Og giiii dem,,,,,,


Original gang star,,,,, osorire omo mii,,

MhisTahrah:
If you had any iota of common sense, you'd know not to butt in conversations halfway and spill trash. This thread is addressing some male folks double standards on cheating in marriage.Gerrard buttressed damnniggars statement about how financing the family tips the scales in men's favour and I countered that there are some women who carry the major share of responsibilities in marriage but are often underappreciated.How does hypergamy correlate with infidelity and double standards?

Oga, you argument is trash.

Korllami007:


Oga, you argument is trash.

Korllami007:


WTF did I just read?
This one doesn't know the meaning of hypergamy and hypogamy.
The guy is talking about men marrying women that are lower in status and financially. You are talking about financial breakthrough of women in marriage.
How does it even correlate?

Korllami007:


This is just okoto. The main discussion between the guy that quoted you is who marry up between men and women? Before you see a man that wants to marry a woman that's richer than him, you would have seen 500 women that want marry a man than richer than them. Men subjugation is another discussion entirely, it's not hypogamous.
All your arguments in this thread have been flawed by some people because your arguments are illogical.

Come with your senses next time, you will be ignored henceforth.

MhisTahrah:
Obviously we still have some right thinking people on this section.It doesn't DISPROVE the fact that some excused cheating married men, just shows that some don't subscribe to their biased views.It is also interesting to see that the 2nd most liked comment on that thread is by kekereekun with 347 likes and there was no single word of condemnation from him.It is quite disturbing to see so much congregated stupidity in that comment.

Well, I didn't see any male quote that zini guy with his '100% of threads created by girls on nairaland are bullshit' comment and the damnniggar dude with his defence of the hypocrites either.
I believe nairaland misandrists didn't actually start out as misandrists.They got tired of defending and calling these alfa males out so they started launching their own attacks on the male gender in retaliation. I can remember a time on this nl when females were attacked for airing their views on sex-related matters.Take a stroll to the sexuality section and compare the male and female ratio.

Just as there was no single word of condemnation from the 2nd most liked comment, there also wasn’t any single word of support, excuse, or rationalization for cheating from the most liked comment.
You are correct that no male has quoted the “zini guy’s” comment. As for the “damnniggar” dude, a male moniker actually quoted and responded to his comment on page 2 (whether the reply was spot on or off point is an entirely different argument altogether).
The point that Nairaland misandrists didn’t actually start out as misandrists doesn’t cut it for me. We can equally start mentioning how people like Adolf Hitler, Saddam Hussein, etc, didn’t start out as dictators, terrorists, etc. What they were before/initially is by the way, what they currently are is what matters. In local parlance, “I get am before no be property.”
You are right to acknowledge that I have kept my posts largely devoid of personal insults, just as you have done yours. You are very wrong to say that you ignored the “carefully sheathed polite ones.” On the contrary, you have also responded with some subtle ones.
My moniker is new, but I am definitely no stranger to Nairaland, since I have been viewing as a guest since 2014, as I have stated previously. And just as you have your gripe, I also have mine – I cannot even begin to count the number of threads or comments that swing in the opposite direction of what your thread is about, that’s why I decided to play the Devil’s Advocate on this thread like I stated in my very first comment. I could also decide to play the Devil’s Advocate and swing in the other direction, essentially lending credence to this thread.
Ultimately, my lifelong goal is to be as unbiased as is humanly possible, simply because I realize that people support or disagree with viewpoints primarily because of their inherent inclinations (be it gender, race, religion or political affiliation, to mention a few), and not necessarily because those viewpoints make sense or are lacking coherence. Whether I will actually achieve this feat is a different ball game on its own.

Magnoliaa:


You were making sense oh. And treading in the right direction...

Don't start making claims that goes against everything you've been saying since morning about hypocrisy with this...

There's no 'rarely' and 'more' and 'never' here. Women excuse their genders; women bash their genders.
Men excuse their genders; men bash their genders.

There's no case of (who does it) more or less here. Keep it at that (energy).

