chinchonglee:

Am nt talking of women.
Am actually telling why most men cheat.

fattprince:

Fatima. You really need to get married.
On a more serious note I said that because almost all partners that cheat feel pained so when they are being cheated on.

Bimpe29:
As if women doesn't cheat.
It's a social quagmire that bedevil both sex.
You only have moral right to condemn it objectively without calling out a particular sex.

fattprince:
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fati2001:

Lol motherfvcker

fattprince:
my mom was a retarded prostitute and my dad is a wayward coward

lefulefu:
there various reasons why guys cheat
some it might be they never liked the woman in the first place
believe it or not dudes get forced either by their parents or their religious leaders to pick certain women they dont like
for others its just to oil up their male ego
but what i see here is if u are happy in ur marriage and the woman u married to u like her both sexually and otherwise u wont be that interested in looking outside for another woman

fattprince:

Well that's what most females result into when losi. Did I mention your Dad or mum. If you respect yours you would respect other's. Maybe you are an orphan to get this low. Please take your disgusting attitude to another thread. I'm done with you.

IamPlato:
which Fly Are You? Abutata or Cricket or Cockroach

Chizzychinny:

Yes, at least there is little respect and it will be less hurtful

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men has this habit of cheating,why most you cheat when you have a wife,my big sis leave his husband house today because she caught his husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed,sometimes I think been single is the best way.all this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sis has to go through all this pain now.

fattprince:

Its you who needs a brain. I'm serious, just ask your sister if she has ever cheated. Don't hear what she says its her reaction you should look at. She wouldn't want to tell you the truth cos apart from cheating keeping it a secret is what females are good at. Of course you wouldn't believe cos you are female.

GerraMeh74:
Am not saying this to justify the actions of the man, infedility is a terrible thing that cannot be justify no matter how cozy we try to make it look as men by saying "oh the woman might have cheated too" . Her leaving her husband because he cheated on her is not the best solution.... She should stay and find out ways in which they can work something out... The way marriages are breaking up this days is something else mehn...

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

BBBmall25:
Whenever U're Angry And Spew Trashes On Someone, What May Be Ur Special Reasons For Doing That?... Life Sometime Exact On Us That We Often Loose Our Sense Of Morality. Often Time, Our Involuntary Action Too Play Us Fast And That's B'cos We Aren't Perfect. Read Jeremiah 10vs23; As Christian Cheating Is Not Condoned As Well, Read Malachi 2vs16; At Matthew 19vs5,6 Jesus Afirmed One Man Per A Woman. Bible Condemned Other Things At Proveb 6vs16-19 Which Commonly Do Them Voluntarily Or Involuntarily. My Point Is Before This Man Cheat There Have Been His Personal Reason Which May Have Triggered The Involuntary Impulse To Have A Change Of Thought, And Op Has Failed To Address This Due To Sisterly Bias Sentiment In Her Reporting.

ReluctantAdult:

How then do you explain the usual scenario of a male animal mating with many females? Very few species are monogamous. In fact 8 out of 10 species of mammals are polygamous and that's as a result of the steep difference in the testosterone levels between these genders.

Testosterone drives libido. A highly libidinous male isn't compatible with a female with low libido. Therefore he cools off with many different females to balance off the scales. It is what it is. You can't dispute nature.

ReluctantAdult:
Like I said, I don't care what excuse the man gives about his cheating but it is for a fact that high libido is a possible reason.

Mekenz:
your sister's husband cheated, because of that she left her home, so what's her aim of leaving, to punish the husband or what. so she will now becomes celibate or go and marry another man that won't cheat on her abi......

these days it only takes the grace of God for a married man not to cheat on his wife, mejority of women these days no longer accord cheating from their husbands a big offence that can dissolve their marriage.

some even know their husbands mistress, but chooses to ignore them, in other not to attract troubles in their homes.

so far their husbands is fulfilling their marital duties at home, and doesn't rub his cheating nature on her face, mejority of women no longer cares, who they are meeting outside. men will always be men especially these days that young girls no longer cover themselves well. married men are seeing alot these days.

WORDWORLD:


Have you asked your sister if she is the type that complains of head ache most of the time her husband seeks for sexual intimacy? Have asked her if your sister is the type that always complains that she is tired when her husband seeks for sexual intimacy? Have you asked your sister if she gives her husband the best of herself during sex and not just lay down like a dead rat? Have you asked your sister if she is sexually adventurous in bed with her husband?

Am just asking because it's a reality that SEXUAL FUSTRATION makes both men and women who never ever intended to cheat when the get married end up cheating when faced with such a challenge.

Liposure:
Monogamy is a wishful idea. This is why men will always cheat. In this day and age it takes discipline to stay with one woman. If only your sis understand

RealEzee:
aiit, let's say she hasn't never cheated in her life, what will you propose tho, I'd like to hear ur verdict?

Sixfeetbelle:


The man couldn't discuss with his wife and reach a compromise like you guys normally advise women to do in marital problems?

Or the man couldn't have endured the marriage like his own mother did. I mean after using his mother as a standard, one would expect he acts and behaves like her.

Besides what's your own if she leaves her husband's home? Men frequently send their cheating wives packing without a single thought so why should she stay with a man who was indiscreet about his infidelity?

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

thesicilian:
Why do you people keep emphasizing this matrimonial bed issue as if the ones they do outside is better? Cheating is cheating no matter where it is done and I condemn it in all ramifications.

baralatie:

there is no relationship between testosterone levels and promiscuity in the animal kingdom.the testosterone levels in the blood stream is to fight or flight.that is why the big cats can fight but yet the females with less testosterone are the more successful hunters because of the instinct to keep the pride alive.

Humans have better reasoning and emotions different to that of animals.
U can't compare.

Mrscarter:


What reason would be gud enuff to cheat on Ur husband/wife abeg?
Especially in your own bed U share

BBBmall25:
Whenever U're Angry And Spew Trashes On Someone, What May Be Ur Special Reasons For Doing That?... Life Sometime Exact On Us That We Often Loose Our Sense Of Morality. Often Our Involuntary Action Too Play Us Fast And That's B'cos We Aren't Perfect. Read Jeremiah 10vs23; As Christian Cheating Is Not Condoned As Well, Read Malachi 2vs16; At Matthew 19vs5,6 Jesus Afirmed One Man Per A Woman. Bible Condemned Other Things At Proveb 6vs16-19 Which Commonly Do Them Voluntarily Or Involuntarily. My Point Is Before This Man Cheat There Have Been His Personal Reason Which May Have Triggered The Involuntary Impulse To Have A Change Of Thought, And Op Has Failed To Address This Due To Sisterly Bias Sentiment In Her Reporting.