Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much.

Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets. All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.

I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone.

Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds.

Awww...You look so happy and at peace with with her. No she is not OBESE, that lady I see there isn’t obese. Cutting down the layers around the stomach region is strongly advised though. Asides that, a lot of us look like that and we don’t consider ourselves obese.

Relationships are complicated enough, adding it extra complications is an overkill. Everyone would make compromises in the long run, if yours is marrying an albino- I like to think you are very lucky. Some men (will) have it worse.


Read up with you can about albinism and reach your conclusions yourself.

we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much

Humans are always discriminating. Tribe, religion, sub-religion, educational qualifications, height, complexion...man! Just do who gives you peace.

If u really love her then go ahead

maduxs:

She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.

Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like a river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace over beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

Follow your heart

What a great guy you are? You proposed to her and then brought this issue to nairaland. I hope those pictures are not yours. I mean seriously?

Ok, let me try small. If you were an Albino, would it be nice if people didn't think you are good enough to marry? If you don't really mind why are you letting people get in your way of happiness? Yes, you could have albino children but would it be a problem for you? If not, screw the naysayers and follow your heart. Great people are hard to come by and when you find that special person, don't let him/her slip away.

Please take those pictures down if they are really yours.

Love is beyond colour. The most important thing is her character, virtues and are u HAPPY when u are around her. Those that are telling you not to marry her based on her skin colour will be the one complaining of racism when a white man acts racist towards them. Pray about it.

PeacenLove2:
What a great guy you are? You proposed to her and then brought this issue to nairaland. I hope those pictures are not yours. I mean seriously?

Ok, let me try small. If you were an Albino, would it be nice if people didn't think you are good enough to marry? If you don't really mind why are you letting people get in your way of happiness? Yes, you could have albino children but would it be a problem for you? If not, screw the naysayers and follow your heart. Great people are hard to come by and when you find that special person, don't let him/her slip away.

Please take those pictures down if they are really yours.

I have taken the picture down. Wise counsel

Just answer these questions
Do you love her?
Does she love you?
Can you afford to cater for a family?
Are you going to let peoples opinion dictate how you live?
If you have the answers, don't give a ratass about what I think!

I once saw an albino in love with an albino....


There is nothing wrong in marry an albino...

Infact the are sweet souls

There's no reason for you not to marry her man.

She is an amazing person before anything.
You've deemed her worthy to be the mother of your kids, to spend the rest of your life together.

So why should our opinion count??

Happy married life man. Wish you the best.
You're not alone. She will be there for you.

Oluromantic:

Lemme be frank with you bro as man to man. The bolded is your jackpot for life. Never let go of it. To say the truth, looking at her pics alone, she looks really peaceful. I'm in same shoes with you. I'm a PhD aspirant and a xtain. My fiancee is just a OND holder and a Muslim. Why? Bcus of all the very beautiful girls i have some of which have masters, none is as peaceful as her. Honestly I feel peace of mind like river around her unlike the other ones and I plan to sponsor her bsc thru direct entry. We've been together for 3 yrs and i didn't propose cus I was looking for someone better. Instead I saw better wahala and future troubles waiting to enter as wives before they explode. So I strongly advice you to choose peace of beauty and appearance.

Ignore those girl-posters above me. All they know as women is Love love love. They talk of love like... If you love her, you will just choose her straight away without considering the future or all those things you're listed above. No! Many things comes to the mind of a man when finding love and honestly you mentioned some of them. I've been in ur exact shoes too. I'm the only child of my mom and me n my half-siblings are not close. I need a girl who will take my mom as hers and physically take care of her at old age even if I provide the money. I love my mom so much. Not all girls understand that, especially the so called beautiful ones. So choose right bro.

thanks brother nothing like peace of mind.

Nigerians. Always afraid of taking risks. Love is a risk. And what's so wrong about marrying an albino?
All these fear fear make people who have one challenge or disorder give up on love. Because no matter how amazing you are, people will always say "not good enough".

