virginprincess:
May you not die on top of a woman, say Amen.

MhisTahrah:
Some Nigerian men are always quick to generalize and bash Nigerian women whenever a lady makes the news for something bad for example, a married woman having extramarital affairs.But one will never see this set of hypocrites judge cheating married men in such manner.They make senseless comments and the really dumb ones go ahead to insult the wife for her husband's inability to remain faithful.

You might want to go through this thread and see for yourself
https://www.nairaland.com/6174273/cheating-some-men-something-else

virginprincess:
Bia, are you even a nigerian.

MrCork:



story..bro so are u saying if Virginprincess offer u punnnny, u will rather go & protest for SARS?...Wot kinda guy r u sir, u on nairaland for 18 years & u saying u dont hav interest in women? Bro I hav meet up wit 27 chicks so far & I hav smash only 9 so far. plaYA!!

jericco1:


Our interests differ bro.
I have my reservations about Nairaland ladies

MrCork:



..bro it's ok if u dont like women but juss be care full not to turn gay...we hate gay people...except there ladies thou.

baralatie:

that is a big lie!
it will still be the same problem.those that want to cheat will cheat

nwaezeemmanuel:
Hey! Can i ask?

Are you by any means related to Chidera Eggerue? Your username is so familiar

virginprincess:
Expect me.

jericco1:


I never told you I don't like women.
You calling me a misogynist?

MrCork:



bro. Virginprincess give u green light but instead, u talkin grama askin her if she spek apia gbon gbon from delta state. Too much story bro. Cant u juss smash?. The chick like me thou(no oofense)

Lordfave98:
Oga what you just said isn't accurately correct i have seen several families where the wives have the bulk of the family's responsibilities on their shoulder. we should stop this egocentric rubbish

Shortyy:

Go to Ebonyi State and see how women struggle to feed both children and husband. Y'all should stop this excuse. I know women that carry the family. This mentality is flawed really.

virginprincess:
No need to say that ! if really what am saying is true, that means jerrico1 happen to be my cousin brother, so no need of toasting.

MhisTahrah:
According to you, the reason for the double standards in marriage is because the husband shoulders more financial responsibilities. There are cases where husbands cry on nairaland because their wives earn more and contribute a larger percentage to household finances.I can even remember a thread I saw where a woman said she shoulders all the finances in the house and she was thoroughly bashed.

The issue here is not about what people would say but how men excuse cheating married men with comments such as 'it is a man's nature to cheat' or 'the wife must be doing something wrong' and turn to bash cheating women, casting aspersions on the female gender.

MrCork:



oh really? U telling me u not on nairaland to chase women..correct?...ok so u came to sell groundnut..abi? Every guy agree we all come here to chase women, real talk.
Holdddddup.. Hangon bro...are u gay?(no oofense)

jericco1:


Our interests differ bro.
I have my reservations about Nairaland ladies

MhisTahrah:
This is untrue.

Silentgroper:
. Isnt it weird meeting ur cousin on nl nd 4 d fact that u called her father senseless.. Kikikikiki. Dz is some crazy stuff.

angelfallz:


Nice side stepping.

MhisTahrah:
I see you modified.
The burden of wedding expenses is on both groom and bride.The fact that the groom VOLUNTARILY decides to finance it is his own problem.Some men feel shouldering financial responsibilities makes them more manly and subsequently feel emasculated if their partners have more financial power.

Are you kidding me?This varies individually but from most things we see online, it's obvious women invest more emotions in relationships than men.

You guys don't encourage women to make the first move.In fact she is often disrespected.

Refer to the above for this.

Theslumflower:
I will forever advice women to make their own money and be independent. Let your husband know you can do three times what he does when it comes to money.

From the above comments and ones from the thread, it's all about finances. Kill that financial gap and see how everything changes. They won't try it if they respect you because they know you will 100% thrive on your own and this is 21st century, there are hundreds of learned men who will marry a good, hardworking, pretty divorcee lady. Don't let Nairaland fool you.

As of the one up talking about bride price. Nobody forced you to pay. That one concern you and her kinsmen. Funny enough, how much wey you pay sef

Women have so much power. Some just haven't realized it yet, which is sad.

I've seen women that their hubby cheat on their faces and they won't say or do nothing SMH, thereby aiding the act. Definition of giving yourself no singlee value as a lady

Be a financially free woman from your husband and see how things turn around. Like they say, money stops nonsense.

MhisTahrah:
According to you, the reason for the double standards in marriage is because the husband shoulders more financial responsibilities. There are cases where husbands cry on nairaland because their wives earn more and contribute a larger percentage to household finances.I can even remember a thread I saw where a woman said she shoulders all the finances in the house and she was thoroughly bashed.

The issue here is not about what people would say but how men excuse cheating married men with comments such as 'it is a man's nature to cheat' or 'the wife must be doing something wrong' and turn to bash cheating women, casting aspersions on the female gender.

Madibahisback:


Your father too is among them na
He is the king on senseless comment
EZE NDI ARA!!

virginprincess:
Don't mind them, exactly while i said 95% of nairaland men are senseless.

fati2001:
MEN.... I MEANT ZOOGERIA HEGOATS THAT ARE HIDING UNDER THE GENDER MALE ARE SENSELESS, THEY ARE MANY ON NAIRALAND.... THEY KNOW THEMSEVELS.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Including Ur àboki father and brothers too I guess

fati2001:


AS I WROTE UP THERE "EM " KNOW THEMSELVES " E. G YOU! THE WAY YOU CONSTRUCT UR SENTENCE ON THIS FORUM. MAKIN ME WONDER WHETHER UR BRAIN ACCESSORIES ARE LOCATED AROUND THE AREA OF YOUR PELVIS.