It's a loaded question & must
always be viewed within the context
it was asked.

I think, though, that the lady was too
hasty in asking such a loaded question
the first time of meeting a guy under
such an innocuous situation.

I was once asked the same question,
misunderstood the the query & failed
woefully in my answer, however, I
learnt my lesson & was fully prepared 6
months later when I was asked the same question, under the same circumstances,
but by a different damsel.......... I was adequately rewarded by my brilliant
answer.. don't ask me how...

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

With the level of craziness I've seen most Nigerians (all classes) display over these couple years which seem to have 10x the past months, I'm pretty sure I would have unapologetically told her; "I want you to right now get the fu*k outta my car and NEVER flag me down EVER again"


Nonsense

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

God bless you....let us know OP

2dice01:


She asked the Perfect Question bro

No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago

Cus if she was a Male
You won't even see his hand when he wave

Uber driver

You people will not kill someone on this Forum!

Bullshit story

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

You mainly have simps and white knights to thank for her mindset. Anyway, if it were a man, would you have made that offer?

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

A lot of things needs changing in Nigeria as regards friendship and relationship...indoctrination and the general norm with makes too also added

That's how Dyonne found himself in trouble. What do you want from me? Aunty I never asked for anything from you, we are in a group, you said it's your birthday and I only wanted to do something nice.

Now apparently I'm some people's boyfriend now, without my consent sef

I've given myself brain now.

The other one is "Is there something you want to tell me"?

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

wetin you want, you no fit talk

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

thunder fire you

If na ur follow guy u no go help m
#idiot

Simple she should have said "no thank you"

In her myopic mind you want to enter her mobile supermarket.

You sef are there no guys going your way or living close to you? Let me ask my own what do you want from her?

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

You wanna do good things,very well!!!
Hope you also feel like doing good by giving lifts to men who stand at the road sides,if you only feel the need to appease humanity when it's a lady around then,I would say your being nice is driven by a quiet,soft,deniable subconscious pussy-ass emotion for skirts

i started talking to this girl, and the next day she was already asking what i wanted from her.
the thing shock me....

smartxyz:
If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not??

Anything you cannot do for a fellow man in need and you do for a woman is definitely fishy and she reacted appropriately.

Men rarely get help cos they're considered strong and therefore subjected to harshness. This is why I personally put men first cos I know how it feels as a man.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Dis ur talk wan get true inside

Ayo2004:
Op wan chop kpekus dey disguise...him come dey use Uber driver front
Radarada

kumulus:



With the level of craziness I've seen most Nigerians (all classes) display over these couple years which seem to have 10x the past months, I'm pretty sure I would have unapologetically told her; "I want you to right now get the fu*k outta my car and NEVER flag me down EVER again"


Nonsense

Lol

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

as far as this year is concerned, this is one of the wisest comments I have read all year long

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

For where, u dey mind OP ni... ''let me be taking u to work every day''...na wetin one man tell iya biliki for my area bdat. Now iya biliki don carry belle for the man.

Me, I still wan know why Op made that offer sha.

Yes, this has happened to me also. And she used those exact words "What do you want from me?" Although mine wasn't a case of offering to give her a ride. In my case though, I could easily tell that she was trying to covertly enquire if I wanted a relationship with her.

Ultimately though, some people find it really hard to believe that there are other people that could be truly altruistic in every sense of the word. Such is life!!!


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Kondomatic:
At least she was kind enough to ask you what you want.


In my own case, the lady told her friend that she knew what I want but I am not man enough to ask.

What do you want, Oga?

Ehn ehn, so this is the thread Lefulefu was talking about.

OMOJOHN001:
Ole eee eee, Thief eeeeefff, Bara ooooooo,.

He wants to use car to snatch another man Girlfriend, for the lady to even decline you, it means your car is not standard and does not have AC, air conditioner. TUEEEEEH.

If na VENZA or better BENZ, or RANGE or that better Lexus with full AC be your car, the babe won't even have the gut to ask you such question.

Stop turning to an UBER DRIVER CUZ OF PUSSSSY

thats for real bro, i bet there are lots of guys he sees and not give a ride.
now shes the only person he has seen in the whole world to give a ride

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Help your fellow guys, they will never fail to appreciate ur assistance...

A help rendered to a fellow man is , " hold for me" when u are in need, he will reciprocate..

But to a woman, she might take otherwise even if u don't want any string attached.

So natural.

A bro should be a bro and not a sissy..

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Yes....Tell us, what do you really want from her?

Say the truth

FOREVER CONFUSED

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

Rubbish, is that why you came to ask such questions, can't you deal with such your situations OYO?

smartxyz:
Hello guys,

Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached?

I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off.

For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return.

How do you feel and react when asked that question?

Please share yours

She wan make you come clean, start something that will lead to something.. Girls in there late 20s or 30s are desperate, no time for hide and seek game. She asked the right question if you ask me though not well presented. Assuming I am a potential guy and I see a guy who take her to work everyday, i may conclude you are her guy and back off without making an attempt to confirm. She could have declined your offer by saying, 'no I wouldn't want to follow you all the time, let my potential suitors no think say you are my husband or fiance'

As if you no know your shithole country, you wan make him stop for men make Dem Rob am abi.

Herculex03:
Na only woman u see
Op how many times u don stop carry your fellow man for road ?

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

Better question..