You proposed to someone and you're still asking if you should marry her. Why TF did you propose if you've not make up your mind? Breaking people's heart doesn't freak or make you people feel sad at all.

If you know say you love am and you don't care about what people will say , marry her but if you know what people say can influence you pls don't go and be maltreating that innocent girl in marriage.

Chii59:
Nigerians. Always afraid of taking risks. Love is a risk. And what's so wrong about marrying an albino?
All these fear fear make people who have one challenge or disorder give up on love. Because no matter how amazing you are, people will always say "not good enough".

Exactly if you love someone, no stupid biological science can get between you, don't listen to what others say its your life they are not living it for you, i cant promise it will be the best scenario or that you wont have ups and downs, but you get to spend your life with someone you love.

Am so PC right now

lightangel65i:


Exactly if you love someone, no stupid biological science can get between you, don't listen to what others say its your life they are not living it for you, i cant promise it will be the best scenario or that you wont have ups and downs, but you get to spend your life with someone you love.

Am so PC right now

Pc?

Well you're right. But a lot of us Nigerians fear a lot especially when it comes to marriage.
I love the way these Whites love, they love in spite of debilitating disease, inspite of stage 4 cancer and deadly stuffs like that.
And when they feel the love is no more there, they simply divorce and Co-parent instead of brewing bone-chilling hatred in their hearts for one another.

Life is a risk, love is a risk. If you loose love because of "what will people say?" you're on your own.

If you're waiting for people's opinions before you marry her...you aren't ready.

Just some minutes...

I heard that the Place looks Pinkish

Chii59:

Pc?

Well you're right. But a lot of us Nigerians fear a lot especially when it comes to marriage.
I love the way these Whites love, they love in spite of debilitating disease, inspite of stage 4 cancer and deadly stuffs like that.
And when they feel the love is no more there, they simply divorce and Co-parent instead of brewing bone-chilling hatred in their hearts for one another.

Life is a risk, love is a risk. If you loose love because of "what will people say?" you're on your own.

Exactly.
PC i heard it from a movie it means supporting the minority

lightangel65i:


Exactly.
PC i heard it from a movie it means supporting the minority

Interesting

Auladimeji:
I heard that the Place looks Pinkish

Of course, they don't have melanin. What do you expect?

Auladimeji:
I heard that the Place looks Pinkish

Lol ordinary be on the line is difficult for you.

I have learnt that we should always be with those who make us happy. Forever is too long to be sad.

You can go on and marry her.
I just hope it won't end in tears

It's written all over your post that you love her. Don't let anyone stop you from marrying her.

maduxs:
Admin please bring this post to light. I have an albino girlfriend, we have been dating for a while now but the fact remains that the stigmatization is too much. People discriminate against her so much
Every time I'm walking with her people looks at us as if we came from another planets.All my close relations and friends I told about her discouraged me from getting married to her. Everybody is against me, they told me how can I introduce albinism to my lineage.
I understand that she has a very poor visual acuity, she is prone to skin cancer, she will depend on me to get some certain task done especially under sun.
She is a very good girl, what I'm looking at is what is inside her I mean her personality even though she is obese, she gives me peace of mind.
Finally she is also a petrochemical engineer, and very brilliant person though her albinism has been disadvantageous to her from getting a better job. I just proposed to her against all odds even though I'm all alone. Should I go on to marry her? Please I need advice from people with mature minds. Please post this picture of us

Don't worry marry her
I hear say their punanii dey always red after fûcking them
Na badradio tell me O
That guy na very stupid guy be like say he don fûck one before
Bad how far

Kemimarch16:
If u really love her then go ahead

If he were to be your brother will you give him that advice ? With that your small breast am seeing in profile

Petyprincess:
Follow your heart

Op think am again O
He get why

ZINIBANKS:
Op think am again O
He get why

Bia nwoke why are you still awake. Oya go and sleep osiso!

Chii59:

Bia nwoke why are you still awake. Oya go and sleep osiso!

I know you're texting that nigar that's why you're still awake keep it up one day will be one day he will pour akamu inside you and I'll come and eat rice