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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by bobokeshington: 12:59pm On Nov 12, 2020

OP, YOU HAVE A KIND HEART. I ONLY HOPE YOU WILL DO THE SAME IF IT'S A MAN LIKE YOU.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 2:40pm On Nov 12, 2020

bobokeshington:
OP, YOU HAVE A KIND HEART. I ONLY HOPE YOU WILL DO THE SAME IF IT'S A MAN LIKE YOU.

Thanks bro... I sure will.... Just that i de fear lagos guys angry

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Nov 12, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady(average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you...we had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. but i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

lalasticlala mynd44

The good nor do u when u reach her bus stop? You then offered to be her personal Uber.. Na wah for u oo. Her question isn't out of place oga Uber. No go dey do pass ur boundary

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 3:53pm On Nov 12, 2020

dairykidd:

The good nor do u when u reach her bus stop? You then offered to be her personal Uber.. Na wah for u oo. Her question isn't out of place oga Uber. No go dey do pass ur boundary

Bro u no understand... I just like her vibes, dazol

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by piagetskinner(m): 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2020

You won’t do that if it were a guy who even lived next door...

Oga tell us true you wan collaborate with the woman

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Obichukwuu: 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2020

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Gkay1(m): 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2020

I don't see any reason why u are angry with this simple question.
if u want anything, tell her and if u don't want anything, tell her.
life is very simple

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Ashawo man.

Would you have offered to be taking your fellow man to work, if he lived in the same hood with you? undecided

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Tilykay(m): 10:09pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

My guy it isn't her fault o. Everyone seems to be manipulative now o.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by iamJ(m): 10:10pm On Nov 13, 2020

2dice01:

She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by dvkot(m): 10:11pm On Nov 13, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

are you minding him. The woman is smart jawe she knew exactly what he was coming for

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Nov 13, 2020

OMOJOHN001:
Ole eee eee, Thief eeeeefff, Bara ooooooo,.

He wants to use car to snatch another man Girlfriend, for the lady to even decline you, it means your car is not standard and does not have AC, air conditioner. TUEEEEEH.

If na VENZA or better BENZ, or RANGE or that better Lexus with full AC be your car, the babe won't even have the gut to ask you such question.

Stop turning to an UBER DRIVER CUZ OF PUSSSSY

If I may ask, did you just lose a gf to a niggar

The pain seems fresh angry

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Decimus: 10:11pm On Nov 13, 2020

You don't know what you want from her yet, when it's time she will be the one to run.
I'm sure you'll never extend such generous offer to your fellow man.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by falopey: 10:12pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no

Please share yours

Why will you offer a total stranger (lady) free daily ride to work if not that you have another motive? Not just a ride once in a while o. I bet you won’t offer a fellow man the same goodwill

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by dvkot(m): 10:12pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

you want to turn yourself to a taxi man so she can give you free kpekus, just see your life

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Skmoda360(m): 10:13pm On Nov 13, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

You shouldn't have loud it now grin

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by seanwilliam(m): 10:13pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was that question?

Please share yours

change your moniker to dumbxyz..

You're a simp.. na una dey make these girls feel fly

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by darichlife: 10:13pm On Nov 13, 2020

That's a very stuuupid question, she is not a wise person at all. how on earth will people nice to people and get tagged. thunder fire that cheap girl nonsense

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by LEKKITOLLGATE(f): 10:13pm On Nov 13, 2020

When will guys ever learn?

A typical Nigerian man wouldn't want to help a lady without an inner motive..... don't be deceived...

Though I've never misinterpreted a man before but come on,some men are very arrogant and senseless in their approach towards women.

A guy I once met approached me with-"babe,how far,cold dey oh....make we get line na.....

Just imagine....trust me,no girl in her right Senses wouldn't bathe such type of man with all kinds of insults because he deserves more than that...

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by jojothaiv(m): 10:14pm On Nov 13, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

This is the crux of the matter and na here guy man dey fall hand big time. Once small money show face, baba manage buy one car di next thing na to dey find babes wey him go carry upandan as per say hin don get work for NURTW buh Dem no give am uniform.

Yeye Cappings

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by zilon12(m): 10:14pm On Nov 13, 2020

she was right to ask though she was too blunt but men are men you know grin

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Uyi168: 10:14pm On Nov 13, 2020

...
U offered to be carrying her every morning as per u Don turn her driver nii..

If na fellow guyman like u, u go reason am

Talk true make we shame devil..

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by zubimete(f): 10:15pm On Nov 13, 2020

All i have to say is there is no free food in free town. Helloooo who is with me on this page?

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by SirLakes: 10:15pm On Nov 13, 2020

She wan prepare her mind nii maybe na doggy you want abi tricycle grin

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Caleycash(m): 10:15pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

She knows the world is a business place... nothing goes for nothing!!!... continue with your goodness if you feel great with it, for me!?, NEVER!!!

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Angelfrost(m): 10:15pm On Nov 13, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Good and salient question...

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by TheSpellChecker: 10:16pm On Nov 13, 2020

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

It is either you write ...

You are trying to help.

Or...

You're trying to help.

But never ...

Your trying to help.

So please kindly correct yourself.

Thank you.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Munzy14(m): 10:16pm On Nov 13, 2020

2dice01:

She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Prosmobi: 10:16pm On Nov 13, 2020

[quote author=smartxyz post=95925316]Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

Oga tell us ur mind.

Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Maski87: 10:17pm On Nov 13, 2020

Na punany,nah,say the truth

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by peacenow: 10:17pm On Nov 13, 2020

Keep doing your best for humanity.

The same way I dashed someone 50k because he asked for financial assitance. After he came up with the idea of getting me a landed property which was ok with me but later I sent my brother inlaw to verify the seller and the location of the land. Fight erupted among the family of the seller on the video recorded that was sent to me. I decided not to buy the land again and I sent a 10k cash of thank you for your efforts to this guy who was a fomer church member.

The next call I received from this guy is that " If I know your account number, I will return your money, Why would you say you are not buying the land any more.

My reply was "Thank you for everything, may God reward each an everyone of us according to our intentions towards each other.

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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 13, 2020

Kondomatic:
At least she was kind enough to ask you what you want.

In my own case, the lady told her friend that she knew what I want but I am not man enough to ask.

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