Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

You may be partly right because in our world today, I don't see no reason why the wife should not be able to be earning at least something, no matter how small.

But as for me, the main reason why I am still not yet married is simply because I am so afraid of the BOREDOM that comes with marriage.

The idea of doing the same set of things over and over again with just one person for the rest of your life is pretty much life threatening to me!!!

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

a choice? See wife material ooo.

Since Govt cant pay even minimum wage, guys too don wize up

Lovelies1:


Sorry I just said I should say hi

But on a serious note are, your name sounds cool Zini, know of someone with that name. You are in the middle belt area.

Sorry for being rude was boiling then
Dem MFs made me angry

If is from poly Ibadan
Then it's Me

Kranediggy:
Thumbs up man!

Your smart bro

Churchill6767:


Shameless leech.

truly shameless.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Do women who are succesful in their careers or businesses have two heads? Learn from Folorunso Alakija, she's a typical example of an ideal wife, not lazy gold diggers

It's true partial but what about people who are married and it is only the wife that has a job but the husband doesn't.

tobe1985:
In my opinion if a man is not earning 400k and above he has no business getting married in this Nigeria if 2020.
A decent wedding will cost u a minimum of 500k.
U must rent a house (at least a 2 bedroom), buy furniture, a generator, a car hospital bills etc.
Even good food is becoming expensive these days because of inflation.
To top it all up, u go and marry a typical money hungry nigerian woman that will be demanding heaven and earth from u, worse still her family members will also demand their own.
When children come, your cost triples.
Abeg I'll wait till I'm super rich before I marry even if I'm age 50.

This is Nigeria, everyone would never earn 100k, let alone 400k. I remember making my hair somewhere and one lady there said the only way she can work in corporate Nigeria is if they pay her like 150k. I was shocked at her target, but it reminded me of the reality in Nigeria.

The most important thing is to get a supportive partner and cut down on unnecessary things. We should also watch the number of kids we have. Nigerians too born abeg!

Wedding has never been compulsory. Especially when the couple cannot afford one.

denjjy:
Nigeria is not just a country where a youth would think the next step to take is to lead a lady to the alter. if you must settle down as a youth in this country, you need to be financially and materially bouyant. I usually gets dejected anytime I think about been single at my age, but what will I do, I can't kill myself na. I've been deserted twice by ladies who I promised marraige but couldn't wait any longer because of the delay. Graduated since 2016 and still living in my parent's house, recieves #15000 monthly from a private firm, tell me; considering the hyper inflation in our country today and the bizarre cost of living, can #15000 cater for a family for a month? absolutely no. I know we are in this messful country together, let's hope 9ja go better one day

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virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Are you married?

In my own opinion, i think most times its because we are scared of ending up with the wrong person. What scares me most is i dont believe anyone is meant for anyone...i believe we are supposed to make the best out of anyone we end up with. I dont think a broke person is a liability, i think we are meant to add value to whomsoever lacks it.

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

and u do u have two heads what stopping u for working, stop being lazy leech.

Kranediggy:
Bitter Truth: Main Reason Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays.

Its simply because, majority of ladies are broke & depend on their future spouse, to continue from where their parents stopped in breeding them. There's no way only the man's income will be enough to run the family. Women should be earning too, in marriages to balance the financial weight, you should be able to earn even before marriage...

I strongly believe that if women save up for marriage as men do, then couples can easily marry for love & all these few years contract-marriages will end. The most annoying part of this is that most ladies think men need just a housekeeper, cook or a nanny; but they really need a partner who should be a real woman; which is a true helper of her man, that's what woman means.

Common! the two people became one under marriage, there's nothing like the woman's money & there's also nothing like the man's; both are meant to share everything together. Many ladies love a man's material things not him nowadays, that's why marriages hardly start or last today...

These days men Don wise up, it's only a fool that will marry a woman as housewife liability, such a person will suffer that's why you see men dying before their time because of family burden and sufferness, go around Nigeria for instance different villages and places especially those poor families you will find out that their papa no dey, no only mama go dey

Chii59:
1. Economical and financial reasons. Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world.

2. Absence of moral compass. Most young men would rather have sex with different women and probably father kids, than get married. Probably for fear of losing their independence or because of a pattern they noticed in their own families while growing up.

Sense kill you there. You too get mouth

Front Page at last! Thanks mods...

Please don't crucify me, I'm only saying my mind and what I think when you think deeply on this subject matter.
Marriage is sacred.
Marriage is an oath sworn to be protected.
Marriage is meant to be kept and fulfilled etc.
Based on understanding Marriage is a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man and a woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring (if any).

When you get married you have taken an oath an obligation with your spouse you both will take responsibility for the fruit of the marriage.
When you both get married what it really means is that you both have agreed to the families involved you will kept the oath and your obligations.
You have also agreed to the law that you both will live peacefully together and you will train and ensure your children be law abiding and contribute positively to the society (if any) etc
You both have also agreed to God your creator to kept your promise and you will not fail.
You can now be honest to yourselves because they will be a judgement.

Kog45:
Please who told you men are scare of marriage.

My man better brace up and face the challenges ahead.Marriage wey dem dey do every weekend.

The wise ones are getting marry every weekend and the foolish ones are the one lamenting.

The bold statement is plain stupid.

virginprincess:
I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.

Why on earth do you think like this?!!

Marraige is a beautiful thing...

