drizzledav:


Well…… I'll go straight to the point, you're beautiful and I'll like to get to know you better�

thank you..what do you want to know

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

I don't know why they are all insulting you, or why you felt you should get a lot of insults in the first place. You are perfectly normal feeling like this. There's nothing wrong with it. You just need to manage your feelings and tell yourself exactly what you want. You don't owe anyone else any explanations. Be good and stay safe.

Even if we advice you till tomorrow that thing that is doing you kpins kpins will not let you hear, so do what your heard lead you. Thanks

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him....... Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

Go and face your studies if you are a student. face your work if you are working. If you don't express love you can't be loved.

vagina pple and confusion na 5n6.dy can neva be loyal,u hv a diamond n stil crave 4 stones.tueh

ItsTerah:


20.

Oh! At this age, my dear, focus on self-development. Mom and Dad will not always pay bills to meet your needs, so focus on education and career, so that when your parents say they have done their best, you'll be capable to take it from them.

Makanaki127:
I pray I don't come across a stupid gal like u, am sure u will also come up with this kind of story wen u get married too, u will also come seeking for advice, gals Dat don't no what dey want, once u have been disvirgin u will be fucking anyhow, because u have a confuse state of mind

Dont mind that olosho of a girl..the h.oe has already started cheating on her poor simp boyfriend already na..what and y will a reasonable girl in a relationship be discussing sex with another man if no be olosho she be..God forbid badthing..God pls dont let us fall in love with oloshos like this mumu OP...na her simp bf i blame for agreeing to a no sex relationship cos for him eye another guy go disvirgin him olosho and him go continue to mumu..

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

You sound like a typical Bayelsan
Which I deduce you're.
I met a girl just like you years ago in that state.

I swear, very confused people

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Confused beings
This is why they keep on cheating

Because they can't get all the qualities in one niggarrr.

Timothy is sexually attractive....
But i love Kevin....
Very confused people...

"I got a boyfriend but want another one"
-DREEZY

@OP, you're a rare specie if your story is true. However, you made a mistake of telling him how sexually attractive you are to him - he's gonna use that to taunt you. Asking for your nude shows you who he is. Imagine your innocent bf even respects your decision not to pop your cherry. Wetin else you dey find? You are discipline enough so confront that nigga and tell him you made a mistake trying him bout your attraction. Fins a way to love your bf since you've been friends, it'll be easier for you two. In all, pray and know whether you're right for a relationship now and for God to direct a trustworthy partner to you.

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

You are not a virgin.

I think you are attracted to his bad boy nature.
You have already done what is called Emotional cheating. Especially as it's gotten to the stage of talking about kinks with someone who isn't your boyfriend.
I believe you should cut communication with him if you want to remain faithful.
Also, try talking more with your boyfriend about more intimate topics (kinks).
Other than that I wish you the best.

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

Nezzjnr:

Baba Lumi

That's the situation with some boys now oo

Once you Criticize them

They'll ask you if you were brought up in a good manner

Lmaoooo...


Na true bro

athaboi:
thank you..what do you want to know

I was hoping you could give me your whatsapp no and we could talk more there

ethicallyright:
Do not let anyone blackmail you for being a promiscuous young woman. That is the trend and is celebrated by thousands of Erica's fans across Nigeria. At least, you have your hymen intact and your vagina sealed for Commissioning . Many , if not 85% lost theirs to men without purpose and ambition. 1% were deflowered by rapists and 13.999% by healthy cucumbers ,after a thorough self-service exercise got out of control. It is a rare feat to be in the almost non-existent 0.1% class these days.

If you have ever seen a female dog or goat sex starved then you'll understand that nature created women to be inordinate sex cravers. A research conducted by my humble self revealed that 96% of women aged 16 -35 are not satisfied with their sexual relationships.


The only solution to your problem is difficult. I wouldn't even admonish my sister to take such advice. It is what makes the 21st century lady's body itch at the sight of a tall bearded man , Italian Fashion, Swiss watch or German Car. The antidote to your misery and indecision is circumcision , otherwise called , Female Genital Mutilation in the Feminists parlance.

In life you will always find someone aesthetically superior to your current partner . The choice to prove your discipline or indiscipline rests on your shoulders.

I wish I can write like this. You've spoken well....

........

Abasman008:
All my exe's cheated on me...I was too naive to see it, because I am handsome, I know it everyone says the same thing and being from akwaibom and being a quiet and also able to cook made the famales come even closer but


Alas!!!! I was scammed
I felt I was safe because I am handsome and I felt that they'll love me because they wouldn't want to loose me to others waiting to to have me

Stuff is the female gender is very confused and wicked in taking decisions.. my exe's would be mad if another girl as much as hugged me... But they would be straffing other guys behind my back..
She'll fall for akin because he is tall and still sleep with Peter because he helped her home one time like that, and leave you for John because he has money... But wants a handsome guy just for show of...

Tah since I learnt my lessons I have sworn never to take any girl serious.. no matter how cute you are...

Because the same girl you are dieing for is the same one some other guys see her as wasted an open....


