Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold

If you are a programmer it means you are a lone learner, download double your dating by David de Angel(just like 90 pages but powerful),you should already know this but I would still tell you... Anything you are not good at can be learnt and mastered.

proclinician:
Start with the people that know you like in church, neighborhood or something. Confidence does not happen out of the blues you build it one step at a time.

That's the problem all my life have not been exposed to people. I practice a very unique religion. So it's only old people that are present there

Nice one OP

fr3do:
Nice one OP

Thanks

Unicorno:


If you are a programmer it means you are a lone learner, download double your dating by David de Angel(just like 90 pages but powerful),you should already know this but I would still tell you... Anything you are not good at can be learnt and mastered.

Thanks alot I will search for it now

shawnfamous:
Bro u even try pass me.. I no even get guts to approach women for road.. Something must connect us before I go say I wan even follow person wey I nor know dey yarn

Aswrrr...I no dey like that random approaching...

I like that connection building maybe a school or work....or an activity... something like that

Xavfra:


Aswrrr...I no dey like that random approaching...

I like that connection building maybe a school or work....or an activity... something like that

Me too. I work from home and I hardly socialize so my chances of meeting women slim

Jannuxajj:

Me too. I work from home and I hardly socialize so my chances of meeting women slim

Yeah, that's one disadvantage of working from home....it has really affected me....so I just lean on online chatting some times.....now I'm a lot more busy.....so chatting will be down down

Xavfra:


Yeah, that's one disadvantage of working from home....it has really affected me....so I just lean on online chatting some times.....now I'm a lot more busy.....so chatting will be down down

Exactly what am passing through

Jannuxajj:

Exactly what am passing through

Meehnn....everyday I keep withdrawing.....

Sha.... I'll just the little I can with my remaining strength...

Xavfra:


Meehnn....everyday I keep withdrawing.....

Sha.... I'll just the little I can with my remaining strength...

One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger

Xavfra:


Aswrrr...I no dey like that random approaching...

I like that connection building maybe a school or work....or an activity... something like that

u bam.. Mk unnecessary drama no go Sup because of one woman

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me

Lol, my first trial was worse, saw a pretty lady at Ojota Bustop, she was actually nice but i was too anxious. Told her my name is D...., she replied with her name and i couldn't hear clearly. Mumu me forgot i got headphones on with music. She gave me the are you serious glance. Was 17 then, 2010. I moved on.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me

Not a bad start, you ll get there with time. Always use things around you to keep the conversation going. E.g The way she walk (faster/slower)

Don't ask for personal information too quickly until she lowered are guard and fully into the conversation with you

Jannuxajj:

Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women

Online date sites favour introverts like you. There are many gold diggers online looking for who to drain so u gotta me careful and say less about ur profession. Build d friendship online and when two of you meet, it won't b awkward.

Jannuxajj:

One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger

Unfortunately your subconscious is tuned to gold diggers so even if u meet a non gold digger, Lil off action will come across as gold diggy.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me

Lol...funny though..
Most ladies don't like been approached while walking on the road .
I for one I hate been approached while on the road it pisses me off and again I kinda grew up to the understanding that is only ashewo that will stand and talk to a man you don't know on the road..so since wen I was little till now I don't answer guys who try to talk to me on d road and coupled with dis new 419 strategy so to answer men for road nah a NO NO tin for me..So for someone who don't know me am very rude and feels too big..
Am an introvert too..so I made most of my friends from school,social media,church and gatherings

As for your been lonely....well there are many dating/chatting sites online..or spend ur leisure playing video games..
Introverts makes friends more from social media..Me for one I can chat very well but to start a conversation or speak to someone one live dey difficult for..so I hate video call..though I can teach very well..

Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man

Carry olosho

I'll advice you to just be normal about tour convo with ladies. Don't stress yourself in trying to impress any lady with lyrics. With time you will develop confidence.

Jannuxajj:

One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger

If you start approaching ladies on the road u have more chances of ending up with gold diggers or ladies with bad attitude..

Start going out..even if you don't have who to go out with go out .
Go out to a kind of place you will meet the kind of ladies you want..
Start going to church (youth fellowship)
Join WhatsApp groups..
Take yourself out..
People who stay at home all the time find it difficult to socialize..
And when you start going out let your motive not just be to find girl u go use past time..it should be to make friends..Real friends both male and female..

Jannuxajj:

One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger

Yeah.....

Maybe sometime later, cos now I'm cutting off alot.....for now it's kinda distracting me....

shawnfamous:
u bam.. Mk unnecessary drama no go Sup because of one woman

Aswrrr....I be quiet person, I no dey like drama the worst na if an from public......

I just try to make sure there's a connection.....

Jannuxajj:

One needs to dedicate time to it o. Else one might just end up with one gold digger

Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

globalmart:


Lol...funny though..
Most ladies don't like been approached while walking on the road .
I for one I hate been approached while on the road it pisses me off and again I kinda grew up to the understanding that is only ashewo that will stand and talk to a man you don't know on the road..so since wen I was little till now I don't answer guys who try to talk to me on d road and coupled with dis new 419 strategy so to answer men for road nah a NO NO tin for me..So for someone who don't know me am very rude and feels too big..
Am an introvert too..so I made most of my friends from school,social media,church and gatherings

As for your been lonely....well there are many dating/chatting sites online..or spend ur leisure playing video games..
Introverts makes friends more from social media..Me for one I can chat very well but to start a conversation or speak to someone one live dey difficult for..so I hate video call..though I can teach very well..

how old are you?

womenareapes:
how old are you?

Old enough to be married..
It's not matter of age..
It's something I have grown used to..
Some habits are difficult to drop

globalmart:

Old enough to be married.. It's not matter of age.. It's something I have grown used to.. Some habits are difficult to drop

k

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me

bro browse dating drills here on nairaland and thank me later.
The op name is Harddon, and the post is a lifesaver. Thanks to Harddon

when you get to my age you would understand most times you dont even have to say anything to get a woman.

Youonlyliveonce:


Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

OP run from this as far as your legs can carry you!
If you wan prize black goat you no go tell the owner say you don dey find that colour of goat tey tey to buy
I have my very own special method which my friends named the "Yardstick method"

I go just waka come meet you and find something near you turn am to gist. Could be how she walks, her hair or high hills. Use her to catch fun bro! Don't ever make the mistake of using your precious sef to crack jokes and make her laugh instead use stuffs about her to make her laugh.
If you continue this way her defences will be down gradually. When the ovation is loudest tell her you'd like to leave and that you're busy. Now this is the most interesting part; look directly into her eyes and tell her you'd call her later and hand her your phone. Trust me, she'll input her number.
No ever tell am that nonsense talk like; "Can I have your number?"
Tell am directly say "I'll call you later" and hand her the phone simultaneously while saying that.


I've done this many times and even showed my friends the same trick yet till this moment it still hasn't failed.
Oh! I almost forgot. There is a special make up you need to wear while meeting ladies. It's called "Confidence". I don't know how much it costs now but I'm pretty sure you can afford it easily.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching. I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone. It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me

please send me your mail or number,I’ll like to talk talk to you?

Read books, study them for sometimes before approaching with what the are familiar with.