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Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:04pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Dear men, Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you. Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice. So what is the point? if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men. Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth. This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there" So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself.. 594 Likes 59 Shares
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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by DontBullshitMe: 8:05pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
I give my money to orphans. 416 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Uzomacharles: 8:07pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Nice one 83 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by DeSepiero(m): 8:11pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Makes absolute sense. Learn to say "NO" to urgent 10k requests when it's not convenient. You owe no one an explanation. Even if its convenient you can still simply say no if you want. It doesn't make you stingy, it means you're in control of your choices and actions. 493 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you 165 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:17pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Zzor: Nah so.... If only men understand that mystery about ladies. 144 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:Keep it up bro, more blessings. 110 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Petyprincess(f): 8:23pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by baralatie(m): 8:25pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
I dey laf una if una like make una write epistle that eyaah eyooh me money can t move.my ngbom gbom is gbagibom me I go dey laf una.na una self una dey lie to 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
They always get mad when i reply their financial demands with the phrase "no money o, where I wan see dat kind money?" Money spent on women is wasted, i knew this long time ago. If the money is too much please help your needy friends, they will praise you till eternity. When these 2 people tell you to run, please just look for chair and sit down. Zzor: Petyprincess: 213 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:29pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Petyprincess: You are not impressed with money and you like fat pockets... Wettin Lalasticlala no go see for nairaland. 210 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Toks2008:The mystique statue is another femi-centric ideology promoted by the society and generally, women, to uphold women in high standard. There's absolutely nothing mysterious about women, their dual mating strategy, hypergamous nature, innate solipsism, nature and idea of love, just to list a few are the core of women mystique promoted in the society. Once you understand these concepts, your perception of women will change forever ! A rude awakening, and there's no going back . Sad and depressing reality. 179 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by PoliticallyInco: 8:38pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money. These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy. Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS. Listen, If the lady isn't a minor or an aged relative then she is not getting a dime from me just like that. In other to get a dime she has to earn every penny of it by working twice or thrice as hard to earn it. It would not matter how many positions of the Kama Sutra you know, how good the head you give is, how wet you get when I slam into you from behind sending your juices splashing everywhere, or how good your food tastes, or how domesticated you are, or how saintly your character is. And oh I also don't kid myself that I am the best man out there. Just as you aren't the best woman either. So please make your own money and "eat" it alone. Let me make mine and enjoy it in peace with legit dependants. See ladies, there are a few ways to earn money from me and I promise you,you must work thrice as hard to earn it and secondly it isn't through any form of sexuality or the stereotypical gender roles of a lady. I live for myself first, then my young and aged dependants next, then the less privileged, before I then consider a woman. 238 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by baralatie(m): 8:39pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: ehen! I said it! I knew it! awon onigirama ati encyclopedia won n be ni nairaland! 14 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Froshloaded: 8:40pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Petyprincess: I'm confused 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Liposure: 8:43pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
I can appreciate a woman all i like but not with my widow's mite. Nice one op 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:45pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: Abeg you please break am down... The grammer too much for me to comprehend. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:46pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
baralatie: I thought I was the only one o 8 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 8:49pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Fact. Please try to always attach a link to that your thread so that more men can read it and have some sense. GLYCOLYSISS: 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by virginprincess(f): 8:52pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Op this your story de two sided, anyway you are right in a way, a man money can and will never move me. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Toks2008(m): 8:55pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
virginprincess: All of you saying a man's money can't move you.. Issokay 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Aaaaarghmed(m): 8:58pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
God bless you immediately 1 Like |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
PUNAengineOIL:Let's see how that goes bro. Hope you're doing great ? Good evening.. 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by virginprincess(f): 9:09pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Toks2008: 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Good evening brother. Your thread is very informative, more men needs to be enlightened. You did a great job with the writeup. More ink to your pen. GLYCOLYSISS: 10 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Vyzz: 9:26pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
I give my money to mama.... Is a lie I don't have money 9 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
PUNAengineOIL:Thanks man, I appreciate . Good night.. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Petyprincess(f): 9:56pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Froshloaded:Because it meant to confused not to convince you. 2 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by peropoliet(m): 10:00pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Zzor:we hear you ma ...we also know your type 7 Likes |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Kendumazy(m): 10:04pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:I just like to dey read your comments You're always making sense You're a real nigarrr bro✌ 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dear Men, Before You Give A Lady Your Money. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Oct 03, 2020 |
We nairaland men are broke so why advise us, abi pesin fit give wetin he no get? 6 Likes |
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