Don't be happy when she tells you she's a virgin..lol I know and have come in contact with girls with virgin pusseys and disvirgined ass holes.. they take it analog lol... They even get their pusseys eaten.. it is when she finally wants to open the main gate she will look for a calm and good nutured guy to take it just for record purposes, so that it'll be on record that she didn't just give it to anyone.. after that they'll still break the guys heart and the cycle continues...

Lol I don't trust any girl.. non of them!!

Op will still break the guys heart after she gets disvirgined by him, lol she'll make the guy feel he did something wrong because of the popular belief that virgins get attached to their first love.. all lies.....

See untill men start having sense they'll keep being specimens to women... No woman can ever use me.. I won't even give you a chance..I even had a gf whose sole aim of dating me was to find out if what they say about akwaibom men is true.....

Nigga.

Until you lose it, that's when the veil covering you will be removed and then your eyes will open, you will understand that there is nothing special about sex.

Time will come after you must have gotten married and given birth, your hubby will call you for this sex you are craving for now and you won't be interested.

Why not wait for the man you will tie the nut with since you know you will be emotionally attached to whoever breaks the hymen.

Na so olosho take start

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Monday60655:



You're entitled to your opinion. In your assertion, it has happened to many guys. Do you know if I have come in contact of many who fabricated stories simply to seek attention.

You were the one that originally asserted that the op was a fraud...I am merely pointing out to you that her situation is a common occurrence

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

you are about to dance with the devil ......he who dance with the devil ,the devil will surely step on his toe . my advice , don't even think of making friend with him , run before its too late

Thanks for expressing how you are feeling, and you don't deserve insult from anyone... This same feeling can come from a male too and no one will rain insult on him.

Before I married, I experience something similar but what I realise is that its better for the man to love the woman more than the way she love the boyfriend. When they become husband and wife or once they have had sex together, the reverse is always the case... Advise, its better to marry a man who loves you so much before marriage than the one you are falling inlove for. Forget the other whom you are sexually attached to. Once he chop the Apple, your eyes go open like Adam and Eve. Cheers. Before I married my wife, I love her so much that I risk everything to have her even my future, she was loving someone else too until he failed her....anyway we are happily married But now she love me 10times more than the way I love her right now. I hope my message is clear

[q[sup][/sup]uote author=ItsTerah post=93224247]I know
I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end








Please keep your virginity for your real husband. Many young folks do not know the advantages of marrying undefiled because the god of this world has made immorality look like a normal life style. God is watching you. Live your for Christ.

Ladies have this attraction for bad boys. After you have done no sex with a guy who loves you, you end up giving it up for a player.

OP,
think you shld just chill a little. you are still young and quite undecided about a lot of serious stuff.
glad you have trust issues n i hope u try n see if you can trust the guy u have sexual urge for before
fulfilling the kinks.

dont take steps you might regret later

ItsTerah:
I know I'm going to get alot of insults from you guys and that's why I didn't use my original Nairaland account for this, but please hear me out and give me good advice.

I'm the kind of girl that doesn't love easily. I don't think I've ever fallen in love before. I have dated just one guy and I broke up with him when he tried to rape me. I'm still a virgin and the reason is because I have trust issues. I know that if I have sex with a guy I'll become very attached and my heart can easily be broken. So I'm waiting for a guy I can trust.

I recently just started dating someone. I'm not in love with him but we've been very good friends and when he asked me out I just had to say yes so that I wouldn't lose him. I've still not had sex with him and I like that he respects my wishes. My boyfriend loves me and although I don't love him equally I've opened up to him about how difficult it is for me to reciprocate love.

Then there is this other guy I just became friends with. I won't lie, I'm sexually attracted to this guy. My sexual attraction to him intensified when he opened up to me about his kinks which are similar to mine. He told me he has feelings for me and likes me alot and can't get me out of his mind. I admitted I am sexually attracted to him but that I don't have feelings for him. I know he is sexually attracted to me and has made advances at me and even asked for nude pictures all of which I refused. But I still talk to him. He knows about my boyfriend and is aware of my situation. Occasionally he flirts with me but I try not to flirt back. I've tried to bury my sexual attraction to him but he is just so physically appealing. I've made it clear that I want to be just friends and he seems okay with it. I know I'm principled enough to not allow him have sex with me I'm wondering if it's safe being just friends with him. I enjoy talking to him and don't want to end our friendship.

whenever I hear statement like this I always wonder how confused girls can be... Truly some of you are not logical... As guy I can never date a lady can't marry that on its own removes 50% to 60% of the confusion I would have had... Im angry by what you just put up there.. Let me tell you the good news.. That guy you are sexually attracted to will Fvck you and disappear...

You are a prostitute, that's all.

athaboi:
Na f**ck dey hungry you

hmmmmmmm....Okokobiokor

Zzor:
yet it's you guys that scout around looking for what and who to knack,dont deceive yourself

no be if you open am na guys go nack am... If you don't will they nack it... This is why I get angry with girls... You always abscond from taking responsibility...