Or unless, you'll be guilty of being more biased towards your gender...

And you used females/men? I'll take offense at that. Why?? (P.S: Iz MY *anger and offense*)

Lol!!! Fair point, I must say.

I am not specifically concerned about the female/men usage and/or dichotomy. Just as equally as I wouldn’t worry or even take note if someone uses boy/female, woman/male, lady/man, etc. I can understand why, as a feminist, you would take offense at that. I also find that people who are not just particular about such usage, but are specifically offended by it (not necessarily you, because I wouldn’t know for sure), are easily among the people that come up with very weird gender theories et al. Like feminists saying that air conditioning is sexist, spelling women as “womxn” or “womyn” because including the word “man” in the spelling is sexist, or trying to rename the word “history” to “herstory” to mention a few.
Ultimately though, to each their own.

Fact1:
Og giiii dem,,,,,,


Original gang star,,,,, osorire omo mii,,

Lol!!! This guy. Your matter na something else. You go like “e-fights” die!!!

FearlessOG:


Just as there was no single word of condemnation from the 2nd most liked comment, there also wasn’t any single word of support, excuse, or rationalization for cheating from the most liked comment.
You are correct that no male has quoted the “zini guy’s” comment. As for the “damnniggar” dude, a male moniker actually quoted and responded to his comment on page 2 (whether the reply was spot on or off point is an entirely different argument altogether).
The point that Nairaland misandrists didn’t actually start out as misandrists doesn’t cut it for me. We can equally start mentioning how people like Adolf Hitler, Saddam Hussein, etc, didn’t start out as dictators, terrorists, etc. What they were before/initially is by the way, what they currently are is what matters. In local parlance, “I get am before no be property.”
You are right to acknowledge that I have kept my posts largely devoid of personal insults, just as you have done yours. You are very wrong to say that you ignored the “carefully sheathed polite ones.” On the contrary, you have also responded with some subtle ones.
My moniker is new, but I am definitely no stranger to Nairaland, since I have been viewing as a guest since 2014, as I have stated previously. And just as you have your gripe, I also have mine – I cannot even begin to count the number of threads or comments that swing in the opposite direction of what your thread is about, that’s why I decided to play the Devil’s Advocate on this thread like I stated in my very first comment. I could also decide to play the Devil’s Advocate and swing in the other direction, essentially lending credence to this thread.
Ultimately, my lifelong goal is to be as unbiased as is humanly possible, simply because I realize that people support or disagree with viewpoints primarily because of their inherent inclinations (be it gender, race, religion or political affiliation, to mention a few), and not necessarily because those viewpoints make sense or are lacking coherence. Whether I will actually achieve this feat is a different ball game on its own.

The male moniker corroborated his claim.

From my meager knowledge on law, I know sometimes circumstances surrounding a crime/criminal and background are considered. I could be wrong.Honestly, all this back and forth is starting to tire me out.You will never agree some males are more guilty of generalizing and double standards, I also will never agree that females who do it are often ignored by other women.Can we give it a rest?

Goodluck achieving your goal.

Do you talk so much in real life?

MhisTahrah:
The male moniker corroborated his claim.

From my meager knowledge on law, I know sometimes circumstances surrounding a crime/criminal and background are considered. I could be wrong.Honestly, all this back and forth is starting to tire me out.You will never agree some males are more guilty of generalizing and double standards, I also will never agree that females who do it are often ignored by other women.Can we give it a rest?

Goodluck achieving your goal.

Do you talk so much in real life?

I am referring to Lordfave98’s comment. No, he didn’t corroborate his claim.

Lol!!! I cannot accurately answer the question of whether I talk so much in real life, since it largely depends on the topic being discussed. If one is discussing combat sports (UFC, MMA, Bellator, Boxing, One FC, Glory Kickboxing, etc), I can discuss it from now ‘till the Lord’s second coming. I play the role of a listener for most other topics, since I am largely uninterested in them.

