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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Brushstrokes20: 3:47pm On Aug 29, 2020
Some dumb questions don't need an answer!
Stop being an ingrate!
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Ablemed: 3:48pm On Aug 29, 2020
Freeeanijor:
I was overwhemed with emotions that I felt like crying bro. People are so heartless in this world. This guy has lost touch with the essence of virtuous values such as loyalty, friendship and gratitude. May this type of a friend never locate us.

Amen brotherly

Truthlord12 is really a disgrace n a disaster to Manhood and everything that represents Humanity. Imagine him being scared of an ordinary Girlfriend like wtf. I'm just so annoyed rn that I feel like dragging him to Leumack cantonment and giving him some sense impacting brutal Beating
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by drezo(m): 3:48pm On Aug 29, 2020
Let me advise you, You're just a useless man. A weakling.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Monopoly1: 3:49pm On Aug 29, 2020
What a nonsense write-up
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

Did you consult your new gf when the old one gave you millions ?

She sacrificed for you, she did this, yern yern yern, yet you can't give back to her family from what she gave you ?

This your thread is sounding very stupid.

Tell the new gf to Bleep off.

I was owing someone too and i was packaging the money to return it to the owner, one lady said I should not pay the person, I should use the money and marry her.

What did I do ? I dumped the stupid girl immediately.

You have a very stupid girl beside you and you are calling her gf.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by proclinician: 3:52pm On Aug 29, 2020
Do not become a very indecisive and sissy fellow. That very money she gave u to put in ur business, take it and give it to her back. It's not hard except if u do not have sense, that's when life become difficult.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by texazzpete(m): 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
please no need for insult. Should I assist my ex’s family and lose my new girlfriend? What if my ex don’t want to come back to the country I’ll lose two of em. Please give me a reasonable advice not insults

You are right. You don’t need insults. You need a very good beating. You need several slaps to reset your brain, you accursed ingrate.

Someone gave you a lot of money before leaving to help your business, and instead of repaying her kindness by helping her family, you’re here fishing for excuses not to do the decent thing.

And you’re here claiming you still love your ex. You don’t love her, you viper! You’re an ungrateful parasite, and I hope she realizes that someday.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by tunize(m): 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2020
On behalf of your ex girlfriend wen e go better for my guy u be very dull guy. Nxt tin now wen u wanna give ur mother money i guess u wud still run to ur girlfriend to seek for her permission abi? Eventually ur new girlfriend must live u, cos of ur own weakness and trust me if u end up marrying this ur girlfriend i pity u be that cos all ur friends, family and loved ones go turn their back against you. This is 2020 use ur head and learn to talk less you be man. You weak shall!
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by dominique(f): 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2020
Would this your new girlfriend have agreed to date you if you were not the person you've become with help of your ex? Ponder on this

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by viceddy95(m): 3:53pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
Young man help that your ex girl's family and let that your current girl to get out of your life,before you marry her and forget your own family because your wife said so....so many girls are still single out there..
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Positiveme2020: 3:55pm On Aug 29, 2020
Kemimarch16:
You better give that lady her money if u don't want thunder to fire u there.why is that it usually difficult for some men to return any money give to them dere ex
I go ban you ohhh shocked
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by skyhighweb1: 3:56pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
see question for gf matter not even wife or ex wife
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by kenodrill: 3:57pm On Aug 29, 2020
This is why most men don't deserve a good woman.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by PrinceOfEast(m): 3:58pm On Aug 29, 2020
DICKstractor:

What will you have him do?


Is he a simp because he still loves his ex and having the intention of paying her good deeds with good

Or

He is a simp because he let his new girlfriend dictate his life
cool

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 29, 2020
ykalhaji:
Una all wey dey comment for here dey craze... Op is saying he wishes his ex comes back that he will marry her and y'all want the new girl to agree to op giving money to ex's family so the family will start planning op and the ex's reunion ba ? Who does that ?

Op if your business can afford it, help with what you can afford, don't kill yourself or feel obligated (what your ex gave you was a termination compensation so she won't feel guilty for leaving you in Nigeria and not a loan) and don't beg your ex to come back, you don't owe her anything, she left you remember and she even paid you to move on(She tought she would be better of without you).

You are in a better place, even this your present gf, she isn't the one too. Your soul mate is still out there keep growing your self financially, spiritually and socially, your real soul mate will meet you at the right time bro.
thank you bro. I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by nelklyn(m): 3:59pm On Aug 29, 2020
How da f*ck did you tolerate your new girlfriend giving you such ultimatum...No one tries such with me

As regards if you should assist your ex’s family...it’s actually disturbing you’d ask such question. You’re talking about an ex who had assisted you financially, “you think it’s all women that gives men their money yeah?”...

