ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

Abouwaza:
The question is not about why are men like this
The thing is common with both sexes (ladies cheat too) and don't generalise, not all men cheat
Now ask your sister to reconcile with her hubby and pack back cos if she doesn't she will regret for the rest of her life
She will still get bleeped and before you know it, she will loose count of how many guys pounding her if she remains separated

PS who knows if your sister is also cheating, she just managed to catch the husband

Almost everybody don mad now oo

ReluctantAdult:
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.

pocohantas:
Men are polygamous in nature

Abeg, don’t come wailing when you find out a POLYGAMOUS man is dicking your wife or girlfriend. Or when your wife carry another man pikin, come house. It is all for the brotherhood and we can all live as one.

The world population is not enough to guarantee one man, multiple women. So, it has to be someone’s LOML. You're really pained . If women should start cheating everywhere it's still men it would benefit, better supply of pussies. Remember you women will be the ones carrying the pregnancies not men

As we are so understanding with cheating men, let’s be understanding with women who help these men maintain a balance. Keep up this energy, I no wan see “these hoes ain’t loyal”.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

RPG2020:




Don't mind her crocodile � tears

Anytime her sister ex husband called her sister in bed she will start saying im tired I'm not in the mood I'm not happy I'm not giving it to you for no reason
Then the niggarr mind made up

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

Mrscarter:


What reason would be gud enuff to cheat on Ur husband/wife abeg?
Especially in your own bed U share

ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

pocohantas:


I wonder why she left. Why should I leave a cheating Nigerian husband? I’ll remain inside that marriage to ruin his life. When I am done with him, let me see how many of those side-chicks will find him attractive. Pffttt

Jim99:


True.

Some mornings we just wake up and we wanna fvck a light skinned chick so bad, the next day we want a dark chick with a big ass.

For us Men, a new day comes with a new desire for a different woman.

BigJoe19:
You're really pained grin. If women should start cheating everywhere it's still men it would benefit, better supply of pussies. Remember you women will be the ones carrying the pregnancies not men cheesy

BigJoe19:
What can you ruin? Too much mouth no go kill una. Na ur type dey collect lhil frosh kind of beating.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Mrscarter:


I agree. But having another woman in the bed U sleep in with Ur husband, talk affectionately, make love, passionate stuff etc n then U go sleep in that bed knowing another woman done all that with Ur husband in that same spot Ur laying on?!
Na is worse. Not much worse but still worse

tomdon:
Nonsense
The man obviously doesn't have money.
Maybe she no even too de like that
What then will you say of wives of people like Ned nwoko and other men in polygamy who their husbands legally marry the other wives an not just infidelity

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

BBBmall25:
No One Justified That! But On The Hand, If U Know What Possibly That Innocent Man Went Through In Silent Before It Resulted To This Now. She's Saying The Man Side Now, Pls. Let Her Tell Me Her Saintimonous Sister Side Biko!

baralatie:

let me explain to you!
The animals such as cats (lions, hyenas,panted dogs) are basically social animals and do not follow this your promiscuous logic.The male animals usually have the high testosterone levels which hell them to develop huge mass of muscle,sex organs and an inbuilt fight or flight Dynamics .These they further develop from childhood and they understand the roles that each gender should perform.
while the females in the lion pride(basically sisters) are grown to become expect hunters and bring food to the table ,thereby keeping the pride alive.the male lions are ussaly useless because they just not the successful hunters.But when it comes to fight the male lion is unrivaled.the social problem being solved in between lion goes like this.the female pride members(sisters) cannot take down cape buffalos and ward off hyena stealing their food and male lions commiting infanticide.Solution is to get a male lion(with high pumping testosterone)


the testosterone in animals is not for promiscuity at all.it is for the solution of a threat to the social existence of the pride.with a high testosterone the manes are darker and muscles bigger .these is backed up with its ability to fight.That is the rule.
the testosterone is not related to promiscuity at all

ReluctantAdult:
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.

pocohantas:


[s]When you guys get hit with fact, you start claiming the woman is pained, whereas it is you guys filling NL with tears of cheating gfs. No, it isn’t more supplies of pussy, don’t try to flip it.

A cheating female partner drives men crazy. They do not have the mental strength to handle it. If this thread was on a cheating wife, we would be on page 20 of premium tears and none of those comments would be about supply of pussy or polygamous nature of women. A woman is pregnant by choice, not chance. Same pregnancy they transfer to other men? Dude stop deceiving yourself abeg.



That is what some of your brothers thought till they got hit. Shebi you will still come to cry again on how men are endangered species? E go shock una. [/s]

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Biglittlelois:



Only a lady that think less of herself, or has been cheated on countless times she's so used to it and can live with a cheating spouse regardless of the diseases that comes with it, will say this,

1) Not all men cheat cos it is never and can never be their thing

2) It is not the obligation of a lady to keep her home, it is the obligation of both partners to selflessly try hard no matter what, to keep their home,

3) I never said cheating is not cheating, my emphasis of the matrimonial bed is that it should be an intimate place for husband and wife, this is where most couples tend to bond intimately not just through sex, but prayer, intimate talks, playful gists, cuddling, etc. Imagine the thought of knowing a stranger has violated your personal space cos of how many minutes pleasure,

But if you feel that place is no big deal, by all means, allow strangers to eat, sleep and have sex there with your permission, to each his/her own.