I am also not necessarily a fan of conversing on social media, as can be evidenced by the fact that my account is several months old and I have been a viewer/guest for over 6 years, yet, all the posts that I have made on Nairaland are on only this thread and can be counted on the fingers on one’s palms. I cannot count the number of times that I have wanted to create an account on Nairaland or log into my account after creating it, just to counter or refute someone’s claims, but I always end up convincing myself that there is definitely a better use of my time. I cannot even remember when I logged into my Facebook account last.

Ciao!!!

Zabiboy:


@ bolded is in the category of the man being in a tough situation..
Also,
Aside being fools,
The woman deserves to be slapped if she comes out to lament about being the one bearing the finacial burden..
Why?
Because No sensible man would get married when he hasnt gotten his financial, emotional and other areas of his life in order...
Meaning she married a baby Adult with the hope that what happens in Nollywood would happen to her

LOLZ

FearlessOG:


Lol!!! This guy. Your matter na something else. You go like “e-fights” die!!!

FearlessOG:


I am referring to Lordfave98’s comment. No, he didn’t corroborate his claim.

Lol!!! I cannot accurately answer the question of whether I talk so much in real life, since it largely depends on the topic being discussed. If one is discussing combat sports (UFC, MMA, Bellator, Boxing, One FC, Glory Kickboxing, etc), I can discuss it from now ‘till the Lord’s second coming. I play the role of a listener for most other topics, since I am largely uninterested in them.

I am also not necessarily a fan of conversing on social media, as can be evidenced by the fact that my account is several months old and I have been a viewer/guest for over 6 years, yet, all the posts that I have made on Nairaland are on only this thread and can be counted on the fingers on one’s palms. I cannot count the number of times that I have wanted to create an account on Nairaland or log into my account after creating it, just to counter or refute someone’s claims, but I always end up convincing myself that there is definitely a better use of my time. I cannot even remember when I logged into my Facebook account last.

Ciao!!!

Gerrard was the one I had in mind.He also quoted damnnigar.

You know, that sidestepping thing you accused me of.I'm a learner at it compared to you.
I put it to you that this is your alternate nairaland account. You have a main which you probably use to do all vices mentioned on this thread.This is just a thought from a hyperactive mind who has indulged in too many crime dramas, you needn't reply.

MhisTahrah:
Gerrard was the one I had in mind.He also quoted damnnigar.

You know, that sidestepping thing you accused me of.I'm a learner at it compared to you.
I put it to you that this is your alternate nairaland account. You have a main which you probably use to do all vices mentioned on this thread.This is just a thought from a hyperactive mind who has indulged in too many crime dramas, you needn't reply.

Well, how does it feel to realize that you were dead wrong? You even quoted Lordfave98’s post and said “My point exactly.”

Lol!!! You put it to me that this is my alternate Nairaland account, yet you use the word “probably” in your very next sentence. Taking wild guesses, aren’t you. Well, you are definitely free to revel in your assumptions. Obviously, this back and forth isn’t starting to tire you out like you claimed in your last post.

You needn’t also reply

Og wasssup nah,,,,,,,


Haa ano like ham oo,,,, just continue to giiiiii dem,,,,,,

FearlessOG:


Well, how does it feel to realize that you were dead wrong? You even quoted Lordfave98’s post and said “My point exactly.”

Lol!!! You put it to me that this is my alternate Nairaland account, yet you use the word “probably” in your very next sentence. Taking wild guesses, aren’t you. Well, you are definitely free to revel in your assumptions. Obviously, this back and forth isn’t starting to tire you out like you claimed in your last post.

You needn’t also reply

I was right about Zini.And it must be tiredness because I def saw the pink f next to the moniker.

I'm sure you're an oldie with a main.The only thing probably was doing in that sentence was to emphasize that although I feel you engage in these vices(women bashing and double standards), I might be wrong. Very wild guesses I know, because you indulged me, I'll give you some more.Your style of writing feels familiar, you are probably an acquaintance who was too chicken to use their main.Don't blame me, I have an overactive imagination.Lol...
Your essays aged my bones, causing the tired feeling.