If I were in your shoes I’ll help both her and her family and if my new girl friend wants she can sling her hook.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by rasheed442(m): 4:01pm On Aug 29, 2020
Bro..sorry to ask what has this your current so called gf..... added to your life..... You better do the needful........ if she can't cope with you helping you ex-family....... Good ridden to bad rubbbish.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 29, 2020
if u have the means to help ur ex girlfriend's family then help them by all means..afterall u said she sent u money which u used in ur business
u shouldnt be asking the opinion of other ppl
and as for ur current gf venting cos u want to help the family of ur ex ignore that one
if her venting is too much break up with her
ur ex gave u money in ur time of need
u owe her that much
and by the way why did u tell yur current gf about ur decision to help d family of ur ex?
she follow u make the money or abi una sign a sort of agreement for court on how u will spend ur money?
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by TemmyT002(m): 4:03pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

Help her jare. Your current gf is not your wife to be giving such a stupid order.
If you intend to cheat on her over your ex, you sef no well.
If she leaves you because of the help you render, let her gerrout.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Aug 29, 2020
thank you’ll. I’ve done the needful I couldn’t go to my office today just to settle my ex girlfriend family.

I even gave them more than enough Thank you all for your advice. Though my relationship with my current girlfriend just ended Few hours ago, she left because I insisted on helping my ex’s girlfriend’s family.

I just got to know this afternoon my girlfriend had personal issues with my ex girlfriend, I found out they were in same faculty, because we all graduated from same university but I never knew they both know each other and had personal issues. I was surprised today my girlfriend made a vow that if I give the money to my ex family she’ll cut contacts with me and she did because I actually did what’s right for my mind to be at peace.

I don’t like the way some people here been raining insults on me but why? Some people are so quick to judge it’s not even up to four days my ex called me to help her family and I was not planning to hide anything from my current girlfriend I even had intentions of marrying her this year anyway now I’ve lost both.

How could I not help my ex girlfriend family? I’m not wicked, from my writeup you all could see I loved her.


At least my mind is free now thank you’ll for the insults and advice.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Phyde: 4:04pm On Aug 29, 2020
I am surprise you are still asking whether to help your ex family or not after you claimed she supported you in your business. Please don't be this wicked. Help the family. She must be a strong woman.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Emmypure: 4:04pm On Aug 29, 2020
oga you are a simp, is it your girlfriend that is managing your account? so must you tell her before giving them money?

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by NEZON(m): 4:06pm On Aug 29, 2020
she till love you and believe you both can till unite back that why she confine in you,and I believe a good turn deserve another, forget about losing you new galfrd and focus on your ex, ur ex can build better future with you,than the new galfrd who appear to meet empire and have nothing to add to u, pls help and get back with your ex.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Lieutgood(m): 4:08pm On Aug 29, 2020
[quote author=Truthlord12 post=93330629]Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family..
Ogbeni beta do the right thing if u dont want to suffer 4 600years.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by achierosion(m): 4:10pm On Aug 29, 2020
Who brought this nonsense post to FP?

See how a man born of a woman thinking.
Ur so called new girlfriend is a demon in human skin.

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by periphetes: 4:10pm On Aug 29, 2020
ExBanker:


Why is it difficult for girls to returnall the money their ex spent on them after breakup?

Back to op, the girl gave you money which you tagged "a bit huge" to support your business. You don't need anyone to tell you the right thing to do. Oga help her family. If i may ask, what has this your new girl friend contributed to your life that she will tell you not to help someone who contributed to your life?


: I was just about asking the op your last question, What has the current girlfriend contributed to his life?
For her to repel his intention of assisting the ex family shows her kind of person.

Op, one good turn deserves another. Follow your heart and do the right thing bro. Lastly, study that your new girlfriend very well so she won't harm or delay your divine blessing in giving.
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by SILVERLINES: 4:12pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.
my friend you are very stupid, you mean a lady sacrifice her savings for your business as you said and now it's time for you to return her kindness and you came to nairaland to ask for advice, indeed you are very stupid. Now you have a new girl friend who is leaping where the former had sworn.

Suit urself before thunder fire you.

I don't know why good girls keep falling into wrong hands. She donated for your business few months before she left the country and suddenly you broke up with her and got urself a new girl friend.

These are the type of lady am searching for

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Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by onoja12: 4:12pm On Aug 29, 2020
You say watinwomen for there full life done ever give any man the money when them collect back.careful oh


uote author=Kemimarch16 post=93330819]You better give that lady her money if u don't want thunder to fire u there.why is that it usually difficult for some men to return any money give to them dere ex[/quote]
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Sterope(f): 4:13pm On Aug 29, 2020
She is asking for help not her money.
Kemimarch16:
You better give that lady her money if u don't want thunder to fire u there.why is that it usually difficult for some men to return any money give to them dere ex
Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Lieutgood(m): 4:13pm On Aug 29, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

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