Marry if you think you want it and ready for it

Don't let anyone force you into it

MAY WE NOT MARRY FEMINIST, PRO ABORTIONISTS AND PRO LGBTQ IN JESUS NAME....

MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING, ITS JUST ABOUT TIMING, BEING RESPONSIBLE AND GOOD WEALTH ESPECIALLY FOR THE MAN AND THE WOMAN MUST B SUPPORTIVE IN ALL AREAS

If only ladies will stop giving birth out of wedlock then marriage will be the only avenue of procreation.

ZIINI:

Sorry for being rude was boiling then
Dem MFs made me angry

If is from poly Ibadan
Then it's Me

Thanks, it's not you. But you answer the name of the person.

Thanks

ZIINI:

Only illiterate will want to be full house shit
Maybe those that didn't go to school
And some of them are learning trade now.
I hate girls with entitlement mentality when I spot them I can shoot them a grand 100 k9 pistol FÛCK
Dem MF got two legs and arm let them work their pussy up

Haha uncle why na are you a misogynist?

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

who is ur father? keep on depending on men, no go hustle... lazy tin

Let's be honest with ourselves , all men want a lovely and trustworthy wife to marry
There's no man who wouldn't want to have his own house
His own car, his own children , his own business and everything going smoothly for him
The koko be say bar no they for hand
Most men are ready to get married, just 5 things are delaying their plans

1... MONEY

2... GOOD WIFE

3... MORE MONEY

4... PLENTYYYY MONEY

5... GALLANT MONEY


Meanwhile some people still they knack inside this hot weather Sha , wahala for who no get money to cure konji

Lights up my kpoli in peace

virginprincess:
Don't you ever in your miserable life insult my parent again, i don't joke with them, if your parent didn't teach you manners then look for who will teach you, miserable he-goat.

Babe see ehhh have been reading ur Comments and the people Quoting you
your Reasoning is below Average to be Honest with you
Did you Just said a woman's Money is not meant to be shared ??
which Century do you think your living ??
in the 1990s ??
Your Fellow girls are out their Hustling and your here getting angry because people termed you a " leech "
and Seriously you sounded like One
if your dating or you have a fiancee , I seriously Hope and pray The Young Man would see the kind of Person you Are and take his life from your Miserable Life
don't go And Upgrade your self wait for a Prince charming to do Everything for you
A saying Goes that " It's only a Girl that is dependent on her boy friend in a relationship Fears Break up more Dan Anything

Fussion1000:
The biggest reason comes from men angle, ...many guys find it difficult to hold their feet on ground, they cant feed themselves let alone family.

During the teenage years 14......25, guys must learn to prepare for future but majority will be leaving in figment, pursuing different girls, as their "primary assignments" without planning for future.

A guy that is supposed to learn work or trade, in other to established himself will be moving from one street to another like vagabond, looking for pussssy he want to conquer, with a twinckke of eyes, a guy of 25 will clock 35, yet no income to start family.


Bible says a man and not a woman, who cannot feed his (nuclear) family, worse than infidel.

Wife is just to support, guys should learn how to do any legitimate work to finance his immediate family.

Don't be shame/shy to hustle

Go and read the whole chapter in Timothy, that chapter is referring to widows and it's referring to both gender. stop spewing gibberish

MartinsD12:

These days men Don wise up, it's only a fool that will marry a woman as housewife liability, such a person will suffer that's why you see men dying before their time because of family burden and sufferness, go around Nigeria for instance different villages and places especially those poor families you will find out that their papa no dey, no only mama go dey

Only a bigger fool will marry them wit thier 20 body counts and still waste money on an unemployed Leech join.

1.Education pursue. Before getting admission for average men in Nigeria is 19 yr and above , with strike along the line and Services
2. Jobs. No payable employment. Many men graduate after school are left out with dim future, no job and many end up doing menial works
3. Financial constraints. Take home for average Nigeria youth is 30-50k with over exhausted work from working place
4. Poor background, many of us face one challenges and the others before reaching the level will find ourselves. And a lot will not want his children to experience one tenth of it
5. Family expectations: parent struggled to send a lot to school without any pence so we really want to pay them back at least to assist them in our younger siblings
6. Ladies factors: sorry to say this, to find a marriageable ladies nowadays someone needs to combine Yaweh with Jehovah. Female expectations are just too much, they like golds and diamonds on the player of gold.
The decent ones are not ready, the fair ones are wasting their times looking for Senators children, comparing their lives with someone else, the manageable ones are lobbying with one Yahoo boys n the others, the available ones want u to buy everything from ShopRite to any available shopping malls, nothing to contribute
7. Men expectations. It is just too high, many are carried away with social media lives. Want to buy Venza, latest fashion etc
8. Many are just not serious. With cheaper and non expenses available female genitalian alot are not ready to be tight down to one lady.
9. In conclusion, the country is tough, future is not bright, the challenges are many, time is going, people are dying youngers, we prayed to God to help us.
Nobody that don't want good things, there is nobody that don't want to marry earlier, there is no man that don't want to see his wife welcoming home with his loving children. I prayed God Almighty open His blessed ways to young men there

virginprincess:
All this broke men creating nonsense tread self , haven't you people see real men that get married then ask their wives to sit at home, that is becoming full time housewives, those men do they have two heads? are they not the one taking the whole responsiblity? mtcheeeeew.

Ku ku say your Pusey is for sale!

Alakoba, ako si ba ero! Destroyer of men’s destiny, sender of husband to early grave!!!!

Ffk off!

MARRIAGE IS THE NEW SCAM...