Original gang star,,,ago biii the best man,,,, ,,, please this ship must sail,,,

You two get similar characteristics,,,,,,,

But shey you don break up with dat yaa girlfriend nii,,,,,,, (okiikii's sis) ,,


Don't mind me oo,,nah one thing I dey sip for here ,,the thing strong,,,,,,

Everybody knows that women cheat the most. Guys only get caught cos they do not cover their tracks well like women do. Even OP sef will cheat on whoever she is dating in a heartbeat if she gets the opportunity.

MhisTahrah:
I was right about Zini.And it must be tiredness because I def saw the pink f next to the moniker.

I'm sure you're an oldie with a main.The only thing probably was doing in that sentence was to emphasize that although I feel you engage in these vices(women bashing and double standards), I might be wrong. Very wild guesses I know, because you indulged me, I'll give you some more.Your style of writing feels familiar, you are probably an acquaintance who was too chicken to use their main.Don't blame me, I have an overactive imagination.Lol...
Your essays aged my bones, causing the tired feeling.

Yes, you were right about Zini, and I acknowledged that.
I am definitely not an oldie with a main. You are free to believe or disbelieve that, it won’t change anything. But, take a look at some of the words that you’re using, that contradict the assertion that you are trying to make about me being an oldie with a main:

“I feel you engage in…”
“…I might be wrong.”
“Very wild guesses I know…”
“…probably an acquaintance…”
“…I have an overactive imagination.”

You used all the above phrases that indicate probability, rather than certainty, yet someone is supposed to take your claim that “I am an oldie with a main” serious? Have you ever considered a career as a stand-up comedian?

Do get some rest for your weary bones. You deserve it. My “essays” dem get as dem be true true…

Fact1:
Original gang star,,,ago biii the best man,,,, ,,, please this ship must sail,,,

You two get similar characteristics,,,,,,,

But shey you don break up with dat yaa girlfriend nii,,,,,,, (okiikii's sis) ,,


Don't mind me oo,,nah one thing I dey sip for here ,,the thing strong,,,,,,

Lol!!! This guy. Make sure say no be “local” you dey sip ooo!!! The day wey I drink jedi and monkey tail, I understand the condition of blind men wey their eyes dey open, but them no fit see. It was a complete visual blackout...

FearlessOG:


Lol!!! This guy. Make sure say no be “local” you dey sip ooo!!! The day wey I drink jedi and monkey tail, I understand the condition of blind men wey their eyes dey open, but them no fit see. It was a complete visual blackout...

,,,,,,,

You wicked,,,

Eleribuu,,,,,


But shey i should sail ham

FearlessOG:


Yes, you were right about Zini, and I acknowledged that.
I am definitely not an oldie with a main. You are free to believe or disbelieve that, it won’t change anything. But, take a look at some of the words that you’re using, that contradict the assertion that you are trying to make about me being an oldie with a main:

“I feel you engage in…”
“…I might be wrong.”
“Very wild guesses I know…”
“…probably an acquaintance…”
“…I have an overactive imagination.”

You used all the above phrases that indicate probability, rather than certainty, yet someone is supposed to take your claim that “I am an oldie with a main” serious? Have you ever considered a career as a stand-up comedian?

Do get some rest for your weary bones. You deserve it. My “essays” dem get as dem be true true…

I'm sure you're an oldie like I expressed in my last reply.I won't be replying you anymore, bye!

MhisTahrah:
I'm sure you're an oldie like I expressed in my last reply.I won't be replying you anymore, bye!

Lol!!! Just don’t go around accusing people simply based on your gut feeling. You could land yourself in very serious trouble that you never bargained for.

I also wouldn’t be replying you anymore, if you keep to your word.

Bye bye

Oh shey both of you are mad niii,,,,

Me dat i don celebrate say one couple don dey land and you're saying goodbye,,,,,,,


Shey eyin mejejii gbadun sha,,,,,,,,,


Anyway what is oldie,,,,,, shey nah old man she dey call you nii?

