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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Unicorno: 11:25pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:26pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
proclinician:That's the problem all my life have not been exposed to people. I practice a very unique religion. So it's only old people that are present there |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by fr3do(m): 11:30pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Nice one OP |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:33pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
fr3do:Thanks |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:34pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Unicorno:Thanks alot I will search for it now |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 11:36pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
shawnfamous: Aswrrr...I no dey like that random approaching... I like that connection building maybe a school or work....or an activity... something like that 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:43pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Xavfra:Me too. I work from home and I hardly socialize so my chances of meeting women slim 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 11:47pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Yeah, that's one disadvantage of working from home....it has really affected me....so I just lean on online chatting some times.....now I'm a lot more busy.....so chatting will be down down |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:51pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Xavfra:Exactly what am passing through 2 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 11:53pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Meehnn....everyday I keep withdrawing..... Sha.... I'll just the little I can with my remaining strength... |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Jannuxajj(m): 11:57pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Xavfra:One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger 2 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by shawnfamous(m): 12:12am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Xavfra:u bam.. Mk unnecessary drama no go Sup because of one woman 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by starpower(m): 5:41am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Lol, my first trial was worse, saw a pretty lady at Ojota Bustop, she was actually nice but i was too anxious. Told her my name is D...., she replied with her name and i couldn't hear clearly. Mumu me forgot i got headphones on with music. She gave me the are you serious glance. Was 17 then, 2010. I moved on. |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by femi4: 5:50am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Not a bad start, you ll get there with time. Always use things around you to keep the conversation going. E.g The way she walk (faster/slower) Don't ask for personal information too quickly until she lowered are guard and fully into the conversation with you 3 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:31am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Online date sites favour introverts like you. There are many gold diggers online looking for who to drain so u gotta me careful and say less about ur profession. Build d friendship online and when two of you meet, it won't b awkward. 4 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by SweetCunt97(f): 6:33am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:Unfortunately your subconscious is tuned to gold diggers so even if u meet a non gold digger, Lil off action will come across as gold diggy. 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 6:58am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Lol...funny though.. Most ladies don't like been approached while walking on the road . I for one I hate been approached while on the road it pisses me off and again I kinda grew up to the understanding that is only ashewo that will stand and talk to a man you don't know on the road..so since wen I was little till now I don't answer guys who try to talk to me on d road and coupled with dis new 419 strategy so to answer men for road nah a NO NO tin for me..So for someone who don't know me am very rude and feels too big.. Am an introvert too..so I made most of my friends from school,social media,church and gatherings As for your been lonely....well there are many dating/chatting sites online..or spend ur leisure playing video games.. Introverts makes friends more from social media..Me for one I can chat very well but to start a conversation or speak to someone one live dey difficult for..so I hate video call..though I can teach very well.. 6 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Odion2016(m): 7:03am On Sep 01, 2020 |
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Bellotelli: 7:06am On Sep 01, 2020 |
I'll advice you to just be normal about tour convo with ladies. Don't stress yourself in trying to impress any lady with lyrics. With time you will develop confidence. 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 7:13am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: If you start approaching ladies on the road u have more chances of ending up with gold diggers or ladies with bad attitude.. Start going out..even if you don't have who to go out with go out . Go out to a kind of place you will meet the kind of ladies you want.. Start going to church (youth fellowship) Join WhatsApp groups.. Take yourself out.. People who stay at home all the time find it difficult to socialize.. And when you start going out let your motive not just be to find girl u go use past time..it should be to make friends..Real friends both male and female.. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 7:21am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Yeah..... Maybe sometime later, cos now I'm cutting off alot.....for now it's kinda distracting me.... 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 01, 2020 |
shawnfamous: Aswrrr....I be quiet person, I no dey like drama the worst na if an from public...... I just try to make sure there's a connection..... 2 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Youonlyliveonce: 10:59am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj: Best Line For a Lady you see on the street You: Hi Lady: [Frowns] Hi You: I can Swear I have seen you before [That will get her attention to look at you well] Lady: I don't think so You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night Lady: [Smiles] You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours Lady: Bla Bla You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage] You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all. If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses. Cheers! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by womenareapes: 11:08am On Sep 01, 2020 |
globalmart:how old are you? 2 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 11:10am On Sep 01, 2020 |
womenareapes: Old enough to be married.. It's not matter of age.. It's something I have grown used to.. Some habits are difficult to drop 5 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by womenareapes: 11:14am On Sep 01, 2020 |
globalmart:k |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Telegram234(m): 12:45pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:bro browse dating drills here on nairaland and thank me later. The op name is Harddon, and the post is a lifesaver. Thanks to Harddon 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
when you get to my age you would understand most times you dont even have to say anything to get a woman. 9 Likes |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Lordfranklin(m): 2:01pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Youonlyliveonce:OP run from this as far as your legs can carry you! If you wan prize black goat you no go tell the owner say you don dey find that colour of goat tey tey to buy I have my very own special method which my friends named the "Yardstick method" I go just waka come meet you and find something near you turn am to gist. Could be how she walks, her hair or high hills. Use her to catch fun bro! Don't ever make the mistake of using your precious sef to crack jokes and make her laugh instead use stuffs about her to make her laugh. If you continue this way her defences will be down gradually. When the ovation is loudest tell her you'd like to leave and that you're busy. Now this is the most interesting part; look directly into her eyes and tell her you'd call her later and hand her your phone. Trust me, she'll input her number. No ever tell am that nonsense talk like; "Can I have your number?" Tell am directly say "I'll call you later" and hand her the phone simultaneously while saying that. I've done this many times and even showed my friends the same trick yet till this moment it still hasn't failed. Oh! I almost forgot. There is a special make up you need to wear while meeting ladies. It's called "Confidence". I don't know how much it costs now but I'm pretty sure you can afford it easily. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by stankelz: 2:22pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Jannuxajj:please send me your mail or number,I’ll like to talk talk to you? 1 Like |
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Clinghton: 3:22pm On Sep 01, 2020 |
Read books, study them for sometimes before approaching with what the are familiar with. 1 Like |
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