Baba go dey masturbate sef .. you have to work and build yourself . You can start watching romance movies both Hollywood and Nollywood or download romance books it will help alot . YouTube can also be your friend ..

sonofElElyon:
Don't approach many girls and become a serial toaster!

You can have ordinary conversations with ladies without asking them out. That will get you comfortable in the company of the opposite sex and fix your anxiety..

However when it comes to asking for a relationship, avoid toasting many ladies at once because it will become an addiction and turn you into a womaniser eventually..

Just have normal conversations with the intention of making friends and then out of the friends you have made, you'll eventually find one who will be ready to have a relationship with you and when you find her, let it be for the purpose of marriage and not to have casual sex..

Second most sensible comment I've seen

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

No go kill yourself because of women

Join groups in church or elsewhere

That will make things a lot easy for you because you already have something to talk about when you meet

Like someone said, this is a good start

Don't give up

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Don't get yourself worked up over this attempt, its a good start. Learn from your mistakes and improve, it can only get better.

. Rule number one: Never approach a vagina person on the road unless there's an initial attraction or acquaintance between you two.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Girls don't really like being stopped on the road except You are in your car or standing close to it. Even at that 9 out of 10 might snubb you.

Anyways keep trying. Their shakara will end

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Lol. Every guy goes through this.

Try to go out more. Visit different spots in your area, make new friends, try to talk to more women and don't ever make the mistake that women will like you because of your money.

Keep failing till you get it right. No level

Free ya mind.
When you hit streets, nor get am for mind say you want hunt for girls.
But when the opportunity appear again,wetin you go talk go come out naturally.... but get confidence....females dey like confident guys....the end point....na to get her number......then...you get ya inference when you dey chat and calls....most dey easy....nor reason am.....we don retire for hunting expedition

You're into programming and can't program a woman?

I dnt understand that the op is saying

Nothing spoil bruh ��

I’m proud of you guys and your positive responses. So Nairalanders can be this chill?

Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man

You have to take your mind away from konji way one kill you just focus on getting the lady, how to make her happy and intimacy Bros your dream is yours peacefully �

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

I had to quit at intermediate level when i realised its killing my relationships in the real world.
life goes beyond " If " & " Elif " clause.

Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man

once you see a girl you like, just clear her you want FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS with her, so she understand it's just sex you want from her but show her willingness to spend too otherwise woman will manipulate you in collecting money from you and still refuse you sex. once they know you are just after sex, it's that time THEY WANT TO BUY CLOTHES, BUY BAGS AND MAKE HAIR ,and that sex you need from them they will manipulate you as if they are virgins

Rejection is nothing. Try again or start a convo that does not start with name asking like," please do you know so so place", then wow u smell good, what spray do u use.... then

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Dust it and try again.

Jannuxajj:

I will try sha

Keep trying, later you go turn PRO , and after they will start running after you , make sure you make enough money

If your parents can just see advice you are all giving this op. Righteousness89, come and preach to your people.

MajorOvakporaye:


Na legbere you be

lol.. Relax.. Una too do, I no dey like make small pikin dey See Me finish for road

bigcee:

lol. U no well

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahHa oh men... this is the funny thing av seen in my life.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

At first, I thought someone had gotten hold of my account and posted this. Lol.

@OP, I’m a dev too and as you can guess, just hitting the bed since 4pm that I have been working. Almost no human interaction in my life too since I got deeply into these programming life but here is what I do, every weekend, I drag myself to a nice place (restaurant, bar) bar mostly to cool off. I meet new people, talk little and if I really wanna have a long convo, I talk dirty, lol. With time, you gonna improve.

Side note: Just yesterday I was advising an intern to make sure he gets himself a girlfriend before going too deep into this programming shii, he thought I was just making fun of him. Little does he know what he’s signing up for.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

you had a good start, not bad at all.

Jannuxajj:

I will try sha

Next time, tell her you like her hair or smile..and ask what the hair is called


Then say your sister likes to make the same type of hair..smile and be jovial

Nothing dey there

Try being funny. Don't start off being too serious. Try hailing like " fine girl" that simple line can do wonders. If she ignores jus add another line "nothing bad to appreciate a beautiful woman". If she thanks you. Then enter am with " your so smart" if she still dey follow up with " I jus like meeting smart people cos I can learn alot by such interactions" then if she still dey. Talk about what you do " I am into programming" Bamboozle her a little and ask what she knows about your field. Ask her about what she is doing. From there sell yourself na marketing. Your goals, enterprise drive, etc. Trust me women will flock to you. If you market yourself well. Also look good. It doesn't have to be expensive to look good. Dress smartly and neat. Smell good. Dont wear flip flop about. Pam sandals everywhere. You get the gist. Goodluck.

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Keep approaching before u know it u wld master the act and be blessed with the Honey pot for you to dig deep in.

Don't start what u cannot finish, rather join a book club, gym or a place or worship center where u can find decent and working class lady. And again, have a spiritual life with ur maker so that he will direct and link u up with ur soul mate majority of the ladies outside now are gold diggers. Imagine my giving a girl an opportunity to make money only for her to request for 200k before I can get down with her. So bro, watch out don't start what u cannot finish

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Read and watch.



Chosen >> https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen

Choosing a girl >> https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl

Managing your woman > https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGeiBEiDRZWTof71DJXkGfmqRQObzBI7H


Thank me later with a bottle of champagne.

Try ashawo first..... No much talk. Just pricing after then approach real babe...