Maybe she didn't know how you handsome and how full yaa pocket is,,,,,,,

Don't just mind me nah this thing wey i dey drink dey me strong thing,,,,,,,,, i bought ham yesterday night,,,,,

Everybody knows what?

Stop pushing your personal beliefs on the people here. More men cheat than women, let's stop deceiving ourselves.

Here alone under this thread, i have seen more guys justify cheating than women.

JasperVII:
Everybody knows that women cheat the most. Guys only get caught cos they do not cover their tracks well like women do. Even OP sef will cheat on whoever she is dating in a heartbeat if she gets the opportunity.

All the men arguing with the op have time sa..you don't get into an argument with a woman, she would want to win that's their mindset.dont ever argue with them

Dang!. U argue good bruh. If u're a lawyer by profession, i'd definitely wan2 hire u

cc fearlessog

JasperVII:
Everybody knows that women cheat the most. Guys only get caught cos they do not cover their tracks well like women do.Even OP sef will cheat on whoever she is dating in a heartbeat if she gets the opportunity.

To slap you dey hungry me.

pocohantas:
Marry a man that has sense, conscience and empathy. He mustn’t be muslim or christian, Yoruba, Igbo or Hausa... He should just be sensible enough to process his actions humanely. He would make mistakes, but he would never bask in them.


There are not up to 17 single (eligible) ones in Nigeria currently. So, goodluck finding them.

Lol, see you that has covered 36 states ... u mean u won't find at least one eligible in each state

Magnoliaa:


You were making sense oh. And treading in the right direction...

Don't start making claims that goes against everything you've been saying since morning about hypocrisy with this...

There's no 'rarely' and 'more' and 'never' here. Women excuse their genders; women bash their genders.
Men excuse their genders; men bash their genders.

There's no case of (who does it) more or less here. Keep it at that (energy).

Or unless, you'll be guilty of being more biased towards your gender...

And you used females/men? I'll take offense at that. Why?? (P.S: Iz MY *anger and offense*)

.hahahaha. Look at what dz one is taking offence frm. I think a vagina people/men woulda bin more suitable, dont u think.. Hahaha crazy stuff

FearlessOG:


Lol!!! Fair point, I must say.

I am not specifically concerned about the female/men usage and/or dichotomy. Just as equally as I wouldn’t worry or even take note if someone uses boy/female, woman/male, lady/man, etc. I can understand why, as a feminist, you would take offense at that. I also find that people who are not just particular about such usage, but are specifically offended by it (not necessarily you, because I wouldn’t know for sure), are easily among the people that come up with very weird gender theories et al. Like feminists saying that air conditioning is sexist, spelling women as “womxn” or “womyn” because including the word “man” in the spelling is sexist, or trying to rename the word “history” to “herstory” to mention a few.
Ultimately though, to each their own.

lawd!! ... Dz feminist are unbelievable

nwaezeemmanuel:
Everybody knows what?

Stop pushing your personal beliefs on the people here. More men cheat than women, let's stop deceiving ourselves.

Here alone under this thread, i have seen more guys justify cheating than women.

They cheat with stones right? Just cos men are the ones getting caught doesn't mean that they cheat more than women. Your girlfriend will cheat on you the first chance she gets.

That's all Jasper has to say to you.

pocohantas:
Marry a man that has sense, conscience and empathy. He mustn’t be muslim or christian, Yoruba, Igbo or Hausa... He should just be sensible enough to process his actions humanely. He would make mistakes, but he would never bask in them.


There are not up to 17 single (eligible) ones in Nigeria currently. So, goodluck finding them.

Judging from your life, apparently none is on your contact list. aunty no be anyone fault say you get abandonment issue. mud ur man lets hear word

From a marriage perspective, i know men cheat with other women.

Many of those women they cheat with are single.

In a marital setting, more men in marriages cheat than women - that is just my point!

JasperVII:

They cheat with stones right? Just cos men are the ones getting caught doesn't mean that they cheat more than women. Your girlfriend will cheat on you the first chance she gets.

That's all Jasper has to say to you.