:

Yeah, it's sounds like a scam and there's actually no girl in the picture. I rest my case sir.

well op said the fat guy told him he has the same accent as his internet nigerian girlfriend .abi na one yahooboy dey form female accent? Just imagine the yahooboy is a calabarboy with strong calabar accent .Imagine such a person is trying to sound like a female

lefulefu:
nooo most dont form a female voice.they use girls mostly their girlfriends to talk to magas .and one thing i notice about the type of white men who frequent some of these dating sites they are always morbidly obese or baldlooking but not the jason stratam type of baldlooking but looking more like Doctor Evil in the Austin Powers movies .those are the type of white guys i see in the dating sites.There was this guy i knew who was doin this online romance scam and he would show me the pictures of white men he was eating their money..he also got responses from indians but dose ones no dey send kobo .The guy uses his girlfriend to seduce them on fone until some naija maga snatched his girlfriend .

That's how the guy looks o

ALEX182:



Hahahahaha. Bushmeat don chop hunter. Everybody don be sharp man. Who wan dull . Yahoo girl sef wan marry big man.

This scamming thing dey pain me die. One innocent person will be working, borrowing, and hustling money to send to one ediot who will be using the money to club, pop champagne, smoke weed, draw tattoo, and carry olosho. This life nor balance.

see guy any man who falls for internet romance scam is foolish.How can u see a picture of one babe with big boobs and yansh and u just send money for flight ticket or tfare hoping she would meet u .wetin happen to the preety ladies close to u .the only type of scam wey dey heartless na promising someone job and asking for money and wen the person send u u will just jakpa.thats so wrong.anyway its safer not sending anyone money on the internet.If person send u message on facebook with a profile pix of tonto dike or any other inflencer and tells u he or she has a job for u na scam...any person send u message telling u to send 15k to his account and he multiply it to 4 million for u in six days na scam

ALEX182:


That's how the guy looks o

he looks like this?

lefulefu:
he looks like this?

Worse.

He's fatter and has a bad leg

God help him. I have to talk o.

ALEX182:


Worse.

DICKstractor:
Tell him o... I'm already feeling pity for tje guy...




That his Nigeria girlfriend fit be Slawomir, dammn nigga guy

Table get only one leg you still get mind dey shake am

Assssh oooh aaaah harrrrder!!!

Whatever you do sha, don't taint all Nigerians as frausters in his eye, do it right.

ERCROSS:
For the sake of everything good, please tell him. If he finds it hard to believe, ask to prank the lady/benefit boy to send her location, that he's presently in Nigeria

I can be in Nigeria and send you any location in the world from google map or even through what's app...
One of the reason I love android phones

Its not like they will use the money for anything meaningful
Its to drink,smoke and carry olosho.....
Guy save the guy his 2k dolls

Ogbeni no spoil person hustle o...u no no as client day hard to see nowadays.
Now u wan cast person paying client..even God go vex for u

ALEX182:


My brother, that's why I came here to ask. It crossed my mind that the girlfriend may be genuine. But the way the story started to have K leg, I knew it was a scam.

Which kind of virus was in Nigeria this year before Covid?

Why is it that the day she was about to travel out to return back to US, she suddenly had accident that almost paralyzed her and caused her to stay back and not travel to meet him again. A big coincidence.

Why is it all about money, money, money, money. Send money this, send money that.

Sounds like scam to me Biko.

It doesn't sound like a scam but a confirmed scam.

Are you single?

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

Mind your biz

FanOfMyself:
The truth is that if there's truly a Nigerian lady ( i.e not a yahoo guy) then you need to see things from the perspective of this lady. Yes she might have lied (we ain't 100% sure that all she have told him are lies), but she might also be willing and ready to meet up with this your patient and even marry him at the end. Nigeria is really messed up economically and people here are struggling.
Let me just tell you this.
I'm in a similar situation also and the only difference is that I am a guy. I met this African American lady online sometime in February and we got acquainted pretty fast. Fast forward to today, she's really been helpful to me in financially and by extension, people close to me. In fact, I have been able to pay for tech skill and got certified all because of her. Yes I do lie to her sometimes ( infact most times) in order to get some dollars, but I really appreciate and I have feelings for her and I hope to meet her in person one day. So please consider the lady.

I have a question... Are you a lady or a man? Just curious oo

na guy Dey follow the man chat

femi4:
Mind your biz

ofcourse because no be ur brother them Dey scam

Don't tell him directly ... Just tell him she be careful dealing with people online he shouldn't not send money to someone he has not seen before .. they fit don jazz am boys are desperate nowadays

ALEX182:


My brother, that's why I came here to ask. It crossed my mind that the girlfriend may be genuine. But the way the story started to have K leg, I knew it was a scam.

Which kind of virus was in Nigeria this year before Covid?

Why is it that the day she was about to travel out to return back to US, she suddenly had accident that almost paralyzed her and caused her to stay back and not travel to meet him again. A big coincidence.

Why is it all about money, money, money, money. Send money this, send money that.

Sounds like scam to me Biko.

Pls ignore that guy. Use every means possible to make sure you tell him. But don't paint all Nigerians bad on the process. Do it maturedly.

ALEX182:


I think I will. I even asked him if it was Ebola but he said it wasn't and mentioned West Nile virus. Me I don't know if West Nile virus occured in Nigeria earlier this year so I just kept mute and decided to find out.

The guy is so much in love and part of me feels that this will break his heart and lead him to do something drastic. It's so troubling to me and a part of me just wants to waka far and act like it's not my business but another part is burning with anger at the scammers

Bro please is not your business like you said already, as you're working now dey earn living, na so the Girlee is working the Oyibo and earning her living. Get away to be far from the Oyibo Nigga. From the way you speak I already comprehend you're not one of those Momma-kid to get visa to US, you know as the suffering goes. Not all Yahoo people ravish money, some uses it to train theirselves to become better and big dream, to help the poor family, to build a big dream and probably leave Yahoo someday. Please you can get a way to advise the Oyibo maybe to stop paying the so called GF, but don't go straight in telling him that is a scammer from Nigeria, just twist his brain and let him be.

Firstorderwizard:

Table get only one leg you still get mind dey shake am

Table wey the owner no get sense complete the missing three legs go surely fall one day

Tillatalk:
Don't tell him directly ... Just tell him she be careful dealing with people online he shouldn't not send money to someone has not seen before .. they fit don jazz am boys are desperate nowadays

OP this is the best advice here....