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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by frankyychiji(f): 10:16pm On Sep 02, 2020
King44:
if you don't drink, just try and get read wine take like almost half of the bottle find a way not to make your mouth smell of alcohol, try and compose yourself and go for your target as long has you have a target in mind and up to three or four lines inspiration and confidence would come
He should and be tipsy and possibly become Hot too, then approach a girl with a hard -on abii? You get sense .wella

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by ChukaOkolo(m): 10:18pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Who’s your best female friend, start with her . Relationship for me is more on a spiritual level, i have to see if we are compactable spiritualy before i make a move . So my brother just don’t approach any girl , some people are dry leaf.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by KingAfo(m): 10:19pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:

Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women
Ladies don’t like long stories these day.
Hi cutie.
Am jannuxajj what’s your name ...........
Nice name- are you yoruba, the name sounds like a yoruba name.
I don’t bumping to people especially pretty ladies, But forgive me this time. Where are you heading/ strolling to..
if you don’t mind, can I have your CONTACT perhaps ring you later or chat you up.
EOD!!
Don’t cram these line..just for you to have a clue. Be yourself and flow..... you are welcome

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:19pm On Sep 02, 2020
join Cult and the boldness will come grin

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by ednut1(m): 10:20pm On Sep 02, 2020
grin practice makes perfect
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by MajohBankz: 10:20pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man
You never talk wetin you dey find woman for yet. See your mouth like KONJI

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:20pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Approach them like you are dealing with your sisters. A little joke will help you out

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by wizdooarchy3(m): 10:20pm On Sep 02, 2020
go read your book my friend ��

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.


Don't u knw programmers don't have gf

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by tylesh(f): 10:22pm On Sep 02, 2020
You have to keep trying bro
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Rahmanjargo(m): 10:22pm On Sep 02, 2020
You don jonze!

Buckle up. You go need that confidence for life.
Real matters!
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by 2cribz: 10:23pm On Sep 02, 2020
Dullard. Dnt go n make money .all these stupid sfonjas dat litter everywhere with vagabond bastard children. Me stress myself over naija girls. Ogun kill them thr. Blow and on to the next. They aint worth it. They are all egocentric gold diggers with self entitlement. On road,off road,in lounge,malls,name it.

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by domino4211(m): 10:23pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.
Rome wasn't built in a day..
Just keep trying ..
BTW,about programming,which field exactly do you specialise in?
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Topmaike007(m): 10:24pm On Sep 02, 2020
Kalatium:
Bro. I will advice you to read HARDDON's dating drills on this platform.
so you're also a student of the don himself

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by faithfull18(f): 10:25pm On Sep 02, 2020
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy Is it difficult to talk to someone again
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by SAMBARRY: 10:26pm On Sep 02, 2020
Broda ode Go and make money and you won't need to know how to woo a lady tongue


Thank me later cool

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Thenorth(m): 10:27pm On Sep 02, 2020
You will be rejected........ but as a real nigger, you don't have to be afraid of rejection...

things will get better...
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:28pm On Sep 02, 2020
Blackmoran:
welcome to the game, well done am proud of you, you don't have anything to be ashamed of first of all you have express yourself instead of you keeping mute and later on your bed your turn to imaginary screen writer.. secondly don't see it as a lost but rather the other way round. .. thirdly you will get more confidence by approaching girls, but let me warn you let say in a day you are to approach 10 girls the likelihood that 8 to 9 will turn you down is normal, when you asking a girl out don't be emotional about it just see it has having fun

Lol

I swear u will b turning on the bed thinking
I 4say like this
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:29pm On Sep 02, 2020
Kalatium:
Bro. I will advice you to read HARDDON's dating drills on this platform.
is it a book


Or a movie harddon
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by ebonycc: 10:29pm On Sep 02, 2020
Hahahaha so funny.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by KBdownloads(m): 10:29pm On Sep 02, 2020
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by DrAbayomi(m): 10:31pm On Sep 02, 2020
ednut1:
grin practice makes perfect
You mean to say “practice breeds perfection and not perfect”.
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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 02, 2020
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Rahmanjargo(m): 10:32pm On Sep 02, 2020
eniolaamos7:

It's not that you don't know how to approach ladies. But what you are lacking from my own personal experience is "why do I need her?" Even if I successfully persuade her, what do we from there? If your mind cannot answer these questions then you, then you will certainly still feel reserved.
Guy you're a real gee.
I dey automatically owe you money fr!!

That's the same useless thoughts that made me missed alot of girls during my uni days because i was dead broke.
The thought goes like this *after I collect their number now what next? Wetn i wan tell them? Which money i go take carry dem go outing? If I tell them to come visit me na my messed up room with torn carpet i Wan carry them come?*

Mind you i used to successfully collect their numbers but that's where it end.

As money dey now i can get their number today and we are already making out in one hotel or my AP the next day.

It all boils down to the size of your pocket and orientation!

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by frugal(m): 10:34pm On Sep 02, 2020
Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Next time, here's what to do.

You: *smile* You live in this estate/neighborhood?
She: Yeah sure
You: Haven't seen you around before.
You: Oh my name is Frugal by the way.
She: OK
You: So what's your name na? You have one, don't you?
She: *Smiles* Sure I do. My name is fuckbuddy
You: Cool name. I'm in a hurry to get something, but would like to continue this conversation later.
You: *Hand her your phone*
You: Enter your number, I'll call/text you later.

Call her the following day and offer to buy her lunch

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Necksonnel: 10:36pm On Sep 02, 2020
Maybe you're broke. If you're loaded the confidence will come from nowhere. This is me. When am broke I lose this confidence to approach some girls but when am loaded, I fit approach you no mata how big you are if you turn me down i see am as your loss

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by MajorOvakporaye(f): 10:37pm On Sep 02, 2020
shawnfamous:
Bro u even try pass me.. I no even get guts to approach women for road.. Something must connect us before I go say I wan even follow person wey I nor know dey yarn


Na legbere you be
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 02, 2020
PrinceOfEast:
When i start naso i dey fear woman..until i start to mingle with gees and go outings na there i start to get liver take talk to girls based on say my gees dey give me ot and moral....

bro, no fear any vagina...them no fit slap u (abi them dey mahd!) package urself, dey free around ladies and no dare make them realise say you dey fear! talk to them like say u dey talk to ur fellow man but put sugar for ur talk, just dey whine d babe and make her smile but if her head strong..abobi disembark....
I dey feel u bro
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Necksonnel: 10:38pm On Sep 02, 2020
Rahmanjargo:

Guy you're a real gee.
I dey automatically owe you money fr!!

That's the same useless thoughts that made me missed alot of girls during my uni days because i was dead broke.
The thought goes like this *after I collect their number now what next? Wetn i wan tell them? Which money i go take carry dem go outing? If I tell them to come visit me na my messed up room with torn carpet i Wan carry them come?*

Mind you i used to successfully collect their numbers but that's where it end.

As money dey now i can get their number today and we are already making out in one hotel or my AP the next day.

It all boils down to the size of your pocket and orientation!

100% bro. Money is the confidence. Same thing happens to me

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Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by AfroKnight: 10:40pm On Sep 02, 2020
cheesy

Collecting L is normal. Try your luck on another fine girl. One go click.
Re: I Approached A Lady Today And I Was Disappointed In Myself. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Sep 02, 2020
eniolaamos7:

It's not that you don't know how to approach ladies. But what you are lacking from my own personal experience is "why do I need her?" Even if I successfully persuade her, what do we from there? If your mind cannot answer these questions then you, then you will certainly still feel reserved.
na to FCK na or as a gf

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